WHAT IS PLEASING PERSONALITY?

Today, I am making my views about what pleasing personality really is. Allow me to make stands
through principles, comparisons and judgments.

“WITH GOOD PLEASING PERSONALITY” is always the talk of the employment. In job interviews,
applicants need to undergo this demanding assessment because passing this just simply means a step
closer to getting the job.

But the question is, “How do people know whether someone possesses such or not?” or the real
question is, “How can one possess such?”

First point. Being pleasant doesn’t mean going away being unpleasant. It is just like, you don’t need to
be bad, to be good. It is also like seeing through a thick glass. At first you would think that it a challenge
to get a perfect view, but once you tried to get in and manage to pass though, realization occurs that it
takes time and effort to notice the goodness that someone has within.

Second. Not everyone is fortunate enough to be hired in just a single try. To some if not many, rejections
will go along the process of job seeking. But don’t give up. Just because you didn’t get hired doesn’t
mean you are not pleasing. It’s just that your personality is not what favors the conversation. You just
have to wait and look for possible resources until finally making a good match. Your personality, just like
pair of shoes, need not be negatively insisted. Despite its good looks, soon perfect feet will hold the
shoes, thus making compatible union.

Third. Pleasing personality doesn’t have anything to do with good looks either. It helps. It adds. It
contributes. But it is not itself alone. People get mistaken when they associate personality with looks.
Somehow, it creates an opening to the little being. But actually it doesn’t cover the totality of the
impact. Physical attributes say nothing about the real self of a person.

4. The good news is no matter who you are, at the end of the day, someone will accommodate you to
the job and accept just the way you are. But when you’re there, do not forget those who have helped
you reached it. It is always certain that people have influenced you to be like that. It is just necessary to
thank them. They are those who have extended their hands and somehow make you able to see
through confusing moments. Admit that they are a part of you. And that they will always play a parcel of
your personality.

5. Lastly. Sometimes with our desire to be the most pleasant, we tend to forget to be just simply
pleasant. With our greatest ambition to be the best, we fail to realize that there is nothing bad being
good. Accept that not everyone can go along your way. Believe in the principle of individuality. Then,
recognize that the true essence of pleasing personality comes in when you have mastered the art of
respect and appreciation.