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The story isn't true, but it taught four valuable lessons: 1) Sweat equity is a powerful
tool; 2) If you reinvest your earnings, wealth can grow geometrically; 3) The BIG
money is in real estate; and 4) It would be nice to have a rich Aunt Sophie.
Like most families, we didn't have a rich Aunt Sophie, so my parents focused on
lessons 1, 2 and 3.
I mention this story as a backdrop. My life growing up was always about real estate.
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In my article "Keys to Closing Commercial Real Estate Transactions", I mentioned
Suite 1000 my father because he was, and is, a wiz when it comes to commercial real estate. It
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was through him that I came to represent commercial real estate developers.
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What I didn't mention was that my mother was active in the family real estate busi-
ness as well. While my father focused on commercial land development, my mother
focused on residential real estate. I should have known better than to mention one
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T. (847) 729-7300 What does maintaining harmony have to do with commercial real estate
F. (847) 729-7390 development? Stick with me on this, then decide.
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As you might imagine, with my father focused on commercial development and my mother focused
on residential quality of life issues, conversations around the dinner table were always interesting,
and sometimes dicey.
On one side of the table, my father envisioned expansive commercial development for retail
shopping centers, office buildings, restaurants, hotels, theaters, warehouse superstores,
entertainment centers, nightclubs and more.
On the other side was my mother insisting upon neighborhoods with comfortable homes, safe
streets, parks and other open areas, dry basements, clean air, clean water, and minimal noise and
light pollution.
According to conventional wisdom - derived from public zoning board and plan commission
hearings and community planning group meetings when commercial development is proposed near
existing homes and neighborhoods - one might expect a clash of ideas turning into heated
challenges and demands to forego development. Fortunately, our dinner table was nothing like most
public hearings.
My mother and father each respected the vision of the other and understood the natural symbiotic
relationship between residential and commercial development. Instead of complaining that one was
trying to destroy the vision of the other, they anticipated each other's legitimate development and
environmental needs and sought reasonable accommodation when possible. Sometimes they could-
n't agree, but there was always a meaningful attempt to understand the viewpoint of the other,
exchange ideas and come to a mutually respectful and workable plan.
My mother was a resourceful advocate. She made my father think about how commercial
development would impact residential neighbors and plan ways to mitigate adverse consequences
on families. Long before coming into their current vogue, I learned at our family dinner table the
concept of "lifestyle commercial centers" and complementary residential/commercial mixed use
developments.
The point for commercial developers and residential advocates is that they should each turn down
the volume of their development debate and respectfully listen to what the other is saying. When the
other has presented legitimate concerns or needs, those concerns and needs should be reasonably
accommodated where possible. An idealistic dream? Perhaps. But I grew up watching it work.
To be sure, not all expressed concerns are legitimate and not all proposed accommodations are
possible. In those cases, resolution must necessarily be left up to public plan commissions, zoning
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POINT: If you are a commercial real estate developer proposing a commercial development near
existing residential neighborhoods, don't pretend they don't exist. Think about how they will be
impacted and include in your development plan ways to mitigate any adverse consequences created
by your development. Talk to your residential neighbors. Listen to what they have to say. They are
not ALL crazy. Sometimes (often, actually) they have legitimate concerns about real problems. If
you can include in your development plan a way to economically fix a problem they already have
(such as flooding, blight, inadequate parking, lack of sufficient parks or playgrounds, poor traffic
circulation, etc.), your chances of favorable governmental action to approve your development plan
goes up.
Whether you are a commercial real estate developer or a neighborhood advocate, understand that,
whether you like it or not, conditions change. Nothing stays the same. Obsolescence and blight are
natural products of time. Redevelopment is coming. If not today, then someday.
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Which brings me back to my point of promoting family harmony by making amends to my mother.
You don't necessarily have to read what follows. This is primarily for her.
My mother retired last year but says she still enjoys reading my newsletters and articles. Perhaps a
mother's love, but she always likes to read what I write about real estate and real estate
development. She says her favorite is a poem I wrote about "real estate development" called The
Great Pyramids Of Egypt Are In Disrepair. She thinks I should share it.
The poem was written in 1992. I have to admit, it never occurred to me that the poem was about
"real estate development". I can assure you, I was not consciously thinking about real estate
development at the time I wrote it.
But my mother is a smart woman and I have learned my lesson. I am not going to lightly cross her
again. So, in the interest of family harmony, here it is. I leave it to you to decide if it is about real
estate development. If you don't think so, please don't tell my mother.
Thanks,
Kymn
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The POINT (according to my mother):
Change happens.
What seems new and permanent today
Will be gone tomorrow.
R. Kymn Harp*