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48 25 Things You Need to Know
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DA N I E L L E G R O E N
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56 The Man and the Mirror
An amputee delivers a simple
treatment for phantom-limb pain.
S R I N AT H P E R U R F R O M M O S A I C
Society
72 Beyond the Crust
The deceptively simple butter tart is as complex
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as Canada’s history. C H R I S R A N D L E F R O M H A Z L I T T
Perspective
78 Tracking the Tracker
More than three decades after being attacked
by a cougar, Adam Bisby is stalking the big cat
in search of answers. F R O M E X P LO R E
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88 Shear Genius
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98 Havana at 96
For one Cuba-bound traveller,
age really is just a number.
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104 The Strength to Heal
Throughout his childhood, Wab
Kinew had a rocky relationship
with his father. But as grown
men, a shared First Nations
heritage helped them repair the
past. F R O M T H E R E A SO N YO U WA L K
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Contributors
REMIE GEOFFROI SYDNEY LONEY
(Illustrator, (Writer, “Case History,”
“Winter Checklist,” page 32)
page 36)
Home base:
Home base: Toronto. Previously
Ottawa. Previously published published in the National Post and
in Billboard and ESPN. As long Chatelaine. Writing about medical
as the sun is shining, I’m fine mysteries is fascinating. I’m a bit of a
with winter. I enjoy outdoor cold- health nerd, so chatting with doctors
weather activities much more about the stuff they deal with on a
now that I have young kids. I look daily basis is cool. When it comes
for inspiration on Pinterest and to my own strange medical
Instagram. They’re both fantastic symptoms, I often take a “wait
resources with a constant supply and see if they go away” approach.
of new artistic ideas. Luckily, they usually do.
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Creativity is subjective. The truth isn’t.
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READERS COMMENT ON OUR RECENT ISSUES
A BALANCED TAKE
I appreciated the article “Our
Future With GMOs” (November
2015). As an agronomist, I deal
with genetically modified crops
as part of my fieldwork. I often
end up in discussions with peo-
ple who don’t understand what
GMOs really are. Unfortunately,
the majority of those who are
against the foods are basing
their decisions on emotions.
They don’t want to hear the
facts because they’ve already
made up their minds. I am
thankful that you explained,
simply, some of the issues in
the debate and stressed the
importance of paying attention
to existing research.
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suspects, with no good reason, we The piece brought to mind a moving
have no hope of ending prejudice. experience I had in Toronto in
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with my grandmother.
There are so many …the day my husband received the gift of
questions I never a double lung transplant.
asked about her life
BEANIE JESSOME, EDMONTON
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Jennifer Gwilliam’s
charity, Helping Our
Northern Neighbours,
has 30 chapters in
Canada and one
in Australia.
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groceries is prohibitive and shipping flag which items they need most.
costs to the North run exorbitantly While many ask for food, HONN has
high. In Nunavut, households spent also shipped material for parkas and
an average of $19,760 on food from birthday boxes for kids.
2007 to 2008—the Canadian average For Repulse Bay, Nunavut, resi-
is less than $8,000—and yet nearly dent Candy Ivalutanar, receiving a
half of Inuit adults had earned less food box can mean her kids don’t go
than $20,000 during that period. to school hungry. The 33-year-old
Five years ago, the federal govern- bus driver supports her husband
ment launched Nutrition North Can- and their two young daughters on a
ada, an annual $60-million subsidy single income. Prior to receiving do-
meant to offset residents’ food costs. nations, her grocery bills sometimes
But a November 2014 report from the reached nearly $1,000 a week—close
Auditor General revealed flaws—for to double her weekly salary.
one, the government hadn’t tracked Since joining HONN in 2014,
whether the subsidies had actually Ivalutanar has formed a friendship
translated into savings for consumers. with her sponsor, 68-year-old Bar-
Gwilliam had started her own bara Senft of Prince George, B.C.,
group, Helping Our Northern Neigh- with whom she chats over Facebook
bours (HONN), a few months prior to every week. “She’s family to me,”
the release of the report. On the or- Ivalutanar says. “I would like to meet
ganization’s Facebook page, individu- her one day, to thank her in person.”
als and teams sign up to donate food, Gwilliam hopes these kinds of
clothes and basic living supplies to conversations will foster understand-
remote communities in the territories ing between disparate communities.
and the upper reaches of British To that end, the organization is work-
Columbia, Saskatchewan, Manitoba ing with local groups to set up pro-
and Ontario. HONN has about 1,200 grams that residents feel will work
households awaiting donations, and best for them, whether it be food
of those, roughly two-thirds have banks, soup kitchens or co-ops.
previously received at least one box. HONN’s founder realizes her ini-
Some donors choose to send a tiative is a Band-Aid solution and
single box, while others sponsor stresses the need for more effective
families or food banks, committing government intervention. But in the
to give an average of four packages meantime, she is focused on the pos-
a year. Households seeking sponsor- itive: “This is a good learning experi-
ship can get a referral from com- ence for everybody,” she says. “It’s a
munity workers in their areas, then way to bring our country together.”
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Life’s Like That
■■ On what street did you lose your got my shelf to blame. reddit.com
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THE RD INTERVIEW
Children’s
Crusader
BY CO U R T N E Y S H EA
ILLUSTRATION BY AIMÉE VAN DRIMMELEN
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How do we change that? Egypt to Toronto in my teens, I was
In 2007, the David Suzuki Founda- in the church choir. I got my first
tion asked people to finish this sen- guitar when I was 16.
tence: “If I were prime minister….”
I said my cabinet would include a Your song “I Want My Canada
minister of children with a powerful Back” was popular all over social
voice. When we invest in kids’ well- media. You didn’t tie it to any polit-
being in their early years, it pays ical party. Was that intentional?
dividends throughout a lifetime. Correct. I’m non-partisan, or per-
haps I should say, I’m pan-partisan.
LightWeb DarkWeb, your book I like what Elizabeth May says,
published in 2013, explored the which is that Parliament needs to
dangers of the Internet for kids. work in a co-operative spirit.
Any advice on how to help young
people navigate the digital age? The morning after the Liberal vic-
Parents shouldn’t jump to get their tory, you tweeted about Canada
kids the latest device just because electing its “first beluga grad PM.”
it’s on the market. Children need to How did you realize Trudeau grew
play in the real world. up on your music?
I met him three or four years ago, and
Easier said than done when your he told me he knows every single
kid is having a temper tantrum word on Singable Songs for the Very
because you took away the iPad. Young, my first album, from 1976.
That speaks to the seductive power When I tweeted, “The whole [beluga]
of these things and why screen lim- pod is watching,” I was saying, “Hey,
its are important. Otherwise, you’ve keep your promises.” I’m hopeful the
got kids playing Minecraft and iden- era we’re embarking upon will be a
tifying more with a pseudo-world good one for this country.
than the real world. That’s crazy.
What is it about your songs—
You’re 67 now, so you grew up “Baby Beluga,” “The More We Get
in a different age. Was music Together,” “Down by the Bay”—
part of your upbringing? that continues to resonate?
I grew up in a house filled I really don’t know. I used to think it
with music—my father was the argyle socks I wore, but I
would sing Armenian folk haven’t sported those in decades.
songs and play the accor-
dion. When I moved from Owl Singalong is out Jan. 15.
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DEPARTMENT OF WIT
The Marriage
Experiment
BY T I M D OW L I NG
F R OM H OW TO B E A HUSB AN D
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One of my favourite aspects of the But over time, it became a mildly
quick‐fix prescription is the total painful form of affection, and then,
lack of nuance, subtlety or follow‐ thankfully, it got old.
up. I find I’m even beginning to At the peak of the hype surround-
enjoy her irritation a little. ing the 5:2 Diet—the one where you
“Already?” she says when I move fast for two days a week and do what
in for Hug 3 at about sunset. you like the other five—we try the
When it comes time for Hug 4, she same on‐again, off‐again formula.
is nowhere to be found. My wife is intrigued by the prospect
A week or so later, I read about of being married to me only two
something called whisper therapy. days out of seven, until I explain
It involves a lot of eye contact and that’s not how it works—for two
the regular whispering of positive days a week, we are going to be
sentiments to each other. It sounds extra‐married. On those days, in
irksome, and for that reason, I can’t between texts that read “Pick up
wait to try it. booze” and “What printer cartridge
Things get off to a bad start. When do I need?” I would slip in a few
I steal up behind my wife and mur- romantic notes.
mur, “You are special,” she hits me More recently, I came across a
over the head with her hairbrush. range of intimacy exercises so very
Over the next few days, she grows powerful, they are said to be able to
eerily patient with my habit of leaning make strangers fall in love.
in at odd moments to whisper things Once again, I zero in on the easiest
like “Nice shoes” and “You’re magic.” of the lot: several minutes spent fac-
I think she is in denial about the ther- ing your partner, holding your palms
apy’s awesome power to annoy. as close together as possible without
When it’s apparent that this is touching each other. The power of
going nowhere, my wife and I enter this exercise is undeniable—my wife
a phase where we periodically jab can stand it for only a few seconds.
each other in the neck with two fin- Such is its power to annoy that for
gers, accompanying each strike with two weeks, I insist on having a go
a sharp hiss. We learned the tech- every time we cross paths.
nique from watching Dog Whisperer, If marriage teaches you anything,
and it began as an efficient way to it’s that there is value in the occa-
clear people from your personal sional lame gesture and half‐baked
space or get their attention. experiment. It shows you’re trying.
HOW TO BE A HUSBAND BY TIM DOWLING, COPYRIGHT © 2015 BY TIM DOWLING, IS PUBLISHED BY BLUE RIDER PRESS,
A MEMBER OF PENGUIN GROUP (USA) LLC, PENGUIN.COM
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Points to Ponder
BY C H RISTINA PALASSI O
PHOTO: (HUARD) PATRI CKH UARD.CA. QUOTES : ( d e WITT) JUNE 9, 2015; (CARBONE ) AFTE RE L L E N.COM ( AU G . 26, 201 5) ;
My favourite works of fiction are not The best learning experiences are
laborious to get through, but that emotionally compelling. And I feel
doesn’t mean they don’t have depth. like virtual reality, [whether] it’s
Similarly, some of my favourite for entertainment or for education,
books have despicable protagonists, has a sledgehammer of emotional
but I find them fascinating. People impact. It puts you inside the sub-
read for different reasons. ject matter.
(MA LDONADO) JULY 8, 2015; (THI RSK) AUG. 20, 2015; (HUARD) LA PRESSE (JU LY 5, 201 5) .
Au t h o r PATRICK deWITT, in Maclean’s JOSH MALDONADO, f o u n d e r o f t h e
v i r t u a l r e a l i t y c o m p a ny D i s c o v r, in Vice
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Suddenly you are in the street,
even just looking at the street,
the trees, the sky, the air, and
suddenly your wife is there and
there are no cops around you.
Really, it was too quick for the
mind to digest.
Jo u r n a l i s t MOHAMED FAHMY after being released from an
Egyptian jail, in The Globe and Mail
that regard. f o u n d e r o f Ti l l e y , t h e c o m p a ny b e h i n d
t h e i c o n i c h e a d w e a r, in Report on Business
PHOTOS: (FAHM Y) © 2015 FAHM Y FOUNDATION FOR A FREE PRESS;
Fo r m e r p a r l i a m e n t a r y b u d g e t
o f f i c e r KEVIN PAGE, in his book, Millions of people today live in
Unaccountable: Truth and Lies
on Parliament Hill
terrible conditions because of their
inability to stay in the country
where they came from. I’d like
You see, in 1949, Newfoundlanders people to imagine more deeply
were made to feel the most inferior what it means to flee your country
people in North America. As if there and take refuge—sometimes legally,
were some great monster out there sometimes illegally.
telling us we were 200 years behind
the times. But now we’re Au t h o r LAWRENCE HILL,
starting to get our in Canadian Living
QUOTES: (FAHMY) SEPT. 24, 2015; (PAGE) OTTAWA CITIZEN (SEPT. 29, 2015);
(SQUIRES) THE GLOBE AND MAIL (OCT. 20, 2015); (McDONALD) CBC NEWS (OCT. 6, 2015);
(TILLEY) AUG. 28, 2015; (HILL) OCT. 2015
ART of LIVING
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Date: 11/11/15
see through even the slickest scams.
“We have our work cut out for us,”
Kelly explains. “We can’t take it at
face value that these things are le-
gitimate just because they look
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HEALTH
Contraction
Extraction
BY SA MA N T H A R ID E O UT
that sits under the ribs and helps which runs from the brain stem to
with breathing. Unless the spasms the abdomen, seems to play a role
last for more than 48 hours—a rare in causing hiccups when it gets irri-
problem that poses a health risk to tated. If you distract this nerve with
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another stimulus, you can theor this overrides the abnormal circuit
etically interrupt the process. That’s that underlies the hiccups.” In 2015,
why tickling the roof of your mouth Fox published a review of pharma
or asking someone to startle you cological hiccup treatments with
might work. two of his colleagues
You can also try while based at the
increasing the Hiccups can occur hospital at the Uni
60
amount of carbon di at a rate of versity of Zurich
oxide in your blood in Switzerland.
stream. You expel As for more theat
carbon dioxide when rical techniques,
you exhale, which is such as imbibing
why it may be effect wine through a nap
ive to hold your times a minute. kin or swallowing
breath or breathe water while biting on
into a paper bag, a stick, Fox points to
trapping the CO2 so that you then the comic strip Calvin and Hobbes,
inhale it. “This affects the respira which suggests that some remedies
tory centre located in the brain were invented purely for the amuse
stem,” says Dr. Mark Fox. “I presume ment of the patient’s friends.
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READER’S DIgEST
heart attacks and lower the amount Sizes of portions and plates
of antihypertensive medication contribute to overeating
potentially needed. A systematic review of more than
70 previous studies has concluded
Being informed ups cancer- that people consistently consume
treatment success rate more food and drink when offered
Cancer treatments are almost twice larger portions, packages or table-
as likely to work on patients who are ware. According to the review’s
given written information about authors, these findings could justify
their condition, its therapeutic pro- decreasing portion sizes in restau-
cedures and its potential impact on rants, cafeterias and shops in an
their working lives, according to a effort to reduce our exposure to
recent report from the University inflated servings and to fight the
of London in England. The research- obesity epidemic.
ers speculated that knowing what
to expect reduces stress and uncer-
tainty, which are known to interfere
with health. For working patients,
it’s also helpful to be warned ahead TEST YOUR MEDICAL IQ
of time that cancer treatment
causes fatigue and they may wish to Bromodosis is…
adjust their workloads accordingly. A. Food poisoning
B. A caffeine high
Today’s seniors staying in C. Stinky feet
better cognitive shape D. A fasting regimen
On average, people over 50 are
scoring better on cognitive tests Answer: C. Bromodosis is the
medical term for stinky feet.
than they were six years ago, con- Your feet start to smell when
tinuing a trend of increasingly sharp bacteria in your shoes or on your
seniors. Rising levels of education skin break down the sweat being
account for some of this effect, but produced by your feet. Since
researchers at the International In- bacterial growth is optimal in
damp environments, the most
stitute for Applied Systems Analysis
effective way to deal with bro-
in Austria say there’s also another modosis is to avoid wearing the
reason: the intellectual demands same pair of shoes two days in
that come with using computers a row, so that each pair has
and smartphones are giving aging enough time to dry out.
minds an ongoing workout.
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Case History
BY SY D N E Y LO N E Y
ILLUSTRATION BY TRACY WALKER
THE PATIENT: Marvin, a 55-year-old who was on call that day. “Must be
chemical engineer getting old.” Marvin had no fever,
THE SYMPTOMS: Intense headache and no one around him was sick.
and a sore behind “I’m an emergency physician, so I
THE DOCTOR: Dr. Brian Goldman, always think worst-case scenario,”
a Toronto ER physician, CBC host Goldman says. “This was not a head-
and author of The Secret Language ache guy, so that factor made his case
of Doctors unusual.” Because of the intensity
and atypical nature of the pain in this
!! ONE RECENT WINTER after-
noon, a middle-aged man walked
patient, the doctor immediately won-
dered whether he had a tumour or
into the emergency room at a hospi- subarachnoid hemorrhage (a brain
tal in downtown Toronto, holding bleed often caused by an aneurysm).
his head. Marvin had experienced The other possibility was meningitis.
headaches, but nothing like this. Goldman started with a physical
The pain came on gradually, then exam. Marvin’s heart rate was a little
grew more intense over several elevated. His ears, nose and throat
hours until it throbbed across his showed no signs of flu or viral infec-
forehead. He also felt fluish and kept tion. “I checked his neck for stiffness,
rubbing his left buttock. “Aches and which is a sign of meningitis, but it
pains,” he told Dr. Brian Goldman, was normal,” Goldman says.
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The only definitive test for menin Goldman. The viral form has subtler
gitis is a lumbar puncture to look for symptoms and is also less likely to be
white blood cells in the spinal fluid. fatal—but it’s most common in kids
But in a patient with intracranial under five. “I had no idea why he had
pressure due to bleeding or a tumour, viral meningitis,” Goldman says.
the procedure would direct that pres “Then I remembered his bottom.”
sure downward, squeezing the brain The doctor asked to take a look.
toward the base of the skull. “He There, on Marvin’s left buttock,
would lose consciousness, go into a was a red rash with groups of blisters.
coma and eventually stop breathing,” “The medical mind looks for the
Goldman says. The doctor ordered connection,” Goldman says. “It
an emergency CT scan, doesn’t assume there
which showed that all are two different ill
was well in Marvin’s
brain, making it safe
The moral of the nesses.” Suddenly the
viral meningitis made
to proceed with a lum story, Goldman sense. In addition to a
bar puncture. says, is to look horrible headache,
Goldman carefully for a connection. Marvin had shingles.
inserted a long needle
in the middle of Mar
“You never know byThe illness is caused
the varicella zoster
vin’s back, between what you’re virus, one in a group of
the fourth and fifth going to find.” enteroviruses that tend
vertebrae. The fluid to circulate in summer
went to the lab, which and early fall. Others
confirmed the absence of red blood include mumps and West Nile—and
cells, helping the doctor rule out a all of them can cause meningitis.
hemorrhage. However, there were Goldman says it’s not uncommon for
white blood cells—a clear sign of varicella zoster to lead to shingles,
infection. The test showed 95 white but he’d never seen shingles and viral
blood cells per cubic millimetre— meningitis occurring simultaneously.
not a lot, but enough to reveal that Marvin was admitted and put on
Marvin did have meningitis. acyclovir—the only intravenous anti
The illness, an inflammation of the viral drug that treats meningitis. Two
membranes around the brain and days later, the headache was gone
spinal cord, comes in several forms, and he made a full recovery. The
including bacterial and viral. “Bacter moral of the story, Goldman says, is
ial meningitis is rapidly progressive to look for a connection. “You never
and often kills young adults,” says know what you’re going to find.”
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Breathe deeply: “Extend your diaphragm; once the twice as likely to have
muscle is activated, it will stop the stress response.” bad dreams about in-
Sing: “Singing makes you do abdominal breathing terpersonal conflict, be-
without you even realizing—it’s funny like that.” trayal and humiliation.
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bilize. Then it is eliminated.”
Laugh: “The same region that makes you stressed,
the hippocampus, makes you laugh. When we laugh,
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six minutes
of reading is all you need to reduce
According to Yale University
scientists in Connecticut who,
in 2012, examined tissue
stress levels by 68 per cent. That’s bet- donated from a brain bank,
ter than listening to music (at 61 per chronic stress leads to a loss of
cent), having a cup of tea (54 per cent) synapses between brain cells,
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baked or broiled fish on a weekly studies on mindfulness-based therapy,
basis than those who did not. conducted by psychologists at Boston
EXERCISE: Scientists from University, the University of Montreal
18 the University of Illinois fol- and Quebec’s Laval University, con-
lowed 120 elders for a year. In 2010, cluded that meditation reduces anxi-
they found that the volume of the ety and stress. And a 2015 study of
hippocampus jumped by two per Ohio nurses on an intensive care unit
cent in those who walked for 40 found that eight weeks of meditation
minutes, three times a week. cut stress levels by 40 per cent.
MEDITATION: Based on
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University in Massachusetts, eight
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O
NE JUNE EVENING in AT LEAST 50 to 80 per cent of all
2004, while vacationing amputees report phantomlimb pain.
in Tuscany, Italy, Can Doctors used to think the discom
adian Stephen Sumner fort stemmed from damaged nerves
was driving a scooter near the site of the amputation. In
down a quiet road when a motorist the past, medical professionals tried
crashed into him and sent him flying. techniques such as shortening the
He broke his collarbone and ribs, and stump, which occasionally provided
his left arm and leg were crushed. The temporary relief but seldom had a
doctors saved his arm, but the leg had lasting effect.
to be amputated above the knee. The Then, in the early 1990s, neuro
then43yearold knew he’d lost his scientist Dr. V. S. Ramachandran
limb—there were gruesome visual and his colleagues at the University
reminders every time the stump was of California, San Diego, conducted
cleaned. Still, he could feel the leg. experiments that changed our
It began in his dreams. During a understanding of phantom limbs. It
particularly powerful vision, he was started with a simple touch: when
lying on a wooden cart, his left leg vis the researchers stroked the left side
ible to just above the knee. The rest of of the face of a young man who had
the limb was hanging through a gap recently lost his left arm, he felt sen
in the slats, swinging with the rhythm sations in his phantom hand.
of the lurching vehicle. Scientists already knew that sen
During his third week in the sory inputs in our brains correspond
hospital, Sumner began to experi to different parts of the body. In
ence extreme pain: excruciatingly this schema, the area correlated to
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move the missing hand didn’t end in minutes, twice a day for five weeks. He
any visual or sensory confirmation, hasn’t had phantom-limb pain since.
the incongruity was perceived as pain.
Ramachandran and his group won- IN THE FALL of 2011, it struck Sum-
dered if it might help patients to “see”
ner that mirror therapy might be
their phantom limbs move. The sci- his calling: he would travel to where
entists built a mirror box—which hid there were amputees in pain and
the stump while allowing a reflection teach them how to use the technique.
of the intact limb to appear where the Cambodia was his first destination
phantom one ought to be. The first because it had an inordinately high
amputee to use it, in the mid-’90s, felt
number of amputees. It was also
immediate relief. small and flat, which
was important because
SUMNER TRIED TO will Sumner was planning
his discomfort away, SUMNER ISN’T to travel by bicycle.
but the pain persisted. SURPRISED January 2014 marked
“Then I tried to drink WHEN PEOPLE Sumner’s third visit to
it to death, which was DON’T REPORT Cambodia. That Janu-
costly and messy in PHANTOM-LIMB ary, he found himself in
every sense, plus totally
PAIN. “NOBODY the city of Battambang,
ineffective,” he says. one of the most heavily
In 2008, Sumner was
WANTS TO BE land-mined regions in
working as a property
THOUGHT OF one of the most heavily
manager in Baja Cali- AS CRAZY.” land-mined countries.
fornia, Mexico, when Sumner grinned as he
he had an agonizing at- walked. His prosthetic
tack. He’d read about mirror therapy knee was visible below the hem of
online in the past and decided to give his shorts. This was partly by design:
it a shot. Sumner drove two and a half the success of his work depended on
hours to the nearest Home Depot to other “amps,” as he affectionately calls
buy a mirror, tried the treatment in them, accepting him as one of their
the parking lot and almost immedi- own. His mode of transportation, too,
ately felt the pain dissipate. was part of earning trust: “It impresses
He used the mirror for two weeks, people that I roll up on a bicycle.”
then stopped—the therapy had suc- The Red Cross centre in Battam-
ceeded. About a year and a half later, bang fits prostheses and conducts
the attacks returned. Sumner re- rehab for free. There, the manager
sumed performing treatment for 10 told Sumner that none of its amputees
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The specially designed
mirrors are cheap, light
and tough to break.
had phantom pain, which, he says, is Rouge are estimated to have collect-
a common response: “Nobody wants ively laid around 10 million mines
to be thought of as crazy.” in the country. Only about half have
Sumner asked to speak with the been recovered. Land mines and un-
patients. Through the manager, he told exploded ordnance killed close to a
them about how he’d cured himself. reported 20,000 people and injured
“How many of you have phantom- more than 44,000 more between 1979
limb pain?” he asked. Thirty-seven out and 2015 in Cambodia.
of 44 people raised their hands. Every family in Ratanak Mondul
Afterwards, Sumner conducted a has a patch of land to farm and a
workshop for the centre’s therapists bamboo-and-wood stilt house. From
and left behind some mirrors for pa- one home, four children aged four to
tients to use. Today, he’s distributed six spilled out into the yard. A bright
around 1,250 of them. heap of corncobs dried in the sun.
Later during the trip, a volunteer The children’s grandfather, in his 50s,
drove Sumner to Ratanak Mondul, was farming the land. Only when he
a community populated entirely came closer did it become evident
by amputees and their families. that one of his legs was prosthetic.
The scenery was dotted with signs The community’s schoolteacher
marking areas where mines had was a woman around 30. One of her
been cleared. The Cambodian and legs was prosthetic, and she learned
Vietnamese armies and the Khmer from Sumner how to use a mirror. The
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A lost skier is trapped in a blizzard.
For the next 48 hours, he would
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BY L I SA F ITTE RM AN
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Mark Doose, an
experienced skier,
was disoriented by
a raging storm.
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FIRST CAME THE WIND. It whipped been so excited to ski that he’d hardly
at Mark Doose as he prepared to tackle slept. He rested fitfully in his room at
a run on Isenau, one of three ski areas the École Polytechnique Fédérale de
on the mountain at Les Diablerets, a Lausanne, where he was spending a
Swiss resort near Lausanne. It had semester studying bioengineering.
been a glorious mid-winter Sunday, His gear was already packed and
but then the snow began to fall fast ready to go.
and hard. By noon, the exchange stu- I have to get out early, he thought,
dent from Hinsdale, Ill., then 19, could checking the train schedules again. It
barely see three metres in front of him. would take about 90 minutes to jour-
Only three other skiers were up ney from the school to the village of
on the hills on February 1, 2015. To Les Diablerets, perched more than
Doose, they were strangers, and he a kilometre up the north side of the
was reluctant to ask them for help. area’s main mountain mass.
Besides, he had 15 years of experi-
ence on the slopes. Really, all he had
to do was head down to the bottom—
just as he’d done earlier that day. His WHEN HE GAZED
American and Swiss mobile phones UP BEHIND HIM,
still had some battery power, and he ALL MARK DOOSE
had a one-litre bottle of water and a COULD SEE WAS
clementine in his backpack, left over A WHITE VOID OF
from lunch. Besides, growing up in a BLOWING SNOW.
suburb of Chicago had inured him to
blizzards and high winds. How hard
could this one be? Once on the train, he pulled out
Follow the gondola’s pylons, he told his phone to chat with his dad.
himself, glancing at the shapes that Chuck had passed a love of the
were still just visible through the storm. outdoors on to Mark and his older
(A LL P HOTOS ) DARRI N VANSELOW
They would surely end near the village, brother, Mike. He was proud when
since the structure had been built to they advanced through the ranks of
ferry people up and down the hills. He the Boy Scouts. Along the way, the
adjusted the straps of his pack, planted younger Dooses spent several week-
his poles and set off. This will take 30 ends in the wilderness learning sur-
minutes, tops, he told himself. vival skills.
“Have a great time,” Chuck said.
THE NIGHT BEFORE, Doose, who’d “Let me know what it’s like.”
only been in Switzerland a week, had “Of course!” Doose replied.
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BY MIDDAY, THE student hadn’t had
a chance to make another call. He’d
barely been able to reply with a cheer-
ful “Yep!” when his mom, Barbara,
had sent him a Facebook message to
ask if he was skiing. There’ll be time
when I’m on the train, he’d thought.
But Doose hadn’t anticipated the
horrendous storm. Stranded on the
mountain, buffeted by snow, he
couldn’t predict when he’d be able to
talk to his parents again.
The young man was cautious as
he progressed down the slope, con-
stantly looking around to make sure
the pylons were still there. The snow
was accumulating quickly, blowing
in his face and making it increasingly
difficult to see, and it was becoming
heavier by the second. Le Ravin du Torrent, the trail at Les
All of a sudden, he realized the Diablerets where Doose lost his way.
pylons had disappeared. Maybe I
was following the wrong lift, Doose burbling in the spots where it wasn’t
thought. But he didn’t panic. He muffled by piles of snow. He’d be able
resisted the urge to call emergency to refill his water bottle.
services, loath to cause a fuss. After a few minutes, the ravine sud-
Keep going down, he told himself. denly narrowed, with steep pitches on
“Down” meant a hot drink, a meal either side. Keep going down. Surely
and the train back to school. When he the village was just a bit further. He’d
gazed up behind him, all Doose could turn the next corner and there it
see was a white void of blowing snow. would be, lights twinkling.
But it wasn’t around the next one, or
BY NOW, IT had been two hours since the next. Instead, Doose found himself
the storm had begun. He took stock on a plateau in the ravine, in heavy
of the thick forest around him, con- snow that reached past his knees. This
cluding that the only clear way was wasn’t alpine skiing any longer. Rather,
through a ravine that looked shallow it was like hiking on downhill skis, an
and wide. A stream ran through it, exhausting endeavour. Could he do it?
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He pulled out his American mobile, stant rubbing of his boots, until the
which had no signal. Neither did his sun pierced the thick ranks of fir trees
Swiss one, although it did show the lining the ravine the next morning. It
time: it was 4 p.m. At least 90 minutes was around 9 a.m. Doose lifted his
had passed since Doose had entered face to enjoy the warmth and real-
the ravine. It had been four hours ized that, after nearly 20 hours of ski-
since the snow had started coming hiking, he needed to sleep if he was
down. Although the storm had waned, going to survive. Weary, he leaned
the afternoon light was gone. against a tree and settled in for a nap.
“Is anybody there?” he shouted.
All of a sudden, the stream’s path
changed. Now it was blocking his
way. Doose knew he had no choice “NO WAY!” DOOSE
but to cross it, somehow. Resigned, CRIED, HOLDING HIS
he took off his skis and stepped in. SKIS UP HIGH AS HE
The water came up to his ankles, STRUGGLED IN THE
soaking his ski pants. Happily, it STREAM. “NO WAY
didn’t rise high enough to enter his AM I GOING TO DIE!”
boots, which reached to his shins.
Doose braced himself as the intense
cold shot through his body. IN CHICAGO, CHUCK was con-
I’m lucky to be wearing thermal lay- cerned. He’d sent his son some
ers, he thought. photos and hadn’t heard anything
“Keep going down” was more ur- in response. Doose hadn’t called as
gent now. He had to continue mov- he’d promised, either. He’s probably
ing or else—well, he refused to let his asleep, Chuck thought. I’ll try him
mind go there. again tomorrow.
By 5 p.m., it was dark. Doose con- Unbeknownst to the father, his son
tinued on his path and tried to remain was waking up by the tree, cold and
upbeat. Around 8 p.m., he wondered stiff after his fitful two-hour slum-
when the last train for Lausanne left. ber. Doose bit the ice off his leather
By 9 p.m., although he didn’t want to gloves, which had frozen solid. He
admit it to himself, Doose knew he was thankful that his wilderness skills
was stuck in the ravine for the night. and the thermal layers he was wear-
Then came a terrifying thought: no ing had done their job, insulating
one even knows I’m missing. him from the worst of the elements.
Keep going down. And he did, his He donned his gear, grabbed his
shins sore and bruised from the con- poles and started out, only to sink
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into the snowdrifts, which now came slippery pebbles. He took a tentative
up to his chest. If he took off his skis, step into the basin. The stream bed
he’d sink even further. dipped precipitously. All of a sudden,
There’s no choice, he thought. Go! he was in water up to his chest.
He silently talked himself through “No way!” he cried, holding his
the laborious, painful rhythm. Lift skis above his head as he struggled
your knee high enough for the ski to to reach the other bank. “No way am
clear the snow. Bring your foot for- I going to die!”
ward and place the ski down. If the His mobile phones were soaked
tip becomes stuck, wriggle to lift it up. and his boots flooded. He tried to
Repeat with the other leg. squeeze water from his jacket and
As Doose slogged, he heard thun- pants, but he knew it was much
dering rumbles as heavy snow fell more important to keep moving. His
off of trees. A sickening realization clothes, special blends of wool and
struck him: he was hiking through polyester, dried quickly and wicked
avalanche territory. the dampness away from his skin.
His thoughts immediately went After almost 24 hours of exertion,
to his parents, who had divorced in his muscles burned as he set out
2009. His dad would surely be wor- again, this time carrying his skis over
ried by now, as would his mom, with his shoulder—the bindings were fro-
whom he was particularly close. He zen. “Please, someone be looking for
thought of his brother, Mike. Tears me,” he said aloud.
filled his eyes. He had to survive. Two hours later, in the early after-
Keep going down. noon, Doose stopped short, his heart
By midday, Doose had surveyed sinking. The stream flowed into a
the area and estimated he’d only waterfall that dropped more than 15
been able to advance 300 metres. All metres. You won’t be able to jump
around him were trees, high banks, down, he told himself. Hike around it
snow and the stream he was fol- to get to the other side of the stream.
lowing. Then the stream turned yet Slowly, painfully, Doose climbed
again, blocking his path. He’d have up the bank, holding a ski in each
to cross it a second time. Here the hand, along with his poles. With each
water appeared shallow, flowing fast step, he dug a boot into the terrain, a
over rocks and pebbles into a puddle- mix of snow, stone, soil and spongy
like basin. It won’t even come to the moss, then used the edge of a ski to
top of my boots, he thought. cut into the ground above him.
With a ski and pole in each hand, It took two gruelling hours before
Doose cautiously crept along the the rock face levelled out into a crest.
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had no idea where to start looking. The help. One hour passed, then two,
three ski areas that surrounded Les then three.
Diablerets were intimidatingly huge. “I’m right here! Je suis ici!”
When Doose awoke that Tuesday— After four hours, four hikers walking
his third day lost on the mountain—the on the trail heard him and answered
snow hole had done its job. Although his plea. They quickly alerted the
he was cold, his fingers and toes local police, who, carrying a harness,
were working. His spirit, however, hiked over to where Doose lay. A heli-
was beginning to flag. What will copter was summoned, and, using the
happen to Mom if I die? Tears filled harness, Doose and an officer were
his eyes. lifted to safety—and transported to a
Keep going down. nearby hospital.
It was a race in slow motion over 150 If Doose had been able to think
metres, his eyes trained on the ground, clearly, he might have laughed. He’d
each painful step etched in his grim collapsed just 150 metres from the
expression. And then—the distinct outskirts of Les Diablerets.
sound of barking dogs.
His heart beating fast, Doose DOOSE’S PARENTS AND brother
looked up to see a chalet on a hill up received word of the rescue on Tues-
ahead, silhouetted against the late day and booked a flight to Switzerland
morning sun. A few cars drove past on soon after. By the time they arrived,
a road, maybe 100 metres away, that Doose was being discharged. Save for
was barely visible around the corner some bruises and minor frostbite in
of the ravine. his fingers, he was, miraculously, fine.
“Help me! Aidez-moi!” Doose As everyone hugged tight, Doose
shouted. They didn’t stop. “Oh, come became defensive.
on!” he yelped in frustration. His de- “Dad, I didn’t do anything wrong,”
termination, everything that had kept he said. “I didn’t try to ski off-route.”
him alive until now—he could feel it His family laughed. “Mark, you did
all leaving his body. Slumping to the everything just right,” Chuck replied.
ground, all he could do was cry for “You survived.”
EASY, BREEZY
So what if I can’t spell “Armageddon”? It’s not the end of the world.
STEWART FRANCIS
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SHUTTERSTOCK
SOCIETY
Beyond the
CRUST BY C H RIS RAND LE
FR O M H AZ L I T T
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or beans, and thick slices of bread proto-tarts were baked, so most cooks
spread with lard.” used maple sugar instead. You still see
It bears mentioning that nobody it in recipes today, as nostalgic hom-
really seemed to like Canadian food. age. Our national dessert: a confection
From 1886 to 1948, this was the only made of Canada’s famously terrible
country that banned margarine en- butter and the sugar we owe to people
tirely, an insecure attempt to guard the Europeans evicted.
our own pitiful dairy industry (the
embargo relaxed, temporarily, dur-
ing the First World War). During the
1870s, common butter from Quebec THE FILLING WAS
and Ontario sold for much less than OVERWHELMING, A
American, French and Irish varieties. SUMPTUOUS RICHNESS
In A Propensity to Protect—definitely TURNING BITTER
the most entertaining book about AT THE EDGES.
Victorian dairy policy—W. H. Heick
writes that, aside from the best East-
ern Townships product, Canadian Butter tarts are strangely modest in
butter “was considered in Britain their excess, a two-dollar decadence.
as useless for anything other than They don’t have frescoes of icing, or
to grease axles or smear sheep,” the decorative cherries, or a macaron’s
complaints including dubious clean- need to be fussed over. They wouldn’t
liness, “a lack of uniformity in colour, want to make a spectacle of them-
taste, texture, size and shape of pack- selves. Like that Canadian myth of
age,” and our use of coarse local salt innocent blandness, the tart’s surface
rather than fine English stuff. hides something much more complex.
The earliest butter tart recipe was
published in 1900 by the Women’s AT THE MIDLAND festival, the sweets
Auxiliary of the Royal Victoria Hos- had a more literal complexity. One
pital, attributed to Mary MacLeod of person offered a “butter tart pizza”
Barrie, Ont., then as now the largest (massive, with a wilting crust made
city in Simcoe County. Implying that from pizza dough). There was also a
the crust will always be secondary, deep-fried variation and a natural-
it was simply called “filling for tarts.” cosmetics shop selling butter tart–
MacLeod mentioned raisins, but she flavoured exfoliant and body polish.
didn’t specify the type of sweetener. Attendees liked the more traditional
Few could afford sacks of cane sugar in recipes, too: Doo Doo’s Bakery from
the early 20th century, when all those Bailieboro, Ont., the champion in last
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When he was nine, Adam Bisby survived being
mauled by a cougar. More than three decades later,
he’s stalking the big cat in search of answers.
Tracking
the
Tracker FR O M E X P LO R E
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PERSPECTIVE
ReadeR’s digest
THE FIRST QUESTION is usually of adult male toms can exceed 200
the same: “Do you have any scars?” square kilometres, and they want it
Thankfully, the puncture wounds all to themselves. Toms typically fight
are gone, as is the primal terror and to the death in contested territory
strange exhilaration I felt as the cou- and will even attack young kittens.
gar sank its claws into my nine-year- Eventually, I seize upon the idea of
old legs and back. embedding myself with a conserva-
My 1982 mauling in Alberta’s tion officer. B.C.’s COs shoot plenty
Waterton Lakes National Park is an of cougars—99 in 2014 alone—but
unusual childhood anecdote, one they do it to protect people, livestock
I’ve recounted many times. It’s such and pets. Trouble is, no journalist has
a good story, in fact, that for more gone on a real “cougar call” before.
than three decades it overshadowed After several emails to the B.C. Minis-
my own nagging questions: Why was try of Environment, a media relations
I attacked? Why was I spared? How staffer replies by phone. “Why do you
was the animal caught? Why did it want to do this, anyway?”
have to be destroyed? “Well,” I reply, “I was mauled by a
To truly comprehend the assault, cougar when I was nine, and I’m look-
I would have to relive it somehow, ing for some answers about what hap-
ideally in the company of someone pened to me.” There’s a pause on the
who could fill in the blanks. line. Then, “Do you have any scars?”
Two months or so later, I’m sitting
WILDLIFE VIEWING generates hun- in Kevin Van Damme’s truck.
dreds of millions of dollars in British
Columbia each year. Grizzly bears, THE ATTACK COULDN’T have lasted
killer whales, bald eagles, sockeye more than a few seconds, but by the
salmon—all of these creatures, and time the big cat let go, Sydney had
many more, can be spotted with a been mortally wounded.
professional guide at your side. The beloved dog of Gayle and Rob-
(P REVIOUS S PREA D) M ASTERF ILE
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its throat, like a purr,” Gayle recalls, the three tracking hounds from Van
“and it was trying to drag Sydney un- Damme’s pickup isn’t a viable op-
der a barbed-wire fence.” tion. It would have been a different
Robert started shouting, then story had there been more sightings
charged toward the animals. Cou- or maulings, but as Van Damme ex-
gars are known for their unyielding plains, “A cougar that’s desperate and
jaws, but the noisy frontal assault needs a dog for food would never
worked—the cat dropped Sydney and release. If we felt this cougar was a
vanished into the night. The cougar’s real risk, we’d track it for as long as it
presence, combined with the dog’s takes to catch it. But by the looks of it,
death the next day, prompted a call it’s long gone.”
to the conservation office in Kam-
loops, a two-hour drive south. MY RECOLLECTION OF my own
encounter remains vivid. Our party
of seven was spread out along Water-
ton’s Bertha Lake trail on the sunny
WHEN THE COUGAR morning of August 20, 1982. My dad,
JABBED ITS CLAWS brother and two cousins were lead-
INTO MY BACK ing the way, and my mother and
AND MY LEFT LEG, sister were bringing up the rear. I
I SHRIEKED AS LOUDLY was hiking alone in the middle, with
AS I EVER HAD. approximately 20 metres separating
me from each group.
Partway up a gentle rise, cries
“Your husband did a brave thing,” erupted behind me: ‘‘Adam, look out!”
Van Damme tells Gayle, standing on For a moment I mistook the golden
the Fremlins’ back porch. “Being the animal for a Labrador retriever, but
aggressor is what got the cougar to then shouts of “Cougar!” set me hor-
move away.” ribly straight. Barely an arm’s length
But how far had the big cat gone? from my incredulous eyes, it bared
The side arm–toting, body armour– its fangs and emitted the distinctive
clad COs follow bloody paw prints snarl that, until then, I’d only heard
through slush-filled forests to the in car commercials.
far side of a nearby road, where the “Yell at it! Scream at it!” Not that I
tracks disappear into a dark thicket. needed coaching. When the cougar
The spring sun is burning off the reared up and jabbed one set of claws
scent and more than 40 hours have into my back and the other into my left
passed since the attack, so releasing leg, I shrieked as loudly as I ever had.
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“The dogs are very experienced and know to keep their distance if the cougar is
grounded,” says Van Damme. But in this case, they had chased the big cat up a tree.
The next thing I knew, I was in my attack. He has seen and heard it all, I
father’s arms. Red rivulets covered suppose, over more than two decades.
my bare legs, and I could feel my tat- Each year, there are thousands of re-
tered Muppets T-shirt sticking to my ported human-cougar conflicts in B.C.
bleeding back. We made it to the one- alone. As if to justify my presence, I’m
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Peaks. Six nights earlier, a tom killed Van Damme and fellow CO Warren
a ewe in a pen next to the home of Chayer, who more or less sprinted
Debbie and Robert Fraser. The noise up the slope.
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About 500 metres up, Van Damme six-year lifespan, this cat suddenly
pauses on a rocky outcrop. It was started hunting sheep.
here, he explains, that he heard the “People think we’re hurting the
distinctive baying of hounds that had local cougar population, but it
treed a cat. may have the opposite effect,” Van
The tom was indeed “bayed up” Damme says. “Its territory is now
in a tall fir on a cliff ’s edge. Stand- vacant, so the chances of kitten sur-
ing atop the snowy precipice, Van vival are now much greater.”
Damme recounts how, with a single The air is thick with the odour of
rifle shot, he knocked the cat from wet fur as I rub the velvety ears, tou-
its perch, five metres up. It tumbled sle the coarse coat and test the sharp-
over the cliff, forcing the COs to ness of the fangs with my fingertips.
climb down to confirm their kill. Then I reach for my camera.
Then the cougar’s body was tied to Van Damme quickly intercedes.
a leash and dragged back to Van “Sorry,” he says. “No pictures of the
Damme’s pickup. dead animals.”
We trudge down the mountainside, I’m taken aback. “But what about
and the CO flips open the tailgate. the sheep?”
There, wedged into a steel compart- “That animal died naturally. A
ment, is the tom. sheep is natural prey for a cougar. But
It doesn’t look especially fearsome we intervened.”
at first. Then Van Damme exposes That’s when I know my journey is
the jagged yellow fangs and pushes over. The cougar wasn’t killed for
on a thumb-sized toe to reveal a re- doing anything wrong, but for doing
tractable claw. “There’s quite a bit of what it does. It can’t be faulted for
fraying here, so it was having some its actions any more than a young
challenges,” he adds. This could boy can be faulted for trekking up
partly explain why, after ruling the the wrong mountain trail at the
surrounding valley for most of its wrong time.
Adults are just obsolete children, and the hell with them.
THEODOR GEISEL, A.K.A. DR. SE USS
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As Kids See It
DOMESTIC BLISS WHEN MY MIDDLE DAUGHTER was
about nine, she came home from
“You look great! school one day, spitting mad. When
What are you I asked her what was wrong, she
doing?” angrily replied, “Why did you name
“Oh, thanks!
me Robin when you know I can’t say
I’m on this new my R’s?” KAREN FOURNIER, Mi s s i o n , B . C .
diet where,
whenever I try A RECENT EXCHANGE about grati-
to eat some- tude with my three-year-old son:
thing, a child MICAH: I don’t want books for my
screams at me birthday. Grandma always brings
until I stop.”
me books.
“No, my mom ME (seizing a teachable moment):
totally said, Sounds like you are taking books for
‘You guys granted. I feel so lucky to have books.
should go
Some people don’t have books, or a
upstairs and
paint your place to live or enough food to eat.
nails on MICAH (after a long pause): Why do
your new you feel lucky if people don’t have
bedspread.’” things? CHARLENE WISEMAN, To r o n t o
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You’re the
not
only one
who thinks
your kid is incredibly
wonderful and
special.
SHEAR
GENIUS BY R AY FO RD FR O M S MAL L FA RM C A N A DA
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True proficiency is still a long way on the journey from sheep to sweater,
off—probably years and thousands sock or suit. Scientists have devel-
of sheep down the road. Even then, oped shearing robots, as well as in-
you never really master a craft that jections that make sheep shed wool,
demands continual improvement. and breeders promote “hair sheep”
“I started shearing when I was 33. I that naturally slough off their coats.
didn’t learn until I was 43,” says our But the sweat-drenched shearer re-
chief instructor, Peter Kudelka. A mains the pivotal figure in an indus-
more realistic goal for the seven stu- try that harvests just over one million
dents at this introductory course is kilograms of wool in Canada, with a
near-competence, the kind that leaves farm-gate value of about $1 million.
sheep, shearer and fleece intact when At the same time, no one knows
the clippers are switched off. exactly how many shearers are
Shearing might not qualify as fun active these days. The Canadian
for most folks, but the students at Co-operative Wool Growers Limited
this class on Dean and Ellen Cottrell’s (CCWG), the country’s main wool
farm near Alliston, Ont., are willing marketer, lists close to 90 in its direc-
to give it a try. Some of us, myself tory. Kudelka suspects many of those
included, have our own farms. Our are easing into semi-retirement.
enthusiasm is welcomed by Kudelka A barrier to recruiting new shear-
and fellow instructor Doug Kennedy. ers is the job’s part-time and sea-
“A lot of us shearers are getting long in sonal nature. With average earnings
the tooth,” says 68-year-old Kudelka. of $3 to $7 per head—depending on
Kennedy—now 76 and fitted with flock size, travel and facilities—only
a new heart valve and two titanium a handful make shearing a full-time
knee joints—used to shear up to gig. The rest shear for supplement-
6,000 sheep a year on top of teach- ary income or spend part of the year
ing the craft and running a small working on farms in the United States
farm. “The demand is out there,” he or overseas.
tells the class. There are fewer skilled “The problem for Canadian shear-
shearers working these days: “Old ers has always been small flocks, big
guys like me who were shearing large distances,” says CCWG general man-
numbers aren’t anymore.” ager Eric Bjergso.
In New Zealand, where nearly 30
DESPITE ITS HOMESPUN reputa- million sheep are packed onto close
tion, wool is a complex product, to 260,000 square kilometres, shear-
often going through many hands ers work in gangs, clipping hundreds
(and sometimes several continents) of animals day after day. But because
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Canada has around a million sheep
scattered across almost 10 million
square kilometres, our shearers
spend more time on the road, deal
with smaller flocks and often work
in barns without the catch pens and
handling systems that save backs.
Farmers tend to want shearers in
a few peak times, typically during
mild weather. As a result, shearers
complain there’s not enough work to
make the job a full-time trade, while
farmers grouse they can’t get shear-
ers when they want them.
Another big factor is the meagre
return for wool. Kennedy remem-
bers his dad selling to a local mill
in the late 1940s for a dollar per half
Kennedy preparing to start shearing
kilogram—real money, considering a
using the “Bowen technique.”
township snowplow operator at the
time earned 85 cents an hour. These our crowd is younger, in their 20s to
days, the same sort of wool receives 60 40s, and supercreative,” says coordin-
to 70 cents per half kilogram. Even the ator Catherine Stark. “People want
best stuff comes in around $2. to know where their food is coming
With most wool exported to textile from. They want to know where their
mills in China, the U.S. and India, clothing is from, too.”
“there’s no forecast for a big uptick in
prices,” says Bjergso. “Our commodity WHILE IT’S POSSIBLE to learn how
is sensitive to global economic condi- to shear on your own, experts rec-
tions, and there’s so much competition ommend students find a knowledge-
from other fibres. If wool prices go up, able shearer or take a course, in part
(A LL P HOTOS ) RAY FORD
[textile makers] reduce the amount of to ensure the welfare of the sheep.
wool in the blend.” Some techniques go back decades.
There’s consolation in the grow- New Zealanders Ivan and Godfrey
ing number of home-based knitters, Bowen were shearers during the
weavers and spinners flocking to Second World War. To ease the job,
events such as the annual Woodstock the Bowens rethought traditional
Fleece Festival in Ontario. “A lot of approaches. They held most of the
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sheep’s weight with their legs, using sitting, four legs dangling uselessly,
a free hand to pull the skin tight for head lolling to one side, and the cut-
fewer nicks. They found shortcuts ters whir into action.
to reduce the number of “blows,” or As the blades disappear into the
strokes of the shears. In the process, wool, you can’t help but fret about
the “Bowen technique” became the slicing the sheep. Most cuts are
backbone of modern shearing. shallow and heal quickly; experi-
After his father’s death in 1960, enced shearers carry first aid kits,
Kennedy inherited 125 ewes in need with spray-on disinfectant and even
of shearing. He developed his own sutures for more severe gashes. Still,
style, switching the shears from one the natural inclination is to pull away
hand to the other mid- from the skin, leading to
way through each ani- another common error,
mal. “The first sheep the “double cut.” First,
took two hours. I didn’t BY THE FIFTH you leave two and a
know there was a right EWE, I’VE HIT half to five centimetres
way or a wrong way to THE ZONE: of wool on the sheep’s
shear.” For every Ken- THE SHEARING back. Then you go back
nedy, there must be a BLOWS COME to finish the job, slic-
dozen farmers who try RHYTHMICALLY, ing the wool into short
and give up. strands, rather than
AND THE
the long fibres textile
DURING THE practical
SHEEP STAYS makers want.
part of Kudelka’s course,
CALM. Shearing gets easier
students work three at a as you do more of it,
time, each under the but it’s still a tough job,
supervision of an instructor. Nearby, mentally and physically. An Austral-
a collection of the Cottrells’ animals ian study reckons a typical shearer
clusters in a pen behind a swinging, handling 150 sheep a day wrestles
saloon-style gate. with nine tonnes of wool and mut-
The effort begins with selecting a ton. Wear and tear on the backs of
sheep and backing it onto the plat- professional sheep shearers is “off the
form. With one hand on the jaw and charts, so much higher than anything
the other holding the animal’s hip else we’ve ever looked at,” says Diane
against your knee, you drop your Gregory, a kinesiology and health
knee back and turn the head around. sciences professor at Wilfrid Laurier
The animal falls bum-first onto the University in Waterloo, Ont., who’s
ground. In a second, the sheep is used video equipment to record and
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study the movements of shearers and run more smoothly. When the “long
baristas on the job. blow” comes, peeling wool off the
Herniated discs and sciatic pain are ewe’s back “from breezer to sneezer,”
common problems. Avoiding back it’s exhilarating. I feel like a kid learn-
injury is one reason Kudelka stresses ing to skate or working on a slapshot,
technique over speed. Competitive revelling in something that once
shearers have been known to fleece seemed impossible.
an animal in around 40 seconds. Back home on my farm in north-
Kudelka’s working pace is 10 to 14 ern Ontario, I buy a good used set of
sheep an hour. By contrast, the stu- shears. I’ve owned a flock of sheep
dents average about seven sheep a for almost 20 years, and for much of
day. Even so, the Cottrells’ shed is that time, I’ve hired a shearer. Now I
filled with constant noise and mo- feel ready to give it a try myself. On
tion. Shears clatter. Sheep struggle the last pleasant days of autumn, I
and thump. Instructors dish out tips begin. By the fifth ewe, I’ve hit the
and encouragement. zone: the blows come smoothly and
The Cottrells’ border collie looks in rhythmically, and the ewe stays calm.
and then saunters off, disappointed The job is done in about five minutes.
that there’s no herding to be done. “You’ve all been through it once;
now you just have to keep doing it
BY EWE NO. 6 or 7 on my first day, until it becomes second nature to
my brain is getting foggy, despite you,” Kudelka told us at the close of
Kudelka’s coaching. the course, in a sort of benediction.
“Move your right foot,” he says. “Go home and chew away at your
I shift my left. own flock.
“Your right. Your other right.” “When you learn the pattern and
On Day 2, things seem easier. The you drop into the Zen, it’s like medi-
method is more familiar, the shears tation,” he added. “You’ll just roll.”
WORKER’S BENEFITS
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MEMOIR
Net
Worth BY ED K IWANUKA- Q UIN L A N
FR O M TO RO NTO L I FE
ILLUSTRATION BY JEANNIE PHAN
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are you doing? Why would you try to praise me. When I saved a goal,
end a life that had so much good in it? they’d pat me on the back.
The Street Soccer folks changed my
I RETURNED TO Canada in 2011. life. They helped me find an apart-
When I landed, I had nothing. I ment, which I shared with another
didn’t know where my daughter player. The Salvation Army also hired
and ex-wife were. Our house had me as a laundry worker. Within a year,
been sold. For a few months, I couch I became a manager at Street Soccer
surfed with friends before I used up Canada. They even helped me repair
all my favours and ended up crash- my relationship with my daughter.
ing at a Salvation Army shelter in Paul supported me throughout my
Brampton. On my second day there, petitions to the court for more visita-
I was eating lunch alone in the caf- tion. She’s 15 now. I see her as often as
eteria, trying to figure out what to possible, and we text regularly.
do next, when a man came up to me I’m still playing soccer every week
and introduced himself. “I’m Paul,” with the guys. In 2012, I was selected
he said. “Want to come out and kick to participate in the Homeless World
a soccer ball?” I didn’t have the right Cup in Mexico City and to carry the
shoes or shorts, I argued, but Paul Canadian flag at the opening cer-
persisted. I eventually agreed and emonies. I scored the first goal in
joined him and six other guys in the Canada’s game against Wales, and
parking lot. I couldn’t believe how throughout those two weeks, my
out of shape I was. After a few hours, teammates called me Mr. Motivator.
I was sore but elated. I’d sweep up everyone I met in a big
It turned out Paul was a member bear hug. Refs, organizers, oppon-
of a non-profit called Street Soccer ents, spectators—no one was safe.
Canada, which recruits homeless At the end of the tournament, I was
and marginalized players and pro- named MVP of my team.
vides them with a social network.
The guys told me they played on THIS PAST SEPTEMBER, I returned to
Wednesdays and Fridays and that Uganda to attend a ceremony for the
I should join them. Soon I was the elders of my clan, the Mambas of the
regular goalie. The endorphins Ganda tribe. One of the first things I
helped my mood, but I was just as did upon my arrival? Pull out the
energized by the people around me. banana-fibre ball and kick it around
When I made a good pass, they’d with my cousins and neighbours.
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TRAVEL
HAVANA
96
AT
BY H ÉLÈ NE D E BILLY
PH OTOGRAPHY BY MARIE-JOSÉ CHAG NON
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“To think that two
years ago I didn’t
want to live and
today I’m walking
in Cuba,” muses
Francine van der
Heide, who has
recovered from a
severe spinal issue.
REAdER’S dIgEST
IT’S 6 A.M. and I’m at the Montreal It was around this time that we
airport with my friend Francine, hav- started hanging out together, going
ing just checked our two suitcases to the opera and having long meals
and an upscale foldable walker my in restaurants. And because Francine
travel companion refers to as her continued to swim into her 90s, our
Rolls-Royce. activities also included sessions at an
Francine is wearing an elegant indoor pool, inevitably followed by a
trench coat and, since credit cards sauna and a margarita (she mixes
aren’t yet accepted at our destina- a wicked cocktail). Today, she has
tion, a moneybelt into which she has given up the front crawl, but when,
slipped a large wad of bills. It’s the during an especially harsh winter, I
first time she’s carried proposed we spend a
so much cash, she says. week in Havana, she
But isn’t there always a didn’t hesitate: “That
first time for everything? WITH U.S.–CUBA would be wonderful.”
Francine van der RELATIONS
Heide is 96 years old. I THAWING, FRANCINE WANTS to
met her three decades FRANCINE travel across Old Havana
ago in New York, where KNEW in a bicitaxi, a pedal-
she had a pied-à-terre SHE WAS powered cab. Safety
near the East River, a features begin and end
WITNESSING
few blocks from the with a metal bar, to
apartment of her for-
A HISTORIC which we firmly cling.
mer colleague, my late
MOMENT. I have some doubts, but
aunt Françoise. The with Francine—who is
two women had been 35 years my senior—
pioneers at the United Nations. My gently mocking my apprehension,
aunt started as a bilingual secretary in I decide to embrace local life.
1948, Francine in 1949. In 1951, Fran- We weave between fruit stands
cine married Wiebe van der Heide, and DVD displays and pass children
who had been a member of the resist- squabbling over timeless toys, like a
ance in the Netherlands during the hula hoop and a ball. “It makes me
Nazi occupation before settling in the happy to see young people having
United States after the war. They had fun like the old days,” says Francine.
three boys. Two years after Wiebe died A big Chevrolet glides by. The
in 1995, and after nearly half a century cobalt-coloured car is vintage 1950s,
living in America, Francine returned and its appearance triggers fond
to her hometown, Montreal. memories. Francine reminisces
The
Strength
to
Heal FR O M T H E R E ASO N YO U WA L K
T
HE HOT SAND WAS tying, drinking and fighting. I had
starting to burn my hurt many people, including those
feet. The sun’s radi- closest to me.
ance had burrowed As the son of a hereditary chief, I
deep into my skin, knew I would someday rise to this
turning it a dark car- rank, but I’d assumed that day was
mine-brown. My dried sweat left a far in the future. Perhaps it would ar-
thin layer of salt on my body. I could rive after I had achieved something
taste it as I licked my lips. great. Instead, it came when I was at
We had been dancing and fasting one of the lowest ebbs of my life. My
in this sun-dance circle since long community, my family and my father,
before dawn. Tobasonakwut, responded by giving
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Chiefs and headmen formed a pro- me a second chance.
cession and walked to the south side All of this took place more than a
of the arbour, where I stood. They decade ago. It was not the only time
took my father’s war bonnet from its my father would pass something to
perch and raised it toward the sky. me that I would commit to carrying
Dozens of eagle feathers splayed into the future.
around the headdress like a halo, In the last year of his life, Ndede (the
each representing an act of valour, Ojibwe term for “my father”) would go
while intricate patterns of glass beads on a remarkable journey of hope, heal-
caught the light of the sun. ing and eventually forgiveness.
When they placed the war bonnet More than any inheritance, more
on my head, war whoops and ulu- than any sacred item, more than any
lations rose from those around the title, the legacy he left behind is this:
circle. They had made me a chief. during our time on Earth, we ought to
The sun-dance leader opened a love one another; and when our hearts
small box and withdrew a treaty med- are broken, we ought to work hard to
allion. Placing it in my hands, he re- make them whole again.
minded me of the significance of the
treaty relationship: the commitment MY LIFE BEGAN IN the Lake of the
to share the land with newcomers. Woods District Hospital, in Kenora,
I nodded and thanked him, then Ont., on the last morning of 1981.
turned my gaze to the earth. I was My mother, Kathi, had been wheeled
22, and it had been two years since into the operating room. The doctor
I’d last been here. I had strayed off made an incision and reached inside
the red road I had been taught to her womb. He pulled me out—all
walk as a boy. I had discovered par- 10 pounds 11 ounces of dark-brown
I RAN AWAY FROM Ndede, who was to Winnipeg, which offered access
screaming at me. I forget what I had to an education superior to that at
done—all I remember is that I was the reserve in Onigaming.
being chased across our living room. Things were different in the city.
I scrambled under the table for cover For one thing, I turned out to be
as he berated me, spittle shooting the only Anishinaabe kid around.
from his mouth. My parents encouraged me to share
Scenes like that were pretty nor- my culture with my classmates, so I
mal. When I did something wrong, would get into my traditional dan-
I was yelled at for being stupid. cer’s regalia, break out the boom box
When I got hurt and cried, I was and put on powwow demonstrations.
yelled at for being weak. When I sat Having progressive parents didn’t
inside for too long, I was yelled at protect me from racism. I saw its face
for being lazy. at school and at the hockey rink. “In-
Ndede had wrestled alcoholism dians are stupid” and “dirty Indian”
into submission, but still an illness are some of the phrases that stand
out. Part of the reason I hate the word When I got home, my mom and
“Indian” so much is because when I dad were waiting for me. They told
was growing up, I never heard it used me there had been a call from school
without an ugly adjective before it. and that I was in trouble. My dad
Dumb. Drunk. Dirty. asked if I had told the teacher he
The Anishinaabe people I grew up would beat her up on my behalf. I
with in Onigaming were none of these said yes. He looked away in disgust.
things. We were proud, funny, hard- “I’m not going to fight anyone for
working people. Somehow, when we you,” he shouted. He said he would
came to the city, that language was let her beat me up, as if we were
translated: proud became dirty, funny talking about another kid on the
became dumb, and hard-working be- playground and not a teacher who
came lazy. had physically abused me.
A 21-year-old Kinew and his mother at his graduation from the University
of Manitoba, where he received a bachelor’s degree in economics.
myself as one. But I was also an with my parents under house arrest,
angry young man, imitating the male leaving only to attend AA meetings
role model I had grown up with. The and ceremonies. I began the process
only avenues I proved myself in were of putting my life back on track.
drinking contests and street fights.
Usually, the fights were settled IN 2005, I WAS trying hard to lead a
fair and square. A few times, things productive existence. I wrote a let-
turned into brawls that spread ter to the editor of the Winnipeg Free
beyond me. After one particularly Press about Canada’s Olympic hockey
bad incident, I woke up in a holding team, of all things, and it was pub-
cell. I couldn’t remember why I had lished. A producer from CBC Radio’s
been fighting, but it had cost me my local morning show called a few weeks
freedom. I began to cry. later, wanting me to turn my letter into
When I spoke with my lawyer, something for the program. Soon I was
he explained that if I had another contributing ideas and was eventually
run-in with the law, I would likely offered a job as an associate producer.
do real time. After building my skills on the radio
After a few days, I made my bail ap- side, I moved to TV reporting and,
plication. Ndede spoke on my behalf. over the next few years, climbed the
He said he would take me to the sun ranks of the local newsroom.
dance and see that I join Alcoholics By January 2012, I had launched
Anonymous, the same program that a documentary series called 8th
had helped him stay sober. The judge Fire. The show was a chance to tell
asked what would happen if I kept a more complete truth about indig-
drinking or ran away. enous peoples in Canada. The im-
“Then I would turn him in,” Ndede pact of the series hit me one night
replied. in a hotel room on the way home
I was set free under the condition from a vacation with my young sons.
that I abstain from alcohol and live My two little Anishinaabe boys were
sprawled on the king-size bed when Anishinaabe language class for fami-
the latest episode of 8th Fire came on. lies, “Let’s Speak Ojibwe to Our Kids.”
They watched a Mi’kmaq chief who In all, about 60 people squeezed
brought his community from poverty into a classroom built for no more
to multinational business success in than 30. My sons were waiting for me
one generation. They met a young with their grandparents.
Kanienkehaka woman who teaches Ndede saw I was nervous. “Gego
healthy attitudes about sexuality to zegiziiken,” he said. “Don’t be scared.
young people. Just go for it.”
My sons did not think twice as I nodded and took a deep breath.
they absorbed these images of proud We returned two nights a week
indigenous people on national televi- for the rest of the winter to teach the
sion. To them it was normal. That was language together.
huge to me. All my life, I had seen EVERY THING CHANGED IN Feb-
indigenous people portrayed poorly ruary of that year, when Ndede
in the media. It meant so much to received bad news. His pancreatic
watch my kids seeing people like cancer, which had been treated with
them depicted as achievers. surgery and chemo, was worse than
The following Monday was a typi- expected. Despite feeling well and
cal day at work. But after I finished assuming things were under control,
my hit on the six o’clock news, I he had just a few months to live.
crossed the street to the University of Ndede did not tell me the progno-
Winnipeg. I was about to embark on sis initially, only that he had to have
something new. another round of chemo. Phrased
When I turned a corner to enter the that way, the news did not seem so
classroom, I was stunned. The space grim at first. He’s a fighter, I thought.
was filled with people, all of them As a boy, I had been afraid of
waiting for me to teach them. This Ndede. He had always been angry.
would be the first session of a free Now that I was an adult, he was the
In 2009, the author’s father offered Pope Benedict XVI an eagle feather as a symbol of
reconciliation; the Kinew family and former archbishop James Weisgerber in 2012.
one biting his tongue whenever he very close since first meeting in 2009
saw me getting upset with my boys. in Italy, when a delegation of First
When I was young, people would Nations leaders had travelled to the
often say to me, “You’re Peter’s boy!” Vatican to hear Pope Benedict XVI
(Peter was my father’s English name.) give an “expression of sorrow” over
Now Ndede heard, “Oh, you’re Wab’s the suffering of children in residen-
dad!” So many things had started to tial schools—children like my father.
change for the better between us. Ndede described his vision for the
adoption ceremony. Phil Fontaine (a
“I AM GOING to adopt the archbishop.” former national chief of the Assem-
The words hung in the air as Ndede bly of First Nations), Phil’s brother
and I sat beneath the pine tree that Bert, my uncle Fred and my father
dominated my parents’ front yard. He would all adopt the archbishop.
JOB DESCRIPTION
“Pickup artists” and “garbagemen” A CLOSE READING
should switch names. @CEEJOYNER I was an English major in college.
I didn’t get a lot of job interviews,
WORKPLACE CULTURE but I should have seen that coming.
SUSAN CAM ILLERI KONAR
13 Things
You Should
Know About
Patience
BY A N D R E A B E NNETT
4
which regulate impetuous behaviour,
for example—between patient people To build patience, find a strategy.
and those who are easily exasperated. British Columbia–based psycho-
2
therapist and meditation teacher
You might be able to train your- Michael Stone uses this one: first, he
self into better self-control. Stop- imagines how he’d respond if he was
ping in a moment of impulsivity and feeling patient. Then he waits until
taking a beat could, Floresco says, re- his frustration changes into some-
engage frontal lobe functions. thing else—relief, gratitude or calm.
MASTERF ILE
meditation help build skills required pared to an 11.6 per cent risk among
for patience, says Sarah Schnitker, a their more patient counterparts. One
professor at the Fuller Theological potential cause? Impatience may be
Seminary in Pasadena, Calif. correlated with higher rates of smok-
6
ing, drinking and unhealthy eating.
10
In the habit of making poor
choices? Research shows that Teach patience early. In a
putting off decisions—such as weigh- famous study from the 1960s,
ing our options before making a big psychologist Walter Mischel gave
electronics purchase—increases the young participants a marshmallow or
likelihood that, in the future, we’ll go similar treat and left the room, telling
for smarter selections. each child that if he or she waited for
7
him to return before snacking, they’d
Patience is key to building a get another one. Follow-up studies
winning team. A 2013 American found that children who held out for
study determined that pairs of play- the second treat had higher SAT
ers who scored high on a patience scores and were less likely to develop
test were most likely to coordinate obesity and substance abuse issues.
11
in order to earn higher payoffs in a
two-player strategy game. To that end, Stone recom-
8
mends that parents encourage
Impatient people tend to pro- children to practise being bored at
crastinate. In a 2015 American times. Instead of distracting kids the
study, researchers offered students second they get restless, allow them
compensation for their time. Individ- to sit with their ennui.
12
uals could immediately receive a
cheque for a small sum or wait two Improve your patience and
weeks for a larger payout. Almost 57 accomplish more. According
per cent of those who opted for the to Schnitker, patient people can
former took more than two weeks to exert more effort to reach their goals,
cash their cheques. as they’re able to better regulate re-
9
actions, emotions and interactions.
13
A study by multiple American
universities found that young Schnitker notes that life’s best
adults who scored high on tests things—loving relationships,
designed to measure impatience had personal goals—don’t happen over-
an 18.4 per cent risk of developing night. Building patience ultimately
hypertension within 15 years, com- boosts emotional well-being.
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ROUNDABOUT
(Moderately difficult)
What number
1432
should appear
in place of the
question mark?
? 2143
3214
1. Irish theatre critic Vivian Mercier 8. Who is the newest kid in the New
described which Samuel Beckett Kids on the Block, by virtue of being
work as “a play in which nothing the youngest member?
happens, twice”?
9. In what game would you throw
2. What restaurant chain released around magic missiles?
a cologne in Japan named Flame-
10. Brad Pitt’s first Oscar was for
Grilled Fragrance?
co-producing what movie, in which
3. What star of Beetlejuice and Home he played a Canadian?
Alone has dextrocardia, meaning her
11. I’ve landed at DOH, which is the
heart is on her right side?
Doha airport in which country?
4. Which country’s citizens burn
12. What name is shared by a charac-
effigies of an executed Catholic rebel
ter in The Hunger Games and one of
every November 5?
Julius Caesar’s fathers-in-law?
5. What fictional business would you
13. What poet once got a job as a
find “at the end of Lonely Street”?
receptionist in the same psychiatric
6. If you were to fly directly north ward where she’d been treated a few
from the westernmost point of main- years earlier?
land South America, which U.S. state
14. Who is the second rich-
would you hit first?
est person in the world
7. What fictional char- after Bill Gates?
acter could likely have
told a lie only 13 times before the ➸
15. In 2011, bodyguards with
weight of his nose would have armour-plated umbrellas protected
snapped his neck? which unpopular French president?
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13. Sylvia Plath. 14. The Mexican entrepreneur Carlos Slim Helú. 15. Nicolas Sarkozy.
8. Joey McIntyre. 9. Dungeons & Dragons. 10. 12 Years a Slave. 11. Qatar. 12. Cinna.
Kingdom. The effigies portray Guy Fawkes. 5. Heartbreak Hotel. 6. Florida. 7. Pinocchio.
ANSWERS: 1. Waiting for Godot. 2. Burger King. 3. Catherine O’Hara. 4. The United
BY IAN RIE NS C H E
STAIR TRAINING
840. Each number is found
by multiplying the preced-
(Difficult) ing one by the number that
corresponds to the position
of the step. The number
3 7 5 on the second step is twice
the preceding number
9 4 8 1 6 (7 x 2 = 14), the number on
the third step is three times
4 3 2 GRIDLOCK
1. The Roman numeral at
5 6 9 8 7 the top of each column indi-
cates the number of 1s it
Answers
1. psithurism—[C] sound of rustling 9. sibilation—[C] hiss; as, A sibila-
leaves; as, On a breezy day, a light tion escaped the opposition back
psithurism fills the woods. benches as the prime minister rose
to speak.
2. ululate—[A] wail; as, In some
cultures, professional mourners can 10. nickering—[B] neighing; as,
be hired to ululate at a funeral. Upon entering the barn, Isla heard
a soft nickering, a welcome from
3. pule—[B] whine or whimper;
her mare.
as, Ariadne was a quiet and pensive
baby, not one to pule for no reason. 11. tattoo—[B] evening bugle call to
summon soldiers to their quarters;
4. babel—[C] confusion of voices;
as, Of all the army’s ceremonial
as, The protest devolved from music, the nightly tattoo was the
group chants into a babel of shouts most beautiful to Louis.
and insults.
12. purl—[C] babbling, as of water;
5. charivari—[C] loud and discord as, Hearing the brook’s melodic
ant mock serenade; as, While the purl, Frankie sighed, relieved to be
Beauforts drove off for their honey nearly home.
moon, their friends performed a
deafening charivari, complete with 13. report—[B] burst of noise from
pots and pans. an explosion; as, The rifle report
jolted Kasia from her reverie: Tim
6. plunk—[B] sound of a sharply must have spotted a moose.
plucked string; as, Tabitha’s infant
son seemed amused by the plunk 14. vociferate—[A] shout; as, It’s
of his toy banjo. not polite to vociferate at a waiter,
no matter how slow the service.
7. crosstalk—[A] interference
from another telecom signal; as, 15. fritinancy—[C] chirping of
The phone connection was so poor insects; as, The nonstop fritinancy
that Jin could barely hear Lee Anne in the Louisiana countryside often
over the crosstalk. disturbed Juan’s sleep.
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15, 2015); (PENNER) TORONTO STAR (SEPT. 21, 2015); (HUGHES) THE GLOBE AND MAIL (SEPT. 18, 2015);
(DOUGLAS) SASKATCHEWAN ASSOCIATION OF RURAL MUNICIPA L ITIE S ( MARCH 13, 1951); (MERCER)
C AN A DIA N LIVING (OCT. 2015); (HARPER) THE GLOBE AND MAIL ( SE PT. 29, 2015).
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