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Grief is the deep mental and emotional anguish that is a response to the subjective experience of loss of
something significant. Grief is a subjective state of emotional, physical and social responses to the loss of a
valued entity. The loss may be real e.g. death of a loved one, loss of personal possessions or it may be
perceived by the individual alone, unable to be shared by others or identified by others. However, grief can
be expressed by people very differently. Some people do not experience an intense reaction. Most people
experience fluctuating reactions for a period of time while others can develop a complex grief reaction.
Grief is a set of cognitive, emotional and social difficulties that follow the death of a loved one. Grief is a
series of intense physical and psychological responses that occurs following loss. It is a normal, natural,
necessary, and adaptive response to a loss. Grief may be viewed as the subjective states that accompany
mourning, or the emotional work involved in the mourning process. Grief work and the process of mourning
are collectively referred to as the grief response.
ICD-10 CLASSIFICATION:
Comes under adjustment disorder
Grief F43.21
prolonged F43.29
reaction F43.20
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Table no. 1- Table showing comparison among various theories.
Another theorist, John Harvey (1998), described similar phases of grieving:
1. Shock, outcry, and denial
2. Intrusion of thoughts, distractions, and obsessive review of the loss
3. Confiding in others as a way to emote and to cognitively restructure an account of the loss
Rodebaugh, Schwindt & Valentine (1999) viewed the process of grief as a journey through four stages:
1. Reeling. The person feels shock, disbelief, or denial.
2. Feelings. The person experiences anguish, guilt, profound sadness, anger, lack of concentration,
sleep disturbances, appetite changes, fatigue, and general physical discomfort.
3. Dealing. The person begins to adapt to the loss by engaging in support groups, grief therapy, reading,
and spiritual guidance.
4. Healing. The person integrates the loss as part of life. Acute anguish lessens. Healing does not imply,
however, that the person has forgotten or accepted the loss.
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Table no. 2- Table showing comparison among various theories.
GRIEF REACTION:
Various grief reactions or responses are as follows:
Cognitive Responses to Grief:
The pain that accompanies grieving results from a disturbance in the person’s beliefs (Parkes, 1998). The
sufferer searches for answers to why the trauma occurred. The goal of the search is to give meaning and
purpose to the loss. The nurse might hear the following questions:
• “Why did this have to happen? He took such good care of himself!”
• “Why did such a young person have to die?”
• “He was such a good person! Why did this happen to him?”
Questioning may help the person accept the reality of why someone died. it may include realizing that loss
and death are realities that all must face one day. Others may discover explanations and meaning and even
gain comfort from a religious or spiritual perspective such as believing that the dead person is with God and
at peace (Davis & Nolen-Hoeksema, 2001).
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Emotional Responses to Grief:
Anger, sadness, and anxiety are the predominant emotional responses to loss. The grieving person may
direct anger and resentment toward the dead person and his or her health practices, family members, or
health care providers or institutions. Common reactions the nurse might hear are as follows:
• “He should have stopped smoking years ago.”
• “If you had taken her to the doctor earlier, this might not have happened.”
• “It took you too long to diagnose his illness.”
Guilt over things not done or said in the lost relationship is another painful emotion. Feelings of hatred and
revenge are common when death has resulted from extreme circumstances such as suicide, murder, or war
(Zisook & Downs, 2000). In a study to assess short-term grief responses after elective abortion, Williams
(2001) noted that some women experience feelings of loss of control, death anxiety, and dependency as well
as feelings of despair and anger.
Spiritual Responses to Grief:
Closely associated with the cognitive and emotional dimensions of grief are the deeply embedded personal
values that give meaning and purpose to life. These values and the belief systems that sustain them are
central components of spirituality and the spiritual response to grief.
Behavioural Responses to Grief:
Behavioural responses to grief are often the easiest to observe. By recognizing behaviours common to
grieving, the nurse can provide supportive guidance for the client’s exploration of emotionally and
cognitively rough terrain. To promote the process, the nurse must provide a context of acceptance in which
the client can explore his or her behaviour. Tearfully sobbing, crying uncontrollably, showing great
restlessness, and searching are evidence of yearning and seeking.
Physiologic Responses to Grief:
Physiologic symptoms and problems associated with grief responses are often a source of anxiety and
concern for the grieving person as well as friends or caregivers. Those grieving may complain of insomnia,
headaches, impaired appetite, weight loss, lack of energy, palpitations, indigestion, and changes in the
immune and endocrine systems. Sleep disturbances are among the most frequent and persistent bereavement
associated symptoms (Zisook & Downs, 2000).
While assessing for grief, the nurse has to follow Cultural Considerations:
• Universal Reactions to Loss
• Culture-Specific Rituals
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Table no. 3- Table showing various dimensions of responses
Title: Emotional and physiological reactivity in Complicated Grief
Authors: LeBlanc N, Unger L, McNally R
Place: Department of Psychology, Harvard University, United States
Researcher recruited a sample of 23 bereaved adults with complicated grief and 26 healthy bereaved adults
to complete an emotional reactivity paradigm. Participants watched a series of emotional film clips and
provided measures of their self-reported emotional response. They also assessed their heart rate, respiratory
sinus arrhythmia (RSA), and skin conductance level in response to these clips. Results shown that though
emotional and physiological differences between the groups were rare, the CG group exhibited attenuated
RSA reactivity to some emotional film clips, suggesting blunted parasympathetic nervous system reactivity
in those with the disorder. Individuals with CG do not exhibit pervasive differences in emotional and
physiological reactivity compared to healthy bereaved individuals. However, they did observe evidence of
blunted parasympathetic nervous system reactivity in individuals with CG, which may mediate emotional
inflexibility among those who develop the disorder.
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TYPES OF GRIEF:
Anticipatory Grief:
Anticipatory grief has been defined as "the total set of cognitive, affective, cultural, and social reactions to
expected death felt by the patient and family." The following aspects of anticipatory grief have been
identified among survivors:
• Depression.
• Heightened concern for the dying person.
• Attempts to adjust to the consequences of the death.
Anticipatory grief provides family members with time to gradually absorb the reality of the loss. Individuals
are able to complete unfinished business with the dying person (e.g., saying "good-bye," "I love you," or "I
forgive you").
Prolonged Grief:
It is characterized by an intense preoccupation with memories of the lost entity for many years after the loss
has occurred. A prolonged process may be considered maladaptive when certain behaviours are exhibited.
Prolonged grief may be a problem when behaviours such as maintaining personal possessions aimed at
keeping a lost loved one alive (as though he or she will eventually re-enter the life of the bereaved) or
disabling behaviours that prevent the bereaved from adaptively performing activities of daily living are in
evidence.
Delayed or Inhibited Grief:
The individual becomes fixed in the denial stage of the grieving process. Delayed or inhibited grief refers to
the absence of evidence of grief when it ordinarily would be expected. The emotional pain associated with
loss is not experienced, but there may be evidence of anxiety disorders or sleeping disorders. The individual
may remain in denial for many years until the grief response is triggered by a reminder of the loss or even by
another unrelated loss. Delayed grieving most commonly occurs because of ambivalent feelings toward that
which has been lost, outside pressure to resume normal function, or perceived lack of internal and external
resources to cope with a profound loss.
Distorted (Exaggerated) Grief:
The individual who experiences a distorted response is fixed in the anger stage of grieving. The normal
behaviours associated with grieving, such as helplessness, hopelessness, sadness, anger and guilt are
exaggerated out of proportion to the situation. The individual turns the anger inward on the self and is unable
to function in normal activities of daily living. Pathological depression is a distorted grief response. In the
distorted grief reaction, all of the symptoms associated with normal grieving are exaggerated. Feelings of
sadness, helplessness, hopelessness, powerlessness, anger, and guilt, as well as numerous somatic
complaints, render the individual dysfunctional in terms of management of daily living. Murray and Zentner
(2001) describe an exaggerated grief reaction in the following way: An intensification of grief to the point
that the person is overwhelmed, demonstrates prolonged maladaptive behaviour, manifests excessive
symptoms and extensive interruptions in healing, and does not progress to integration of the loss, finding
meaning in the loss, and resolution of the mourning process.
Disenfranchised Grief:
Disenfranchised grief is grief over a loss that is not or cannot be acknowledged openly, mourned publicly, or
supported socially. Three categories of circumstances can result in disenfranchised grief:
• A relationship has no legitimacy.
• The loss itself is not recognized.
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• The griever is not recognized.
In each situation, there was an attachment followed by a loss that leads to grief. The grief process is more
complex because the usual supports that facilitate grieving and the healing process are absent (Lenhardt,
1997).
Title: Disenfranchised Grief in the PICU: Crying for Attention.
Author: Crowe S
Place: Paediatric Intensive Care Unit, Our Lady's Children's Hospital, Crumlin, Dublin, Ireland.
The relationship between the child and the staff caring for the child is not acknowledged to the same extent,
and this may cause difficulties for staff who grieve following the death of the child. This experience is
repeated many times when working in the PICU. This article describes two cases that illustrate the
unrecognized nature of disenfranchised grief for paediatric healthcare staff. Addressing the cumulative
effects of bereavement on the staff in the PICU through formal and informal systems of support may reduce
emotional exhaustion, improve staff retention, and enhance the care of children and families.
Complicated Grief:
Some believe complicated grieving to be a response outside the norm and occurring when a person is void of
emotion, grieves for prolonged periods, or has expressions of grief that seem disproportionate to the event.
People may suppress emotional responses to the loss or become obsessively preoccupied with the deceased
person or lost object. Others actually may suffer from clinical depression when they cannot make progress in
the grief process (Enright & Marwit, 2002).
Table no. 4- Table showing difference between normal grief and clinical depression.
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By the time individuals reach their 60s and 70s, they have experienced numerous losses, and mourning has
become a lifelong process. Unfortunately, with the aging process comes a convergence of losses, the timing
of which makes it impossible for the aging individual to complete the grief process in response to one loss
before another occurs. Because grief is cumulative, this can result in bereavement overload, which has been
implicated in the predisposition to depression in the elderly.
NURSING MANAGEMENT:
Normal grief does not require any treatment while complicated grief requires medication depending on the
prevailing behaviour responses.
Assessment:
Effective assessment involves observing all dimensions of human response: what the person is thinking
(cognitive), how the person is feeling (emotional), what the person’s values and beliefs are (spiritual), how
the person is acting (behavioural), and what is happening in the person’s body (physiological). Effective
communication skills during assessment can lead the client toward understanding his or her experience.
Thus, assessment facilitates the client’s grief process. While observing for client responses in the dimensions
of grieving, the nurse explores three critical components in assessment:
• Adequate perception regarding the loss
• Adequate support while grieving for the loss
• Adequate coping behaviours during the process
Nursing Diagnosis:
• Risk for complicated grieving related to loss of a valued concept/object; loss of a loved one
• Risk for spiritual distress related to complicated grief process
Outcome Identification:
The following criteria may be used for measurement of outcomes in the care of the grieving client:
The client:
• Acknowledges awareness of the loss.
• Is able to express feelings about the loss.
• Verbalizes stages of the grief process and behaviours associated with each.
• Expresses personal satisfaction and support from spiritual practices.
Nursing Interventions:
• Provide an open accepting environment.
• Assess client’s stage in the grief process.
• Encourage ventilation of feelings and listen actively.
• Support patient and significant others share mutual fears, concerns, plans, and hopes for each other.
• Provide various diversional activities.
• Encourage significant others to manage their own self-care needs for rest, sleep, nutrition, leisure
activities, and time away from the patient.
• Provide teaching about common symptoms of grief.
• Reinforce goal-directed activities.
• Consider the patient’s or family’s denial about the loss for it is part of the grieving process.
• Bring together similar aggrieved persons, to encourage communication, share experiences of the loss
and to offer companionship, social and emotional support.
• Anticipate increased or exaggerated affective behaviour.
• Communicate therapeutically with patient and family members and allow them to verbalize feelings.
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Title: Helpfulness of nursing actions to suddenly bereaved family members in an accident and
emergency setting in Hong Kong.
Author: Li S, Chan C, Lee DT.
Place: Accident and Emergency (A & E) Department, United Christian Hospital, Hong Kong, China
The study aimed to gain knowledge about what nursing actions bereaved family members in Hong Kong
perceived as helpful. This study was exploratory and descriptive in nature, and used a quantitative approach.
Data were collected through structured telephone interviews.
Seventy-six bereaved subjects were recruited in an A & E department in Hong Kong. The subjects perceived
written information, opportunity to view the deceased, and respecting individual customs and religious
procedures as most helpful and offering sedation, discouraging viewing of the body, and providing comfort
measures as most unhelpful. No statistically significant differences among the overall mean of helpful
nursing actions according to the subjects' age, gender, education level, family income and religions were
found. Significant correlations between some actions and the respondents' age, family income and
educational level were found.
Title: Analysing the role played by district and community nurses in bereavement support
Author: Johnson A
Place: Department of Clinical Health Care, Faculty of Health and Life Sciences, Oxford Brookes University
This article explores bereavement support as one of the roles of the district nurse (DN) and community nurse
(CN). Bereavement support is considered part of palliative care, which is a major role for all nurses.
Bereavement can result in depression, stress-related disorders, and high mortality; it is therefore imperative
to understand the complexities, theoretical aspects, and implications of poor service provision. Palliative
care is one of the primary roles of a DN, and it largely involves emotional support. It has been shown that
DNs lack confidence and the skills to provide bereavement support to families and carers of palliative care
patients. Education, training, and time management are the main determinants of effective bereavement
support. The need is to develop a standard collaborative approach to bereavement support and incorporate it
into the palliative care role of DNs.
SUMMARY:
Grief is a subjective state of emotional, physical and social response to the loss of a valued entity. The loss
may be real, in which case it can be substantiated by others (e.g. death of a loved one), or perceived by the
individual alone, in which case it cannot be perceived or shared by others (e.g. loss of feeling of femininity
following mastectomy). Grief comes under adjustment disorder F43.21 of ICD-10 classification. Various
theorists gave their theories on grief. Most popular theory of grief reaction is given by Kubler Ross. Grief
responses may be adaptive or maladaptive.
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