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SEXUALITY FOR
TEENAGERS
e r e d
p o w Ogbo Awoke Ogbo
m
Life Coach
E ogbo.ogbo@giantthoughts.com
Tel. 08034880518
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CONTENT
Sex is Good How Sexual Temptation
Works
Is Sexual Purity
Possible? How Addiction Works
Vow of Purity
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SAMPLE ISSUES
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Everything God made is
good; God made sex SEX IS GOOD
Like everything else God
made, Satan has tried to Do you not know that
your body is the temple of
hijack, corrupt and the Holy Spirit who is in you,
counterfeit sex whom you have received from
God? You are not your own, you
Sex is sacred were bought at a price, therefore
honor God with your body. 1
Sex has one rule: Marriage corinthians 6:19-20
(This not old fashioned! It
works that way!) We all struggle with our sexuality as part of
our biological, spiritual and personal
The Bible is NOT out of development.
Some people never master their sexuality until
date. death.
It’s not easy but posible.
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SEX IS MORE THAN SEX
Biological
“For these
reason, a man Spiritual Psychological
will leave his
father and SEX
mother and be
united to his
wife, and they Emotional Social
will become
one flesh.”
Your sex life drags everything
Genesis 2:24 with it
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TEENAGE SEXUALITY LAND
MINES!
- Proverbs 5:22-23
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CONDOM OR SELF
CONTROL?
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CONDOM OR SELF
CONTROL?
Proverbs 2: 11-17
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WHY SEXUAL PURITY?
The goal of sexual purity is NOT to avoid
becoming infected with HIV or other STIs.
The purpose of sexual purity is NOT to avoid
becoming pregnant.
It’s not to show off that you are religious or
‘holier than thou.’
It is to attain the paths of life, becoming all
you are capable of becoming, and bringing
glory to God. (Revelations 4:11)
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HOW SEXUAL TEMPTATION
WORKS
The battles starts and “Do not love the world or anything in the
ends in your mind:
world ... the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his
“Guard your heart
(mind) with all eyes and the boasting of what he has and does-
diligence ...” Proverbs comes not from the Father but from the world.”
4:23 1 John 2:15-17
GIGO - what you put in
comes out (TV,
Vulgar
Internet, Friends, Music,
Movies, Books, etc) Rap Music
Put away perversity
James 1:13-15 from your mouth; keep
corrupt talk far from
“For the lips of an adulteress drips honey, and your lips.
her speech is smoother than oil...” Pro. 5:3 Pro. 4:24
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THE 5 WH’S OF SEXUAL
TEMPTATION
Who - e.g. Who are you? Who are your friends?
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PORNOGRAPHYMy personal story of
addiction to porn
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SO, WHAT ABOUT THESE
IMPOSSIBLE HORMONES?
“It is good for a man (or Talent development!!!
woman) to bear the yoke while Physical Activities/
he is young.” Adventures
Volunteer/Charity
- Lamentations 3:27 Boy Scouts, Girl Guides,
Man O War, etc
Purpose can Less TV watching, video
deliver you from games
the distractions of Seek a mentor!
sexual desire!
Daniel 1:8
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WHAT DOES GOD SAY ABOUT
HOMOSEXUALITY/LESBIANISM?
God does NOT condemn lesbians and homosexuals - He loves them
as much as He does heterosexuals! They’re God’s offspring too.
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DISCUSSION
IS MASTURBATION A SIN?
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HOW GOD’S LOVE WORKS
God loves us unconditionally
We are saved by grace, and live by grace, not will power
God has paid the price for our sins, guilt and shame
through the death and resurrection of Christ
He delights in forgiving our sins and helping us live holy
like He
He gives a second chance - You can rise again if you fall.
(1 John 2:1-3.) “Neither do I condemn thee. Go and sin
no more.”
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PRACTICAL GUIDE TO PURITY
EXERCISE
What practical things can you
do to remain sexually pure?
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TEEN TIPS
1. Cultivate healthy relationships with the opposite sex - you can have a girlfriend or
boyfriend and see #2 below ...
3. Kill the fuel supply for lust and masturbation e.g. I got rid of some TV stations, canceled
my subscription to People magazines, and burnt up ALL my archive of the magazine.
4. Be open to parents
7. Take time to meditate on God’s word and works, pray and fellowship with fellow
pilgrims
8. You never quite arrive: “Let he that thinks he stand take heed, lest he fall.”
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VOW OF PURITY
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FURTHER HELP
Email: coaching@giantthoughts.com
Tel. +234 803 4880518
Websites: www.giantthoughts.com;
www.unlockyourdestiny.com
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