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Basic Concepts in Life Skill
Education
* Thomas Kalam, Subhakanta Mohapatra
Introduction
Sexuality is one of the most important aspects of life.
Sexuality permeates the psychological and spiritual
areas of a person’s life. One of the sad lessons of
human history is that sexuality which should have
brightened and cheered up lives of people, often
becomes, instead, a curse. We often see people’s lives
being disoriented because of the inability to deal with
sexuality meaningfully. A person’s relationships with
others in his/her life, are disrupted and distorted
because of the inability to exercise sexuality honestly
and meaningfully. Sexuality which plays a decisive
role in the formation of a family, if not understood
and exercised properly, can destroy families, and the
intimate relationship that should exist between
members of a family. In this chapter, your are
introduced to a discussion on the healthy way of
handling sexuality. The objective of this chapter is to
enable you to understand the blueprint built into the
very nature of human sexuality which should kept in
mind so that sexuality remains a gift, and not a
curse, in the relationship between a husband and
wife.
The Role of Sex in the Constitution of a
Family
It is with the birth of a child that a family is fully
constituted. Lower organisms like amoebae reproduce
asexually. Human reproduction on the other hand is
sexual. Family is the context in which human sexuality
* Prof. Thomas Kalam, St. John’s Medical College, Bangalore
Dr. Subhakanta Mohapatra, SOITS, IGNOU
Basic Concepts in Life Skill Education 119
Conclusion
In this chapter we have examined the concept of sex
and love in relation to family life. In the process of our
128 Introduction to Family Life Education
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