Meet your Soul mate in 30 days or less…

Are you finished going through the holidays without

someone special to share with not only during this
magical time of the year but the rest of the year too!
You’re not alone. Many others feel the same way. I’m
going to show you how you can attract and be with your
soul mate with in 30 days or less.
If you believe in the law of attraction and I do. As I have
seen it work time and time again. Focus first on what
you you want and desire. Like attracts like by focusing on
positive thoughts you will bring in positive results. (This
can also happen with the things you don’t want) be
careful what you focus on.
First believe that your soul mate exists. Be in a place of
readiness for true partnership. Look at what that means
to you and live it daily. When you live it you will bring it
towards you. Almost magically.

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Be very clear on what you want
Make a list of what a soul mate means to you. What is
he or she like? What do you love about them? Embrace
and feel this belief without a doubt. Have a knowing that
there is someone out there for you.
Do a visualization with your eyes closed imagining your
ideal partner, what it feels like to be with them, what
your life is like together everything that comes to mind
feel and imagine this. Do this for 15 minutes in the
morning and fifteen minutes before bedtime. The
universe receives these images as messages to create
this in your life. Every day you do this you can continue
to create, change and make these images to a greater
ideal.
Make a vision board. This can also be a road map of your
life. What you want it to look like. In making a vision
board make different sections for example Your career
area, spirituality , travel, your relationships, and a center
area that is a road map that brings it all together. Vision

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boards are a very powerful tool of manifestation in real
life. This also brings clarity to you and again to the
universe of what it’s bringing to you.
Another tool that is very effective is writing a mantra
every day such as: I_____ am ready and willing and
deserving of my amazing soul mate. We are lucky to
have found each other I’m excited our amazing life
together.

Have a belief system that serves what you desire

In other words clean up any beliefs that don’t support
having and keeping a life long loving relationship.
Examples: All the good ones are taken, or I don’t make
enough money, I’m not thin or pretty enough. These are
all limiting beliefs that can and will keep you stuck.
Keep recurring positive beliefs in your mind. And believe
me I know those negative thoughts creep in when they
do replace them with a positive one. For example: there

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are an abundance of great men. I know the right one is
on his way. My heart is open to the possibilities. I have
so much love to give. I welcome you in to my life.
Choose what works for you and your personality.
Clean your house
Get rid of things in your life that don’t serve you or a new
relationship. Any old pictures, ex-boyfriends T-shirts,
pictures or anything and everything that reminds you of
the past get a box and put them all in there and store it
in the garage or garbage can. Get it out of your physical
space where these are reminders of the past. Make
room in your closet or a drawer or two in your room/
house for another person. Make your space as
welcoming as possible for your new partner to come.
You can use sage to rid your home of past energies. It
gives your space a fresh perspective.
This leads into letting go of unhealthy attachments. Look
around at your life for ways that you maybe preventing

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love from finding you. That means letting go of a person
in your life that you know is not your soul mate even if it
is comfortable, fun, sex , companionship but it is not your
soul mate. Let it go! This will block your soul mate from
coming to you.

Appreciate your past relationships.

They have taught you what you do and don’t want. Send
a message in your mind to your old flames saying thank
you for all that you have brought to my life. “I release
you”. This will clear the way for your partner to come.
Remember almost all of us have had lessons that open us
up to getting closer to our love.
I will warn you when you are cleansing the past away
sometimes it can try to creep its way back in. The point
is not to fall in to old patterns. Don’t settle!! Chances are
if it didn’t work in the past it won’t work now. Unless it
was a timing issue. Be very aware and know that you are

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worth being treasured and cherished and your soul mate
will recognize how amazing you are.

Get rid of the demons that have held you back

Identify what is keeping you from your love. Have you
been immature, needy, demanding or obsessive? Do you
give too much of yourself too soon? Do you have a hard
time accepting faults in others or yourself? Acknowledge
your past! This is your first step in adjusting your
behavior for the future. By doing this and observing
what triggers these behaviors this can be overcome.
Sometimes it is easier with a relationship specialist.
If you have had these patterns in the past my suggestion
is to take things slow in your new relationships. Treat it
like a marathon not a sprint to the finish line. I say this
because it will give you the opportunity to feel safe and
secure within the relationship.

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Don’t give in to any self doubt! Have a sense and a
knowing that this person is on their way. And with this
don’t focus on what you don’t have or feelings of
insecurity or jealousy. If you have a friend that is happy
and in love or you see couples walking around in love
instead of focusing on what you don’t have realize that
your dream is coming closer to you. Celebrate the love
you see. You are telling the universe to bring you more
and it will!
The number one reason why attracting your soul mate
doesn’t appear to work is people give up before their
wish is granted. For example if a date doesn’t go your
way or you don’t see evidence that your true love is
coming, out of disappointment they give up not knowing
what they are missing out on.

Fall in love with yourself

Self love is sexy! Make a list of all the characteristics you
love about yourself. Post it on your mirror or wall

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somewhere you can see it everyday. The more you focus
on what you love about yourself the more love you will
experience. Others fall in love with people who love
themselves.
This includes doing things that continue to improve
yourself and self love. Such as getting regular exercise.
This not only makes you feel better and confident you
look better as a result. Focus on eating right and drinking
plenty of water. Both of these things have the same
effect. (Yes I know it’s the holiday season) moderation
on the indulgences.
That also means really embracing a lifestyle that is one
you want and you want for your partner and you. Act as
if your in a relationship with them already. And live a
lifestyle that reflects that.
Take this time to focus on a spiritual practice or learning
something new. This is a form of self love. And when
you are in a space of learning you become more open
and authentic to new experiences.

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Honor where your at in this moment. Enjoy being single.
Take this opportunity to enjoy friends, pursue paths of
self- improvement, have adventures that help you grow
personally, spiritually and professionally. Work on the
life you want to be lead. This will create a richer more
welcoming you.
……………………………………
A woman that I worked with had been in a number of
relationships. Married and divorced. She had had some
really great partnerships but all of them missing
something. When we started working together she was
dating some and had a few very promising suitors but
things never quite felt right. She started doing the very
things that I am teaching you now. One thing she did
was she looked men in the eye and smiled. She held the
gaze and smile for 10 seconds. (a long time) And literally
she was being asked out every day! It didn’t take long
before she met a gentlemen when she was on location
for a job she was doing. He kept trying to get her

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attention. She is very professional and takes her work
very seriously. She set a few boundaries with him like I
am busy with work. And he continued to make small
conversation respectfully. He asked if he could see her
again and called her the following day. At first she said,
not sure if he is my type we will see. After the second
date she had such a comfortable feeling with him like she
knew him forever. This has continued to be the case.
And they mutually respect, adore each other and have a
similar vision for the future; they easily work through and
communicate through conflict (that is key). She is so
happy that she often checks in with me and says man it
just keeps getting better. Doing this stuff works!

Take Action
By taking action it creates a reaction in what your desire
is. Ask your friends if they know anyone that would be a
good fit. Accept invitations!! Attend events, network, go
to parties, tis the season! Pursue activities that are

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interesting to you. Meet up groups are great. Running,
hiking, a theatre club, art gallery openings. Like attracts
like. If you’re a couch potato chances are you’ll attract
one. Travel, weekend trips are great or an adventure to
another country. Don’t be afraid to try new things and
venture out on your own. There are so many possibilities
in your community waiting for you. All of which will
open you to the possibilities. Make an online dating
profile that is inviting, honest and engaging. This will
attract what you want. Also craft engaging emails. Pick
out things that you notice about the person. For
example: I noticed your in the auto industry what do you
think of the new _____? Don’t be afraid to have fun with
this. The more fun you have the more fun you’ll have!
When you do meet for your first public date and I
suggest doing this soon. Don’t spend a lot of time with
email banter. When it drags out the urge to meet goes
away. You want to create the space to meet your right
person. So suggest it! I recommend a short first date an
hour maximum. Even if the date is going great this will

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give room for another date soon! Leave time to get to
know more about someone on a second, third and fourth
date. There is no hurry your instincts will know when it’s
right.
Walk out of your home looking your best. Now if it’s the
weekend and your running errands dress comfortably
cute. Looking your best creates a great feeling which will
attract people to you. And you never know when or
where the opportunity will present itself to meet your
Mr. or Miss right.

When you meet someone with soul mate potential

Don’t get carried away. Get to know this person. Really
take your time to identify true love. Distinguish between
a hope or fantasy and the real thing. Remember your
soul mate is human with flaws. Accept people for who
they are. Unrealistic expectations can ruin a relationship
and even chase your soul mate away. Appreciate and get
to know their individuality and trust that this person will

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never need to change who they are for you and vice
versa. Trust in your gut it will feel different. Know that
this relationship will progress at the speed it should. Be
patient, trust the process and focus on what your desire
is.
There are ways to know if this person is or very well
could be your soul mate. Here are some things to look
for. You feel a certain sense of knowing this person
when you’re with them. Almost as if you have known
them for a long time. Some say from a past life. It’s easy
for you to be yourself with this person. It feels different.
You just get each other. There is a mutual and loving
respect that you both have for each other. You learn to
fall in love with this persons flaws. It can be hard to be
apart from each other not only physically but mentally
you are very in tune with each other. Often times you
might be thinking of the same thing or pick up the phone
to call each other at the same time. Your soul mate is
like having a guardian angel next to you. You look out for
one another and have one another’s best interest at

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heart. A soul mate bond is one that is not easy to walk
away from. It is often times hard to imagine your life
without this person. You tend to look each other in the
eye. This comes from a place of honesty connection, and
comfort. Soul mates more than others tend to do this
more often your values line up well with one another.
You don’t have to agree on everything yet it is fairly easy
to overcome conflict. He or she makes you want to be a
better person. You become your best selves together.
At the end of the day there is an intuition a knowing.
Even a feeling of being whole.
Although being with your partner is fulfilling they are the
frosting to a already whole life that you have.
Weather the storms… Meeting your soul mate is
wonderful but there are and can be rough waters ahead.
Be patient and take the good with the bad. Use loving
and healthy communication as a means to resolve
conflict. Do not blame or accuse. All good relationships

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do take effort and some work. You will come out the
other side happier and closer than ever.

Things to avoid
Don’t repeat your patterns of the past. You are aware of
what they are. That goes for DO NOT get in to an
abusive situation which will cause you to lose trust in
yourself and others. You are not responsible for other
people’s problems. Leave if your insulted, threatened,
someone is or becomes addicted to alcohol or drugs or
manipulates you to get what they want. That is not love.
If you have been involved in relationships that have gone
down this road in the past then I caution you to take your
time in getting to know someone. In doing that don’t get
too caught up in the romance of what you want a person
to be or think they are because you are seeking a soul
mate. Be honest with yourself and check in with a
trusted confidant or professional as your getting to know
this person. Make a deal breaker list. Remember these

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as your getting to know a new person. Also bring them
around your friends and family. They are generally a
good gage. They love you so they have your best interest
at heart.

Follow the signs

This is where trusting yourself and your intuition come in
to play. My background as a high end matchmaker I
have seen many people manifest their destiny by
following the signs and having some faith. A client of
mine had been really discouraged and down in her luck
in love. When she came to me she had almost given up.
She had a full life with a great career, family, and friends
she was just attracting the same kind of emotionally
unavailable men and finally with a little intervention we
stopped the cycle. I had her going on a number of dates.
Many of which I chose for her. My one request was that
she be open and do the work that I requested. (Not
always easy) It included a lot of reading and a re-

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cultivating of her life. She started taking up hobbies that
she had never known that she liked. She developed a
love for pilates and hiking. She had many suitors at one
point. We would discuss different people she was
spending time with. And then one day she called and
said “ok I am finished dating.” I remember being
confused I said you can’t give up. She said no I met him.
He was one of the suitors she was dating. She “knew”
because they just got each other. They always laughed
and she left feeling like a better person every time she
was with him. They got married this last spring. By his
encouraging she gave up her corporate job to pursue her
passion in the wellness industry and teaching pilates.
These clients could have easily thrown in the towel and
given up on love. They and many others have overcome
their own blocks that held them back from bringing their
soul mate to them. They were both open to any and all
opportunities that were placed before them.

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Don’t be attached to how it happens
Expect the unexpected. Keep an open heart and mind.
Things in life aren’t always as they seem. Be open to new
opportunities and most importantly new people. Be
present wherever you are in public. Meaning don’t have
your face in your cell phone reading text messages or
emails. Smile, look around and be present to the activity
around you. Create conversation with someone next to
you in line at the grocery store or coffee shop. Have a
smile on your face and a good attitude this again will
draw new opportunities to you. You never know where
cupid is waiting to shoot his arrow!
Don’t be scared! This is exciting. The more chances you
take the more likely that you will bring your love to you
at lightning speed. Dive in to the deep end and know that
you are not alone. Your love is much closer than you
think.
Allow the wanting to be in a loving relationship. Make
friends and peace with your desire. Know that your soul

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mate’s desire is the same. “In soul mate relationships
lovers meet one and other halfway”. Your honest
wanting for your love connects you.
Once you take these very simple steps:
Owning your desire
Visualization and feelingization of your soul mate
Creating an action plan and executing
Don’t give in to old habits
Keep an open mind of all the possibilities
Fall in love with your life!
Don’t be attached to how it happens
Don’t forget to be open and smile

I know this is a lot to implement in your life all at once.

The key is to have fun with it, enjoy and appreciate the
adventure and don’t forget to let it go with a knowing

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that the person you’ve been waiting for is coming to you
very soon.
I can assure you will have so much to be grateful for
soon. I am very excited to hear how it unfolds and
happens for you.

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