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So here is a list of 9 behaviors that can push people away from you.
Being judgmental
Judging people can play you a bad joke, if it is a behavior that has become a habit for you. We, people, can act differently
depending on our current situation and on the people we are with. This is why judging people isn’t a good idea. A person will
usually show you only as much of themselves as they wish to when communicating with you. Have in mind that before you
conclude who somebody is for you. You never know how they are feeling on the inside or what is going on with their lives at
that moment.
Lacking delicacy
Saying the wrong thing at the wrong time can sometimes cause a lot of drama but it has happened at least once to most of
us. Lacking delicacy is another thing. It’s when jokes go beyond the borders of the “friendly rudeness” (we all have those
friends with whom insulting each other is the way we show our love), it’s when you touch someone on the raw, it’s when
you use your friend’s weaknesses against them just to defeat them in an argument. As Mark Twain says, it’s better to
remain silent and be thought a fool than open ones mouth and remove all doubt. Don’t give up on straight forwardness, just
keep in mind that words sometimes come out as bullets, so watch your aiming.
Being self-centered
Putting yourself first is essential for growing into a successful and content individual. But make no mistake – being self
centered and blind for the presence of others as equal people is another story. If your only topic when in a conversation
tends to be “you” and you get fed up with listening to other people’s stories, problems and opinion, then you’d better change
having friends with having a mirror. Because friendship is not a oneway street but treated as such, it will probably reach the
“no outlet” sign anytime soon.
Lacking punctuality
This concerns not only arriving on time. A punctual person is someone who stays behind their words, whose promises don’t
fade overnight, who acts according to the prompts. Not being able to be present at the exact appointed time can make your
friends nervous and unwilling to make arrangements with you. This can have a seriously negative impact on your job
performance, too. In a more figurative way, lacking punctuality is connected to the values of an individual, which tend to
change with the weather. No one would ever choose to rely on such a person. This is a certain way to alienate people.
Becoming a workaholic
There is nothing better than falling in love with your job and being dedicated to it. But the positive aspects of this can easily
turn into a negative facet of your life. Not having time for anything other than work can turn into negligence for the closest
people around you and yourself. When you are too dedicated to your job, you risk reaching a point where nothing is as
important as work neither you family, nor your health. Be careful when you choose your priorities because losing people
you treasure is not worth any money you earn.
Did any of those behaviors sound familiar to you? If you have found yourself in any of them, don’t be paranoid that you will
lose all your friends because you possess some negative qualities. WE ALL DO! The point here is to stop for a second and
think about them. A recognized problem is a halfsolved problem. Believe in your goodness but always doubt your
flawlessness!
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