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Empty Mirror: here is the Deep looking session. I have been wanting to do this deep
looking for the last few weeks but I have not had time. It looks like I might get a
chance to focus on it the next 4 evenings (California time). I went through a gate of
some sort back in June. I saw through the illusion of a separate self (or maybe half
aw??), but I never saw the oneness.
Empty Mirror: So what is it that you makes you feel that there is separation here?
Roya: when I stop and look, I don't see separation. But that is not the experience in the
market place.
Roya: Everyday living. When the awareness of "I" not existing as a separate standalone
thing is not there
Empty Mirror: Ok. So let's look at this self that is taken seriously to exist.
Empty Mirror: What is it? What is this sense of self based upon?
Empty Mirror: No it is not based on words. Take a much deeper look and tell me again.
Empty Mirror: Tell me what this sense of self has at its very core.
Roya: The non-extent self has nothing at its core. Beside that there is a sense of here-
ness.
Empty Mirror: The one thing that you know beyond any doubt is that you exist - because
you are aware of this sentence.
Empty Mirror: So you can say beyond any doubt "I exist" - but you are not sure what
you are - right?
Empty Mirror: Ok. But when you say I, or think of self, you are referring to this
"beingness" right?
Empty Mirror: Only because you see the body as something separate from this.
Empty Mirror: correct. But let's look at this I that you are referring to
Empty Mirror: Not in relation to the body - why in relation to the body?
Empty Mirror: The body only shows up when there is awareness of it.
Roya: yes, seeing it, hearing it, feeling it
Roya: smelling it
Empty Mirror: No - the body doesn't see, hear or feel. Only thought says that.
Empty Mirror: Experience is not experienced by the body - the body itself is an
experience.
Roya: Would I be correct to say unless there is a thought nothing exist?
Empty Mirror: Well unless there is a thought, emotion, image, sensation, smell, taste, or
sound, then nothing exists - yes.
Roya: Yes, not experienced by the body. But body is seen, voice is heard, feeling is felt
Empty Mirror: So now let's go back to looking at what it is that you are TRULY
referring to when you say "I".
Empty Mirror: Well yes, but you earlier said a "hereness" - a sense of existence.
Empty Mirror: But that sense of existence is based, at the deepest level, on a knowing
that you are here.
Roya: Yes, there is this sense of hereness but I don't know if I call it I. I don't call
anything I after LU
Empty Mirror: And that "knowing" is the awareness that this has of itself.
Empty Mirror: It's very important to release any fear of the word I, so that you can
discover what "I" really points to.
Empty Mirror: It's very important that you look closely at what this sense of "aware-
beingness" is.
Roya: ok
Empty Mirror: At the deeeeeepest level. When you say I, you are referring to this sense
of "aware beingness"
Empty Mirror: Please take a close look and see if you disagree with me.
Roya: Ok, there is a big hesitation to it I even before LU. How do you say I without
identifying
Roya: How?
Empty Mirror: You have a mental picture of "I" as an individual, or a person. Remove
that picture.
Empty Mirror: Just look closely at the core of what you ULTIMATELY refer to as I.
Empty Mirror: Later we will replace it with lemon-meringue pie if you like
Empty Mirror: So now. What do you see at the root of what you refer to as I
Empty Mirror: Now let's look at what it is. Let's see if we can find any separate thing
here that is doing that.
Roya: No I can not and also I can not find anything that is not separate that is doing that
either
Empty Mirror: So now let’s look at whether there is anything here that is separate from
anything else.
Empty Mirror: Yes they APPEAR separate, but are they? Let's look at a dream analogy.
When you see a table in a dream, is the table separate from the dream?
Roya: no
Empty Mirror: Ok, so you can see that a dream is one seamless whole right?
Empty Mirror: There are no separate things in the dream - it is one dream with apparent
separate objects in it.
Empty Mirror: This that you call a "universe" (of thoughts, emotions, sensations, people,
etc, etc) is one seamless whole - exactly like a dream.
Roya: As a matter of fact I only know it was dream because I am aware that it was all the
same fuzzy thing (dream)
Empty Mirror: Look at direct experience without any beliefs and you will see this.
Empty Mirror: And this is the same fuzzy thing - it only seems different because imges
are crisper, and it has more APPARENT "continuity".
Roya: Yes, what you say makes sense and I agree and yet that is not my experience
Roya: yes, and that is why we call this reality and present moment. That is how it is
defined to be
Empty Mirror: Did you read the "driving to the airport" dream analogy in Vivi's thread
on Deep Looking?
Roya: In thought only. Past is little less clear and crisp and future is very hazy and gray
Empty Mirror: From that analogy can you see that the past is a present appearance of a
non-existent time - just like the future is?
Empty Mirror: What is the difference between being really drunk and being really sober?
Empty Mirror: Both are waking states but the experience is different - perhaps a little
"fuzzy" in the drunk state.
Empty Mirror: They are just different experiences showing up. Just like sleep and
waking are.
Empty Mirror: Ok, so there is no separation in ANY experience - drunk, sober, wake or
dream?
Empty Mirror: Excellent timing. I need to go and feed the birds and fish.
Roya: Yes, when looking at it there is no separation (not a real one) in experience.
However when going through it, it is very different
Roya: Oneness is not about me agreeing that there is no separation in ANY experience is
it?
Roya: Either you have a lot of birds and fish or you were not joking when you said they
are wild
Empty Mirror: Sorry Roya. Got caught up in a long telephone call in the middle of
everything
Empty Mirror: You said: "Yes, when looking at it there is no separation (not a real one)
in experience. However when going through it, it is very different"
And you said, "Oneness is not about me agreeing that there is no separation in ANY
experience is it?"
Empty Mirror: You said earlier that you could see that there was no separation, but it
wasn't your direct experience. What did you mean by that?
Roya: My experience is no different when I see that there is no separation than it was 100
years ago before I saw that. I guess I am looking for proof in my experience and I look to
see different behavior or something
Empty Mirror: Why would behaviour change just because something that was always
like this, is seen to be like this?
Roya: Are things different for you now than before you had the realization?
Empty Mirror: Things are seen from the perspective of the whole, so there is a different
way that "this" is viewed - but emotions, thoughts, sensations, etc, etc remain the same.
Roya: I know that one. I saw it when I saw through the illusion of a separate self. Things
should not change. So what is a difference between you and those who have not crossed
any gates?
Empty Mirror: The richness of the whole, and the depth of the whole are seen in
everything once the whole is seen.
Roya: Yes, ok, id there any effect as the result of this holistic viewing
Roya: Ok, I have not seen the whole. I can logic my way there but I don't see it
Empty Mirror: Let's just look at this idea of separation that remains. Do you think it's
possible that you imagine separation because you believe that there are others having
their own experiences?
Empty Mirror: Ok, but you can see a dream as a seamless whole right?
Empty Mirror: Well do you believe that there are experiences happening to "others", that
you are unaware of?
Empty Mirror: Do you believe that there are others who are having thoughts, sensations,
etc, etc?
Roya: I know others don't exist unless I think about them or see them or hear them but
Empty Mirror: It is weird because if you believe that then you have to believe that these
particular experiences belong to an individual - right?
Roya: That I believe is true for me. They don't exist for me. But I guess that is different
from their side
Roya: Wired because they can't exist. Nothing exist; not really
Empty Mirror: When Roya is interacting with "another" who/what is aware of it?
Look carefully here.
Roya: I guess I look at others by putting myself in their place and if I/Roya don't
exist,then they don't exist but I miss something here. every time I put myself in their
place, I also put here-ness there as well
Empty Mirror: Exactly - you are projecting the knowing of "this" onto things that show
up in/as it.
Roya: So if there is here-ness here then there must be here-ness there as well. At least that
is the assumption
Roya: here-ness
Roya: So what you are saying is that there is no here-ness there?? This is a new thing for
me to see
Roya: Ok, I got to see that here-ness does not happen with this body. When there is an
awareness of here-ness body and all that goes with it is seen
Empty Mirror: No I am not. Please just look, and describe for me carefully, and as
clearly as possible, what you mean by the "hereness" that is aware of any conversation
that Roya has with "another".
Roya: I don't know what is seeing. Why is this here-ness so Roya centric?
You are not answering my question. Please just look, and describe for me carefully, and
as clearly as possible, what you mean by the "hereness" that is aware of any conversation
that Roya has with "another".
Roya: why does it not say "yes" when someone says John?
Roya: ok, here is where thought are heard/images seen, feeling are felt, sensations felt
that is not seen/heard/felt by others.
Roya: Here has a directional view (to its left, to its right, etc). That directional view
moves with the body
Empty Mirror: Yes, but describe this "here" or "hereness". What are its qualities?
Are they not a sort of "aware beingness" or a sort of "intelligent presence"? What are its
qualities?
Empty Mirror: No, the view doesn't move with the body. Stuff moves through "the
view". Check that out with direct experience.
Roya: That is difficult to see because I have not been able to see this body from the front
like I can see other bodies.
Roya: Yes it is intelligent. but that does not mean that it could not also be there with
others, why could they not have this same intelligence
Empty Mirror: Forget about imaginations about what others are seeing. Just look at
direct experience.
Empty Mirror: You don't see the back of your dream character - but that doesn't make
you believe that you are your dream character Roya
Empty Mirror: Please describe this "hereness" that is aware of EVERYTHING that
shows up.
Empty Mirror: Ooops. I have to go now. My playmate has just arrived home, and she
wants to play.
I am GMT+10 hours. Can be back on here for a few hours about four hours from now,
then it's bed time.
Empty Mirror: In the meantime please look very closely at the nature of the "hereness"
that is aware of everything.
Roya: Got to go to sleep. I'll look at this more tomorrow. thanks for the time tonight.
Empty Mirror: Agreed Roya. it can't be seen heard touched or smelled, but it knows of
all of those things.
So would it be fair to say that you are talking about an "aware beingness" or a "knowing
presence" if you prefer?
Empty Mirror: I have to go to bed now. So I will look for your answer in the morning
Roya: I have access for a short time; later tonight I should have a longer access. Yes, it is
aware of everything in its foreground and there is nothing that is not in its foreground
including itself; it makes knowing possible and that is why it can not be known itself; it is
NOT (does not exist) so everything else can BE; can exist (nothing, NOT A THING is
left out of this EVERYTHING, not even emptiness or nothingness). And IT is; here
always (i guess that is what you mean by being-ness).
Empty Mirror: This "knowing beingness" that you say "makes knowing possible". Do
you see that NOTHING ever shows up without the knowing of it?
Roya: yes,
Empty Mirror: Ok. And similarly, the knowing NEVER shows up "empty". The
knowing always only shows up with what is known.
Do you see that?
Empty Mirror: There is never the knowing without something that is known.
Roya: I don't know what I don't know' is that what you mean?
Empty Mirror: No, I mean do you see that knowing NEVER shows up without
something that is known?
Roya: ok
Roya: I see that knowing and known are indivisibly one. What is turning my head is
"knowing NEVER shows up without something that is known".
Roya: something shows up and there is knowing that I don't know what that thing is. This
is still knowing. Yes?
Empty Mirror: You know that there is something as yet unnamed showing up.
Empty Mirror: Has knowing ever shown up empty? Can knowing exist without what is
known?
Roya: No. Even when there is no thing, there is knowing that there is no thing
Empty Mirror: When has there ever been knowing of no thing?
Roya: Yes. The standard assumption is that the thing is always there and one only
become aware of it. However, in direct experience, there is no proof that it was there
before awareness of it
Empty Mirror: Dreamless state of sleep is only a presently arising imagination of a time
in which there was no knowing. There is no such thing as dreamless sleep. There is only
ever a story about it showing up in the knowing of the story.
Empty Mirror: Neither can be there "before" the other because they are indivisibly one.
Empty Mirror: We spoke before about the seamlessness of this "universe" when we went
over the drunk, sober, sleep, etc.
Roya: looked quickly and didn't find it. Let me see if I can remember it
Empty Mirror: What is the difference between being really drunk and being really sober?
Empty Mirror: Both are waking states but the experience is different - perhaps a little
"fuzzy" in the drunk state.
Empty Mirror: They are just different experiences showing up. Just like sleep and
waking are.
Empty Mirror: Where is the separation in this, if there is no separation in a dream?
Empty Mirror: Ok, so there is no separation in ANY experience - drunk, sober, wake or
dream?
Empty Mirror: Ok, so there are no separate things in the dream. You couldn't subtract the
table from the dream as if it was a real separate dream object.
Empty Mirror: A "dream universe" character shows up and then a "waking character"
shows up in a "waking universe". Where is the dreamer?
Empty Mirror: What is the dreamer? Nothing is telling a story except for thoughts.
Empty Mirror: Because you are imagining that there is an individual somewhere.
Empty Mirror: Ok, so a seamless universe shows up, and it is the known right?
Empty Mirror: It is one seamless universe with no separately divisible parts - just like a
dream, and it is known of. Do you see that clearly?
Roya: Yes. I can logic that. I am not sure if that is the same as seeing it
Empty Mirror: Do you see that the universe is limited to whatever is experienced in this
moment, and that there is NOTHING in existence "outside" of what is showing up right
here, right now?
In the same way that when a dream character walks out of a dream room, the dream
character no longer has any existence "outside" there somewhere?
Empty Mirror: Apparent parts only. Just like a dream seems to have apparent parts.
Empty Mirror: So there is this one seamless "universe" that is known of right?
Empty Mirror: Ok, but forget about that for now. That's just something showing up in
this seamless "universe" right now.
Roya: I know intellectually that everything is part of this whole but I don't see it
Empty Mirror: Please quickly reread the past twelve posts Roya.
Roya: Yes, this one universe (all that is available through five senses right here, right
now) is all that is known in direct experience
Empty Mirror: What is the difference between seeing a "dream universe" as one
seamless thing, and seeing a "waking universe" as one seamless thing?
Roya: Believes?
Roya: Don't Kid take dreams to be real until they learn it is not?
Empty Mirror: You are asking the questions instead of looking for the answers that are
right in front of you.
Empty Mirror: Let's forget about the "waking universe" because there is no difference
between the two, so let's just look at the "dream universe" because you seem to be more
comfortable with that.
Do you see that a dream is one seamless whole? One seamless experience?
Roya: yes, I see it. But the dream character(s) does not.
Empty Mirror: Exactly!! The dream character sees NOTHING. None of them do.
Empty Mirror: So what you are saying is that the dream is seen by this "knowing
beingness" that you refer to when you say "I" right?
Empty Mirror: The same thing that everything in the "dream universe" is known by
right?
Roya: right
Empty Mirror: And we already know that nothing arises separate from the knowing of it
right?
Roya: well, by the character in the waking universe who pretends to be the know-er.
Empty Mirror: nothing is known by any "character". Please just answer the question.
Roya: I knew you are going to say that. Yes, only knowing knows anything
Empty Mirror: Ok, so there is a seamless "dream universe" that is known. And the
knowing of it is not in ANY WAY separate from the "dream universe" right?
Empty Mirror: But you also know that "you" (not Roya - but the "knowing beingness"
that you refer to when you say "I") know of the dream, right?
Roya: right
Roya: I thought the "knowing being" and "knowing" are the same. The "But you also
know..." statement makes me thing I missed something What you said here "Ok, so there
is a seamless..." and "But, you also..." seem you are talking about two different things.
Empty Mirror: If the dream is not separate from the knowing of it, and you are the
knowing of it - then can you see that you (not Roya) are this dream that knows of itself.
Roya: Yes if x=y and y=z, the x must be = z Let me see if I can see this all at once (that
x=z)
Empty Mirror: This seamless, self-aware "universe" is what you are. And Roya and I are
just appearances in you.
Empty Mirror: "Mind" is just a stream of thoughts showing up in the seamless self-aware
universe that this is / 'you' are.
Empty Mirror: It is ALWAYS seen together. Only thoughts say that it is not.
Roya: Yes, it makes sense; intellectually (if that means anything). Can logic it but Not
seeing it as a whole. I wonder if I something is being missed or just needs brewing
Empty Mirror: All that is standing in the way is the belief that there are other thoughts
that others are having, and other experiences that others are having.
Empty Mirror: Are there any "others" ANYWHERE in the "dream universe"?
Roya: That might also be in the way. But right now, I am stuck with this:
Empty Mirror: Nobody, and nothing anywhere has ever known anything. This self-aware
universe that you are knows of itself.
Empty Mirror: You are dividing things up again, as if they can be divided up.
Empty Mirror: The dream ALONE is aware of itself as its SEAMLESS ONENESS.
Empty Mirror: I only say "dream universe" because you think that there is a significant
difference between a "dream universe" and a "waking universe".
Roya: This must be one giant never ending dream; or it must be stuck in a loop
Empty Mirror: Have you read the dream analogy about driving to the airport?
Empty Mirror: Beginning and end are just time-bound concepts showing up in this
timeless oneness.
Roya: Ok we said this experience now is one experience. Doug barking, hands typing, lap
top and desk images, etc. Other things shows up later (I know that is only a concept).
Dream universe is limited, there are more than one dream
Roya: yes, I did. It made sense. But that can't be the only dream or it gets boring
Empty Mirror: Here it is again: Ok, this is a dream analogy of how all time is contained
in an instant Roya.
In the opening instant of a dream you find yourself speeding along a highway towards the
airport, because you're late for your holiday flight, because your wife couldn't find her
passport.
Now you will notice that this is just the opening instant of the dream, yet it contains a
whole "history" of being a person who is an adult, and married to a woman who left her
passport behind, etc, etc, and it contains "memories" of having the drama with the lost
passport, and it has a whole imaginary future too, in the flight and the holiday.
Roya: This others again. There must be a connection you see. maybe I am missing it.
Yes, maybe not others as in bodies but others as in other experiences. Oh maybe
experience of other Royas, the one coming in time (more like imagining coming in time).
Empty Mirror: But at the start of the conversation you said that there were no others with
their own experiences Roya.
Let's stick with the dream analogy. Are there "others" with their own experiences in the
"dream universe"?
Roya: Did I say there were no others with their own experiences? I have to go back and
read that. Ok in case of dream, there are no others with their own experiences. That is not
where I get stuck. There are multiple dreams that is where I am stuck now. I see it from
the aspect of the waling character who has multiple dreams
Empty Mirror: So you see that dream characters have no experience of their own, but
you don't see that waking characters don't have any experience of their own?
Roya: No. That would make her the hereness (the knowing being) and we know she is
only a thought an object
Empty Mirror: So if Roya is not aware of any experiences why should others be??
Roya: Well, this is where I got mixed up. If there is here-ness (knowing being) where
Roya thought to be, then the conclusion (which I can see is a leap of imagination), is
same is for other characters.
Empty Mirror: But you just said that Roya wan't aware of anything!!!
Roya: Empty, did you see my post about time (the one before your last one)?
Empty Mirror: The knowing is not where Roya was. Roya is just something showing up
in the dream universe. Roya was never knowing anything. Roya was always part of the
dream universe that knows of itself.
Empty Mirror: Sorry Roya. I am not sure how we are setting up times here. I will be
back on here in about five hours time )from now) for a short while and then back on
again about four hours after that.
Please message me when next you see me online. I can't keep up with the notifications. If
you message me we can connect and get chatting again.
Roya: I will let you know when I can be online for an extended period, I will say that in
my post; (for today that should be around 8 to 8:30pm California time; it is 1:40pm now)
. As I have quick time like this morning and just now, I just make a post and I don't
expect you to respond until the time we agreed. If you prefer, I not post until the time I
can be here to go back and forth with you for at least 1 hour, let me know. I won't posts
outside that time.
Empty Mirror: Would you please explain what you mean in your last post.
Roya: Do you mean this "At the moment the experience is that: In this experience this
body which is different from all other bodies (has no face/head) is where Roya used to
thought to be. Still seen as a specific location. Behind this body is where this "knowing
being" feels (sensed) to be" ?
Empty Mirror: Yes. I'm not sure what you are trying to say because it seems to
contradict other things that you have said earlier.
Roya: In an earlier post I said place where "Roya" used to be thought to be. The place is
still here, behind this body, it is not Roya, it is this unseen presence knowing which is
before everything else: it is what knows what has been seen, heard, felt, tasted but itself
can not be seen/heard/etc
Empty Mirror: Ok
Empty Mirror: Now take a look at "this place behind the body". What else is it behind?
Roya: What am I contradicting?
Empty Mirror: Ok so it is 'behind' everything, but what happens if you turn around? Do
you see it?
Empty Mirror: Where is this 'behind' place?
Roya: no, then its behind again (behind the body), as I said before it is always the
background.
Roya: As I said before, This I-ness, Iam-ness, here-ness feeling has a location and body
(the one without a face and head) is its proxy
Empty Mirror: So what is seeing is always 'in the background' of something that
completely surround you?
Empty Mirror: What is its location if the body is just something in the foreground of this
'background' that you are?
Roya: yes; that is if I understand your question. It is even before itself, behind itself. This
behind goes on forever.
Empty Mirror: Why can the background not also be the foreground?
Roya: It is like the shadow as if sun was always shining at the face area.
Roya: "Why can the background not also be the foreground?" Well, when I try to see it, it
itself becomes the foreground for the background. It is always a step before
Empty Mirror: Please look carefully and tell me what it is, if anything, that separates the
background from the foreground.
Roya: Well that is how I define foreground, That which shows up, that which there can
be awareness of
Roya: They same way I can't show you a line where cheek ends and nose begins, or left
ends and right begins. I cant show you a line between foreground and background.
Foreground is creator of background and background is creator of foreground.
Roya: I Guess where are back at: the thing and knowing of that thing come together
Roya: I am seeing strong Identification with this body (which I know is in flux and itself
comes and goes). Do you see that?
Roya: Thought conditioning creates a lot of things that don't exist. And I expected to see
beyond that conditioning.
Empty Mirror: Because the 'foreground' is the known, and the knowing (which you refer
to as I) is the 'background'.
And you have already seen that the knwoing and known are indivisibly one. A thought or
image can not be separated from the knowing of them.
Empty Mirror: What do you expect to see except for what shows up in the
foreground/background?
Roya: No, it is just difficult (takes too long) to explain in a way that would make sense or
I won't look like an idiot
Empty Mirror: Ok . And don't worry about looking stupid because there is nobody and
no thing here but you anyway.
Really!!
Roya: First of all how anything exist (feels real) I don't know. When I look deep, I see
that things should not exist but they do.
Roya: Well, I will look stupid to myself; that is the only one that counts anyway (pre or
post any sort of gate).
Empty Mirror: There are no things here, but this show exists because it can. It's just a
random expression of the richness and fullness of this that you are.
Roya: I do expect some obvious stuff to happen. For example, I expect not assume there
is a body/arm when I see a hand. Or not assume there is a body (let alone a whole person)
when I see only a head. If I don't see, it does not exist. Mind creates what is not there.
Empty Mirror: Why would conditioned thoughts suddenly change? They are the show.
The show is on automatic.
Roya: When I look at what I call my body, I want expect it to not feel personal. Not to
have the feeling "It is mine". I expect to look at this body and it not mean any different
than looking at another body
Empty Mirror: The body feels NOTHING? The body is part of the show in which
sensations APPARENTLY associated with the body also show up.
Empty Mirror: Conditioned thoughts about the body remain. Why would they change?
Empty Mirror: The difference is that thoughts are seen for what they are. Just another
part of this ever changing show
Roya: It is not the body that will feel different. There is still the feeling of ownership of
body here. If this body is fat, it means something different than when another body is fat.
It is still very personal which for me translates to attachment, identification as
Empty Mirror: But you are all that is here to think anything about any bodies Roya!
Empty Mirror: There are no others here. It only seems like it.
Roya: What?
Empty Mirror: And when others seem to look disapprovingly at the body, there truly is
zero awareness behind those eyes.
Empty Mirror: There is zero awareness in ANY THING that is in the show.
Empty Mirror: The show which you ALONE are, is self aware.
Roya: Ok, I still believe in others; so I see them as bodies. I assume you don't, how do
you see others differently than you saw before
Empty Mirror: But it is clear that those bodies are just characters in the show including
John's body.
Empty Mirror: Perhaps you should read through the thread and give it some thought.
Empty Mirror: There is nobody and no thing here but this that you are
Roya: It feels too arrogant to say I am this. I just went through some realization that I am
not who I thought I was; although I see lots of remnant of it around. It is not gone/dead
by any stretch of imagination.
Roya: Also, I am afraid to let the ego get hold of the idea that it is the only show in town.
Empty Mirror: Ego/conditioning has always been there. Growing like a tree. It is part of
the show just like trees are. Why would it change? Why would the show change?
Empty Mirror: It has always been like this.
You have always been this self aware show.
Roya: Ok, I have to go now. Thank you for the time you have spent today and other days.
I guess at the end is about the connection and showing up and I thank you for showing
up. I will read this thread as well as the one with Ingen and will post if something comes
up.
Neil : Roya - just wanted to say you have NOTHING to feel bad about for expressing
what you express. there is boundless gratitude for the work you are doing, the openness
in which it is approached, and the willingness to LOOK. Thank you for your inquiry, and
look forward to more
Roya: Statement: I still have not had time read your thread with Ingen Findes, I plan to
read that. I have a thought that I still need to see through the illusion of others as I did
with the "I". Just as as in with the "I", there are a lot of proxies (which by the way have
not been seen through), there are proxies for "other". Like your response when I
mentioned arrogance earlier in the thread.
Empty Mirror: Ok, so you say that you can't see through the belief in others with their
own experiences?
Roya: I can reason how they don't exist but in the moment from my reactions I know they
are taken as very real
Empty Mirror: And in a dream others are taken as very real, but that doesn't mean that
they are real
Empty Mirror: You are imagining that there is a meaningful difference between a dream
and this as it is now.
Roya: I can see past is bunch of images that show up now. I can actually see that.
However as the images get crisper and crisper I don't see them as images, they feel real
Roya: I can see how all the faces and places and people are just dead images that get
flashed
Roya: But the images that are referred to as present/now are not so easily seen as only
images (I guess I am not still enough to see them).
This shows up as dreamy fuzziness and we call it sleep, this shows up as 'wakeful'
fuzziness and we call it drunk, this shows up a self consistent story, and we call it the
waking state.
There is nobody dreaming, or getting drunk, or being awake - this is just showing up as
different experiences.
Roya: They number of frame per second increases and it is seen as moving and alive
Roya: Yes, that is how fast also used to be seen. Alive. But Now I actually see the flash
of images as images (not like a movie). I know this now is also the same but I don't
experience it like I do the past.
Empty Mirror: You have no problem seeing that "others" in a "sleep dream" have no
experience of their own, but you can't see that it is the same in the "wakeful experience".
Why do you think that is?
Roya: I could say it is more intense in "Waking state", or is so vivid that makes it
difficult to see
Empty Mirror: You are imagining that because a dream has less consistency it is a
significantly different experience. It is not. The difference is insignificant.
Empty Mirror: So what if the "waking" experience is more vivid that "dreaming"?
Roya: remember we were talking about dreams. I could see that about dreams to go from
there to this NOW is not so easy
Empty Mirror: Hallucinations are more vivid than the waking state - does that make
them even "realer" than the waking state?
Roya: Yes, less consistency. NOW is so consistent (higher frames per second) that make
it not so easy to see.
Roya: "So what if the "waking" experience is more vivid that "dreaming"?" The "SO" is
that it makes it difficult to stand back and see it as just bunch of images
Empty Mirror: Wow. You had better never try LSD then
Empty Mirror: But Roya, can you not see that "waking" is just a more vivid experience
than dreaming is?
Roya: Also I look at a different place to see dreams and past that I do to see present
moment
Empty Mirror: Just because it is vivid doesn't suddenly make all others able to have their
own experience.
Roya: I can see past and dream with eyes close/ear plugged, etc. Present moment I open
eyes and ears
Empty Mirror: All that you are saying is that the experience is different Roya, you are
not explaining why you can see that characters in a "dream" have no experiences of their
own, but can not see that characters in "wakefulness" also have no experience or
awareness.
Roya: And I know it is not the physical eyes that see, physical ears that hear. However,
there is a different place/way
Empty Mirror: Nobody dreams a dream - this shows up as a dream and is aware of its
dreamy nature. Nobody is aware of a wakeful state, this shows up as a wakeful state, and
is aware of its wakeful state nature.
Empty Mirror: The body does not hear, sense, smell or taste ANYTHING Roya!!!
Roya: Even though I have seen that is not the eyes (subject) that see but that seeing is
happening. There still a very strong connection between the physical eye and seeing
Roya: "The body does not hear, sense, smell or taste ANYTHING Roya!!!", this I know
but that is not the experience. That is why I was saying that one of my expectation
(true/deep seeing) is that mind stops making things up that are not there.
Empty Mirror: Yes, that is an unrealistic expectation because thoughts have always just
done their own thing.
Empty Mirror: Is there anything believing anything Roya? Look carefully before you
answer?
Roya: well, that would imply time and a subject/object relationship. So in that I would
have to say no. But that does not remove my confusion. One day a thought "I am fat"
comes and it bring suffering (which I call believed), next day same thought "I am fat"
comes and brings laughter (which I call not believing) .
Empty Mirror: So there is just labeling of different experiences as "belief", and "not
belief", showing up in this then - do you see that? Think carefully about this.
Roya: Yes, I am trying to find prove that I have the realization that others or I don't exist
and I know from the gate that nothing can ever be proof of another thing. Everything only
proves itself.
Empty Mirror: The proof is in direct experience - look carefully and see whether this is
any different to a dream, aside from the "vividness".
Roya: Yes, I also saw this from Gate and forgot. Bunch of thoughts put together can be
labeled. Yes it is just labeling.
Empty Mirror: Is it absolutely clear also that nothing is labeling anything? Is it clear that
labels are just showing up in this?
Roya: Yes. Absolutely clear when I stop and look; like now.
Empty Mirror: This is always seen - even the idea that it is not seen shows up in this that
is always seen. And you are this that is always seen by itself.
Empty Mirror: Nothing in this can kill you because you are this.
Roya: " Is it clear that nobody and nothing stopped to look?", Yes, when I stop and look.
It is very clear.
Roya: "Do you see that I truly am you?" No this I don't see. And this is used as proof that
I still believe there is an "I" and "other"
Empty Mirror: If you ALONE are this seamless show in which I appear, what else could
I possibly be?
Roya: Yes, I and Roya are seen as just label pointing to what does not exist. Santa
Empty Mirror: If you ALONE are this seamless show in which I appear, what else could
I possibly be?
Roya: TO say I am this that shows up is resisted. Immediately there are all kinds of what
does that mean questions come up.
Empty Mirror: Well then let’s look at those questions. What does it mean?
Empty Mirror: There are no separate things here - there is just this one indivisible
seamless show that you alone are
Roya: Dream character is not separate from the dream. So I guess that implies that they
are the same. And since dreamer and dream are the same, then Empty, Roya and dreamer
are the same. What maybe standing in the way is are definition of what it means when I
you and I are the same. Just saying that can't be the same as knowing it in the bones
(figure of speech)
Empty Mirror: Empty and Roya are characters showing up in the show. Neither of them
experiences anything. Only the dream experiences anything. The only thoughts
ANYWHERE in this dream are the ones known by the dream that knows of the reading
of words here right now.
Empty Mirror: You ALONE are this show that knows of itself - I am an appearance in
you.
Roya: I see that this is the only show. I see that in this scene the Bodies that I call Roya
and other shows up. I can see that there is no one behind the words (actually I wonder if I
really see that because if I did, I might get scared; I panicked once when I saw that). It is
wired I both see and not see that.
Empty Mirror: The idea that something is not seen or seen is part of the show that you
are
Empty Mirror: Do you see that this is show that you are is talking to itself?
Roya: But there is a different feeling toward this body and another one. The feeling is
ownership (me-ness) about this body and its feelings/sensations come up but those same
ownership things don't show up for other bodies.
Empty Mirror: And do you see that all of what you said above is just a part of the show?
Empty Mirror: And please stop believing that the body has any sensations. The body
feels NOTHING.
Roya: Yes, I see that. Showed up just out of blue (when I ignore the images of a past that
show these hands did the typing; which are also part of the seen). I really think that
expectations might be in the way. There are thoughts like how come I don't have the
"recognition" everyone talks about (knowing being recognizing itself as this, or
something like that). I am still looking for proof, I guess. Persistent.
Empty Mirror: There is nobody else here to have any recognition of anything. The only
one aware of anything is this dream that you alone are.
Empty Mirror: Do you see that the idea that expectations may be in the way of
something are just part of the show that is always perfectly clearly aware of itself?
Roya: I still compare (their experience with mine). Which to me means I still believe in
others. I sound like broken record. I say I see and then turn around and say something
that contradict that. I am going to sleep on it.
Empty Mirror: In a dream the first person dream character may compare experiences
with other dream characters. Do those dream characters really have any experience to be
speaking about it?
Empty Mirror: Yes, I think that you have seen through the imagined controller, and that
is what seeing through the I is all about
Empty Mirror: But seeing through the I, as you have discovered, is not necessarily also
seeing through the idea of others with their own experiences.
Roya: "Yes, I think that you have seen through the imagined controller", I agree with you
about that. If there was an LU for seeing through imagined others, do you think I can
guide there?
Empty Mirror: In a dream the first person dream character may compare experiences
with other dream characters. Do those dream characters really have any experience to be
speaking about it?
Roya: "are you askign a dream character to confirm you Roya ?", isn't that what happens
at LU, bunch of dream characters confirm another before that "another" can guide.
Regardless of what that "other" believes?
Empty Mirror: Do you see that you are this show that includes a story about someone
who thinks they need to wake up? But only the show knows anything about the story.
Empty Mirror: And LU and guides who all know things is also just a show showing up
in the self aware show that you alone are.
Empty Mirror: Do you see that the only existence that I have is words on a screen?
Empty Mirror:
Fear for who?
The show?
Empty Mirror: Fear for this in which time and space and fear and joy show up???????
Empty Mirror: There is no "mind" to lose. There are just thoughts showing up in this
show that you are
Empty Mirror: What could this self aware show, that you are, ever fear?
Roya: Oh I so wish I could let go into that.
Empty Mirror: And in it the thought that there is something that needs to let go of
something shows up
Empty Mirror: Do you see that there is nothing here to let go of anything?
You are already home. And you always have been
Roya: What is it going to take? TO know that "You already are it'
Empty Mirror: Just this self aware show that you alone are
Empty Mirror: There has never been another life story anywhere, ever
Empty Mirror: You are this show in which a life story shows up.
Empty Mirror: Is there anything in this show that needs to let go of anything?
Roya: "Do you see that there is nothing here to let go of anything?", yes I can see. And it
is not easy to let go of nothing.
Empty Mirror: Do you see that the idea that it is not easy for something to let go of
nothing is just another thought showing up in this show that you are?
Roya: Yes. But does it work to say "I am this".
Empty Mirror: And all of that is part of this show that you alone are
Empty Mirror: Do you see that there is nobody backing away from anything?
Do you see that all of that is part of this show that you have always been?
Empty Mirror: How did you ever believe any of the show?
Empty Mirror: Just got caught up in the wonderful aliveness and craziness of it all
Empty Mirror: The show became a show about believing the show
Empty Mirror: There are no "things" here. There is just one indivisible show.
Empty Mirror: So what are you?
Empty Mirror: There has never been another life story show anywhere, ever.
Empty Mirror: And all of that stuff is just part of one indivisible life story show. They
are not separate things - just like a dream table can not be separated from a dream.
Empty Mirror: There has only ever been one show ever, anywhere. This is the only show
there is ANYWHERE,
Empty Mirror: If you know of this one indivisible show, and knowing and known are
inseparably one, what could you possibly be?
Empty Mirror: Nothing is hidden from you. Nothing can ever be hidden from you, so
just look.
Empty Mirror: You have always been this "life story" show - and the only one anywhere,
ever
Roya: But I say the words to to see it, maybe just playing.
Roya: I am this
Empty Mirror:
Roya: Thank you to you and Neil for showing up for this.
Roya: I thought if I said "I am this" I would feel arrogant. But I feel humbled when I said
it now.
Roya: Normal
Empty Mirror: I am just an appearance in you pointing you back to what you are
Roya: Today it felt like what has always felt behind me just stretch a little. But it is shy
Empty Mirror: There is nobody to answer to. This question will keep coming up until
you realise what you are - whether the words come up as Empty Mirror: text or whether
they show up as thoughts.
I will leave you to read Ingen's thread now, but please don't leave without reporting back
tonight
Empty Mirror: Come back to this question when you're finished with Ingen's thread if
you like.
Empty Mirror: And don't imagine that there is someone here with any conviction or
awareness of anything. I am words on a screen.
Empty Mirror: So confusion is showing up in the show that is never confused about what
shows up in it.
Roya: Let's call this that shows up Santa Clause/God. What is the difference between
someone who is deluded in thinking that they are Santa Clause/God and the one that is
Santa Clause/God
Empty Mirror: Let's forget about any names. What is this?
Empty Mirror: Whatever you name it. It remains the same thing. A self-aware show.
Empty Mirror: There has never ever been any other show.
Empty Mirror: The show NEVER feels sad. The show knows of sad feelings showing up
in it - along with the singing birds, laughing children, fingers typing, etc, etc showing up
in it.
Empty Mirror: 'there is just a stream of concepts floating around in this show
Roya: Yes, using "this" did not fit in the question I asked
Empty Mirror: There is no person that can be deluded into believing it is the show
because the person is part of the show.
Empty Mirror: Forget about everything we have said, and just look.
Empty Mirror: The question "what am I?" NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER goes
away until it is answered.
Roya: Yes, it feels like a split personality. One time it is the character inside the show and
the next it is the watcher of the show
Empty Mirror: There is NO watcher of the show.
Empty Mirror: The show is self aware - the show knows of itself.
Empty Mirror: There can never be a split personality because there is nothing here but
the show.
Empty Mirror: If split personality shows up that is part of the one seamless and
undivided show that knows of itself.
Roya: It is like when you first learn to drive. At first you have two hands and two feet and
two eyes and they are all used in driving. Later it becomes natural, the car becomes an
extension of you
Empty Mirror: All apparent separation is a part of the show that you alone are.
Empty Mirror: I am an appearance in you pointing you back to what you are
Roya: I keep falling, keep falling,....... for ideas I know are not true.
Empty Mirror: A belief that there is another that is aware of this show, shows up in the
show. The show never "falls for ideas"
Empty Mirror: There is nobody that falls for ideas. Anybody falling for ideas is part of
the show.
Roya: Why is that question not intimate (here)? Why is "this" that you say is, keeps
asking others to tell it what it is?
Empty Mirror: There are no others. In this self aware show there is a character showing
up, and words on a screen showing up that's all.
Empty Mirror: The show never needs to ask anything about anything. It is simply self
aware.
Empty Mirror: So do you mean whatever this i,s it is alone and always has been?
Roya: yes.
Empty Mirror: so when you say: all come and all go but I remain", what you are really
saying that the show is ever changing but it is a permanent show right?
Empty Mirror: The show is permanent but what shows up in it comes and goes. Is that
what you mean?
Roya: well, I used to see all that come and go as separate. I don't think that anymore
although I fall more for separation than not
Empty Mirror: What is separate in a dream?
Roya: Yes, that is more palatable. show is permanent (at least so far), what shows up
changes. the fact that showing up happens is definite
Empty Mirror: The show has no preferences for what shows up. So "it is more palatable"
for who?/what?
Empty Mirror: Nobody is asking anybody anything. Words are showing up in the show
that you alone are
Roya: This "The show is permanent but what shows up in it comes and goes. Is that what
you mean?" is more palatable than "so when you say: all come and all go but I remain",
what you are really saying that the show is ever changing but it is a permanent show
right?"
Empty Mirror: And I was really just playing around with you
Empty Mirror: Do you see that there is nobody for anything to be more palatable to?
Roya: yes.
Empty Mirror: To have preferences you would need to be the thinker of thoughts. Are
you the thinker of thoughts? Or do thoughts just show up in you and do their own thing?
Roya: That that it had a preference for would not show up.
Empty Mirror: It could never have any preference because the show doesn't think
thoughts, it is simply aware of thoughts which appear in the show.
Empty Mirror: NOTHING needs to be "believed" here. Direct experience is always right
here and right now. This self aware show that you are, is aware of EVERYTHING that
there is to be aware of.
Empty Mirror: Read above and you will see that you already know what you are
Empty Mirror: There is nobody and no thing here but you. Only you have EVER known
anything.
Empty Mirror: There are just thoughts about ego showing up in the show.
Roya: Well, maybe not. It wants to be the only show in town but it really does not. Who
will it show off to?
Empty Mirror: Look for yourself and see whether that is true or not.
Roya: How could it be the only "show" in town if there are no other shows.
Empty Mirror: When you are all alone - what place does ego have?
Empty Mirror: There is just this one self aware show. Quietly playing away to itself
Empty Mirror: Freedom. Freedom to show up as anything. Fullness. Totally self
sufficient and without need.
This is the self aware show that you alone are.
Empty Mirror: The show is a show of the love of beingness that you alone are.
Empty Mirror: Part of the show says that something is hard to say.
Empty Mirror: I always. always, always always boils down to one question. What are
you?
Empty Mirror: So look now and see for once and for all.
Roya: a mystery
Empty Mirror: Yes - this incredible "show" that you have always been
Empty Mirror: The question is answered. The question will no longer find a place to
land.
Empty Mirror: It may appear briefly in the show, but as soon as it does, the answer will
also show up
Empty Mirror: Once the answer is known - it can never ever be unknown
Roya: Empty, I am still not seeing what comes and goes as this mystery.
Empty Mirror: The show is ALWAYS here. You are ALWAYS here.
Roya: I have glimpses as how what appears to come and go is part of the mystery.
Empty Mirror: You are this self aware show. But what this show is, is a complete
mystery because concepts are all that we have to use, and concepts are just abstractions
in/of this utterly indivisible and seamless show.
Any divisions of the indivisible are meaningless. So concepts are meaningless.
Empty Mirror: Who what is this "I" that has glimpses of something???
Empty Mirror: And what is the "something" that this supposed "I" gets glimpses of?
Roya: Yes, I can see that (maybe not as deep as you can; and I don't know how deep you
see this)
Empty Mirror: You are imagining that there is another that sees anything
Roya: "You are imagining that there is another that sees anything", yes I am.
Empty Mirror: You are this self aware show. There is nothing anywhere ever that exists
outside of the show, so everything ever known is known only by you.
Nothing is ever hidden from you - it can NEVER be.
So what is it a glimpse of? And how could it possibly be a glimpse. Whatever it is that
you saw has no place to hide from you.
Empty Mirror: I will just point out that you are NEVER tired. Tiredness shows up in the
show. And sometimes resting shows up.
Empty Mirror: Including seeing any thoughts about mind and confusion.
Empty Mirror: Do you see that there is no going back from here? Do you see that once
the show knows of itself, the thoughts about separation are quickly followed by thoughts
that refute the thoughts of separation?
It just happened in your third comment above this.
Empty Mirror: There is no we to speak. The Roya character in the show will continue to
go about its business, and appear to speak to others, and others will appear to speak to
Roya - but only the self aware show that you are, and in which they appear, will know of
ANY of it
Empty Mirror: The show has nothing to do. It simply is, and knows of itself.
Roya: Have you considered changing your name to relentless? And Mirror is also a great
one.
Empty Mirror: The show has nothing to do and nowhere to go. It simply is, and knows of
itself.
Roya: "There is no we to speak. The Roya character in the show will continue to.......".
Yes this I see. Although this seeing is not always in the show; it comes and goes.
Empty Mirror: Only the show can see what comes and goes in it.
Roya: Yes. I got to have a daily dose of your reminders (words on the screen) to not
forget and get lost in the dream (and before you bring it up: it is also the show) or not
Roya: "Only the show can see what comes and goes in it." Well this is what I said earlier
about the Mystery. How come when you say it, it is ok and when I do you trip me)
Roya: Ok, I see the difference is I was seeing the mystery that I am as the watcher of
comes and goes in front of it (including the Roya body) and not inside it.
Roya: I am this
Empty Mirror: So finally the question is answered, and in the answering of it, all
questions are seen to be nothing more than a show
Empty Mirror: There is nobody to be taken anywhere, but the show may include the
appearance of a "percolation of thoughts"
Empty Mirror: Even the answer is just a part of this self aware show that you are!!!
Empty Mirror: I hope the restfulness that shows up appears to lead to a refreshedness
showing up. Good night
Roya: And gratitude for the self-pointing that is called John, or mirror, or empty or
whatever name you come as