HOOK POINT

by Social Mastery (IN10SE)

I'm going to talk about an understanding that is very important to
GET and is crucial to your success with women.

I've heard this called the "Hook point" before (credit Style), but
I'm going to expand on this further with some of my realizations
about this. Let me illustrate with a recent interaction I had with
a chick:

I had walked into a coffee shop to read a book, I got my coffee,

sat down and saw this hot, tight bodied blond college cutie walk in
and stand in line. As she got her coffee, she headed over to the
place where they keep the sugar and cream - conveniently close to
where I was sitting.

I continued to read my book, and as she got close, I looked up -

she looked over and I took that moment to say, (credit g-string
opener to Badboy)

"Hey there, I only have a minute but I want to get a female opinion
on something - I have this friend who's been going out with his
girlfriend for like 2 years. and he's totally in love with her. But
the thing is - about 2 months ago, he cheated on her - and it was
just a one time thing, but the girl that he cheated with left her
g-string in his room, right under his bed - and the thing is, his
girlfriend found it. Now there was just all kinds of drama, and she
was crying and saying she was going to break up with him. but then
he tells her, "The g-string is mine! I didn't want to tell you
before but I have a thing for wearing women's underwear!" - And she
bought it! So now a couple of weeks later, the girlfriend is
thinking about this and starting to get turned on - and now she is
making him wear her g-strings every night! He's walking around the
house wearing her g-strings, and he's starting to feel like a
woman! He doesn't know if he should just tell her what really
happened so he doesn't have to wear the g-string anymore, or if he
should just keep wearing the g-strings because he wants to stay
with her. what do you think?"
As I was talking, the chick sat down and started to ENGAGE herself
in conversation with me. (Sub-communication) After about 10 minutes
of conversation, we switched to talking about relationships in
general and I started to go into some of my relationship themes. I
very quickly built up both attraction and comfort -

She had past the "hook point" - the point at which we were past
just casual comments, into an actual conversation.

In fact, in my understanding there is a "hook point" in every stage

of the seduction. And you'll know that you've past each of these
hook points by what a chick either sub-communicates to you, or
outright tells you.

In the attraction stage, the hook point is where a chick realizes

that she is attracted to you. This is the best time to pull her
away from everything else and get alone with her to move on to the
next phase - comfort building.

In the comfort building stage, the hook point is where she knows
that she's comfortable with you - to where she knows that you're a
"cool guy" who she can trust. This comfort is SUB-COMMUNICATED so
you have to watch for it in the things that she says, where you
read in between the lines, and in what she DOES. When a chick
reaches the hook point here, then you need to get her alone to
another place - where you move into the End Game.

In the End Game (Seduction) phase, the hook point is where the
woman decides that she's going to sleep with you. Now the thing is,
you want to be able to READ the sub-communication that a chick puts
out. For example, if she's willing to drive over to your house at 1
o'clock in the morning to "hang out" - then just realize that she
is sub-communicating that she's going to have sex with you.

Another point - always get a sense of whether you've past:

1) The attraction hook point
2) The comfort hook point
3) The seduction hook point

Because it will save you from spending any more time on any one
hook point when you don't need to. For example if a chick was
already comfortable enough to extract to your house, and then your
bedroom the first night, then why keep focusing on comfort and
rapport when you could be focusing on seduction and end game. I
know I've blown myself out before by focusing too much on rapport,
when I already have had enough for the context, and should've been
focusing on getting past and building up the attraction and then
the seduction/End Game hook points.

Also remember that hook points are the best times to isolate.
If you try to isolate to go into comfort and rapport stuff before
you've reached the attraction hook point, you'll blow yourself out.
She wont be interested.

If you try to isolate before you reached the comfort/rapport hook

point, you'll blow yourself out. She'll be wary of being alone with
you.

If you try to isolate for end game seduction, before you've reached
the attraction and comfort/rapport hook points - you'll definitely
blow yourself out. She'll have last minute resistance and it may
blow the entire seduction all together.

Now keep in mind that you don't have to spend ALL your focus on
just one hook point at a time. In fact, I'm contantly cycling
through both attraction and comfort until I reach both hook points
and have enough momentum in the seduction to move it into End Game.

One of the keys to being REALLY good at this stuff is to know

exactly where you are in terms of each of your hook points. They
are natural "bridges" that will take you from stage to stage in the
Game. I talk about this and so much more in my ebook GAME.

Check it out.

IN10SE
www.social-mastery.com

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