Changing Limiting BELIEFS about Seduction:

How to Recognize, Evaluate and Change Hidden Beliefs that May Be Keeping You from
Where You Want To Be

For the past 16 years, I have been listening to participants in Workshops; not only
the Workshops in which I have been involved, also the ones which I have attended
with Richard Bandler, John Lavalle, John Latourette and others in Technology and
Dan Kennedy, Joe Polish and Jay Abraham in Marketing. The consistent feedback is
the same. The attendees are happy with the information package presented and they
are stuck.

In the 25 years in the direct mail business, selling home study courses and talking
to customers and potential customers who call asking for assistance, the feedback
has been the same.

THE FEEDBACK: The information package I purchased is excellent and I intellectually

understand it, yet I am not producing the results I want. Something is in the way.

Recently I received a call from a young man. Some time ago he purchased the applied
NLP SS course. He practiced and became very proficient using the material. He found
the perfect girl for him. She was beautiful, had a great career position and made
good money, more than he did. The moved in together and five years they were happy;
so happy she wanted to get married and so did he. As the date got closer, he got
cold feet. He loved her and was very frustrated at his own behavior. They went to
see a marriage counselor.

During the session, the counselor asked if they had any conflicts, arguments,
fights, etc. Each said yes but they were small and mostly about his not wanting to
get married when he said he did.

Now listen to the counselor's reply, "Well it gets a LOT WORSE when you get
married."

This triggered a significant reaction from him. They did not get married; they
broke up. Her biological clock was ticking and she wanted to get married.

It may be obvious to you by now that his beliefs about marriage ultimately
prevented him from achieving the very thing he most wanted.

In our conversation, I asked many questions about his environment growing up and
experiences relating to marriage. Bottom Line: He could not relate any good
memories about marriage; none from his parents, none from his experiences in
church, none from school, none that registered with him for marriage.

Now typically what happens is that first significant event relating to marriage was
negative and set a belief, a filter, a bias. A belief that now looks for
reinforcement and discounts any good experiences as being irrelevant or the
exception to the rule, not real.

There's more. Having lost the perfect girl and not recognizing fully the marriage
belief effect, the brain starts rationalizing. He began to believe that he blew it;
that he could never find another and why bother. He began to punish himself for
what he rationalized as his big screw up. Remember, they loved each other and
wanted to get married. She began to believe it was about her... That's another
story.

I think we took care of this matter over the phone. I have not heard from him
since.

So here is a clue for you. If you have purchased any course from us or anyone else
and are not producing the results you want, then start looking for patterns,
patterns of behavior, patterns of speech, patterns of response you get from people,
etc.