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make a focus on changing their ways of working their thought process, their lower natures, they
will not be able to bring about a mass change in the people working for their company.
Attitude plays a vital role:
Now, like for example, now, we will understand in the subsequent slides it will be more easy
when you see. So, if you put this armor there are three things in this our attitude, behavior and
thinking core thing is attitude, whether it is Krishna consciousness or whether it is our material
success also and attitude plays a very vital role. If you have a highly positive attitude in your
behavior is positive and your behavior is positive.
“converting misfortune into good fortune is possible only by highly positive attitude”
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mind. So, critical all critical thinking, judgmental thinking, self-righteous thinking that is also a
bad mental habit.
“What you think of yourselves should match with what others think of you”
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change your habits will lead you to those good qualities, correct No. And by change this habits,
all these bad qualities will vanish. Just like on slide what they do one thing they put up and by
the next one comes the old one vanishes similarly the old habits, the habits have caused this bad
description in us. So this bad description can be wiped out by change, self-change.
Do more than 30 days – becomes habit
So, our bad habits may be coming to us because of wrong company, wrong company means,
wrong type of books we read movies we watch friendship and all that. And also sometimes we
have a bad habit but we are careless, careless, careless. They say that if you do the same habit for
more than 30 days, then it becomes a new habit newly formed habit. Like any of you, night a
little bit to talk to the extra half an hour and go to sleep one month you do that. Finished. That
goes tough new habit as climbed on your head, shoulders So similarly good things also, it will be
difficult for you keep on doing it for 30 days after that becomes a new habit for you.
“Bad habits are like nectar in the beginning, but poison at the end”
Observing logically:
Yeah, but how to change our thinking, thinking is a deeper thing right? change comes from
observing logically in every situation. Now we are going to talk about thinking, because
behavior.
So three things that will do
1. attitude
2. behavior
3. thinking
Thinking:
So let us go from thinking, then we'll go to behavior, then we come to attitude, the deepest thing.
So, thinking how to change your thinking, for that we are to use logic he is thinking now? See,
he's putting himself outside himself. You go outside your body, and then observe yourself. What
kind of person am I? You see, he is thinking about some habit. Some bad habit. It is like the
nectar in the beginning, but poison at the end. How did I get into this bad habit? What can I do to
defuse this? Defuse This means how I can nullify this bad habit in me.
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natural in the beginning, isn't it? But then later on all the syllabus remains uncovered. That is
poison. Correct no.
fasting he ate this one by one another. So, this way all the other friends they weakened his
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determination. So that is how this fellow is weakling fellow. See before doing that only one is
thinking one is weak, then how can one.
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“If your thinking is going negative re-write it and rescript yourself”
Behavior:
And then comes behavior is he know Firstly, talk about thinking then behavior then attitude for
thinking you need logic, logically somebody should explain to you why what you are doing is
right. So the thinking then only you can think properly because thinking involves intelligence.
So, if somebody tells see these 10 days if study 10-10 hours you will make it hundred hours. For
one chapter, you take this many hours, you Need actually 10 days and you're convinced then you
can think properly.
3 things to change behavior:
So, the same manner for changing behavior what we need, three things are required through
assessment,
determination and
discipline,
Logical approach for thinking:
Yeah, you need something else for behavior for thinking, you need a logical approach, logically,
somebody should prove to you. Like Krishna consciousness, now you all are able to become
devotees, because you logically got it step by step you got it your thinking was clearly brought
out. So you could now take to the behavior so far, but to have continued behavior, you need
determination willpower is required.
Find your faults and repair:
So that is determination mainly determination for behavior and determination. And the discipline
means regulation in habits. Like identify the right habit, and repeatedly do it that is discipline.
Whatever is good habit, repeatedly do it. Somebody goes in the bathroom and doesn't come for
40 minutes. So what you should do, you should find out what is the thing that takes so much time
for me and you will find the slowly puts soap on the top of the head to tip of the toe slowly-
slowly sitting very comfortably. And tomorrow, instead of 40 minutes now we'll make it 35
minutes I will make it 30 minutes 25 minutes. I cannot reduce anything less than this. Okay, now
let's stick to this and stick to it. And then you find it became 20 minute, 20 minutes, 30 minutes
for three, four or five days. Again, it's going towards 40, you will see that.
Change stepwise don’t jump:
So in this way, when we try to follow discipline, we again fall back to old habits. So don't try to
make big changes big changes are not possible. Imagine the person taking 40 minutes to bath can
he get ready in 15 minutes. Not possible so slowly change little by little bit small-small changes
introduce this small change for one week. Now tell yourself next one week I will take bath in 35
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minutes and then subsequent week I'll take about 30 minutes like that say One month you bring
about a change, try to get ready I'm just telling you an example you got it now.
Determined goals:
Yeah make some short term determined goals, and then the determination achieves small goals
like somebody gives you hey you eat this watermelon you will fall away isn't it? But if you cut it
into pieces small, small you say the one, one piece, eat and throw away throw it. And do you find
suddenly I have finished four watermelons correct no. So sometimes a big goal appears
unachievable, cut it into smaller goals. So that way gradually we will be determined.
Weightlifter Example:
Just like weightlifters what they do, they keep on adding weight, little more little more and then
one day they become like Hanuman ji lift a very huge weight correct. So, gradually add and see
and reactive people what they do and they're faced with the habit, the collapse like that they
collapse. See responsible people what they will do when stimulus comes, they have a choice, and
they carefully readjust their behavior. generally, I behave like this. But now I have a choice. I
changed my behavior.
Give a responsible response:
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My response, see, yeah, generally I'm tempted, for example, and I go to some smells coming,
come comme bhajji smell is coming into train. generally used to take out a penny and then buy
the bhajji and eat it. But now I am a devotee now wearing tilak and kanthimala everything and
chanting on beads now, they told me I should not eat outside not good. Then what do you do?
Although the smell is going into nose, no plug your nose still he passes away. We tolerate that is
your response, responsible response.
Unconscious of incompetence:
So what is the unconscious of incompetence? Initially you have so many bad habits we don't
know unless you sit down and write how many of you know some of your shortcomings you
know.
Conscious of incompetence:
How many of you know if you know you're not correct, no, that means you are conscious. See,
that's the second one. You're conscious of your own competencies. And we should write down
we should never fear These are my weaknesses. Physically- mentally both we should write.
Conscious of competence:
When you are conscious of it, then only you can change your thinking behavior and attitude. And
then consciously competent. your conquered the habit now. but you are conscious means what
You are careful like Unconscious of competence means
Another Example:
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Another example, unconsciously you are criticizing, judging others criticizing others finding
fault that's unconsciously. In second stages is You will start observing the words that come out of
your mouth and the thinking process. Hey My mind is judging devotees and I'm criticizing. The
third is gradually you change your mouth change your mouth means mouth the same only, but
you don't speak and then thinking also changes you respect your devotees and everything so
become consciously competent. But occasionally you commit mistakes. But fourth stage is,
unconsciously competent it comes natural for you to always glorify devotees like that. That's all
Shrila Prabhupada Ki..
Devotees: Jai.
Become super servant of Krishna:
So, next time when they come, I will tell you about what is the chapter proactive behavior means
that one slides I showed you don't be reactive, but choose your response that is proactivity
responsibly, making choice responsible response that is proactive behavior. So this is what many
of the business gurus found out. If whenever if you are able to give a responsible response you
will be a superman in your life. They have found out in terms of physical habits, mental habits. If
you really want to become Superman, become super servant of Krishna. You want to be super in
everything. Like one fellow, went to doctors with big obesity problem. Doctor said you need to
relax; you are overloading working. Doctor please help me to relax better and faster and I want
to be at the cutting edge of relaxation. Devotees laughing…….
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