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thehindu.com
Lakshmi Iyer July 26, 2020 00:02 IST Updated: July 25,
2020 18:36 IST
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its family, its birth history and severed from all that
it knows. As an adoptive parent, I gain a family. I
gain a child. I finally am a mother.
This is a strange relationship. One artificially
constructed, one that takes a whole lot of effort and
intention to supplant what was originally intended.
Insecurity has no place in this equation. Instead,
what is required is a great deal of empathy. As a
parent, it is imperative for me to treat any
statement from my child with curiosity, with an
intent to understand where those feelings are
coming from.
In a relationship like the one my children and I
share where my children not only lost their birth
family but also their birth culture and are
surrounded by people who do not look like them,
these questions are not only natural but expected.
All I have to offer from my end is a never-ending
well of love, compassion and empathy and a
willingness go to any lengths to make sure our
home is a safe space for my children. It is my duty
to make sure our home is where they can safely
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