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The Effect of Break-up on the Psychological Behavior of

selected Grade 10 Students in Natalia Velasquez Ramos

Memorial Integrated School

Presented by:

Acorda, Alexa Jade A.

Agustin, Anna B.

Daang, Cyron Keith

Juanico, Floyd

2020

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Acknowledgement

First and foremost, praise and thanks God, for his showers of

blessings throughout our research work to complete and to

successfully our research

To our parents we very much thankful because of their

understanding and continuing support to complete this research work.

To our teachers that always there to check our wrong spelling and

wrong grammar..

To our friend Elaizah Marie Abarquez who gave her support to make

an introduction. Thank you

To our classmate of our friends thank you for helping us to make an

introduction

Most of all, to our Almighty God, for us giving this endless blessings,

knowledge and strength to make this research possible

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Dedication

The research want to dedicate this study for those students

who we’re suffering after their breakups, The researcher’s also

dedicate this study for parents who have children came from breakup

. Researcher’s created this study to inform students and parents.

That break up and being in a relationship in this age won’t make you

successful insted it can make you feel sad

And stress. Well, it is base on the analysis of the researchers. For the

student or parents that will read this study the researcher’s hope that,

for student we hope that they realize that breakups were not good for

them. For parent we hope that after reaching this research , Guide

your children on the right path.

Alexa.

Anna.

Cyron.

Floyd.

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RESEARCH ABSTRACT

TITLE: “ The Effects of Break-up on Psychological

Behavior of selected Grade 10 Students

In Natalia Velasquez Ramos Memorial

Integrated School”

RESEARCHERS: Acorda, Alexa Jade A.

Agustin, Anna B.

Daang, Cyron Keith

Juanico, Floyd

TYPE OF DOCUMENT: Research Study

NUMBER OF PAGES:

ADVISER: Jenny Vie Q. Llanes

SCHOOL: Natalia Velasquez Ramos Memorial

Integrated School

YEAR COMPLETED: 2020

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Table of Contents

TITLE PAGE........................................................................................... i
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT......................................................................... ii
DEDICATION......................................................................................... iii
RESEARCH ABSTRACT....................................................................... iv
TABLE OF CONTENTS......................................................................... vii

CHAPTER I
THE PROBLEM AND ITS BACKGROUND
Introduction.........................................................................................
Statement of the Problem...................................................................
Significance of the Study...................................................................
Definition of Terms.............................................................................

CHAPTER II
REVIEW OF RELATED LITERATURE
Local Studies......................................................................................
Foreign Studies..................................................................................

CHAPTER III
SUMMARY, FINDINGS, CONCLUSIONS, AND RECOMMENDATIONS
Summary............................................................................................
Findings.............................................................................................
Conclusions.......................................................................................
Recommendations.............................................................................

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Bibliography
Appendix
Curriculum Vitae

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Chapter I

Introduction

Psychological behavior is a theory of learning based on the idea that all

behaviors are acquired through conditioning. The researcher’s want to

know how does break up affect the psychological behavior of a student.

Now in 21st century where in some teenagers are in relationships. Some

of them are broken hearted and some of teen are happy. This is why the

researcher’s want to know, what are the effects of breakup in every

student’s or teenagers because teenagers nowadays are really affected

after breakups. Some of them get stress, anxiety and depression. Not all

of them are getting enough attention and in some cases it can head to

suicide. Teenagers may get attention than to receive punishments from

their parents. They can get comforted by their parents.

Breakups affect students and their daily life. They cry a lot which is

normal. They don’t eat and making their life miserable. Most of the type

they feel perplexed of why is he/she was made. Sometimes they are

despondent because they are battered. Every excruciating happening in

their life make them feel anxious. Knowing that they need attentions. They

need to tell their friends, siblings or parents. Breakups make them fragile

that every minuscule words or deatails make them cry. Based on everyday

that researcher’s can see, even grades and mood of a student that come

from breakup get ruined. They prefer to be silent and not to talk that

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make them feel more anxious and confused. Maybe if they have

spontaneous friends or family they can easily move on with their life. If

there is one happy person that can make them feel energized he/she

won’t notice any sorrowful moment or emotions. Researchers need to

know move on. It’s just that we want to show more of luminous side of

every one in school.

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STATEMENT OF THE PROBLEM

This study sought to determine the effects of Break-up in psychological

behaviour of selected Grade 10 students of NAVERA MIS. The purpose of this

study is to anwer the following questions:

1. What are the effects of breakup in daily life of a student?

2. Why does a relationship end among student?

3. Based on the survey, how does beakups affect the psychological

behaviour of a student?

4. What possible suggestion/ recommendation on the negative effects of

breakup among the students?

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Significance of the Study

The objective of this is to know how the psychological behaviour of the

students get affected by their breakups.

In this study you can find out are the effects of breakup on students.

To Researcher

In creating this study, researcher will know the effects of breakup in

psychological behaviour of a student.

To Students

The purpose of the study will help them to find out , What are the effect of

breakup o psychological behaviour of a student.

To Parents

This research can help them to know what are the real emotions of their

children

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Definition of Terms

Break-up - is the termination of an intimate relationship by any means other than

death. The act is commonly termed "dumping [someone]" in slang when it is

initiated by one partner.

Psychology - the mental characteristics or attitude of a person or group.

Behavior - the way in which one acts or conducts oneself, especially toward

others.

Attached - full of affection or fondness, affiliated to another larger organization or

body.

Adolescent - in the process of developing from a child into an adult.

Disengagement - the action or process of withdrawing from involvement in a

particular activity, situation, or group.

Excruciating - mentally agonizing; very embarrassing, awkward, or tedious,

intensely painful.

Contradictory - mutually opposed or inconsistent, containing elements which

are inconsistent or in conflict.

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Chapter ii

Review of Related Literature

Foreign Literature

According to Field, Diego, Pelaez, Deeds and Delgado 2010. Brekup

distress and leansins for breakup including affilation, intimacy, sexuality and

autonomy reasons were studied in all university students who had experienced a

recent breakup of a romantic relationship. The sample was divided into high and

low breakup distress groups based on a median score on the Breakup Distress

Scale. Only the intimacy subscale differentiated the high versus low breakup

distress groups. These data highlight the importance of intimacy for romantic

relationships and the the loss of intimacy as reason for breakups.

Breakup destress in university students has been related to several

factors. Breakup distress has been greater for those who attributed the break up

to the other person the partner’s mood or insensitivity or to environmental factors

work stress or friend being descriptive to the relationship. Breakup distress in

university students has also been related to global negative belief about the self

cognitions reflecting self blame. In a study we conducted university students who

had high breakup distress scale score reported. Belief about the self and

cognitions reflecting self blame not initiating the break up that the breakup

occured and that they had less time since the breakup occured and that they had

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less time since the breakup occurred and thay had not yet found a new

relationship. In this study, university students who had experienced a recent

breakup of romantic relationship were divided into high versus low score group

base on the break up distress scale. Females had breakup distress scale scores.

Student with high breakup distress score also scored higher on the intrusive

throughs scale the the difficulty controlling intrusive thoughts scale. the difficulty

controlling intrusive throughs scale, the sleep disturbances scale. Females score

also scored higher on the intrusive throughts scale, the difficulty controlling

intrusive thoughts scale the sleep disturbances scale and on depression and

anxiety scales. In regression analysis, the most important predictors of the break

up, shorter time breakup occurred and higher pf the relationship prior to the

breakup this explained as mush as 37% of the variance suggesting that these

factors are important contributors to relationship breakup distress, but suggesting

that a large part of the outcome variance was not yet explained. In another study

on college students, the closeness and the duration of the broken relationship

predicted the intensity and the duration of emotional distress following the

breakup. At least one other investigator reported the greater levels of love were

associated with a decreased probability of recovering from the breakups. In a

longitudinal study, the primary reason for breakup among college students was

unequal involvement in the relationship. This phenomenon may be similar to the

“romantic disengagement” preceding breakups reported ny others. In that study

romantic disengagement, in turn was negatively related to intimacy, suggesting

the breakdown of intimacy as a reason for breakups.

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As cited in the Business Insider Magazine,2018- Breaking up with

someone is painful. According to scientific research this is because the same

areas in the brain are active when we feel heartbreak and when we feel physical

pain. Other studies have also shown that love is like an addiction, and losing it

can be like going through withdrawal. Psychologist Guy which believes

understanding why we feel, think, and behave as we do break-up is important for

recovery.

Anyone who has been through a breakup will tell you how much it hurts

when the person you care about the most tells you they don’t want to be with you

anymore, it can feel like your whole world is falling apart. The pain can also be

excruciating, Breakups can have a dramatic impact on our bodies. For example,

broken heart syndrome is a real condition with serious and painful symptoms.

Other studies have also shown how breakup stress can cause acne, loss of

appetite, and sore muscles. But as well as the body, our brains also go through a

lot after a breakup. In a post on Psychology today, psychologist guy which wrote

about the effects that splitting up with our partner can have an effect on our

brains, when someone tells you they are in pain after a breakup, they are

probably telling the truth. Psychologist Edward Smith from Columbia University in

New York City recruited 40 volunteers who had gone through an unwanted

breakup in the past six months. Then while MRI machine, they were asked to

look at photo of their ex-partners and think about how they were rejected. The

MRI scans showed that while participants were thinking about their romantic

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turmoil, in the brain associated with physical pain lit up. Another study from 2010,

published in the journal of neurophysiology, looked into why romantic rejection

causes a profound sense of loss. Anthropologist Helen E. Fisher from Rutgers

University and her team looked at areas at the brain associated with cocaine

addiction, to see if they could help explain the obsessive behaviours is

associated with love. They found that missing your significant other lights up the

some parts of your brain as cocaine users who are waiting for their next line. In

other words, love is addictive and breaking up with someone is like going through

withdrawal. These powerful withdrawal symptoms (from loss of love) Impact ous

ability to think focus and function in the broadest terms which thw psychologist,

wrote in his blog post.

As cited to Encyclopedia of Cross-Cultural School Psychology as schools

become increasingly multicultural, professionals need to be aware and culturally

competent. A deeper understanding of other culture’s values and the background

of people groups can aid in understanding defensive reactions. Likewise, a

deeper awareness of psychological defences can open a window into

understanding the values and fears of other cultures. Professionals should learn

what is valued, expressed, threatening, and socially unacceptable in the cultures

with which they deal. They should be particularly aware of unexplained self-

defeating, resistant, or seewingly contradictory behaviours in students, as these

may be signs of defensive reactions and the need to consider cultural factors,

professionals should learn the meaning attached to behaviours in other cultures.

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Cultural knowledge can help present professionals from inadvertenly defences

that can sabotage student relationships, academic performance, and

acculturation.

It is also worthwhile to consider what problem solving resources are

available and acceptable options within various cultures. Different cultural have

different expectations for how problems are to be resolved. Students may tend to

learn more heavily on emotional coping mechanisms when real problemsolving

option are limited by cultural expectations or when school resources are tailored

to the needs of particular culture. Cultural competency can produce creative and

sensitive resources for problem solving.

Finally, professionals need to consider their own fears, values, and

defenses. Working with other cultures can often produces conflict in values and

threats to one’s own identity and cultural values- Professional may at times feel a

need to depend their values belief and behaviour when confronted with the

differing values of another culture, being politically incorrect or being labelled a

racist can threaten one’s identity as a good person. Individuals as well as entire

institution can deny, rationalize, and intellectualize in an effort to maintain a good

image. Defenses on the individual and the group level can hinder relationships

with other cultures, block acceptance of responsibility, prevent genuine cross-

cultural understanding and stunt personal and professional growth.

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As cited in a article of PsycNET, 2018. Because remaining love feelings for

an ex-partner are negatively associated with recovery from a romantic break-up,

it may be helpful to decrease those love feelings. Love regulation is the use of

behavioral or cognitive strategies to change the intensity of current feelings of

romantic love. This study evaluated three regulation strategies: (1) negative

reappraisal of the ex-partner, (2) reappraisal of love feelings, and (3) distraction.

It was tested how these regulation strategies change love feelings for the ex-

partner, valence of affect, and motivated attention for the ex-partner. Participants

who were upset about a romantic break-up performed these regulation strategies

before passively viewing a picture of their ex-partner, during which their

electroencephalogram was recorded. Negative reappraisal decreased love

feelings and made participants feel more unpleasant. Love reappraisal did not

change how in love or pleasant/unpleasant participants felt. Distraction did not

change love feelings but made participants feel more pleasant. This suggests

that in the context of a romantic break-up, negative reappraisal is an effective

love down-regulation strategy, whereas distraction is an effective positive

emotion up-regulation strategy. Furthermore, all three strategies decreased

motivated attention for the ex-partner, as indicated by a reduced amplitude of the

late positive potential. This reduced motivated attention for the ex-partner could

make it easier to deal with encounters of (reminders of) the ex-partner. Love

regulation is a promising phenomenon with important everyday life and clinical

implications.

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As cited on Journals Plos One,2019. The occurrence of a stressful

event is considered to increase the risk of developing depression. In the present

study we explore whether the breakup of a romantic relationship can be used as

an experimental model to study a depression-like state during a period of stress

in individuals without a psychiatric disorder. The primary aim of our study was to

investigate: 1) whether individuals with a recent romantic relationship breakup

(‘‘heartbreak”) demonstrate symptoms of depression, 2) how to describe

heartbreak characteristics based on data from a comprehensive questionnaire

battery, and 3) whether this description can capture severity of depression

symptoms. Secondary, we were interested in gender differences with regard to

the above study objectives. Subjects who have experienced a relationship

breakup in the preceding six months (N = 71) or are in a romantic relationship (N

= 46) participated in our study. A questionnaire battery was administered to

acquire information related to depression, mood, the breakup and (former)

relationship. Principal Component Analysis with Procrustes bootstrapping was

performed to extract components from the questionnaire data. Even though our

sample of individuals who recently have experienced a relationship breakup can

be on average considered non-depressed, group-level depression scores were

elevated compared to individuals in a relationship (p = .001) and 26.8% reported

symptoms corresponding to mild, moderate or severe depression. We described

heartbreak by two principal components interpreted as ‘‘sudden loss” and ‘‘lack

of positive affect”, respectively. Highly significant correlations between the

component scores and depression scores were found (p < .001 and p < .001,

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respectively), although these correlations differed between the genders. Based

on these findings, we propose that the experience of a romantic relationship

breakup is a viable experimental model to examine symptoms of depression in

individuals without a psychiatric disorder. This way, stress-related coping and

depression vulnerability can be studied in further research.

Local Literature

According to Bernales, and Colonia, 2012. During adolescence, teens

become interested and involved in dating because of the desire to belong with

others. As a result, it is clear that over the time, romantic relationships gain in

importance. Adolescents crave to have an intimate romantic relationship.

Furthermore the theory states that humans “share” the same need to be a part or

connected with other individuals, and claims that all individuals may live life

better if they are connected. Myers (2010) supported the need to belong theory

by asserting people who find a person complementing their needs to whom they

can share their problems with, make those people more acknowledgeable.

Belongingness is supported by close, intimate relationship which tends to be

healthier and happier. Because of this need to belong, we can see nowadays

that most university students are synchronizing their time in both academic and

romantic aspect. Engaging themselves in this romantic relationship enables them

to feel that someone caresfor them, shows affection to them, loves them etc. in

fact, Furman (2002) reported that romantic relationships become more and more

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significant in their social world as they also develop from puberty towards late

adolescents in which it shows how prevalent is romantic relationships among

adolescents.

Moreover, some students on the University of the Philippines, Cebu

College have also involved themselves in a romantic relationship. Having in a

institution which promotes honor and excellence among its students gave them a

great challenge to maintain good academic. Considering that each professor has

higher expectations of the students, an increase of workloads which includes

projects, school papers, reports and challenging exams were given. Therefore

being college student of UP Cebu College gives them more responisibility and it

requires a great amount of time and attention.

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Chapter III

SUMMARY, FINDINGS, CONCLUSION AND RECOMMENDATION

This final chapter summarizes the study to enable the researchers to draw

conclusions and make the necessary recommendations.

Summary

The study aimed to discover how can break-up affect the psychological

behaviour of students. Specifically, the study seeks to answer the following

questions:

1.What are the effects of breakup in daily life of a student?

2.Why does a relationship end among student?

3.Based on the survey, how does break-ups affect the psychological behaviour of

a student?

Research design was quantitative using survey questionnaire.

Selected Grade Ten students of Natalia Velasquez Ramos Memorial Integrated

School answered the survey questionnaires.

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Findings

After the students answer the survey questionnaire, the researchers came

up with the following findings.

Effects of Break-up on Psychological Behavior of students

Experiencing break-up is one of the hardest obstacle in life especially in

life of students. Also paper works and break-up happen at once. Students lose

appetite that they need in their life. Some of the students admit that break-up can

really affect their life especially their academic performances. Some relationship

of the student end because of their parents and some are just tired and problems

in personal space make students decide to broke-up with their partners.

Researchers discover that when a person is broken, no can make a person

happy because that person need to find their happiness and hope on things that

a person enjoyed before but it is hard when things that can make a person happy

are the things that they enjoy together. Break-ups make student less sociable.

Students are too focus on something just to forget that excruciating happening in

their life.

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Conclusions

Based from the findings of the students, the following conclusions were

drawn:

1. Students need to accompanied by friends, parents, and siblings to cheer

them up and to let the students know that he/she should focus on study because

experiencing break-up during studying could produce low grades.

2. If someone looks like lonely a person should always comfort and give

them advises cause when a person feel loneliness it can lead to suicide.

3. Having friends around a broken person or student help a person to cope

up with things and friends can cheer up a person’s mood.

4. Parents should be supportive to the student and not make a student feel

worthless and unimportant.

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Recommendations

Based from the findings and conclusion of the study, the following

recommendations were drawn:

1. The people should be more observant in surroundings so that someone

can help the person who are in need of comfort.

2. The students that experienced break-up should reach out to someone that

he/she trust.

3. The parents should also make an advise if they see their child that is

suffering from pain.

4. The students should stop being in a relationship and start to focus on what

they need to accomplish and think of what their future can with life if students

accomplished a lot during the adolescent stage.

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Bibliography

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APPENDIX
QUESTIONNAIRE

SURVEY FORM

Name (Optional): School:


Age: Gender:

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Directions: Below are the statements about “Effect of Break-up on
Psychological Behavior of Selected Grade 10 students in Natalia Velasquez
Ramos Memorial Inegrated School” Please check (/) and rate yourself

4 3 2 1

1. I always lose appetite

2. I make myself busy to move on

3. I planned to commit suicide

4. I drank alcoholic beverages

5. I got low grades because I can’t

focus in class

6. I chose to be silent everyday

7. I am the reason why we broke-up

8. The memories hunt me at night

before I sleep

9. I often see myself spacing out

10. Having hard time coping up in daily

life situation

11. I always make an argument with him/her

before we broke-up

12. I always cry at night after break-up

13. Talking with my ex-partner after break-up

14. I deleted our picture together in phone

or any social media platforms

15. I stalk my ex-partner after break-up

16. I show my emotional side in front of everyone

17. I always seek attention to know my worth

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18. I keep my stories within myself rather than

to share it to my friends

19. I make time to focus on my self and have me-time

20. I follow the three-month rule

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CURRICULUM VITAE

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ALEXA JADE AGUILA ACORDA


Banaba South, Batangas City

Email Address: alexajadeacorda1@gmail.com

Mobile Number: 0975-898-9869

EDUCATIONAL ATTAINMENT

SECONDARY Natalia V. Ramos Memorial Integrated School

Concepcion, Batangas City

2016- present

PRIMARY Banaba South Elementary School

Banaba South, Batangas City

2010- 2016

PERSONAL DETAILS

Date of Birth September 01, 2004

Place of Birth Banaba South, Batangas City

Civil Status Single

Citizenship Filipino

Height 5’3”

Religion Roman Catholic

Dialect Tagalog and English

CHARACTER REFERENCES

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Melody Endozo

Barangay Captain

San Jose, Lipa City

09350232481

Rodelyn A. Balayo

Principal

Great Shepherd Christian Academy

09228842777

Rea P. Ilao

Teacher I

Inosloban-Marawoy National High School

09273946167

I hereby certify that the above information is true and correct to the best of
my knowledge and belief.

ALEXA JADE AGUILA ACORDA

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