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13 Year Old
By: Amanda Peters
EDU 220
Monday, October 22, 2018
Abstract
This is a psychological development study of a 13 year old boy.
Lucas is my neighbor’s son; I watch him and his little sister
occasionally. This powerpoint examines traditional development
stages from physical, emotional, cognitive and intellectual,
psychosocial and social, and moral characteristics. It also will
discuss Lukas’s development and give parent recommendations
to anyone who would need it. An objective for this project was to
include information from the class textbook, ED Psych by Jack
Snowman and Rick McCown, and other resources provided. With
the extensive research conducted for this project, I now feel
more confident in my ability to help adolescents grow and
become motivated about their education.
Typical
Physical Behaviors
A rapid growth period: Puberty
Body image is used in three ways. These children have a preoccupation with
their physical appearance, while being critical of themselves. They start to
compare their bodies to those of their peers to determine “normal” or
“standard” development. They also have anxiety about their sexual
characteristic changes.
•Boys: have growth in their testicles and penis, wet dreams start to manifest
or become more consistent, deepening of their voice, and massive growth in
height and weight.
•Girls: breast and hips fully develop, and menstruation begins or becomes
regulated.
Boys:
• Ages 11-13 pubic hair starts to develop and testicles and scrotum grow.
Girls:
• Ages 11-13 breasts develop and hair starts to develop under the arms and pubic area.
Be sure to keep an open and honest communication about any changes your child
is going through. Also, warn your child ahead of time about things that might start
to occur, such as: hair growth, wet dreams, and menstruation.
Also communicate about sex. Your child will be very curious, but maybe too
embarrassed to ask which, can lead to problems with safety. If your child is aware
of the risks with sex, drugs, alcohol, etc. They will be less likely to partake in
dangerous activities.
(Medline, 2017)
Typical
Emotional Characteristics
and Behaviors
Children have an intense emotional development at this stage of their life. They start to
struggle with their identity, and feel awkward about their bodies. They realize their parents
are human and not perfect. There is a desire for independence and an increase of peer
influence. When stressed they may start to revert to childish behavior at times, and are
down right moody. They have a greater interest in privacy, and test and question rules and
authority more often.
Peer groups serve as a developmental purpose. They develop intense same-sex friendships
and contact with the opposite sex.
The biggest emotional change is the child no longer feels like the
parent can understand them.
(Medline, 2017)
During this time your child might start to pull away, this is a good thing. It’s always harder on the parent to let
the child start being independent. At this stage they are trying to find their own identity, encourage
independence and expand their peer group. If you do not let the child be independent, it can cause the child to
feel inadequate and/or resentful. Set boundaries, not a power struggle. They are looking to be heard since
they now have opinions.
(Medline, 2017)
Do not dismiss your child’s concerns, they are real to them and need reassurance. Respect and accept their
feelings, and expect them to do the same for other’s.
If any behaviors become overbearing there is always professional help, school counselors will always be
grateful to help families who don’t know how to set up mental health care for their child.
Typical
Cognitive And Intellectual
Characteristics and Behaviors
At this stage children have more ability to convey thoughts and feelings more accurately.
They will start to develop more complex thoughts and thinking.
They are more interested in the present, rather than focused on the future. Intellectual
interests expand and become more important. Deep thinking happens more frequently.
They thrive on arguments, engage in introspective and probing thinking of one’s self, may
read more often, able to memorize and think logically more easily, and needs to believe in
something and feel important.
They are better at problem-solving and thinking in abstract terms. They are better at applying
with their decision-making skills when it comes to their social and academic situations.
“Self-efficacy becomes an important influence on intellectual and social behaviors.” (pg. 63)
Piaget:
• Formal Operational Stage: able to engage in mental manipulations, can deal with abstract
thoughts or situations, and solve problems systematically.
Vygotsky:
• Their culture passes down how they think every day, and/or in an academic setting. Who
they interact with can alter their thinking; example, hang out with more intellectually
advanced or older peers and you will expand your intelligence. Formal instruction replaces
spontaneous concepts with scientific ones.
• Learning various roles, such as: academic, occupations, sexual, political, etc., so they can
create one cohesive ego they will need for their adult life. Lack of stability in playing so
many roles can lead to role confusion, and not having an identity going into adulthood. “In
common terms, they know who they are.” (pg. 19)
John Macia:
• There are four identity statuses with this theory and it’s all dependent on the individual.
Identity Diffusion is where there is no crisis and no commitment; little self direction or self-
esteem, and impulsive behavior. Foreclosure is no crisis with a commitment made; often
closed-minded and accepts and endorses parental choices and values. Moratorium is where a
crisis has been experienced but no commitment has been made; anxiety driven and changes
academic goals often, and often feels dissatisfied. The last stage is Identity Achievement
where a crisis was experienced and a commitment has been made; often with high self-
esteem, playful and logical, and introspective.
“They found that high school students who had attained the identity achievement status
scored higher on measures of career planning and career certainty than did students in the
moratorium or identity diffusion statuses.” (pg. 21)
Don’t feel hurt or take it personally when your child starts to pull away from
you, you are still important but so are other things in their life now. Respect
boundaries and be affectionate when able. Set clear, firm, but flexible rules.
Allow your child to be more independent and spend more time with their
peers, and participate in independent activities. Don’t criticize your child’s
friendships. Accept your child’s feelings for need of space from younger
siblings, reassure the younger sibling and help cope with rejection.
At this stage children start to develop a stronger sense of right and wrong.
This stage, children become more aware of other’s feelings and are concerned about fairness, and
they are unlikely to lie. They have an intense desire to fit in morally with their peer group’s view.
Kohlberg:
For this age group the children tend to sit in both the third and fourth stages.
Stage 3 Good-Boy, Nice-Girl: This stage is the pleasing stage, where the child chooses an
impressive action rather than logical. An example would be altering a belief to fit in with a group.
Stage 4 Law-and-Order Orientation: This is where children think that law is detrimental to societal
function. If you don’t obey the rules, everything falls apart.