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T H E P R E S C R I P T I O N F O R

HEALING A BROKEN

HEART
A D A P T E D F R O M S H AT T E R E D G L A S S

B Y Y A S M I N M O G A H E D
The Prescription for Healing a Broken Heart - By Yasmin Mogahed

Contents
Introduction ................................................................................................... 03
The Ṣalāh ................................................................................................... 04
The Adhkār ................................................................................................... 05
The Qur’ān ................................................................................................... 06
Summary ................................................................................................... 08

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Heartbreak is as real as it is universal. When struggling to They never remained in that situation. Reflect on that. For
mend our inner wounds, many of our habits can either aid every single one of them, Allāh opened for them and saved
or hinder our healing. them. He saved Yūnus (‘alayhi wa sallam). He saved Ayyūb
(‘alayhi wa sallam) and returned everything to him and more.
First, we must be careful about replying on oursleves – He saved Nūḥ (‘alayhi wa sallam). Allāh saved every single
where we think “I got this”, “I’m strong” or “My faith is so one of them, because they called out to Allāh in this way – not
strong”. No. Every single human being is in desperate need relying on themselves, but humbling themselves and asking
of Allāh. If we look at the strongest human beings to walk Allāh for help. Even when you look at Adam (‘alayhi wa
the earth, they were in desperate need of Allāh and they sallam), after he ate from the tree, he said to Allāh (subḥānahu
recognized that. wa ta‘āla),

When Yūnus a.s. was in the most impossible situation – he ”We have wronged our own selves. And if You do not forgive
was in the belly of the whale, in the middle of the sea, in the us and have mercy on us, We will be among the losers.”
night – imagine how many layers of darkness were on this (Sūrat’l-A‘rāf: 23).
man. It was not one layer of darkness. It was layer upon
layer upon layer of darkness on him. He was trapped. Look Again, relying on Allāh, and Allāh forgave him.
at how he called to Allāh (subḥānahu wa ta‘āla),
Turn to Allāh (subḥānahu wa ta‘āla) ask Allāh, and be honest
La ilāha illa Allāh anta subḥānaka inni kuntu with Allāh. “This hurts. This is hard. Help me. Heal me. Make
minaẓālimīn. it easy for me.” Ask Allāh for ease. Stop trying to pretend
you’re tough. “You know, I’m strong. I got this. I’m fine.”
“There is nothing worthy of worship but You, Allāh is high Essentially, if a person does not turn to Allāh and have that
above, exalted over everything, indeed I was among the support from Allāh, this will delay healing. This will pause
wrongdoers.” (Sūrat’l-Anbiyā’: 87) healing. Turn to Allāh, just as the prophets turned to Allāh
when they were facing hardships.
The prophets of Allāh humbled themselves and they called
out to Him. They never relied on themselves. This is how Allāh and His messenger have given us a prescription of how
they were saved. Every single one of them was saved. Allāh to turn to Allāh in our everyday life.
never left any one of them in that situation.

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The Ṣalāh

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Your ṣalāh is the one component of your life that you must If a person was not getting oxygen, then the body organs
be absolutely devoted to without compromising it. The body would start to fail and would eventually stop working. You
cannot heal without oxygen. None of your organs can work must have ṣalāh as the oxygen of your heart. It has to be on
without oxygen. time, just like medicine.

The heart is the same way; it needs the oxygen of ṣalāh If the doctor prescribes a medicine and it has to be taken
constantly, not once in a while. What would happen if you at certain times of the day, you will take it on time. Allāh
could not breathe consistently? You would die because knows better than any doctor. If He prescribes the medicine
breathing is a necessity in order to live. It is not something of ṣalāh, it is because you need the ṣalāh five times a day at
that can happen in intervals. those specific appointed times.

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The Adhkār

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These are the supplications that the Prophet (ṣallallāhu
‘alayhi wa sallam) used to say throughout his day.

Download the “MyDuaa” application on your phone


or electronic device. This application is a collection of
supplications from the Qur’ān and authentic hadith. Every
Make it something that you can be consistent in, even if it is
morning when you wake up and you pray fajr, take the time
a small amount. If you are consistent, it will have a profound
to open this application.
effect on your life. There is a duʿāʾ for everything: times of
difficulty, anxiety, travel, intimacy; everything. The more you
Look for ‘Morning Supplications’ and read the supplications.
can incorporate these duʿāʾs, the better and stronger your
On the app, you can create your own ‘Treasure Chest of duʿāʾ
heart will be, and the faster you will heal in shā’ Allāh.
that you can read consistently every single day by starring
certain duʿāʾs.
The next important time in the day that you need to do your
supplications is in the evening. This is after ‘aṣr or before
maghrib. Then the other time is in the night before you sleep.
Those three times are the most crucial to say your adhkār.

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The Qur’ān

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Allāh says,

“O mankind, there has to come to you instruction from your


Lord and healing for what is in the breasts and guidance and
mercy for the believers.” Sūrah Yūnus: 57

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The Qur’ān is a healing for what is in the chest.

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What do you use to heal when you are not feeling
well? Medicine. The Qur’ān is a medicine for our hearts.

“And you send down of the Qur’ān that which is healing and
mercy for the believers” Sūrat’l-Isrā’: 82

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THE THREE ESSENTIALS:

The Ṣalāh the oxygen


The Adhkār the food and water
The Quran the healing

I ask Allāh to help all those who are suffering, all those who
have broken hearts, all those who have lost, and I remind those
who are reading and myself that you should never lose hope.
No matter how shattered
you may feel, or no matter
Indeed, Allāh is Al-Jabbār, how broken you think
The One who mends. your heart is, you have
Allāh can fix anything to believe with conviction
Allāh can mend anything that Allāh will fix it.

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