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tell his or her own story. No two people in the world experience the same event in exactly the
same way. Everyone has its virtual pair of glasses through which he looks to the world
around him. This virtual pair of glasses is called a mental filter. Every information which is
coming through our senses must pass this mental filter before it even gets a chance to reach
our conscious awareness.
Consider you are inside a room - with two different windows. One window is on the east
side and the other is in west side. Would n’t you see different scenes from the two different
windows? It just can not be one and the same, if the windows are in two different directions.
Just like the view is different from different windows - in a communication situation when
two people are involved, they may not see/hear/remember same thing from the
communication just happened.
Everyone see it from their own stand point - which is nothing but referred as View point.
In case your judgment gets clouded by emotions, then you may end up saying things that
you should not and that you don’t intend to. Many a times, because of being swept by
emotions, we tend to show bias towards someone and not stick to rational thinking. We
play more by sentiments and less by logic. I would suggest that at such times, when you
know you are becoming too emotional and your comments can become very sharp and
personal, just avoid the communication. Calm yourself down and initiative the conversation
only when your mind is peaceful.
When you know that you feel something special for a story and have lots of sentiments
behind your words, you can try bringing those emotions in the way you speak. Yes, you
have to be mindful of not using foul language against anyone. But your voice modulation
can benefit out of your emotions. You can raise your voice and pick up pace when there is
high, aggressive or panic kind of emotion. You can lower your voice, go soft and speak
slowly when you have to communicate something sad or embarrassing. You can also try to
vary the pitch of your voice as per emotion. This way, emotions can help you emphasize on
the important aspects of your speech and will help you speak with more dramatic effect.
It depends on you how you manage the emotions and how you take forward a conversation
by being the master of emotions, and not its slave.