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Basics in Simple English, p. 15, 19].
Presuppositions are basic beliefs in NLP. This means, if you want to study NLP, you must start from these
general statements which express the main attitudinal beliefs NLP is based on.
A map is an idea of something, a picture of something that we have in our mind. This picture was formed based on
our prior experience in life, on our beliefs, conclusions from our past, and also on what we heard from our parents,
friends, teachers, neighbors and other people. So, the map is not the territory. This is one of the main
presuppositions of NLP.
We cannot decide for other people. We should respect other people’s views, beliefs and interests.
You always communicate certain information, even if you are not saying anything. If your mouth is silent, your body
speaks. Your eyes speak. If you act, you communicate. But even if you don’t act, that also means something. NLP
practitioners, by showing their sensory acuity, learn from all possible signals – both lingual and non lingual. Even the
way you breathe can tell them something about you!
The idea is, even if we fail to succeed, our failure should not be described as failure. Our conclusion should be that
now we have some information that we can learn from, and try again.
NLP believes that we do have all the resources we need. First of all, we have the internal resources. We have skills.
We have brains! And the other things will come, even if we haven’t discovered them so far.
It may happen that you will fail trying to communicate something to somebody, you may have the very best
intentions, but your effort may never be appreciated by someone. So, it is your feedback. It is your result. What
should you do then? You should draw your conclusions for the future.
there is at least a grain of positive intention in every behaviour. Every behaviour can be reframed and used in a
positive context. When we understand this, it’s easier for us not to get stuck in the old pain, feeling insulted, feeling
angry, and to move on in life.
Your mind and your body are connected. What you think or what you feel is reflected in your bodily reactions, and
what you do or say affects the way you think or feel.
Choices are possibilities. They present opportunities that we may use, or we may decide not to use. If we want to
achieve a certain result, it’s always good to have options to choose from.
10) PEOPLE MAKE THEIR BEST CHOICE.
The choice is shaped by their beliefs, their motives, their reasons, and their values. It is not our best choice. It is their
best choice. If we want to change their behaviour, they should see more options, and this is connected with having
more resources.
Be flexible. Be open-minded. Do not be a stubborn person who is so confident that they never make mistakes. Those
who are flexible have more choices. The most successful people surround themselves with people who, they believe,
are wiser than themselves. They are ready to reconsider and change their strategies. They are ready to try again
somewhere else. They do not stop. Instead, they change. They are open to it. Be open to change! Those who are the
most flexible are the top people in their field.
People are not wrong or defective. They act according to their resources, choices and their vision of the world. Their
strategies may be wrong or not very effective. We should try to find ways to increase their choices and change their
strategies.
We may not understand someone’s behaviour, but we should accept the person. We should always make a
distinction between these two things. People make their best choice and work perfectly, and their behavior can
change.
This will lead to your success, too. Imitate successful behaviour, do what those who succeeded in their field do.
Similar actions will lead to similar results.
15) ACT!
Go beyond theory. You will learn from your actions. You will achieve your results. You will have your feedback. And if
something doesn’t work, you will try doing something else.
Task:
1- If you only use the map it is difficult
2- Facebook is a social network. People communicate and find interesting information. I
asked my grandmother, she said she had heard such a word but did not know what it was.
And I asked my dad, he said it's a very interesting social network and he goes there every
day.
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6- RESPECT THE OTHER PERSON’S MAP OF THE WORLD(I can give such an
example. My grandmother lives far away from me and when I come she makes
me eat every 30 minutes) IT’S IMPOSSIBLE NOT TO COMMUNICATE
ANYTHING(for example, I miss one look from my mom I can to understand that I
did something wrong) (Another example that can be attributed to several
presuppositions when I was younger I wanted to learn to drive. but I could not go to driving
school yet, and it is impossible to learn to drive in the city. I asked my dad and we went to
the village where I studied. I did not succeed but I did not lose desire. And now I easily got a
driver's license.)
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9- I rarely watch movies but one movie I mentioned. It’s “Doctor Sleep”. This
film is about people who can control other people with their voice, eyes and
gestures.
Another example is "Jumanji: A New Level" as the USUAL models of people who get into
the game trying to express themselves within a new context and a new role. How the usual
"I" climbs and does not allow the new "I" to be realized.
- visual images;
- recognizing faces;
- colors;
- art and coordination;
- reading and expressing feelings and emotions;
- music and rhythm;
- intuition, spatial/abstract perception;
- imagination and creativity;
- holistic thinking;
- random processing;
- emphasis on possibilities.
The right brain is connected to the left part of the body. So, if this part of the brain is damaged, the left part of the
body will be affected.
It is considered that one side is usually more active and better developed. Still, this can be changed as you develop
certain aspects of your personality. Actually, the preferences of each side of the brain are much more complex than
that.
Task:
1- I think I have both hemispheres of the brain work the same because the
functions of both are equally manifested
4- right
5- left
We can discuss some things with our conscious mind. And maybe, we’ll even manage to convince you of something.
By breaking your logic. Or by giving you consistent arguments and corroborative evidence that you won’t be able to
deny. And then you’ll give in, or surrender. But the trick is, our conscious mind is often way too stubborn.
So, NLP practitioners often resort to methods which appeal to our subconscious. They don’t hypnotize us. It’s not the
same. Read about hypnosis in some other book. But NLP uses some similar tricks, methods and patterns when we
speak to a person. This is one of the reasons why NLP is called very subtle. It requires subtlety.
Task:
3- One of the subtlest methods of NLP is something like hypnosis. Because NLP
practitioners work with our subconscious
5- I think children are often manipulators when they want a toy or candy. I
think you need to know the methods of manipulation in order not to be
manipulated by another person.