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SÁNDOR FERENCZI, M.D.
Confusion of Tongues
Between Adults and the Child^
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IT WAS A MISTAKE TO TRY to confine the all too wide theme of the
exogenous origin of character formations and neuroses within a
Congress paper. I shall, therefore, content myself with a short ex
tract from what I would have had to say on that subject. Perhaps it
will be best if I start by telling you how I have come to the problem
expressed in the tide of this paper. In the address given to the
Viennese Psycho-Analytic Society on the occasion of Professor
Freud's seventy-fifth birthday, I reported on a regression in tech
nique (and pardy also in the theory) of the neuroses to which I was
forced by certain bad or incomplete results with my patients. By
that I mean the recent, more emphatic stress on the traumatic
factors in the pathogenesis of the neuroses which had been un-
jusdy neglected in recent years. Insufficiently deep exploration of
the exogenous factor leads to the danger of resorting prematurely
to explanations—often too facile explanations—in terms of "dis
position" and "constitution."
' German original in Int. Z. f. Psa. (1933), 19, 5. English translation in Int. J. of
PsA. (1949), 30, 225.
* T h e original title of the paper as announced was "The Passions of Adults and
their Influence on the Sexual and Character Development of Children". Published
in Int. Z.f. Psa. (1933), 1 9 , 5 - 1 5 and subsequendy inBausteine zur Psychoanalyse, Vol.
III. Berne, 1939.
Paper read at the Twelfth International Psycho-Analytical Congress, Wiesbaden,
September, 1932. It is the second presentation by Contemporary Psychoanalysis of
previously published classics. It appears here with the permission of Dr. Judith
Dupont and the International Journal of Psycho-Analysis.
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get rid of this oppressive love. If we can help the child, the patient
or the pupil to give u p the reaction of identificaüon, and to ward
off the over-burdening transference, then we may be said to have
reached the goal of raising the personality to a higher level.
I should like to point briefly to a further extension of our
knowledge made possible by these observations. We have long
held that not only superimposed love but also unbearable punish
ments lead to fixations. T h e solution of this apparent paradox may
perhaps now be possible. T h e playful trespasses of the child are
raised to serious reality only by the passionate, often infuriated,
punitive sanctions and lead to depressive states in the child who,
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the much veiled, yet very critical way of thinking and speaking to
your children, patients and pupils and to loosen, as it were, their
tongues. I am sure you will gain a good deal of instructive mate
rial.
Appendix
This train of thought points only descriptively to the tenderness
of the infantile eroticism and to the passionate in the sexuality of
the adult. It leaves open the problem of the real nature of this
difference. Psycho-analysis willingly agrees with the Cartesian idea
that passions are brought about by suffering, but perhaps will have
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* Thalassa, 1938, New York. The Psycho-Analytic Quarterly Inc. (German original
published in 1924.)
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