My Foster Parents

You hear people tell you about how some significant event or person in their lives came
along and changed everything. You hear of some fantastic revelation some day up on the
mountain, or a close encounter with nature, even a brush with some insane disaster, bringing
the person onto the doorstep of death. Most people quote extraordinary event that is very
unique to them and hear about how that something have come to have a great impact on their
lives, changing the very manner in which they view life and perceive it. You might not find
my story to be anything spectacular, but for me, it has been the one most singularly amazing
event of my life. It was the day that I met my foster parents. He came into my life and
affected me in so many ways and for which I really do not have words to describe. Yet, I will
try my best to portray how his coming into my life completely changed me and gave me a
whole new world to look at.

One of the things that I noticed immediately when I met my husband was how safe and
secure he made me feel. I remember meeting him that very first day and realizing how good I
felt just being with him. It was as if a burden had been lifted from my shoulders. I suddenly
felt free and relaxed, as if I had to worry about nothing in life ever again. He would be very
supportive of my ideas and my decisions and would encourage me to go ahead and do what I
wanted the most. He provided me with the background support that I had always needed to
further to my plans but had felt so insecure before. He had a knack of making me laugh and
feel good about myself and whatever was going on at that time. Aside from making me feel
emotionally stable, safe, and secure, he also made me feel very secure financially. He made it
look so easy, as if I would never have to worry about money ever again. He made me feel
that I could trust him with no matter what. This is perhaps the reason that I married him in the
first place, because of how he good he made me feel about myself: very safe, secure, and
sound.

My husband taught me so many things that have impacted me and changed the way I
think and feel. He was the first person who I truly fell in love with and I can safely say that it
is from him that I have learned to love unconditionally. He taught me that love transcends all
physical boundaries and is there to be felt and enjoyed with between two people. He taught
me how to be patient in my life and to wait for good things to come to me, rather than
stressing after them and never finding them. Before I met him, I had always been afraid to
follow my dreams. But he came into my life and made me feel so strong and confident, and
he taught me to follow my dreams to the fullest. He has always been very supportive of me
since then and he has truly taught me to be a better person in life.

If someone was to ask me what having a true companion in life is like, I would tell them
that it was being married to my husband. He has shown me the true meaning of what
marriage is all about. He is always trying to involve me into his life and with us it is always
'us' and never 'you' or 'I'. he is always willing to do fun projects and things together, and we
are always looking to go to new, fun, and exciting places to spend our time together. Most
importantly, my husband has been extremely faithful and honest with me over the years and I
have truly come to respect him for whatever he has done for me.

All in all, I think that meeting my husband is the one event that has definitely affected
and changed me and the way that I look and perceive life. I have learnt so many things from
him and he has been able to give me a completely new outlook towards life. I am a much
happier, wiser, safer, and more confident person after meeting him. I am glad that I met him
and I would want to keep on meeting him in all of my future lifetimes.
Who has been a influence to you? Mom, dad, or anyone in your life? Well, there always that someone
or person who has or had influenced you or even changed your life during you past years in your life.
My influence is my one and only father. My father has influenced me in so many ways that has actually
changed my life. The main three ways were for me to keep on task, keep safe and stay out of drugs
and, and mostly, to believe in yourself.
First of all, school is a hard thing to concentrate on. When homework gets too hard, my dad is always
there to help me when I need the help the most on schoolwork or anything that I am having trouble
with. This shows me that my dad is determined in me and wants me to…show more content…
He has told me before was to believe in yourself no matter what and to not worry about what people
say because that just means that they are jealous about you and want you to believe that you are not
good enough to do something that you really want to do. He has also told me to do what I want to do
than someone forcing me to do it. This influence had made me to talk to more people and get to know
them and also to get to know new things that I did not even know that I was possible to do. This has
also made me able to do things that I want like any sports or anything I want and ignore the people
that are negative about my ways.
After all, my father is an inspiring person to me, he loves me for who I am and what I do, but he wants
me to be a successful man in the future life. He is trying to use his knowledge to make my knowledge
better and make it easier on me with school. What he does for me I respect it fully. The things he does
for me, as in like loving, caring, and helping my feature, I respect it so much. My father always tells me
that “If you stay on task, keep safe, and have fun on something you like or even love, keep on going for
it and you will be able to accomplish