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Chapter 1 - Best Book On Studying: The Trap
Chapter 1 - Best Book On Studying: The Trap
Goals and purpose breathe meaning into life. Goals and purpose form the psychological
underpinnings of our individual lives. There’s power in purpose, as is shown in this
excerpt:
We cannot have deep and enduring satisfaction unless we have self-worth. We cannot have self
worth unless our lives are an earnest attempt to express the finest and most enduring qualities
that we are aware of.
When you become part of the crowd, your individual thinking is replaced by
Crowd psychology.
The most striking peculiarity presented by a psychological crowd is the following: Whoever
be the individuals that compose it, however like or unlike be their mode of life, their occupations,
their character, or their intelligence, the fact that they have been transformed into
a crowd puts them in
possession of a sort of collective mind which makes them feel,
think, and act in a manner quite different from that in which each individual of
them would feel, think, and act were he in a state of isolation.
LeBon’s observations about crowds were adopted and furthered by Edson Gould, one
of the most respected names on Wall Street, who used this easily visualized example to
illustrate how the individual is almost powerless to resist the powerful magnetism of
the crowd:
You’re alone in an empty movie theater and hear the cry of “fi re.” You look around, see
no flames, smell no smoke, you calmly walk to the nearest exit. But, repeat the same cry
of “fi re” (again without fl ames visible or the smell of smoke) in a crowded theater and
once the crowd starts running for an exit, you’ll fi nd yourself running, too. That’s crowd
psychology.6
Don’t let crowd psychology rob you of your independence or rob you of your freedom
to think and decide individually. In sum, preserve yourself as a sovereign individual
so that, for better or for worse, you are the ruler of your career and destiny.
There is a powerful and mysterious force in human
nature that is capable of bringing about
dramatic improvement in our lives. It is a kind of
mental engineering. … In imaging, one
does not merely think about a hoped-for goal; one
“sees” or visualizes it with tremendous
intensity. Imaging is a kind of laser beam of the
imagination, a shaft of mental energy
in which the desired goal or outcome is pictured so
vividly by the conscious mind that
the unconscious mind accepts it and is activated by
it. This releases powerful internal
forces that can bring about astonishing changes in
the life of the person who is doing the imaging.
CHANGE
Always will. Accept it. Accept the fact that people and
situations are always going to be changing throughout your
life. Fighting change is like swimming against the current in a
river. You’re so busy trying to keep your head above water
that you never get a chance to see or enjoy what’s on the
bank. The quicker you accept the fact that everything will
change, the quicker you can get out of the water. You can sit
on the bank, relax for a moment and evaluate your
surroundings. In a life that’s always too short, you can then
decide how best to spend your remaining time. This brings
up the other thing you can always count on—the God-given,
human ability to make choices. Through changes in your
thinking, your actions and your lifestyle, you can choose to
live your life in a state of unhappiness or in a state of
happiness. It’s totally up to you. Although it was several
decades ago, I remember sitting at my desk in Mrs. Benger’s
firstgrade class back in Friona, Texas. Above the chalkboard
there were two large handwritten signs. One read, “Act the
way you want to be and soon you’ll be the way you act.”
It’s probably one of the more lasting lessons I’ve learned in
life thus far.
Use trial and error to determine which plans work best for
you, and be prepared to adapt some plans to better fit your
needs. Even the best plans can fail if they are used too rigidly.
Allow a little breathing room. If things go wrong,don’t give up.
Adjust and keep on going.