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Neil Strauss - The Annihilation Method - Seduction Blueprint
Neil Strauss - The Annihilation Method - Seduction Blueprint
METHOD
INTRODUGTION
Let me tell you all why I'mdoingthis. lt's becauseI spenttwo yearsin this communityof
pickupartists.And lwatchedsomepeoplerapidlyimproveand othersgo nowhere,
spinningtheirwheels.I interviewed everypickupartist,everystudent,and every
woman.I researched this all the time.And I learnedsomething:mostof the peopleout
thereare learningthis wrong.They'reonly learningto exerciseone muscle.lt's like
goingto the gym andjust doingcurls.Sure,you'llbe ableto beatanyoneat arm-
wrestling,but you'regoingto looklikea freak.
the unconscious
3. Understanding incompetence
to unconscious
competence
model.
5. Separating
usefulfromuselesslearning.
the principles
7. Understanding behindthe ideaswhentheyworkfor you.
To get better,you needa wingor a groupof wingswho you trust.And bothof you need
to be honestwith eachother.Tell eachotherthingsyourfriendsneverwould.lf you
don'ttake it personallyand understandthat it's constructive
and subjective,you will do
well.lt'simportantto ask,whenpossible, someone's FIRSTIMPRESSION of you,and
havethembe unafraidto be critical.Thefeedbackis important.
EXERCISE:
o
Question2: Ask yourselfagain:\/Vhyare you reallywatchingthis program?
Question3; Now,ignorethe aboveanswers,and reachdeepintoand honest
placeand reallyput it downon paperonceand for ali: VVhyare you doingthis?
EXERCISE:
WHOYOUARE
SOLUTION: femalepanel,hairperson,clothesshopping
Stylist,
ADAPTABILITY: thisis wherehumorand intelligence comein.(lt'swhy uptightguys
for peerapproval.
don'tget laid.)lt's her beingableto introduceyou to her friends/family
It'swhereadventurousness, spontaneity,independence, risk{aking,and the abilityto
handlenew situations.Excitingto be around,in the moment.lt's beingableto be fun in
a club,mannered withherfamily,anda totaljerkwithyourmalefriends.Quote:"The
soeciesthat doesnot adaDtis doomedto die."
SOLUTION: Travel.Culturalknowledge.
Exposure
to newthingsand unfamiliar
situations.
STRENGTH: Definednotas physical
traditionally
strength,butthe abilityto protecther.Thjsis done
througheithermoneyor muscle,butthroughdecisiveness, non-wussiness,
I
usefulpracticalknowledge, an abilityto "takecareof things," takingcharge,
assertiveness,livingin your own reality,and the abilityto makeher feel safe.Also moral
strengthand values(goodor bad but strong)that makeher feel safetyand comfort.
Loyalty.
in your responsepatterns.
SOLUTION:Becomeself-correcting
You are constantlybeingtestedfor your abilityto do this for a chick.So here'sa small
checklist:
'1. Makedecisions.
Don'task herwhatshewants,thoughit'sokayto findouther
preferences.
3. Knowyourenvironment.
Knowhowto getplaces,whatto do,what'scool.
6 . Haverules.
wherepeopleareconfused
8 . In situations or indecisive,
takecharge.
10.StoMelling
techniques.
Wearinga shoulder
holster.
VALUE:Standingout. Whatmakesyou differentthan all the otherguysshe should
meet...beinginteresting,
beingexcellent...
entertaining.. "womenwantto
.chickcrack...
learnfrommen"..."being an authorityoverherworld"...leader
of men.Alsoincludes
externalvalue:socialproof,leaderof yourgroup,beingseenas attractiveto others.
SOLUTION: Learning
DHVroutines, to playsocialprooflikean
learning
makingsureshe'sbendingto meetyou on your realityand notevice
instrument,
versa.
El\i]OTIONAL CONNECTION: Chemistry,
emotional connecting,havinga qualitythat
makesherfeelemotionally excitedandfocusedaroundyou.Findingyourselflaughing
togetheror sayingthingsat the sametime.Commonalities.Canalsoincludeemotional
qualities
likebeingcompassionate, havinga tenderside.Confessing
caring,sensitivity,
mutualdeepsecretsyou'venevertold anyonebefore.
story,NLP,"metoo"tactics,lettingher
SOLUTION:Style'sEV,vulnerability
Drotecr
GOALS:This is not definedby whatyou do, but by whatyou'recapableof doing.
Successisn'tnecessary, just a clearpathtowardsit. Goals.A dream.Hungerfor life.
And notjust ambitionbut potential.Womenas A&R scouts.Possiblycreativity.Stability.
YOURSELF'
NOTE:KEEPTHISAND,AS YOUGETlN THEFIELDAND IMPROVE
RE-MTE YOURSELFEVERYMONTH.
PART IV
WHATYOU DO
Simplemodel:
' OPen
. DemonstrateValue
. Createan EmotionalConnection
. Createa PhysicalConnection
Fullmodel:
PARTONE:GETTINGINTOTHEGROUP
STEPONE
OPENER
Do imDrovisedor cannedooener
Rootthe ODener
Giveyourselfa time constraint("1can onlystayfor a minutebecausel'm with my friends
overthere")
Bodylanguageas if you'reaboutto leave
Conveypersonality,smile,but don'tbe over-enthusiastic(energylevelequalto or
higherthanthe group)
STEPTHREE
DEMONSTRATE VALUE
Usegimmick,
magic,psychicroutine,
humor,game,whatever
STEPFOUR
CALIBRATION WEIGHPOINT
Option1: Takeaway or falsetakeaway
Option2: Jointhe group,mid-storyor routine,but againgiveyourselftime constraint
Option3: Stayin group
Option4: Pawnfor anothergroup
PART THREETCONNECTING
WITHHER
STEPFOUR
BUILDMPPORT
lsolateit possible,physicallyor verbally
Qualify
ElicitValues
FindCommonalities
LetHerShare
STEPFIVE
CLOSE
OPTIONONE:#close
OPTIONTWO:lsolatetarget,phaseshifvseduce,and *close
OPTIONTHREE:Instantdate.Stayin group(or returnto group)so that you end the
nightwith them.Takegroupelsewhere.Try to get to target'shouse,or get her to your
house
PART V
Thisis Calibration,
butskewedin the"it'salwayson"direction
To me, calibrationis the key to everything.However,it can alsobe a trap.If you over-
calibrate,you worrytoo muchand respondto smallsignsthat don'tmatter.So go in with
the attitudethat "it'salwayson" and "eveMhingshe doesis an ioi,"yet at the sametime
be consciousto oive her whatshe needs.
First,you'rebasicallylookingfor threeresponses:
. (through
Showdisinterest wordsor bodylanguage)
. Negandtease
. DHVsomeoneelse
lf she needsmoreattraction:
. Push-pull
. Jealousyplotline
. Becomethesourceof hervalidation
. Arousaltalk
lf she needstrust:
Listenand be interested
. Positivebodylanguage
. SincerelOls/SOls
. Qualification
. Style'sEV
. Time constraint
. SocialProof
. Win over herfriends
You goal is to do what it takesto get the greenlight.However,if you stayat a green
lightto long,it can turnyellow.So you needto figureout what'sat the nextintersection.
So the realsecondgoal of calibrationis: Figuringout whereshe'sat in the processand
whereshe needsto be takennext.
The nextstepof calibrationis figuringoutwho she is:
You haveto knowwhento cut the thread(becauseit'sa bad one leadingto a bad
place)andmoveon to something else.
Generalprinciples
of opening:
1. Clubis a performance,
fromthe momentyouwalkin. Neverbe caughtlooking
aroundandnothavingfun.
2. Threesecondrule.
smiling,positive
3. Equalor higherenergylevel(includes non-needy
energy)
4. Passingby,aboutto leavebodylanguage
buthookthemwithinteractivity
11.Youshouldbe leading/dominant,
activedisinterest(througha neg or
12.If she is oftenhit on, demonstrate
disoualification)
Note:neverdelivera pebbleexpectinga
13.Toss"pebbles"to ampfun/excitement.
reactton.
. JealousGirlfriend
. 80,sDogs
. DentalFloss
. Two-PartKissODener
. CologneOpener
. FiveOceans
' Spells
"Ohmy God,didyoujustseethat..."
Structure:
Or "Oh my God,youlookjust like..."
Attitude:
Spontaneous
excitement/surprise.
. SteDhanieRoss
. SisterNora
. GirlFiSht
1. Oh my god:Wheredidyougetthatshirtfrom?
(Askwheretheygot the shoes/shirt theywerewearing,becauseyou usedto
haveit, butyou let a girl wear it whenshe leftyour house,and you neversaw it
again.And you wantanother.You shouldbuytwo of everyitemof clothingyou
own.)
a
Part Vll
1. I c a n 'tte l ly o u . . . l d o n ' t k n o w yw
oeu l le n o u g yh e t .
2. You'refired.
3. Noteto self:do notdatethisgirl.
4. You guysareawesome. You'rejusl liketheView.(Whenthey'regivingopinions
on an oDener.)
5. Aftershe sayswhereshe'sfromor wentto school,ask,"Doyou knowSarah"?
(Addif youwant"thin,blackhair,oliveskin")Then,aftershestruggles to think,
sayyoujustmadeit up.
6. That'sit.We'rebreaking up.You cankeepthedog.
7. I wantto takethat partof you rightthere(a pinchof fat, an eyelid,whatever)and
putit on rice,andeat it.
L Wait untilthey say somethingthat can be perceivedas a negativetraitabout
them,andthensay,as youpretendlikeyou'rewritingon yourhand,"Noteto self:
Do notdatethisgirl."
9. Her: I haveto tellyousomething... You: You'repregnant
10.Whenshe mentionsa townshe'sfrom or a movieshe lovesor a televisionshow
or whatever,say,"Neverheardof it." Saidreallystraightand dry,with eye
contact.Then,afrerpausingfor a few sections,breakintoa smilelettingher
knowyou'rekidding.
11.Hiringfor doublethesalarytease
12.Thisrelationship is notworkingout.
13.Hey,ljust flirta lot;I don'tputout.
'14.Use shockintriguehookslike"l havea confession to make"(l needto go the
bathroom/ | needanotherdrinldl'm gay)
15.Let'stakethisslow...I don'twantto gethurt
16.Checkthisgirlout.She'samazing, andso brightandfunny.Wouldyoubelieve
she'sneverhad a boyfriend?
17.Getengaged, thenbreakup.Etc.
18.Tellher you'releavingherforaricholderwomanwhowillpayallyourbillsand
take careof you.
19.Do MINITAKEAWAYS. "We'retalkingguytalkhere.Couldyou leaveus alone
for a moment." Then pull herback."Waitrightthere.lvlyfriendswantme.""l'm
talkingto yourfriendrightnow.Geez."Don'tbe afraidto turn your backon her,
and KNOWthatshewon'tgo away.
20.Okay,youghlshavetakenup enoughofmytime.I haveotherpeopleto keep
company.
21.Whenshe'stalking,say"whatever." Or drylysay,"Andyourpointis..."
22.Put her on a point systemwhere you subtractand add points.Startchargingher
moneyforthingsandkeepa tab.
EXERCISE:
STOPI
FieldReports
StickingPoints
Questions
Notesand AffirmationsFor Self-lmprovement
Thereare only 375 of you. lf there is a demandfor it, we will create an Annihilation
Methodforum ONLY FOR YOU,so that we can all discussyour lessong expenences,
and thoughts,and give you feedbackas you wotk through this course.
PART VIII
. Pebbles
. Negs
. LASVEGASattitude
. DHVS
. Challenges
. Hardcore Push-Pull
. Disqualification
. Cat StringTheory
MakeHERfeellikesheis winningYOUover
FASHION
CONSULTATION
Style
Fashion
Clothing
Hair
Grooming
Optional
MaleMakeup
PART X
Now...theREALLYfunstuff...
DHVSAND IVDS
Introduce
themin a non-needy way.Notto impress youjust
them.lt'ssomething
learnedand you wantto practice,for example.Or teaseit and makethemask/beg.
IVD#1: BestFriendTest
Style: Okay,I haveto ask: how longhaveyou guysknowneachotherfor? (lf you think
they'resistersask,Are you guyssistersor bestfriends?)
HBs: blahblah
Style: See, I knewthat.
HBs: Howcouldyouknowthat?
Style:l'llshowyou.In fact,l'llgiveyouthe bestfriendtest.
HBs: (theyalwaysget excitedhere-theylovetestsfor somefuckingreason)
Style:Okay...(pretend likeI'maboutto aska seriousquestion-you'rehooked,right,so
youknowthey'realreadyhooked)...do you bothusethesameshampoot
HBs: (lookat eachother,and then opentheirmouthsto answer)
Style: Okay,the answerdoesn'tmatter.You alreadypassed.
HBst 22?2???.
Style: See,if you weren'tcloseto eachother,you'dkeepeye contactwith me as you
answered.But if two peoplehavea connection, theylookat eachotherfirst.Kindof like
you'redoingrightnow.
HBs: giggle(Thisis wherethe seductionnewbiesyoujust met see you makingtwo
strangers laughandthinkyou'rea PUAGod,LOL)
Style: See,you don'tevenneedto say anythingto eachother.lt's likeyoujust
communicate telepathically.
Style:Smileagainfor me.
HB: um,okay.
Style(to wing):See,she'sa U.
HBt 2???
Style: I dateda girlwho wantedto be a pop star.And she had a theorythat peoplewith
U-shapedsmileswereperceivedas unfriendly. And peoplewith C-shapedsmileswere
perceivedas friendly.
HB: So what'sa U then?
Style: A U is whenyourteethgo straightbackin your mouth(canadd "kindof likea
horse"if she'sa SHB).A C is whenthere'sa big rowof pearlywhitesin the front.And to
my ex, it was morethan a theory.She actuallygot her teethsurgicallyreshapedfrom a
UtoaC.
HB: Noway.
Style:And shehadme go lookat pictures of likeChristinaAguilera,
whois a U, and
BritneySpears,who is a C. Lookat thecoverof Us or anymagazine, andyou'llseethat
it's alwaysa C smileon the cover.
Up=visual- invented/remembered
Side= auditory- invented/remembered
Down = kinesthetic/talkingto self
StraightAhead (rare1= v;"r"1
Seguewayintothe following(demonstrated
on the DVDS)...
NOTE:DO NOTREADTHEFOLLOWING
IVDUNTILYOUHAVESEENlT
DEMONSTRATEDON THEDVDS.
IVD#5: BirthdayGuessing
Horse= seli-image
Ladder= ambitions in life
=
Flowers closefriendsand lovedones
Horseidealman
Storm= problemsin your lifeand the way you let themeffectyou.
(seeperformance
and furtherinstructions
on DVD)
PART XI
PLAYFULGAMES
. NapkinTearing
. The FiveQuestionsGame
. MouseRace
Dogjaw
TheAmazingDollarBillMiracle
ToasUMilk
Riddles
Fuck,lvlarry,Kill
DrinkBalancing
on Thumbs
P e n1 5C l u b
CHANGERIDDLE:Havepenny,nickel,anddimein yourhand.Ben'smother
hadthreechildren:the first one was penny,the secondone was Nicholas,and
thethirdone is?
. Breakpencilwithdollar
EXERCISE:
STOP!
or as soonas possible,
Go outtonight, and PRACTICE
DHVSaboveBEFORE
continuing.
Onceyou'vesuccessfully
demonstrated twoDHVsandgeneratedinterestor attraction
onto thefinalpartofthe program.
fromthem,thencontinue
PART XII
a
REMINDER:
Rulesof Learning:
. Nottakingit personally
. Chasingoncetheygetone lC..
. Winningoverthe obstacle- evenactuallyattractingher.
. Beingtoo afraidto walk away
. Expectinga reaction;beingneedywith routines.
. Understand the structureand you'llneverrun out ofthingsto say
. Takeit lessseriously,havefun, blowit for the hell of it
o PART XIII
Rapport,Qualifyingand Emotionalconnection
. Style'sEV
. N.4ystery's
26,000daysroutine.
. OpenLoops
. 100percentperfectgirl
5. lf rightnow, you weretold that you had one hourleftto live,whatwouldyou do?
Whatareyoulookingfor?ScreenherBEFOREshe
\Mat areYOURstandards?
screensyou.
CLOSES
. Readinglols
. Kinoescalation
. Righthand/left
hand
. The EvolutionPhaseShiftKissRoutine
. "Youdon'tknowhowhardit is.."
. GoodKisser1-10
. lnstantDates
PART XV
SECRETS
TO MASTERY:
- Organization
Intelligence
So:
yourBESTSELF.
Goodluckbecoming