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ANNIHILATION WORKBOOK

METHOD

INTRODUGTION

Thankyouall for readingandwatching. l'm notgoingto tellyoutoo muchaboutmy


background,becauseit'sall in my book.What I will tell you is that I wentfrom the
world'sworstAFC to the world'sgreatestpickupartistin abouttwo years.And I believe
thatanyonelisteningcando that...iftheygo aboutit right.

So I'mgoingto teachyou howto go aboutit right.

Pleasenotethat I haveleft plentyof spaceon eachpageafter€ach lesson,so thatyou


maytake notesand writedownroutinesand pointersfromthe DVDS.

Let me tell you all why I'mdoingthis. lt's becauseI spenttwo yearsin this communityof
pickupartists.And lwatchedsomepeoplerapidlyimproveand othersgo nowhere,
spinningtheirwheels.I interviewed everypickupartist,everystudent,and every
woman.I researched this all the time.And I learnedsomething:mostof the peopleout
thereare learningthis wrong.They'reonly learningto exerciseone muscle.lt's like
goingto the gym andjust doingcurls.Sure,you'llbe ableto beatanyoneat arm-
wrestling,but you'regoingto looklikea freak.

I'mgoingto startout by givingyou sometheory,then I'mgoingto giveyou some


practicaltools.WhenI started,all lwantedwerethe routinesand lines;nowthe theory
and overalltruthsand guidanceare what I crave.So you'reall goingto get DVDSso you
can hearthis whenyou'rereadyfor it...andso you can practiceand hearthe proper
delivervof the routines.
PART I

A lot of you haveheardof the AnnihilationMethod.I calledit the Annihilationl\ilethod


becauseI wantto builda newyou thatwill annihilateall competitors. Thetwo biggest
clich6sof datingadviceare:
- Just be yourself...shouldbe yourbestself
And
- withoutsuccess.Successbreedsconfidence.
Be confident...whichis impossible
We'regoingto learnhowto havesuccess.

Simpleformula:be interestingand interested...


be confidentand competent.

The AnnihilationMethodis a workoutprogramfor everysinglemusclethat is you. I want


you firingon everysinglecylinder.Whenyou are meetinga woman- just likewhen
you'regoingfor a job interviewor at a familyreunionor tryingto get upgradedto first
classon an airline- eveMhingcounts.

It hasthreeelements:who you are,whatyou do, and whenand howyou do it.

Forwho you are thereare the L.A.S.V.E.G.A.S.traitsof a desirableman,for whatyou


do the five sequentialsteps,and for whenyou do it, the basicprinciplesof calibration.
This is ALL you everneedto know.

There'sa veryfamouswomanwho has a datingtheory.She callsit the five-pronged


theoryof dating.You haveto measureyourselfin termsof:
r LOOKS
. Money
. Intelligence
. Personality
. Character
. Statusand Prestige

You haveto measureyourpointsin thesecategoriesagainstthoseof a woman,and if


lhey matchyou'resuitedto eachother,she says.And she tellsguysnot to try for girls
^,,t ^f thair la.^,,a

Guesswhat?This is a loadof horseshit.You don'tneedlooks,money,or any of that. I


knowbecauseI had neitherwhen I startedthis thing.Looksand moneyare symbolsof
deeperthingsthatwomenare lookingfor. And all of thosedeeperthingsare withinthe
graspof anyone.This is the AnnihilationMethod:to giveyou all of thosequalitiesand
giveyou a roadmapto acquirethemthat requiresnothingbut learningand practice.
PART II

Beforewe get to the annihilation,


let'sdiscusshowto learn.

WhatSeparatesa ChumpFroma Champ?\/vhydo somepeoplelearnquicklywhile


otherslanguish?

1. Are you in thefieldor an internet


andseminarjunkie?

2. Smallchunkknowledge, anddealwithchallenges as theyarise.Workout


in
Droblems real lifefirst,and then in vour head.Notthe otherwav around.

the unconscious
3. Understanding incompetence
to unconscious
competence
model.

4. Willingness to go throughthe painperiodand leavethe comfortzone.


Schwarzenegger: This lasttwo or threeor fourrepetitions,that'swhatmakesthe
musclesgrow. That'swhat dividesone frcm a championand one from not being
a champion.lf you can go throughthe pain period, you make it to be a champion.
lf you can't go throughit, forget it. And that's what most people lack: having the
guts- the guts to go in andjust say... "l don'tcare whathappens."I haveno fear
of faintingin the gym... I threw up many times when I was workingout. But it
doesn'tmafter,becauseit'sall wofthit.

5. Separating
usefulfromuselesslearning.

6. Willingto test ideasevenif theydon'tseemlogical.

the principles
7. Understanding behindthe ideaswhentheyworkfor you.

8. Learningfrom mistakes,and knowingthat nothing'simpossible.Gettingrid of


limitingbeliefs.

9. Who do you blame?lt's neverher fault.lt's alwaysyours.Willingnessto examine


yourselfandtake criticismwithouttakingit personally.
10.Push it twentypercentfurtherthanyourknowledge..
.failuresare learning
lessons.

11.Lookat the questionsyou'reaskingto see if you'reon the rightcourse.Are they


helpingor aretheyneurotic?

12.Hangout with someonebetterthanyou. Earntheirtrustand mentorshipby being


promising
butnon-threatening.

13.lsyourratioof effortto resultsincreasing?


lf not,youmustexaminewhatyou're
doing,becauseyou'redoingit wrong.
o PART III

To get better,you needa wingor a groupof wingswho you trust.And bothof you need
to be honestwith eachother.Tell eachotherthingsyourfriendsneverwould.lf you
don'ttake it personallyand understandthat it's constructive
and subjective,you will do
well.lt'simportantto ask,whenpossible, someone's FIRSTIMPRESSION of you,and
havethembe unafraidto be critical.Thefeedbackis important.

EXERCISE:

Question1: \/y'hvdo vou wantto learnthis?

o
Question2: Ask yourselfagain:\/Vhyare you reallywatchingthis program?
Question3; Now,ignorethe aboveanswers,and reachdeepintoand honest
placeand reallyput it downon paperonceand for ali: VVhyare you doingthis?
EXERCISE:

1. Describehowyou appearto othersin a simplesentenceor two.


2. Drawa simpleportraitof yourselfnow.
3. Now,describehowyou'dliketo appearin a yearfrom now in a simple
sentenceor Iwo.
4. Drawa simpleportraitof yourselfa yearfromnow.

SAVEYOURANSWERS TO QUESTIONS THREEAND FOUR;REFERTO


T H E MO F T E N .U. .N T I LY O UB E C O M E T H E M .
Eachof the belowis rankedfrom one to five,with averagebeingone andfive being
reservedfor beingin the top one percentin the wodd.Note;lf you do not possessthis
quality,you get ZEROpoints;onlygiveyourselfa pointif you are AVERAGEOR
ABOVE.

In general,you needsix pointsfor a low qualitywoman,ten pointsfor an average


woman,eighteen for a highqualitywoman.

WHOYOUARE

You wantto be LAS VEGAS

We will go intothis in depthlater,and giveyou eachof thesequalities,butfor starters


theseare your long-rangegoals.Theyare notjust innergamebut yourend game.Very
simpleto say and learn,very complicated to do. Eachof thesestepshas manysub-
steps.but we will outlinethem briefly

LOOKS:Well-groomed and standingout. Belongingto a tribethat shewantsto be part


of, or at leastvisit.

SOLUTION: femalepanel,hairperson,clothesshopping
Stylist,
ADAPTABILITY: thisis wherehumorand intelligence comein.(lt'swhy uptightguys
for peerapproval.
don'tget laid.)lt's her beingableto introduceyou to her friends/family
It'swhereadventurousness, spontaneity,independence, risk{aking,and the abilityto
handlenew situations.Excitingto be around,in the moment.lt's beingableto be fun in
a club,mannered withherfamily,anda totaljerkwithyourmalefriends.Quote:"The
soeciesthat doesnot adaDtis doomedto die."

SOLUTION: Travel.Culturalknowledge.
Exposure
to newthingsand unfamiliar
situations.
STRENGTH: Definednotas physical
traditionally
strength,butthe abilityto protecther.Thjsis done
througheithermoneyor muscle,butthroughdecisiveness, non-wussiness,
I
usefulpracticalknowledge, an abilityto "takecareof things," takingcharge,
assertiveness,livingin your own reality,and the abilityto makeher feel safe.Also moral
strengthand values(goodor bad but strong)that makeher feel safetyand comfort.
Loyalty.

in your responsepatterns.
SOLUTION:Becomeself-correcting

You are constantlybeingtestedfor your abilityto do this for a chick.So here'sa small
checklist:
'1. Makedecisions.
Don'task herwhatshewants,thoughit'sokayto findouther
preferences.

2. Don'tchangeyouropinionbasedon whatshethinksin orderto pleaseheror get


rapport.lt's onlyokayto changethemif she persuadesyou logically.

3. Knowyourenvironment.
Knowhowto getplaces,whatto do,what'scool.

ableto get others(waiters,door-people,


4. Be an effectivecommunicator, taxi
drivers)to respond.

5 . Be seenas the leaderof a groupand othermen.

6 . Haverules.

7 . StoMelling:aboutprotectinga girlfriendfrom a threatcauseit'syour nature,


aboutejectingsomeonefromyour lifefor an infractionbecauseyou havea "zero
policy."
tolerance

wherepeopleareconfused
8 . In situations or indecisive,
takecharge.

L Nottoleratingbad behaviorfrom her or lettingher manipulateher likeshe does


othermenor her father.

10.StoMelling
techniques.
Wearinga shoulder
holster.
VALUE:Standingout. Whatmakesyou differentthan all the otherguysshe should
meet...beinginteresting,
beingexcellent...
entertaining.. "womenwantto
.chickcrack...
learnfrommen"..."being an authorityoverherworld"...leader
of men.Alsoincludes
externalvalue:socialproof,leaderof yourgroup,beingseenas attractiveto others.

SOLUTION: Learning
DHVroutines, to playsocialprooflikean
learning
makingsureshe'sbendingto meetyou on your realityand notevice
instrument,
versa.
El\i]OTIONAL CONNECTION: Chemistry,
emotional connecting,havinga qualitythat
makesherfeelemotionally excitedandfocusedaroundyou.Findingyourselflaughing
togetheror sayingthingsat the sametime.Commonalities.Canalsoincludeemotional
qualities
likebeingcompassionate, havinga tenderside.Confessing
caring,sensitivity,
mutualdeepsecretsyou'venevertold anyonebefore.

story,NLP,"metoo"tactics,lettingher
SOLUTION:Style'sEV,vulnerability
Drotecr
GOALS:This is not definedby whatyou do, but by whatyou'recapableof doing.
Successisn'tnecessary, just a clearpathtowardsit. Goals.A dream.Hungerfor life.
And notjust ambitionbut potential.Womenas A&R scouts.Possiblycreativity.Stability.

SOLUTION:ldentifi/your identitytoday,whereyou wantto be five yearsfrom


now,howyou'regoingto get there.
AUTHENTIC|ry:This meansthat who you presentyourselfto be on the outsidemust
be the sameas who you are on the inside.lt's a personwho is happywith and likes
and that'sokay.lt's alsoacceptingyour
himself.However,real life has contradictions,
imperfectionsbecausethey makeyou human,.And havinga dualityor a contradiction
makeyou morecompellingand richas a peBon.
or complications

SOLUTION: Thisis the laststep.lt'strueinnergame.lt'smastery.


And it'sthe
mostattractiveof all thesequalities.
SELF-WORTH: Confldence, whichis highstatusbehavior(cockyfunny,non-
neediness).Not beingafraidto take up spacein the worldor someoneelse'stime."l
just benchpressedthe world."Senseof worthiness.Lackof desperation. Having
opinionsand stickingto them,evenif theyconflictwith hers,but at the sametime not
beingafraidto admityou'rewrongif you are.

SOLUTION:Success.Affirmations. bodylanguageand frame


Self-correcting
control.
EXERCISE:

1. Rankyourselfin pointson LasVegas.

2. lf possible,ratea wingor two and havethemrateyou.(Noticewhereyour


opinionof yourselfdiffersfromtheirs.).

3. Wheredo you needto do the mostwork on yourself?

YOURSELF'
NOTE:KEEPTHISAND,AS YOUGETlN THEFIELDAND IMPROVE
RE-MTE YOURSELFEVERYMONTH.
PART IV

WHATYOU DO

Simplemodel:

' OPen
. DemonstrateValue
. Createan EmotionalConnection
. Createa PhysicalConnection

Fullmodel:

PARTONE:GETTINGINTOTHEGROUP

STEPONE
OPENER
Do imDrovisedor cannedooener
Rootthe ODener
Giveyourselfa time constraint("1can onlystayfor a minutebecausel'm with my friends
overthere")
Bodylanguageas if you'reaboutto leave
Conveypersonality,smile,but don'tbe over-enthusiastic(energylevelequalto or
higherthanthe group)

STEPTWO (youcan alsofractionateopenerto do this)


BREAKINTOTHEIRWORLD
Conveyactivedisinterest
Bestfriendtest
Makeperceptiveor teasingcommentsaboutthem
Insertchallenges
PARTTWOiMAKINGTHEI\4WANTTO KEEPYOU

STEPTHREE
DEMONSTRATE VALUE
Usegimmick,
magic,psychicroutine,
humor,game,whatever

STEPFOUR
CALIBRATION WEIGHPOINT
Option1: Takeaway or falsetakeaway
Option2: Jointhe group,mid-storyor routine,but againgiveyourselftime constraint
Option3: Stayin group
Option4: Pawnfor anothergroup
PART THREETCONNECTING
WITHHER

STEPFOUR
BUILDMPPORT
lsolateit possible,physicallyor verbally
Qualify
ElicitValues
FindCommonalities
LetHerShare

STEPFIVE
CLOSE
OPTIONONE:#close
OPTIONTWO:lsolatetarget,phaseshifvseduce,and *close
OPTIONTHREE:Instantdate.Stayin group(or returnto group)so that you end the
nightwith them.Takegroupelsewhere.Try to get to target'shouse,or get her to your
house
PART V

Whenand How You Do lt

Thisis Calibration,
butskewedin the"it'salwayson"direction

It'saboutreadingthedynamicof thegroupor thewomenandknowing


whatto do next,
even if it'ssomethingI'veneverdonebefore.

lf a womancomesup to you in the bar,rubsyour chest,and saysyou'recute,whatdo


youdo?An opinionopenerwillboreher;a DHVis unnecessary. Yougo rightto the last
step.lt's okayto openwiththat if that'swhereshe'sat in her process.

Whenyou get goodat the routinesin the abovestep,you can notworryaboutyou're


sayingand startwatchingyour bodylanguageand attitudeand how it affectsthem.

with standingtoo closeto a womanand seeinghowshe reacts;too far


Experiment
on at heror at an angle.
away.leaningin,notleaningin.Lookingstraight

All thesethingswill affecther behavior.

Yourpositivebodylanguageshouldbe a rewardfor HERgoodbehavior.

Now unlikethe stepsabove,mostof the calibrationwe'regoingto learnin the field.


However,hereare a few exercisesto startthinkingabout.

To me, calibrationis the key to everything.However,it can alsobe a trap.If you over-
calibrate,you worrytoo muchand respondto smallsignsthat don'tmatter.So go in with
the attitudethat "it'salwayson" and "eveMhingshe doesis an ioi,"yet at the sametime
be consciousto oive her whatshe needs.
First,you'rebasicallylookingfor threeresponses:

. Positive- greenlight- go foMard


. Neutral- yellowlight - proceedwith caution
. Negative- red light - stopwhatyou'redoing

Mostoftenwe'regoingto be dealingwith yellowlights:

lf she needsyou to havemorevalue:

. (through
Showdisinterest wordsor bodylanguage)
. Negandtease
. DHVsomeoneelse

lf she needsmoreattraction:

. Push-pull
. Jealousyplotline
. Becomethesourceof hervalidation
. Arousaltalk

lf she needstrust:

Listenand be interested
. Positivebodylanguage
. SincerelOls/SOls
. Qualification
. Style'sEV

lf she needsto be morecomfortable

. Time constraint
. SocialProof
. Win over herfriends

You goal is to do what it takesto get the greenlight.However,if you stayat a green
lightto long,it can turnyellow.So you needto figureout what'sat the nextintersection.
So the realsecondgoal of calibrationis: Figuringout whereshe'sat in the processand
whereshe needsto be takennext.
The nextstepof calibrationis figuringoutwho she is:

. Whatpersonalitytype she is?


. Doesshe havehighor low self-esteem?
. Howsexuallyopenor reservedshe is?
. Whather self-imageis?
. Whatshe doesfor work?
. ls shean older/youngsibling,closeto mom/dad?
. ls shea physical,
kinesthetic,
or intellectual
type?
. Whatare herneeds?
. Whereis shein lifeandwhatis shelookingfor?

All thesethingswill helptell you howto proceedand whatto use.


Thereare no rules,onlyguidelines.

Somewomenloveto be coldread;they'llstartyourlocalfan club if you do it well.


Othersbristlewhenyou startto do it andwill startconfrontingyou about"whatgivesyou
the rightto say thosethingsaboutsomeoneyou don'tevenknow?"

You haveto knowwhento cut the thread(becauseit'sa bad one leadingto a bad
place)andmoveon to something else.

So thequestionis: Howdo you learncalibration?

The answeris: get feedbackon yourthoughts

A goodway to practicecalibration,and it'sa fun thingto do on a dateas well, is to


choosetwo peopleelsewherein the room.Thenguesswhattheirstoryis, whattheir
is, whatthey do for work.Thenask themand find out. lt makesa good
relationship
openertoo.(Justaskthemin a non-judgmental wayandoutof genuinecuriosity and
you'llbe okay.)

Try that alsoon dates:ask her if she'shad an oldersister/younger


brother/whatever,if
shewas closerto her mother/father, if shewas popular/unpopular
at school.Make
guessesfirst,then get the feedback.Onceyou learn,you'llbe phenomenalin the field.
Peoplewillthinkyou'rea psychic.
PART VI

Okay,let'sget downto the fun stuff.

EXERCISE:Beforeyou readthis,writedownwhatyou say to starta conversation


with
a womanyou'vejust seenacrossa room?

Note:lf you don't havean answer,youwill shortly.lf you havean answer,compareit to


thetechniques belowwhenfinished.
Okay,let'sget downto the rulesof opening.Whatl'm goingto teachyou is notjust the
openersbut alsothe structurebehindthemso you can comeup with yourown.
Also,this is how I do it. lt's my formulabrokendownstepby step.Use it as a guideline,
butultimately do whatworksfor you.

Generalprinciples
of opening:

1. Clubis a performance,
fromthe momentyouwalkin. Neverbe caughtlooking
aroundandnothavingfun.
2. Threesecondrule.

smiling,positive
3. Equalor higherenergylevel(includes non-needy
energy)

4. Passingby,aboutto leavebodylanguage

5. Rootyouropener(answerthe why areyouaskingusthis?)


question:

and,if the music'stoo loudor she's


6. Don'tleanin or hover.Standup straight
seated,talklouder.

7. Time constraint(answerthe question:howlongare you goingto hangaround?)

8. Neutralentertainingopener:don'twastequestionson yourfriends,ask them


theyshouldcomefroma placeof genuineCURIOSITY
outside; and
SPONTANEITY. you
Wth C & S and a littlecharm, get
will never rejected.

9. Neverbeginwith a question(or please,excuseme, l'm sorry)

10.Focuson the wholegroup,and makesurethey'realwaysattentiveand involved


in the interaction.

buthookthemwithinteractivity
11.Youshouldbe leading/dominant,

activedisinterest(througha neg or
12.If she is oftenhit on, demonstrate
disoualification)

Note:neverdelivera pebbleexpectinga
13.Toss"pebbles"to ampfun/excitement.
reactton.

14.Rememberthat the linesdon'tmatter.They'rejust excusesto keepyour mouth


movingwhileyoudisplayyourpersonality.

15.lf it'stwo hotwomen.Dawn.

16.lf focusing mentionan ex girlfriend


on guys(ESPwhenPeacocking), at some
pointso they knowyou'restraight.
Opinion Openers:Choosea favoritefrom the openersbelow,the full text and proper
form of whichis includedin the DVDSand CDs.

Don'twastequestionson friendsor the internet...use


themesthat provokediscuss:on,
fascination,
or laughter...

. JealousGirlfriend
. 80,sDogs
. DentalFloss
. Two-PartKissODener
. CologneOpener
. FiveOceans
' Spells

Peopleoftenworryaboutgettingcaughlwith opinionopeners.That'swhy I'mgoingto


giveyou exclusivelyNEWcategoriesof openers.I madeup opinionopeners,and as
they startedto becomewidespread,l've heldthesein reserve.I am goingto sharethem
with you now.lt is vitalthat you keepthis TOP SECRET.
New category of openers:Oh my Godopeners

"Ohmy God,didyoujustseethat..."
Structure:
Or "Oh my God,youlookjust like..."

Attitude:
Spontaneous
excitement/surprise.

. SteDhanieRoss
. SisterNora
. GirlFiSht

To opena guy in group:

1. Oh my god:Wheredidyougetthatshirtfrom?
(Askwheretheygot the shoes/shirt theywerewearing,becauseyou usedto
haveit, butyou let a girl wear it whenshe leftyour house,and you neversaw it
again.And you wantanother.You shouldbuytwo of everyitemof clothingyou
own.)

2. Oh my god,you havethe exactsameshoesthat my littlesistermademe shop


for for six hours.And I betyou got the last pair,didn'tyou?

3. Hey,do you work at The Standard(orwherever)?


HB: "No"
PUA: "wellyou lookjust likesomeonewho'sa newwailressat the bar and I
didn'twan to be rudeby not sayinghi herenow"
She'llsay Nay,I don'tworktheresorry!
Thenyou can go into"Ah so whatdo you do then?"

4. Oh my god,lookat thatgirls'hairlDo youthinkshe'shidinga gunin it, or a small


child?DidI justsaythatoutloud?Wasthatrude?Don'tworry...your hair'sfine.
(Rolleyesjokingly)

if caught,say,"Omg,my friendwrotethat book.We werearguing


Troubleshooting:
aboutwhetherthat stuff reallyworked."

CALIBRATION: Theirresponses willtellyouwhetheryou'redoingit or not.


lf theyask if it'sa pickup
line,
it doesn'tappearspontaneous. Or youdidn'tdisqualify.
lf they get uncomfortable andwantto leave,you didn'tdo time constraintor camein too
directwithBL.

lf they ask if you'retakinga survey,you didn'troot.

a
Part Vll

After the opener:

1. Rockas if you'reaboutto leave.


2. Ask as an afterthought "Howdo you all knoweachother"(credit:Mystery)to
determine the relationshiDs.
3. Discuss fishinglinetheory
4. Hookthemwith an observation that leadsto a DHV,lVD,etc.
5. lf they are seated,sit downbut with atime constraint.lfthey are standingand
you'rein an outsideposition,lockin.
6. DHV if necessaryto hookset
7. Oversellyourfriendsto makewing entrance/merging easier.
L Don'tjumpthroughhoops,passshittests
Wing rules:

1. Enterwhenthe set it on a high(ona low,you'lllosethem)


2. Entrance line:Hey,wereyoujusttalkingaboutthe_.
3. Pre-prepared accomplishment introand/orstory
4. Addfalsemodesty: Don'ttellhimltoldyou;he doesn'tlikepeopleusinghimfor
that.
5. Wingdoesn'tDHV,but is goodnatured,positiveenergy,fun storytelling.
6. Wingaidsin isolationand,duringisolation,visitsonlybrieflyfor socialproof.
7. Wingdoesnot hit on anyonein set untilhe'ssurewho the personwho opened
the set'stargetis.
8. Developfingersignalingsystem(forinterestor for names)
9. Alwayspaycloseattentionto whatyourwingsays,laughand drawthe groupinto
stories("Ohmy god,you haveto hearthisl")
PEBBLES/Role-Playing/Push-Pull

1. I c a n 'tte l ly o u . . . l d o n ' t k n o w yw
oeu l le n o u g yh e t .
2. You'refired.
3. Noteto self:do notdatethisgirl.
4. You guysareawesome. You'rejusl liketheView.(Whenthey'regivingopinions
on an oDener.)
5. Aftershe sayswhereshe'sfromor wentto school,ask,"Doyou knowSarah"?
(Addif youwant"thin,blackhair,oliveskin")Then,aftershestruggles to think,
sayyoujustmadeit up.
6. That'sit.We'rebreaking up.You cankeepthedog.
7. I wantto takethat partof you rightthere(a pinchof fat, an eyelid,whatever)and
putit on rice,andeat it.
L Wait untilthey say somethingthat can be perceivedas a negativetraitabout
them,andthensay,as youpretendlikeyou'rewritingon yourhand,"Noteto self:
Do notdatethisgirl."
9. Her: I haveto tellyousomething... You: You'repregnant
10.Whenshe mentionsa townshe'sfrom or a movieshe lovesor a televisionshow
or whatever,say,"Neverheardof it." Saidreallystraightand dry,with eye
contact.Then,afrerpausingfor a few sections,breakintoa smilelettingher
knowyou'rekidding.
11.Hiringfor doublethesalarytease
12.Thisrelationship is notworkingout.
13.Hey,ljust flirta lot;I don'tputout.
'14.Use shockintriguehookslike"l havea confession to make"(l needto go the
bathroom/ | needanotherdrinldl'm gay)
15.Let'stakethisslow...I don'twantto gethurt
16.Checkthisgirlout.She'samazing, andso brightandfunny.Wouldyoubelieve
she'sneverhad a boyfriend?
17.Getengaged, thenbreakup.Etc.
18.Tellher you'releavingherforaricholderwomanwhowillpayallyourbillsand
take careof you.
19.Do MINITAKEAWAYS. "We'retalkingguytalkhere.Couldyou leaveus alone
for a moment." Then pull herback."Waitrightthere.lvlyfriendswantme.""l'm
talkingto yourfriendrightnow.Geez."Don'tbe afraidto turn your backon her,
and KNOWthatshewon'tgo away.
20.Okay,youghlshavetakenup enoughofmytime.I haveotherpeopleto keep
company.
21.Whenshe'stalking,say"whatever." Or drylysay,"Andyourpointis..."
22.Put her on a point systemwhere you subtractand add points.Startchargingher
moneyforthingsandkeepa tab.
EXERCISE:

STOPI

Stopwatchingthe DVDSand goingthroughthe workbookRIGHTNOW.

Go outtonight,or as soonas possible,


and PRACTICE
THEOPENERS
AND
APPROACH STRATEGIES aboveBEFOREcontinuing.

Usethis pageto writedownyour:

FieldReports
StickingPoints
Questions
Notesand AffirmationsFor Self-lmprovement

Thereare only 375 of you. lf there is a demandfor it, we will create an Annihilation
Methodforum ONLY FOR YOU,so that we can all discussyour lessong expenences,
and thoughts,and give you feedbackas you wotk through this course.
PART VIII

You'velearnedhowto chasewomen,now it'stimeto learnhowto get themchasing


you.

This is donethroughtechniquesgatheredfrom manyof the top PUASin the game


(Mystery,DavidD, Swinggcat,myself,etc).

. Pebbles
. Negs
. LASVEGASattitude
. DHVS
. Challenges
. Hardcore Push-Pull
. Disqualification
. Cat StringTheory

MakeHERfeellikesheis winningYOUover

Keepa runninglist of linesand responses

Learnhowto push-puliwith BodyLanguage


Examples:

1 . Makea positive SOItypecomment, thenwithdrawwith"l don'tknowyouwell


enoughthough"or "toobadyou'renotmy type"or "butI don'tthinkI cantrust
you"or anyof the pebblesbelow.

Keepher reelingwith a constantstreamof "go away...comehere"commentsand


gestures

3 . Afterhittingthe hookpoint,do a miniverbaltakeawayto get themto chaseyou.


Tryto setthemup withsomeoneelseor tellthemyoucan'ttalkto heranymore
or she'sbadnews.

Quicksuccession of opposing comments..."Ohmy god,I alwaysfallfor


hateyou....actually,
southerners...l let'sgetmarried...right
now...that's
it, l'm
breakingup withyou...that'sawesome; we haveto renewourvowsrighl
now...no,we'redivorcing,
andthistimeit'sfinal....but
we can'tdivorce,what
aboutour grandchildren,
all 17ofthem."

5 . Constantlyaccusethemof beingtroubleandthe kindofwomanthatyourmother


warnedyouaboutOR,conversely, tellthemthatYOUwillbreaktheirheartand
sleepwiththeirfriends.

6 . Teaseher:take cigarettesshe'saboutto lightout of her mouthand pretendto


throwthemacrossthe room;makeher workfor anythingshe wantsyou to pass
her;say,"ohmy god,yourpurseis gone!"thensmilewickedlyandsay"sucker"
whenshe freaksout;whatevera schoolyardbullywoulddo.

7 . Do NOTtouchherearlyto copa feel;touchherto teaseher.Swingheraround,


pick her up and pretendto weighher,moveher out of yourway;flip her;pinch
her cheeks;whatever.

8 . CockyFunny:she'shittingon you,she'smessingup herchanceswithyou,YOU


you,shewants
arethe 10,YOUarethe sexualobject,sheis inconveniencing
you,she'smovingtoo fast,etc.

NOTE:Onceyou get attractionand rapport,you can dropmostof this.


PART IX

FASHION
CONSULTATION

Get a woman,a trustworthystoresaleslady,a wing,a PUAteacher,or SoME


TRUSTED SOURCEFORFASHION to critiqueandaidyou in thefollowing
categories:

Style
Fashion
Clothing

Hair
Grooming
Optional
MaleMakeup
PART X

Now...theREALLYfunstuff...

DHVSAND IVDS

Introduce
themin a non-needy way.Notto impress youjust
them.lt'ssomething
learnedand you wantto practice,for example.Or teaseit and makethemask/beg.

IVD#1: BestFriendTest
Style: Okay,I haveto ask: how longhaveyou guysknowneachotherfor? (lf you think
they'resistersask,Are you guyssistersor bestfriends?)
HBs: blahblah
Style: See, I knewthat.
HBs: Howcouldyouknowthat?
Style:l'llshowyou.In fact,l'llgiveyouthe bestfriendtest.
HBs: (theyalwaysget excitedhere-theylovetestsfor somefuckingreason)
Style:Okay...(pretend likeI'maboutto aska seriousquestion-you'rehooked,right,so
youknowthey'realreadyhooked)...do you bothusethesameshampoot
HBs: (lookat eachother,and then opentheirmouthsto answer)
Style: Okay,the answerdoesn'tmatter.You alreadypassed.
HBst 22?2???.
Style: See,if you weren'tcloseto eachother,you'dkeepeye contactwith me as you
answered.But if two peoplehavea connection, theylookat eachotherfirst.Kindof like
you'redoingrightnow.
HBs: giggle(Thisis wherethe seductionnewbiesyoujust met see you makingtwo
strangers laughandthinkyou'rea PUAGod,LOL)
Style: See,you don'tevenneedto say anythingto eachother.lt's likeyoujust
communicate telepathically.

Then,thereare a millionplacesto go from here:Oftenthey'lljustopenup and start


tellingyou abouthowthey met.(Nowyou'reREALLYin.) lf one lookedat the otherone
first,thenyou say that she is submissiveand the otheris dominantin the friendship.
(Canbe a greatneg.)lf theywantmore,I get personalhereand ask,"Hasone of you
ever kissedsomeonethe otherpersondated?"Theyfuckinglovethis one - but don't
makeit yourfirstquestion. You canalsousethetelepathy lineto launchintoa mind-
reading/cold-reading routineif you do that.You'llfigurethe restof this out as you do it in
thefield.
IVD#2: Cs vs Us
This one is basedon a truestory,froma womanI met. But don'tpresentit as if YOU
believeit. Presentit as if it'ssomecrazystoryyou heard.

Style:Smileagainfor me.
HB: um,okay.
Style(to wing):See,she'sa U.
HBt 2???
Style: I dateda girlwho wantedto be a pop star.And she had a theorythat peoplewith
U-shapedsmileswereperceivedas unfriendly. And peoplewith C-shapedsmileswere
perceivedas friendly.
HB: So what'sa U then?
Style: A U is whenyourteethgo straightbackin your mouth(canadd "kindof likea
horse"if she'sa SHB).A C is whenthere'sa big rowof pearlywhitesin the front.And to
my ex, it was morethan a theory.She actuallygot her teethsurgicallyreshapedfrom a
UtoaC.
HB: Noway.
Style:And shehadme go lookat pictures of likeChristinaAguilera,
whois a U, and
BritneySpears,who is a C. Lookat thecoverof Us or anymagazine, andyou'llseethat
it's alwaysa C smileon the cover.

Fromhere,me andthe targetstartinspectingthe teethof randomstrangerslookingfor


the perfectC or U. lt'sfun. This nextsectionisn'tpartof the lVD, butthis is the restof
the routineif you wantit:

Style: lt's crazyhowmanyplasticsurgeriestheyhavefor celebsnow.She had her eye


makeupandherlipstick tattooedon,andwhenshechangedherhaircolor,she hadher
lips re-tattooed.(lf the HB seemsopen-minded, I continuewiththe following:) And do
you wantto hearthe grossestthing?Oneday I noticedthat she hadtwo rounddotson
her upperthighs.Sheworkedout two hoursa day and was super-flt,but evidentlyshe
got lipotoo. But here'swhat'scrazy.Becauseshe usedto work as an exoticdancer,
she got the fat injectedintoher labiaso that she alwayslookedaroused.(l REALLYsay
thisto HBs...and thenI smile,say"goodbye" andstartto jokingly
as if l'm embarrassed,
teave.)

ThenI throwin thisjoke,withcreditgoingto Nightlightg: ShewasfromLA,andyou


haveto be carefulwith them.Wheneveryou go out with girlsin LA,everythingcan be
reallyfake. Fakehair(pointto your hair),fakeeyes(pointto eyes),fake nose(pointto
nose),faketeeth(pointto teeth),fake breasts(cupyour breasts).You haveto take
themto the doctorfirstto find out whichpartsare real...Theyput her througha
machine, andyougeta print-out at theend."
IVD#3: NameMnemonics
HB: What'syourname?
Style: I'm Style.
HB: l'mJanet.Thisis Donna.And that'sTony.
Style:Okay.......Janet...Donna...Tony. You know,I usedto be reallybadwithnames.
HBs:Omigod,I'mso badwithnames.
Style:Butyou don'thaveto be anymore. Here,l'llshowyou in two seconds. All I do
whenl'm introduced to you is makea picturein my head.So if you'reJanet,I picture
you with the headof JanetfromThree'sCompany.No offense.And for Donna,I just
picturelikethe dawn,andthesun risingoveryourhead.AndforTony,I seeyouon
the frontof a box of FrostedFlakes.Here,l'll showyou.

Now,in the olddays,I'd havethemmemorize my wholename:First,Middle,and Last.


But it cameoff as too gimmick-y.Now,I grabmy wing,or a strangerin the club (like
anothergirl I wantto meet)and teachthemhowto memorizehis/herFirst,Middle,and
Lastname.Learnaboutmnemonics if youdon'tknowthis.Butfor it to work,youMUST
havethemreallySEEthe picturein theirminds.lt alsobecomes funtestingthemlater
in the Sargeto see if they still remember.
IVD#4:EyeAccessingCues

Up=visual- invented/remembered
Side= auditory- invented/remembered
Down = kinesthetic/talkingto self
StraightAhead (rare1= v;"r"1

Seguewayintothe following(demonstrated
on the DVDS)...

The Two LyingGames


'l - Eye-accessingcues
2 - Interrogation

NOTE:DO NOTREADTHEFOLLOWING
IVDUNTILYOUHAVESEENlT
DEMONSTRATEDON THEDVDS.
IVD#5: BirthdayGuessing

This is the codefor part I of the BlackMirrorTechniquedemonstrated on the DVDS.


Part ll can be foundin the very short Kenton Knepper handbook, Completely Cold.A
powerfuldouble-whammy, so powerfulin factthat you'llneverhaveto DHVagain
afreMard.
'1.I
2. So/Go
3. Try
4. Wi
5. Would/Could
6. Please
7. Quickly/Perhaps
8. Now
9. Alright
10. 0/1o-Okay

lf psychicmissesa cue,say,"You're a hard person to read."

lf wing messesup a cue,say "delete" to erasewhatwas just said.


IVD#6: TheCube

Quickreferenceto the Styleversion:

Horse= seli-image
Ladder= ambitions in life
=
Flowers closefriendsand lovedones
Horseidealman
Storm= problemsin your lifeand the way you let themeffectyou.

(seeperformance
and furtherinstructions
on DVD)
PART XI

PLAYFULGAMES

. NapkinTearing

. The FiveQuestionsGame

. MouseRace

Dogjaw

TheAmazingDollarBillMiracle

ToasUMilk
Riddles

Fuck,lvlarry,Kill

DrinkBalancing
on Thumbs

P e n1 5C l u b

CHANGERIDDLE:Havepenny,nickel,anddimein yourhand.Ben'smother
hadthreechildren:the first one was penny,the secondone was Nicholas,and
thethirdone is?

. Breakpencilwithdollar
EXERCISE:

STOP!

Stopwatchingthe DVDSand goingthroughthe workbookRIGHTNOW.

or as soonas possible,
Go outtonight, and PRACTICE
DHVSaboveBEFORE
continuing.

Usethis pageto writedownyour:


FieldReports
StickingPoints
Questions
Notesand AffirmationsFor Self-lmprovement:

Onceyou'vesuccessfully
demonstrated twoDHVsandgeneratedinterestor attraction
onto thefinalpartofthe program.
fromthem,thencontinue
PART XII
a
REMINDER:

Rulesof Learning:
. Nottakingit personally
. Chasingoncetheygetone lC..
. Winningoverthe obstacle- evenactuallyattractingher.
. Beingtoo afraidto walk away
. Expectinga reaction;beingneedywith routines.
. Understand the structureand you'llneverrun out ofthingsto say
. Takeit lessseriously,havefun, blowit for the hell of it
o PART XIII

Rapport,Qualifyingand Emotionalconnection

. Style'sEV

. "Namethreethingsaboutyourselfthatwouldmakemewantto getto knowyou


noneof themcanbe aboutyourlooks."
better...and

. "Me,too"and"Whoah,I wasjustaboutto saythat"

. N.4ystery's
26,000daysroutine.

. then bondoveryou two beingthe onlyonesin townwho feelthat


Commonalities,
way

. OpenLoops

. 100percentperfectgirl

. For anothergoodpiece,I suggestresearchRossJeffries'signalattraction


routine
FORRAPPORT
QUESTIONS AND EARLYON

1. lf my friendswere comingto dinner,whatwouldyou cookto impressthem?


a
2. lf you couldwakeup tomorrowwith one thingchangedaboutyour life,what
wouldit be?

3. lf you couldchangeonethingaboutyourselfphysically,whatwouldit be?

4. lf you hadto eitherhavesex with the mostrepulsivepersonon the planet(likefat


bastardtimesten),or die,whichwouldyou choose?

5. lf rightnow, you weretold that you had one hourleftto live,whatwouldyou do?

6. lf therewas a thingyou couldchangein the world,whatwouldit be?

7. What'sthe mostmeaningfulcomplimentyou haveevergot before?


EXERCISE:

Whatareyoulookingfor?ScreenherBEFOREshe
\Mat areYOURstandards?
screensyou.

1. Writedownthe kindofwomanyou'relookingfor, then screenthemfor that.Both


positivevalues(positive
energy,ableto get alongwithanyone,adventurous,
spontaneous,can livefor herselfwithoutworryingaboutpeerapproval)and negative
values(drama,possessive, needy,lowselfesteem,flakiness, passiveaggressive)

Now,whenyou meeta woman,screenher for thesequalities.Let her knowthat you


and hoopsthatSHEmustjumpthrough.
havestandards
PART XIV

CLOSES

. Readinglols

. Kinoescalation

. Righthand/left
hand

. The ultimate#close:Seedingfollowedby PaperTearing

. The EvolutionPhaseShiftKissRoutine

. "Youdon'tknowhowhardit is.."

. GoodKisser1-10

. Mystery'sWouldYou Liketo KissMe Routine

. lnstantDates
PART XV

SECRETS
TO MASTERY:

As I progressedthroughthe Game,I constantlywrotedownmy goalsand sticking


points.I wrotedownwhatlwas goodat,whatlwas badat, andwhatI neededto learn.
I referredto thesenotesconstantly.

- Organization
Intelligence

So:

Organize yourthoughts andprogress.


Writedowna routine,step by step.
Writedownstickingpoints.
Writedowngoals.
Determinewhatmakesyou happy?
Checkyourselfmonthlyon the LASVEGASscale
Writedownyour ownstoriesand routinesthat makeyou interesting.
lgnorecriticismfromold friendsand familymemberswho don'twantyou to
change.
Makethe notesyou tookon who you wantedto be a yearfrom nowyour new
mantrauntilyou becomethat person.
Remember,from above,that one of the secretsto life is notto take it personally.
Becomeself-correcting. Whenyou catchyourselfslippingbackintoold habits,
whichyou will,just recognizeit and stopit. No needto beatyourselfup.
Whenyou get yourfirstsuccesses,don'tget lazy.This is whenyou muststart
workingharderto internalizewhatyou did right

And here'sthe key questionthat helpedme determinewhat I was doingrightand


wrong:

Afteryou makeoutwith or sleepwith a woman,ask her,"Whendid you first realizeyou


wereattractedto me?"(Askin a playfulway that assumesthe sale,not in a needyway.)
Youwillgetallthe FEEDBACK you need.

The answersmay surpriseyou.

yourBESTSELF.
Goodluckbecoming

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