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Anita Nair, born on 26th Jan, 1966, is an Indian writer. Nair was
born in Shornur in Kerala. Being a graduate in English Language and
Literature. She now lives in Bangalore. In the very beginning, Nair was a
creative director in an advertising agency in Bangalore. For her first
book, she received a fellowship from the Virginia Center for the creative
arts. Nair's second book was published by Penguin India. Nair's novels
The Better Man and Ladies Coupe have been translated into 21
languages. Among Nair’s early commercial works were pieces she
penned in the late 90's. Nair's The Better Man was published in the year
2000. In 2002, Malabar Mind, a collection of poems, in 2003 Where the
Rain is Born - about Kerala were published. Ladies Coupe, has turned
out to be a bigger success among critics and readers in nearly 15
countries outside India. It is also one of the five best novels in India
involving women, women's conditions in a male dominated society. Nair
has also written The PuffinBook ofMyths andLegends(2004), a
children’s book on myths and legends. Nair's poetical works are included
in The Poetry India Collection and in British Council Poetry Workshop
Anthology. Nair has also written in Bangalore Monthly Magazine (now
called'080' Magazine)
Anjana realizes that marriage has no meaning in her life, she wants
to quit. She gives up everything.
‘she gave away her colourful saris and took to wearing starched
cottons in shades as inspid,dull as her life. She locked up all her
jewellery in a safe deposit box at the bank and swept all her
flipperies away into the waste basket.'(BM P234)
Anjana protests against oppression of any kind, she demands
freedom, equality and justice. Her career as a teacher gives her full
freedom, she meets Mukundan, finds in him all that she has required, She
proposes to him.
'You just want to control him. You want to control everybody. You
want everyone to your bidding’ (Ladies Coupe, p30).Prabhakar's
dominance irritates her. Her forty years married life trembles, shakes. In
spite of the fact that a miserable life is in front of her, she realizes that
she cannot take off the bond .She answers Akila:
'I am a woman who has always been looked after. First there
was my father and brothers then my husband. When my
husband is gone, there will be my son, waiting to take off from
where his father left off. Woman like me end up being fragile’
(Ladies Coupe-p22)
Next is Sheela, the narrator. She is a fourteen year old girl living
with grand mother, father and mother. She seems to know the intricacies
of life. She tells, “Women turn to their mother when they have no one
else to turn to. Women know that a mother alone will find it possible to
unearth some shred of compassion and love ... that in everyone else has
become ashes” 9Ladies Coupe, p7l). Her grandmother has taught her that
how men torture women physically, emotionally and psychologically.
Though Sheela is often reprimanded by her father for talking to boys,
using 'shit' in sentences and for being rude This attitude of her father
indirectly encourages her to speak ''with razor-edged wit and a finely
developed skill of repartee'(p.70) When her grandmother dies, she
remembers the words of her. - 'The only person you need to please is
yourself. When you look into a mirror, your should make you feel happy
’'(Ladies Coupe, 67)
Anita Nair's Sheela is drawn with deep insight into life and
maturity uncommon in girls of her age.In the characterization of
Marikolundhu , there is sexual exploitation. It demonstrates that men
exploit women who are alone. They make use of illiterate, ignorant and
dependent women. Marikolundhu endures humiliation and degradation
She hates her son Muthu, the result of sexual exploitation by Murugesan.
Later the chettiyar's son-in-law also exploits her. When it is discoveredby
his wife, Marikolundhu is driven out from the place of her work. Her
humiliation, annihilation, her inability to punish Murugesan comes to an
end when she knows that Murugesan is dead.
Anita Nair's Ladies Coupe deals with the issue whether women if
remain single be happy, or unhappy, Does she need a man to be
complete?.Here Akila an unmarried woman of forty takes the
responsibility of running the family after the sudden demise of her father.
This liability brings in patriarchal social thinking and behavior towards
her. She leaves for Kanyakumari. In the train She is acquainted with five
women,Janaki,Sheela, Margaret,Prabha Devi and Marikolundhu. Each
one tells her their family story. After hearing how they they have been
exploited by men, she decides to remain alone, single. Nair, in this novel
refuses to go along with the concept of the independent survival of
modern Indian women in the male dominated society. She depicts the real
life of the characters without hiding anything to the readers, what she
reveals is the effect of social conditioning on women by the male oriented
society
The characters commit adultery and blasphemy in Mistress. They
break the existing social norms. Anita Nair portrays brave, daring and
courageous characters who indulge in sex, extra marital affairs before
marriage. Her argument is that one has to remove adultery to save family
life. She emphasizes a truth that women, in spite of economic
independence, liberty, and education, are still controlled and dictated by
others. The main character Radha being dissatisfied with her husband
Shyam selects Chris for extramarital relationship, later Shyam
magnanimously forgives her. Anita Nair's women, for their sexual desire
choose men other than their husbands. Faithfulness is a question here,
Quest is the central motif of Mistress. It also deals with art and
adultery. The characters are in search of self-identity and self discovery.
The story thus starts. A travel writer Christopher Stewart goes to Kerala
to meet Koman. Radha’s uncle and a famous Kathakali dancer. Radha
and Chris are mutually attracted. Soon they become intimate friends.
Shyam, Radha's husband soon discovers their intimacy. He helplessly
watches his wife embracing Chris with extreme passion. While
describing their intimacy, the novelist observes the Kathakaii dancers
performance at various locations. She also understands the actor’s sense
of humiliation while performing arts. The life experiences of all the
characters in the novel are carefully drawn; it also shows their inability to
identify compromises that may give peace Kathakali symbolizes pent up
emotions of the characters in the novel. They struggle endlessly to obtain
peace. In a conflict between reason and instinct, will and reality the
women emerge as self-conscious and self-willed women. Nair portrays a
conventional society where women undergo tyranny, injustice and
humiliation, Society is not broad enough to accept extra marital, pre-
marital relationship. Inspite of that, women want to be free sexually and
economically
The Kathakali artist Koman is in search of identity. The readers
often travel from the past to the present and vice versa, This is known
when Koman narrates his story to Christopher.Radha. Koman and Chris
seek solace in each other’s company Kathakali suggests world of masks ,
it symbolizes The character's struggle in portraying the character
typically, besides their struggle to prove identity The travel of Chris
suggests a quest in search of identity, finally he learns his father is
Koman . His mother Angela has met Koman to learn Kathakali. Now he
wants to leave Radha. Radha too develops a sense of guilt. She is left
alone. Koman also feels a sense of betrayal. When he describesthe art of
Kathakali to Chris, He thinks that he is Ravana with ten heads. Ravana
was ready to' severe his tenth head to know himself. But this was stopped
by the Creator. Koman is prepared for anything to know himself. To him,
life is as difficult as the complexities of art.The truth is, that our culture
cannot be traumatized. The Kathakali art has taught him the essence of
life. Self realization is the dominant motif of the characters they realize it
when they are out of human bondage.
This query ends in self realization. Her association with five ladies
in the compartment gives a relief, rather a space for women. Though the
ladies differ in age, education, cultural and social background of the
family, they have a common link, all live in a male dominated society,
and are equally affected by sex, caste, class and gender. They all travel,
travel has a metaphorical meaning, they travel towards their destination.
The five women characters in the novel are -Janaki, a ruined wife
and a puzzled mother, Margaret Shanthi, a chemistry teacher, Prabha
devi, a perfect wife, Sheela, a fourteen year old girl and Marikolundhu a
low-caste young woman. These women are replica of life.
She fights against the world built around. She finally becomes a
powerful and strong lady.
“The woman her mother had hoped. She would be with eyes
forever downcast and busy hands, embroidering, picking,
dusting, and birthing babies this is the way to be happy."(p11)
She is again,’ spirited sensual creature'(pl84)
Akila listens and/absorbs the stories, she associates them with her
own life incidents. This analytical approach gives her confidence in life;
she decides that she can live without support. We meet a conservative
Brahmin lady, Akila's Amma, an ideal Hindu wife. She expects her
daughters to do Brahmin rituals which Akila feels meaningless. When
Akila's father dies, her mother undergoes the ritual of widowhood. She
realizes the status of a Brahmin woman after the death of her husband.
The stories of six women thus create a change among ladies; they
walk out from the threshold of their house and enter into a new world, a
world of independence. Ladies coupe is liberation from patriarchy. It is
an Utopian world of freedom.
Coming back to Ladies Coupe, the novel displays a fact -Is man
needed for woman.? Akila's friend Karpagam becomes a source of
inspiration to her. She teaches how a woman can stand alone in the
competitive society. On her way to Kanyakumari, she meets five
copaeengers, who in turn inspire to find answers to her problematic
question- can a woman remain single and be happy or does she need a
man to be happy? Janaki, the eldest of five, along with Siddhartha, has
led a contented life. Janaki thinks the role of good mother, good wife will
bring bliss to the family, She feels they are the only duties of a dutiful
mother and a wife, home is her heaven, any violation will destroy the
family relationship.
In dance as in life," writes Anita Nair "we do not need more than
nine ways to express ourselves. The art of Kathakaii offers Nair a
platform to place her imagination. She writes that one may call all these
faces of the heart as nine emotions, love, contempt, sorrow, fury,
courage, fear, disgust, wonder and peace. They are made starker by
colour and costume, contortions and gestures. The art of kathakali
becomes a platform to place her emotions.
The novel dictates two stories, the first story deals with Radha,
Shyam and Christopher. The second is that which Koman tells Radha and
Chris. Koman is an observer and participant in this story. Koman tells
Radha and Chris his own story, which takes the readers all over Kerala
and Tamilnadu. Shyam voices his thoughts, Radha voices hers. They hurt
each other.The misunderstanding develops.When they go further and
further into their hoary past, they understand the complexities of life.
Shyam draws the readers' sympathy, whereas Radha is vunerable and
insecure. But Koman’s knowledge of Kathakaii is very interesting. He
looks upon mankind, with a wisdom drawn from the heroes, princes and
villains of The Ramayana and TheMahabharatha. He distinguishes
every nuance of emotion as one has experienced , as part of a role in
Kathakali.
Kit Reed, writing in The NewYork Times says "A genial, tale filled
with false alarms and diversions, The Better Man is slowed by loops in
the story, by abandoned threads of plot. Charming as it is, the novel
gathers momentum only at the end, when Bhasi and Mukundan find
themselves at odds just in time for the drama of conflict and
resolution.(Read (August, 13.2000). Faith Healer.New York Times. 6
March. 2010) The Literary colum in The Hindu said,' The Better Man
had all the right ingredients according to the critics. Today, with her
second book Ladies Coupe. One would imagine Anita Nair would have
achieved the same results. Critics have opined Otherwise."(Writing for
oneself. (The Hindu Dec 6 Mar 2010).
'The pain, anxiety, fear and insecurity that Indians have to pass
through in their daily life, especially for those who live in
states other than their own, generate a dence form of diaspora.
The situation of those outside India is an attenuated and
alembicated," (Sharma. 135)
The Ladies Coupe tells the story of a woman's search for strength
and independence. In the intimate atmosphere of the ladies coupe which
she shares with five other women, Akhila gets to know her fellow
travelers: Janaki, pampered wife and confused mother; Margaret Shanti, a
chemistry teacher is married to a tyrant who is unable to recognize her
needs; Prabha Devi, the perfect daughter and wife, fourteen-year-old
Sheela, with her ability to perceive what others cannot; and Marikolanthu,
whose innocence has been destroyed by a rascal. All are seeking in them
a solution to the question that has been with her all her life: Can a woman
stay single and be happy, or does a woman need a man to feel complete?
In the end, they are all filled with the power of incantation to burn up the
tracks, to seek a new destination.
The story unfolds in the ladies coupe she boards. She meets five
women who share their experiences and give her something to think
about. They give a perspective to her thoughts.
Prabha who realises that being a dormant wife is not really her &
thus charts out to do something different gives her the important
message, it is never too late. Then there is Janaki,whose identity is
through her husband and son because that is the way life always has been
for her. But does her husband really love her because of what she is as a
person or only because she has become his habit. Does her son really care
for her or is she being taken for granted by him. She is confused.
Margaret Shanthimarried to a man who is too self-absorbed to see beyond
himself. Shanthi knows there is no hope for her until she does something
drastic. What she does might be sinister for some and. survival instincts
for others but what she represents is the face of love which is not all rosy
and mushy. Sometimes to survive you have to be cruel.
The book leaves a strong impression on the mind for the sheer fact
that it depicts truth. The way Akhila lives for her life for her family and
then is still scorned by them tugs your heart. All her life she cares for her
family but they are not even bothered about the fact that she has given up
her life to give them a respectable life. What matters at the end of the day
is that she is a "woman" and she has to do as her brothers say. The
author has very well presented the picture of a woman's life quite well. If
life is full of rosy and perfect stories, then it has its share of not so perfect
lives as well. At the end of the day, what matters is how you have lived
your life. There are people who have to forego everything to survive and
sometimes more than everything. Imagine the plight of a widowed
mother who had to put her daughter in a trade which can never be
accepted by the society but she had to because they had to survive.
The kind of sensations that Hari has roused in Akila -Bryan Strong
says “In Oriental Philosophy, the Yin Yang represent the male and
female principles which come together to form the whole. Both Men and
Women partake of the opposite principle."(p76). Instead of happiness in
this relationship, she feels that she has violated traditions, conventions
and norms of the society. She wants to call off her relationship with Hari,
there starts a New Woman, a woman in search of self. This inner growth
helps her to take risks. According to Scoot Peck " risk taking is an
important trait of people who are in search of quest. ” Thus, all life itself
represents risk and the more lovingly we live our lives the more risks we
take."(pl34)
The life of Karpagam inspires Akila a lot , She tells Akila," I live
alone. I have many years now. My daughter who is just twenty three does
as well. We are strong , Akhi , we are if we want to be build a life for
w
yourself where your needs come first."(p202) Again Karpagam says, I
don't care wnat my family or anyone thinks. I am who I am." (p202).
Akila is finally independent without any bondage. Kanyakumari , a small
town in Kerala where three seas,. The Arabian Sea, The Indian Ocean
and The Bay of Bengal converge. Akila fuses with fellow passengers
only in the train that has to take her to Kanyakumari.
The Hindu Law Giver Manu says -''Where the women are honoured ,
there the Gods are pleased, but where they are not honoured No sacred
rites yield awards." And-'' The houses on which female relations , not
being duly honoured, pronounce a curse, perish completely as if
destroyed by Magic."(p65) The law of Manu insists that women should
be honoured , at the same time it lays down strict laws towards their
behavior. The scriptures raise a doubt - a woman should enjoy freedom or
live a life of dependent creature.
Anita Nair's female characters struggle in their lives to assert
themselves. Having faced exploitations and defeat, the women challenge
the society to turn it to their favor. Nair's women suffer from stereo typed
roles and oppression existing in the patriarchal system of society. Her
women long for Identity, love and emotional comfort. when they are
denied, she fluctuates between cause and desire, sovereignty and reliant
security, psychic and public identity. This is explicit When Margaret's
husband insists on aborting her first pregnancy. She begins to hate the
man once she has adored. This male chauvinistic view is felt when her
husband says-'I love it when you call me Ebe...I like you like
this...unstained and clean. .1 never want you to change ... I want you to
remain like this....all your life"(LCP 111) The idea that the female should
be under protection is clear when her mother says ," I have said many
times before , it is a woman's responsibility to keep the marriage happy.
Men have many preoccupations that they might not have time or
inclinations to keep the wheels of a marriage oiled."(LC 12).
Though Margaret hates him, she has to live with him, because her
family traditions cannot accept divorce. She wants to avenge him, to
shake his very being. She never finds an answer to her soul stirring
questions," Don't I have a right to have any expectations of him? Don't I
work as hard as he does and more because I run the house as wefi."(LC
112). Margaret is a good example to how women are subdued by male
power. A wife must always be a few feet behind her husband. If he is an
M.A. ...Women's magazines will tell you that marriage should be an
equal partnership. That's nonsense, rubbish. No partnership can ever be
equal. It will always be unequal, but take care that it's unequal favour of
your husband" (TDHNT 85). Margaret seems to be a victim of repression
in the context of Indian society.
Marikolunthu is a victim of rape As the theme is gender-bias and
oppression of women, she comes out as a strong woman," Women are
strong. Women can do everything as well as men. Women can do much
more. But a woman has to seek the vein of strength in herself. It does not
show itself naturally."(LC 210). Her mother warns her often as she is
easily impressed, '’you give your heart too easily, child. They will break
it into thousand pieces and leave it on the ground for others to trample
into dust."(LC 216). Marikolunthu realizes the truth of her mother's
statement through life's experience. Her son Muthu, the result of rape, is
sold to Murugesan , the rapist for five thousand rupees. She later regrets
and brings him home.
In this novel, one can witness Valsala, who does not feel shy or
remorse for her hideous crime. She wants to escape male domination and
to lead life as she has dreamt. If sex is the main stream of life, Valsala in
a way a new woman breaking patriarchal system and traditions existing
in society. Anita Nair brings forth a new set of modern women for whom
sex alone is religion. Anita Nair indirectly asserts a fact that If the man in
life disregards her emotions and aspirations, she emerges as a self
confident and more liberated woman. Nair by putting forth the painful
feelings of depressed women in a bold manner, she states her
protagonists' quest is an answer to her query if woman has freedom to
choose her life.
Again she wakes up Akila, ”If I can live alone, why can’t
you?(p.201).Margaret also tells 'You will discover that once you stop
worrying What the other world will think of you , your life will become
that much easier to live.""(136).Marikolunthu, the worst victim of
patriarchal society tells her, "What do they know of how cruel the world
can be to women?.I am not telling you women are weak. Women are
strong. Women can do everything as well as men. Women can do much
more. But a woman has to seek that vein of strength in herself. It does not
show itself naturally."(210) Akila now decides to live according to her
wish.
“I had heard a lot about both Nair and Mistress before I started
reading. So my expectations were high. The novel begins in a small city
in the South Indian state of Kerala, at a train station. Radha, her husband
Shyam, and her Uncle have come to receive Chris, an American. The
purpose of Chris's visit is to interview Uncle (or Koman), a Kathakali
dancer and make him a prominent part of his travel book. As soon as they
lay their eyes on Chris, both Radha and Uncle feel an immediate sense of
attraction, for different reasons. Radha, whose married life is "dead,"
finds Chris sexually appealing,, and Uncle cannot put a finger on why he
feels a closeness to this American man, but certainly feels warmly
towards him. Shyam, on the other hand, sticks out like a sore thumb and
is excluded from the troika's discussions and meetings. Set at a resort run
by Shyam, MistressMoves forward as we hear the story from the
perspective of Radha, Shyam, and Uncle. Unhappiness abounds in the
resort, and it is Chris who brings a sense of joy to some of its residents.
However, that happiness does not seem to last very long or have a
positive effect on anyone.
The story begins in the Ladies Coupe of the train, which Akhila
boards and shares with 5 other women. First is Janaki, an old woman
whose marriage has eventually turned into a sweet friendship with her
husband over the years. Margaret, a chemistry teacher, who works in the
same school as where her husband is the Principal. Margaret's story is the
most interesting where she viciously rebukes her self-absorbed husband.
Prabha, an ideal coy submissive wife, who is distant and lost throughout
the marriage, until one day she learns to swim Sheela is a fourteen old
girl who learns from her dying grandmother, lessons that will shape rest
of her life. Lastly, Marikolunthu, who shares the experiences of her
whole life which have many sad and shocking incidents like rape, social
discrimination, and exploitation.
One question Akhila has been asking throughout her adult life is,
"Can a single woman live alone? Or does she always need a man to
protect, support and complete her?"She analysis her own life through
the experiences of all these women. She realizes that she has let her
whole life go by and never able to stand up for herself. The story is quite
close to what one might find in any average Indian family. It doesn't
explore anything that one is not already aware of, however, it's Nair's
vivid writing that connects with the women and their issues