Open

A) The first thing you say to start an interaction.

i) Cold Approach - Opening without an invitation.

ii) Warm Approach - Opening with an invitation.

B) Your opener doesn't matter. Realize that no guy has ever been rejected or dumped bcuz of an opener.

C) Focus on the bigger picture.

D) They take longer to get turned on than boys, to get to know who you are. They're different. ( remember
the volume knob theory ). Guys get turned like a light, they get turned on like a volume knob.

i) Remember to Conserve your mental energy, don't fret too much on openers.

E) When you make a horrible 1st impression remember they live in the emotion of the moment and they
backwards rationalize. As long as you get into the zone ( four PCFS on point ) they'll forget and backwards
rationalize.

F) So therefore focus on the bigger picture. ( Like for example how to carry on the convo after the opener ).

G) What your gonna realise is that your mind is gonna come up with a shitload of excuses when you open.
Your going to get shoved into your head and freeze.

i) When you freeze / stuck in your head you can't be PCFS therefore your gonna lose attraction and fuck it up.

H) To prevent freezing you've got to lower your time of reaction. You've got to act before you can think too
much or excuses come up.

i) There's no point in trying to prevent the excuses from coming up. Humans are instinctively hardwired to
believe in the worst possible outcome. But that is almost always not the case.

G) Since your mind fucks with you you gotta learn to act / open before the excuses pop up.

i) Things that might hold you back / excuses -

1. What am i gonna say, openers. Prepare and memorise an opener b4hand that suits you.

2. Approach fast b4 the excuses pop in, but in PCFS on so others dont react badly. ( taking action b4 thinking
will help you get into the zone ).

H) Don't try to create warm approaches / predict what'll happen. Dont calibrate b4, instead calibrate after.
Don't try and be a social chameleon to try and get good emotions. ( remember people secretly hate people
pleasers ).

I) Realize ur dealing with human beings. So each person is unique. Therefore there's gonna be elements of
randomness.

ii) Hence understand that you can't predict what will happen, so don't bother and predict the future or
calibrating beforehand.

iii) The only way to know is to take action then calibrating after.

J) Opening is learning how to deal after you approach. Then calibrating.

i) How to calibrate after coming on too strong

( Pressure off ) -

1. Use a statement of empathy.

2. Take a step back.

3. Then quickly change the topic and act as if it never happened.

4. Wash rinse repeat

ii) Eventually after approaching a lot, you'll start seeing patterns emerge and then you'll know how to deal
with them. You'll gain confidence from this. Remember you can still get surprised tho since humans are
unique.
K) Be flexible dont be egoistic and just follow one course of action. Also remember the volume knob /
download bar theory. Opening can let you know where they're download bar is. Use that knowledge to
calibrate, and keep putting pressure on and off on the rest of the interaction till they're pumped and ready.

i) Take action, if it comes up too strong calibrate and amp it up in a way relatable to her till the bar is full.

L) Opening can be used to set the frame from the start. This frame will last throughout the interaction.

i) Remember to use a frame that's congruent / conveys to them what you want. Otherwise in the later
stages when your objectives contradict ur frame they're gonna lose massive respect for you.

ii) You dont have you verbalise it, just vibe it clearly. Verbalising at the beginning may not be relatable to the
bar hence uncalibrated. Remember to be PCFS

M) to vide desire -

i) Laser Eye contact. If ur not confident, ashamed or trying to follow up a conversation you'll have weak eye
contact and they will sense that.

ii) Use Breaking Rapport type tonality. Make sure your voice goes down at the end.

iii) Try to be Physical from the moment you say " hi ".

iv) A great way to know if your man to woman is to ask yourself whether you can make a move on her if the
opportunity presents itself. Understand the longer you wait to do this the more awkward it's going to be.

N) A Frame that makes a massive difference when interacting with them is assuming familiarity. You must set
this up from the start tho.

i) Men typically come with a frame and mind that they've to win them over. Like an us vs them mindset,
but that isn't the case. Instead of coming from such a confrontational frame just assume familiarity. Like
you've known them for years.

ii) They almost always follow your frame as long as you're PCFS. They are curious about how you view the
world, what's your reality is like. They want the best person with the best emotional experience. When guys
understand this some of them will logically try to convey to them / directly tell them about themselves.
Remember they aren't logical they're emotional.

O) They get to know you by emotionally experiencing you. They experience you by reacting to you. They
react to you by you setting up the rhythm of the interaction, by being at the cause not at the effect.

i) You must be in control of the convo. Before two persons interact both people has a rhythm. Eventually
one person adapts to the other person's rhythm. At that point. The person who adapts to the other
person's rhythm experiences the other person's pov, their reality and the emotional experience. The
person experiencing is at the effect. This is why you must always be at the cause, the other person must
adapt to your rhythm or they wont be able to experience you, hence no feelings for you, they'll feel like your
no different just boring and dull since they're the one at the cause. You do this until you reach the hook point.

ii) You have to speak in PCFS to make this happen. This can also be done in silence. Make sure you've the
humph, potency and purpose backing your voice when you speak and you must speak in breaking rapport
tonality.

iii) Guys make the mistake here in letting the girls talk. They might be feeling good bcuz of feeling validated
by them talking back, but they aren't since they're not experiencing you. So be at the cause not the effect and
make them experience you.

iv) Self - Amusement is important here. Since your the one at the cause, your the one who has to be pumped
up by his own actions, make yourself feel good. When you do this you'll in turn make the other one feel good
also since they're experiencing you, making you sexworthy.