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PSYCHOLOGICAL CONTROL
AND INDIVIDUALISM-COLLECTIVISM
East, South Asia, and East Asia, tend to utilize shame and guilt as meth-
ods of socialization. Sue (1981), for example, says that Japanese and
Chinese family members “. . . are expected to submerge behaviors and
feelings to further the welfare of the family and its reputation” (p. 121),
and that guilt, shame, and appeals to obligation are the main methods
used to control family members. Similarly, in Arab and South Asian
cultures such as India and Pakistan, honor and shame are important
motivators (Abudabbeh, 1998; Stewart et al., 2000; Viswanathan, Shah, &
Ahad, 1997). Since guilt and shame are elements of psychological con-
trol, it is possible that parents from collectivist cultures would score
higher on measures of psychological control.
It is not necessarily the case, however, that higher levels of psychologi-
cal control found in collectivist groups, as compared to individualist
groups, will be accompanied by higher levels of deleterious child out-
comes. If parents from collectivist cultures employ psychologically con-
trolling practices due to socialization concerns and cultural norms, then
the high levels of psychological control found in collectivist groups may
reflect a more benign attitude toward children than equivalently high lev-
els of psychological control in individualist groups. In individualist
groups, psychologically controlling practices may be relatively pro-
scribed by the cultural norm of independence. Thus, psychological con-
trol might reflect a concern with promoting collectivist values in more
collectivist cultures, and a concern with parental interests and a lack of
concern with the child’s well-being in more individualist cultures. These
different motivations can be expected to have different consequences. In
more individualist cultures, for example, parents who focus on their own
concerns are less likely to engage in perspective-taking, and more likely
to experience higher levels of negative affect, lower levels of warmth and
nurturance, and more negative ways of thinking about children (Dix,
1992; Hastings & Grusec, 1998). Children may interpret this rejection as
reflecting their own lack of self-worth, and may experience internalizing
disorders and behave in less competent ways, at least in part, due to their
negative conceptions of self.
Given the above review, the present study had two main goals.
First, other than Gondoli and Silverberg (1997), few studies have ad-
dressed the relationship between psychological control and parental
cognition. We sought to examine this association. Thus, we tested the
relationship between maternal psychological control and perspec-
tive-taking. We also assessed mothers’ views of their children’s traits
generally, and their views of their children specific to when they mis-
behaved. Second, we examined psychological control in a collectivist
and an individualist group, in order to determine the main effects of
culture and differences in within-group associations between the vari-
ables of interest. Aside from psychological control and maternal cog-
nition, we were interested in maternal acceptance-rejection and
children’s outcomes of self-esteem and school grades. Following
Rudy and Grusec (in press), we had a number of hypotheses regarding
the main effects of culture and within-group associations. First, re-
garding the main effects of cultural group, we (1a) hypothesized that
our collectivist sample would score higher on measures of psychologi-
cal control. However, secondly, (1b) we thought the collectivist and
individualist groups would not differ in terms of maternal cognition
and emotion, and thus that (1c) collectivist and individualist children
would not differ in terms of their outcomes. This is because we
thought that the higher levels of psychological control we expected to
find in the collectivist group, as compared to the individualist group,
would not necessarily reflect more maladaptive maternal cognition
and emotion, and that children would not be negatively affected if this
was the case. Second, regarding within-group associations, we thought
it possible that (2a) within the collectivist, but not the individualist
group, higher levels of psychological control would be associated
with higher levels of collectivist values; (2b) within the individ-
ualist, but not the collectivist group, higher levels of psychological
control would be associated with less adaptive maternal cognitions
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METHOD
Participants
Procedure
Maternal Measures
gnettes: (a) their child is asked to clean up his/her room and leaves to play
with friends without cleaning the room; (b) their child is told not to use
the kitchen appliances and cooks breakfast one morning without permis-
sion; (c) their child refuses to help clean up after dinner, even though it is
his/her responsibility; and (d) their child turns the volume on the televi-
sion back up after turning it down in response to a parental request. Par-
ticipants were asked to rate, on 7-point Likert scales, the extent to which
their child knew he/she was acting badly, thought his/her behavior would
upset the parent, should have known better, and deserved blame. The four
attributional questions were averaged across scenarios, and their inter-
correlations within each group were examined. They were highly inter-
correlated within each group (rs ranged from .54 to .91).
For each vignette, participants were also asked to examine a list of
adjectives describing the child, and to pick one that best described the
child. For each vignette, two benign (e.g., forgetful) and two negative
adjectives (e.g., irresponsible) were presented. Participants received a
score of “1” each time they chose a negative adjective. Scores for the
adjectives and attributional items were converted to z-scores and com-
bined to form one measure of negative cognitions in the discipline situa-
tion. Alphas for this combined measure were .93 and .90 for the
collectivist and individualist groups, respectively.
Child Measures
RESULTS
Table 1 presents the means and standard deviations for all measures.
A 2 ! 2 (cultural group ! sex of child) MANOVA was conducted on
those parental variables on which the groups were predicted to differ:
(a) psychological control, and (b) collectivism. There was a significant
effect of group, Wilk’s λ = .61; F(2, 60) = 19.21, p < .0001. The
univariate tests revealed that the collectivist group scored higher on the
measures of psychological control, F (1, 61) = 5.81, p < .05, and collec-
tivism within the family, F(1, 61) = 39.03, p < .0001. There were no
other significant effects. Thus, hypothesis 1a, that the collectivist group
would score higher on psychological control, was supported.
A second 2 ! 2 MANOVA was conducted on the measures of mater-
nal cognition and emotion. There were no significant group effects.
Thus, hypothesis 1b, suggesting that the groups would not differ in
terms of maternal cognition and emotion, was supported. The main
effect for sex of child, however, was significant, Wilk’s λ = .85; F(4, 57) =
2.53, p = .05. Univariate tests revealed maternal cognitions about mis-
behaving girls, as assessed by the PAVs, were more negative than
cognitions for misbehaving boys, F(1, 60) = 3.80 p = .05. The average
score on this measure was 0.18 for girls (SD = 0.60) and ".18 for boys
(SD = 0.61).
A third 2 ! 2 MANOVA was conducted on the child variables (i.e.,
the measure of self-esteem and the measure of school grades). There
were no significant effects for this analysis. Thus, hypothesis 1c, sug-
gesting that the groups would not differ in terms of children’s outcomes,
was supported. For all reported MANOVAs, the results were similar
when child age was entered as a covariate. In summary, the collectivist
group scored higher on psychological control, but the groups did not
differ in terms of maternal emotion and cognition, nor did they differ re-
garding child outcomes.
Within-Group Associations
TABLE 1. Means and Standard Deviations for All Maternal and Child Vari-
ables.
Cultural Group
Collectivist Individualist F/Lambda
λ = 0.61**
Collectivisma 7.10 (1.25) 5.30 (0.96) F = 5.81*
Psychological Controla 8.07 (1.62) 7.19 (1.59) F = 39.03**
λ = 0.88
Acceptance-Rejectionb "0.04 (0.62) 0.08 (0.48)
Perspective-Takingc 2.65 (0.59) 2.79 (0.68)
Child’s (Positive) Personality Traitsa 7.71 (1.49) 7.33 (1.23)
b
Negative Cognitions-Misbehavior "0.19 (0.70) 0.16 (0.49)
λ = 0.95
Children’s School Gradesd 3.36 (0.48) 3.53 (0.40)
Children’s Global Self-Worthd 3.31 (0.67) 3.51 (0.47)
* p < .05
* p < .001
a Scale of 1 to 10
b z-scores
c Scale of 0 to 4
d Scale of 1 to 4
ful to mothers in the individualist, but not the collectivist group. An ex-
amination of the inter-correlations of the measures of emotion and
cognition in both groups, however, revealed significant associations
that would be expected in both groups (e.g., between acceptance-rejec-
tion and views of the child’s positive traits, rs = .63 and .39 in the
collectivist and individualist groups, respectively).
Table 2 presents the associations of psychological control with the
variables reflecting maternal emotion and cognition, and with the child
measures. In the collectivist and individualist groups, psychological
control was associated with collectivism within the family, although in
the individualist group, this was a trend. Thus, there was partial support
for hypothesis 2a; we expected psychological control to be associated
with collectivist values in the collectivist but not the individualist group.
Psychological control was not associated with any other variable in the
collectivist group. In the individualist group, higher levels of psycho-
logical control were associated with weaker endorsement of the child’s
positive traits, and more negative cognitions about misbehaving chil-
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Cultural Group
Collectivist Individualist
Collectivism .48** .31†
** p = < .01
* p = < .05
† p = < .10
DISCUSSION
The findings from the present study suggest that in collectivist groups,
psychological control may carry a different meaning than in individualist
groups. In terms of the main effects of culture, the higher levels of psy-
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The findings of the present study provide support for the idea that
compared to mothers from individualist groups, mothers from collectiv-
ist groups may endorse higher levels of psychological control, but that
these higher scores do not necessarily mean the same thing as equiva-
lently high levels of psychological control in individualist groups. Bar-
ber and Harmon (2002) state that psychological control tends to be
rooted in parental cognition that is oriented more toward parental con-
cerns rather than child concerns. They state that in cases where psycho-
logical control is relied upon, “. . . we judge that parents are not acting as
neutral socializers administering control strategies for the benefit of
their children, but are behaving in ways that protect or insure their own
(parental) position in the family, and specifically their position in rela-
tionship to the child” (p. 22). Given the research conducted in Anglo
populations, we might expect that higher levels of psychological control
found in collectivist groups, as compared to individualist groups, would
be accompanied by higher average levels of maladaptive maternal cog-
nition and emotion, and less optimal child outcomes. We would expect
this pattern of main effects if higher levels of psychological control in
collectivist groups indeed reflect a concern with maintaining the paren-
tal position at the expense of the child. However, in the present study,
this was not the case; there were no differences between the individual-
ist and collectivist groups in terms of average levels of maternal per-
spective-taking, parental acceptance-rejection, or cognitions regarding
children, nor were there differences in children’s self-esteem and school
performance. The data support the idea that the higher levels of psycho-
logical control found in collectivist groups, as compared to individualist
groups, do not reflect more maladaptive parental cognition and emo-
tion, nor a preoccupation with parental concerns, but instead may reflect
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There was little support for the hypothesis that psychological control
would be associated with less adaptive child outcomes in the individualist
but not the collectivist group. While psychological control was not asso-
ciated with children’s outcomes in the collectivist group (as expected), it
was also not associated with children’s outcomes in the individualist
group. The lack of association between psychological control and self-es-
teem may have been due to our method of assessing psychological con-
trol. Often when associations between self-esteem and psychological
control are found, children’s reports of parental psychological control are
obtained (e.g., Litovsky & Dusek, 1988; Nielsen & Metha, 1994; Teleki,
Powell, & Claypool, 1984). Perhaps if we had obtained children’s reports
of psychological control, a stronger relationship may have been obtained.
Of course, the stronger associations found by this approach may be due to
variations in how children view the world, rather than any real association
between the variables. Some children may have a more negative view of
the world, and thus report higher levels of psychological control as well
as lower levels of self worth.
The lack of association between psychological control and school
grades in the individualist sample was surprising, given that others have
found such an association (see Barber & Harmon, 2002, for a review).
One explanation for this lack of association is that our measure of psy-
chological control focused on guilt induction, and not on other aspects
of psychological control, such as suppressing the child’s expression of
his or her own point of view. While guilt induction may serve to sup-
press children’s expression of their point of view, it is possible that a
more direct assessment of suppression of the child’s point of view
would lead to stronger associations with children’s school grades in the
individualist group. This type of behavior, when combined with nega-
tive attitudes toward children, might be particularly important to aca-
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Barber and others have argued that psychological control has its ef-
fects on children because it interferes with children’s development of a
sense of self (Barber, 1996; Kernis et al., 2000). There appear to be two
interrelated aspects of this development. First, if parents utilize psycho-
logically controlling practices that constrain children’s self-expression,
it may be difficult for children to develop a sense of their own thoughts,
emotions, preferences, and inherent talents. To the extent that healthy
functioning depends upon an awareness of the self as a basis for action,
especially interpersonal interaction, individuals who do not have this
awareness may be less confident, and perhaps more anxious and de-
pressed. Second, if parents cause children to feel that certain thoughts or
feelings are not acceptable, children may feel bad about themselves,
anxious, depressed, or angry. They may also behave in less optimal
ways (e.g., lower levels of achievement and higher levels of behavioral
problems). In individualist groups, psychologically controlling parents
may behave in ways that interfere with the child developing a sense of
self and with the child feeling that the self is acceptable. If psychologi-
cally controlling parents are preoccupied with their own concerns and
do not take into account the child’s perspective, it may be more difficult
for children to develop a strong sense of self. In addition, if psychologi-
cally controlling parents hold negative attitudes toward their children,
their children may be less likely to feel that the self is acceptable.
In the case of collectivist groups, however, high levels of psychologi-
cal control might not always negatively affect the development of a
sense of self, nor might it always cause children to feel that aspects of
the self are unacceptable. In collectivist groups, it is important for indi-
viduals to inhibit the expression of their own wants and needs, and to
anticipate and meet the needs of others in the in-group (Markus &
Kitayama, 1991). Thus in collectivist groups, parents who value collec-
tivist norms may encourage children to think of the thoughts and feel-
ings of others, and to inhibit their expression of their own thoughts and
feelings. As a result, parents in collectivist groups may score higher on
measures of psychological control. Nevertheless, these parents may not
be highly preoccupied with their own perspectives and concerns. There-
fore, they may attend to their children’s thoughts and feelings, and re-
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that their children are considerate and helpful, even if they do not report
lower levels of positive emotions or higher levels of negative emotions.
We also discovered a main effect of child gender regarding mothers’
cognitions about their misbehaving children. Mothers of girls had more
negative cognitions about their misbehaving children than mothers of
boys. While not expected, this finding is consistent with research that
has found maternal expectations regarding social behavior to be higher
of girls than of boys (see Grusec, 1987, for example, who found mothers
to emphasize self-sacrifice in girls more than in boys). Mothers may in-
terpret the misbehavior of girls more negatively when girls do not live
up to the higher standards that mothers hold.
NOTES
1. Schwarz et al. (1985) do not report on the racial makeup of their sample; data
from the University of Connecticut, however, indicate that in 1986, 92% of the under-
graduate population was white; T. Pruzinsky (personal communication, October 6,
2003) confirmed that this sample was predominantly Anglo.
2. In this review, we do not discuss African American samples because it is unclear
if such samples are examples of interdependent cultures. For example, in a recent
meta-analysis of the findings regarding individualism and collectivism, Oyserman,
Coon, and Kemmelmeier (2002) found that African Americans did not differ signifi-
cantly from European Americans on measures of collectivism (and scored higher on
measures of individualism); on the other hand, Asian and Latino Americans were
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