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jealousy-induced responses
to infidelity threat
Gregory K. Tortoriello
William Hart
University of Alabama, USA
Abstract
Threat-based accounts of narcissism postulate enhanced worrying and negative emotion
following threat. The present study examined whether the psychological process by
which people experience and respond to jealousy-inducing threats varies according to
their narcissism subtype. Participants completed measures of grandiose and vulnerable
narcissism, simulated sexual and emotional infidelity scenarios, and reported their
anticipated (a) motives (power/control, relational security, self-esteem compensation,
uncertainty minimization) and (b) jealousy responses (worrying, negative emotions, and
behavioral tactics). Path modeling conditionally supported threat-based accounts for the
vulnerable subtype but not for the grandiose subtype. Grandiose narcissism (marginally)
inversely related to a composite of worrying and negative emotion but (directly) posi-
tively related to power/control motives and, in turn, attacking/restricting tactics. Effects
of vulnerable narcissism on jealousy outcomes depended on infidelity type. Vis-à-vis
emotional infidelity, vulnerable narcissism positively related to worrying and negative
emotion and, in turn, related to heightened pursuit of all motives, some of which
uniquely predicted heightened attacking/restricting tactics, suppressed attacking/
restricting tactics, and heightened enhancing tactics. Vis-à-vis sexual infidelity, effects of
vulnerable narcissism mimicked those of grandiose narcissism. In jealousy contexts,
extant threat-based accounts of narcissism appear inadequate for explaining the
grandiose subtype and evidently bounded for explaining the vulnerable subtype.
Corresponding author:
Gregory K. Tortoriello, Department of Psychology, University of Alabama, Tuscaloosa, AL 35487, USA.
Email: gktortoriello@crimson.ua.edu
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Keywords
Infidelity, narcissism, psychology, relational motives, romantic jealousy, romantic
relationships
not always in conscious attention, their strength and salience is magnified under
relationship-threatening conditions.
However, the antecedents that activate relational motives might vary. Guerrero and
Andersen (1998) proposed a model suggesting a “hot” route to motive activation that
strongly implicates a causal role of cognitive-affective processes. An intense state of
worrying and negative affect serves as the impetus by which relational motives are
activated. One alternative is a “cold” route to motive activation, such that relational
motives are activated via cognitive priming. This process is akin to a “bottom-up priming
of goals” (Shah & Kruglanski, 2003), wherein a stimulus presents (1) a cognitive cue to
activate relevant goals and (2) an opportunity to act on these goals. For example, per-
ceiving infidelity may cue a threat to relational power and provide an opportunity to
realize power (e.g., aggress against one’s partner) without necessarily requiring
prompting from cognitive-affective processes (worrying, anger, or distress). Perhaps
more likely to occur in a cold route to motive activation, however, is that hot processes
are merely tempered or not elevated. That is, one still experiences worrying, anger, and
distress, but the emotional intensity is proportionately less relative to the heightened
activation of motives.
Figure 1. A theorized path model of grandiose narcissism and romantic jealousy. Solid arrows denote
positive hypothesized relations; dotted arrows denote negative hypothesized relations; the absence
of arrows predicting directly from narcissism subtype denotes null hypothesized relations. Assumed
residuals for endogenous variables and covariances between relational motives are not depicted.
Figure 2. A theorized path model of vulnerable narcissism and romantic jealousy. Solid arrows
denote positive hypothesized relations; the absence of arrows predicting directly from narcissism
subtype denotes null hypothesized relations. Assumed residuals for endogenous variables and
covariances between relational motives are not depicted.
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infidelity (for a meta-analysis, see Sagarin et al., 2012; for a theoretical review, see
Edlund & Sagarin, 2017).
Method
Participants and design
We recruited 276 undergraduates from a southeastern university in the U.S. for an online
study in exchange for course credit. Participants were required to complete the study in a
single session. We excluded seven participants who failed to complete the study (i.e., at
least one measure used in data analysis), thereby retaining 269 participants2 (Mage ¼
19.43, SDage ¼ 2.09) for data analysis. The final sample was predominantly Caucasian
(84.4%), with African-Americans (10.0%) and Hispanics (3.7%), representing the
largest minority groups. Participant sex was equally represented (135 females and 134
males), and virtually all participants were native English speakers (99.3%). The study
used a two-group (infidelity type: sexual vs. emotional) repeated-measures design.
Grandiose and vulnerable narcissism were included as predictors alone and in con-
junction with infidelity type.
feel secure about the relationship), (3) self-esteem compensation (2 items; e.g., I would
want to feel less inadequate), and (4) uncertainty reduction (6 items) vis-à-vis the
relationship (3 items; e.g., I would want to know where I stand with my partner) and rival
(3 items; e.g., I would want to know how I compare with the rival). Principal components
analyses (PCAs) with oblique rotation (direct oblimin method) most often recommended
a four-component4 structure of relational motives for each infidelity vignette, consistent
with our conceptualization. Accordingly, we collapsed items into their four respective
motives for each infidelity condition (power/control: average asexual ¼ .80, Msexual ¼
3.07, SDsexual ¼ 1.42; average aemotional ¼ .87, Memotional ¼ 2.92, SDemotional ¼ 1.46;
relational security: average asexual ¼ .94, Msexual ¼ 3.69, SDsexual ¼ 1.51; average aemotional
¼ .93, Memotional ¼ 4.51, SDemotional ¼ 1.30; self-esteem compensation: Spearman–Brown
rsexual ¼ .81, Msexual ¼ 4.00, SDsexual ¼ 1.65; Spearman–Brown remotional ¼ .84,
Memotional ¼ 4.38, SDemotional ¼ 1.63; uncertainty reduction: average asexual ¼ .92, Msexual
¼ 5.15, SDsexual ¼ 1.50; average aemotional ¼ .94, Memotional ¼ 5.59, SDemotional ¼ 1.28).
Next, participants indicated their cognitive, emotional, and behavioral jealousy
responses to each infidelity. To index cognitive jealousy (average asexual ¼ .91, Msexual ¼
5.21, SDsexual ¼ 1.23; average aemotional ¼ .93, Memotional ¼ 5.29, SDemotional ¼ 1.23), we
adapted the 10-item Relationship-Specific Rumination Scale (Carson & Cupach, 2000),
wherein participants rated the likelihood (1 ¼ not at all likely; 7 ¼ extremely likely) that
they would experience heightened worrying and suspicion over the relationship fol-
lowing the alleged infidelity (e.g., I would spend time thinking about whether or not my
partner loves me). This is consistent with conceptual definitions of cognitive jealousy
(Pfeiffer & Wong, 1989). To index emotional jealousy (average asexual ¼ .88, Msexual ¼
5.06, SDsexual ¼ 1.29; aemotional ¼ .90, Memotional ¼ 4.99, SDemotional ¼ 1.33), participants
rated the likelihood (1 ¼ not at all likely; 7 ¼ extremely likely) that they would feel eight
emotional jealousy responses following the alleged infidelity: envious, fearful, anxious,
uncomfortable, insecure, upset, angry, and jealous. We selected items based upon the
conceptualization of jealousy affect by White and Mullen (1989), which has been
adopted in research (e.g., Guerrero et al., 1995; Study 2). To index behavioral jealousy,
participants rated the likelihood (1 ¼ not at all likely; 7 ¼ extremely likely) that they
would engage in tactical behaviors representing attacking/restricting (5 items; surveil-
lance, revenge, rival aggression, and partner aggression (physical and verbal)) or
enhancing (4 items; partner/relationship-enhancing and self-enhancing) responses fol-
lowing the alleged infidelity. We selected attacking/restricting (e.g., partner verbal
aggression: I would yell, curse, and/or make hurtful comments) and enhancing (e.g., self-
enhancing: I would try to be more attractive or appealing) items from measures by
Guerrero, Andersen, Jorgensen, Spitzberg, and Eloy (1995).
For statistical guidance on the two-factor conceptualization of tactical behavioral-
jealousy responses (Rich, 1991), we submitted items to PCAs with oblique rotation
(direct oblimin method). For each infidelity scenario, the factor structure was consistent
with this two-component structure of behavioral-jealousy tactics. Accordingly, we
collapsed items into their two respective typologies for each infidelity condition
(attacking/restricting tactics: average asexual ¼ .76, Msexual ¼ 2.88, SDsexual ¼ 1.28;
aemotional ¼ .77, Memotional ¼ 2.57, SDemotional ¼ 1.23; enhancing tactics: average asexual
¼ .90, Msexual ¼ 3.60, SDsexual ¼ 1.58; average aemotional ¼ .90, Memotional ¼ 4.35,
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Results
Data reduction
Cognitive jealousy and emotional jealousy strongly correlated across conditions (r ¼
.70); given the high empirical and presumed conceptual overlap, we collapsed these
indices into cognitive-affective jealousy. Behavioral-jealousy tactics and perceived
utility of behavioral-jealousy tactics strongly correlated across conditions (attacking/
restricting tactics: r ¼ .85; enhancing tactics: r ¼ .90); given this overlap, we collapsed
these indices into behavioral-jealousy tactics for attacking/restricting and enhancing
tactics, respectively. Table 1 contains all study variables collapsed across conditions.
Manipulation check
To test the effectiveness of the infidelity manipulation, we collapsed subjective ratings of
sexual and emotional infidelity across the two vignettes for each infidelity condition and
submitted them to two-paired-samples t tests with infidelity type as the grouping factor.
Results confirmed that the manipulation of infidelity type was effective. Participants
rated each infidelity in the sexual infidelity condition as more representative of a sexual
infidelity (M ¼ 6.79, SD ¼ 2.14) compared to in the emotional infidelity condition (M ¼
4.31, SD ¼ 2.40), t(268) ¼ 15.90, p < .001, revealing a large effect size (d ¼ .97).
Similarly, participants rated each infidelity in the emotional infidelity condition as more
representative of an emotional infidelity (M ¼ 7.71, SD ¼ 2.06) compared to in the
sexual infidelity condition (M ¼ 7.21, SD ¼ 2.09), t(268) ¼ 3.81, p ¼ .001, but the effect
size was small (d ¼ .23). Given that infidelities involving sexual versus emotional
Table 1. Bivariate correlations across infidelity conditions.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13
1. NPI —
2. HSNS .01 —
3. RSES .33** .27** —
4. COG-AFF .12 .14* .14* —
5. POWER .21** .23** .13* .31** —
6. SECURE .07 .04 .09 .50** .31** —
7. CSE .20** .16** .29** .65** .28** .61** —
8. UNCERTAIN .08 .05 .01 .74** .18** .64** .60** —
9. ATTACKING .20** .19** .13* .25** .64** .17** .17** .07 —
10. ENHANCING .01 .04 .06 .51** .27** .75** .50** .60** .23** —
11. Mate expulsion .02 .06 .13* .04 .03 .52** .22** .15* .05 .34** —
12. Perception: sexual .07 .02 .04 .03 .06 .31** .16** .16** .14* .18** .57** —
13. Perception: emotional .08 .01 .05 .34** .03 .10 .06 .24** .02 .04 .55** .46** —
Note. Variables represent means across infidelity conditions. NPI ¼ Narcissistic Personality Inventory; HSNS ¼ Hypersensitive Narcissism Scale; RSES ¼ Rosenberg Self-
Esteem Scale; COG-AFF ¼ cognitive-affective jealousy; POWER ¼ power/control; SECURE ¼ relational security; CSE ¼ compensatory self-esteem; UNCERTAIN ¼
uncertainty minimization; ATTACKING ¼ attacking/restricting tactics; ENHANCING ¼ enhancing tactics.
*p < .05 (two-tailed); ** p < .01 (two-tailed).
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content are seldom mutually exclusive (e.g., observing one’s partner sexually caressing a
rival could also imply an emotional connection), this small effect size is not entirely
surprising (for a similar argument, see Buss et al., 1992).
Preliminary analyses
Our predictions implied the possibility that grandiose and vulnerable narcissists’
cognitive-affective experience of jealousy is qualified by infidelity type. Specifically,
grandiose narcissism might relate more strongly to cognitive-affective jealousy in the
sexual (vs. emotional) infidelity condition, whereas vulnerable narcissism might relate
more strongly to cognitive-affective jealousy in the emotional (vs. sexual) infidelity
condition. To test whether modeling should account for these potential interactive
effects, we correlated narcissism (NPI or HSNS) with a cognitive-affective jealousy
difference score between infidelity conditions (i.e., a within-participant interaction).
A significant positive correlation denotes that as narcissism increases, cognitive-
affective jealousy is significantly higher in the sexual (vs. emotional) infidelity condi-
tion. The relation between grandiose narcissism and cognitive-affective jealousy was
not moderated by infidelity type (r ¼ .03, p ¼ .68); the relation between vulnerable
narcissism and cognitive-affective jealousy was moderated by infidelity type (r ¼ .12,
p ¼ .047), such that this relation was stronger in the emotional infidelity condition
(r ¼ .17, p ¼ .005) relative to the sexual infidelity condition (r ¼ .10, p ¼ .11).
Accordingly, we collapsed all variables across conditions for modeling grandiose nar-
cissism, but we modeled each condition separately for vulnerable narcissism.
Figure 3. A final path model of grandiose narcissism and romantic jealousy. Dotted arrows
denote paths (constrained to zero) from intervening variables which failed to predict any endo-
genous outcomes. Residuals for endogenous variables are not depicted. NPI ¼ Narcissistic Per-
sonality Inventory; COG-AFF ¼ cognitive-affective jealousy; POWER ¼ power/control; SECURE
¼ relational security; CSE ¼ compensatory self-esteem; UNCERTAIN ¼ uncertainty minimiza-
tion; ATTACKING ¼ attacking/restricting tactics; ENHANCING ¼ enhancing tactics. yp < 10;
*p < 05; **p < 01.
Grandiose narcissism. First, we modified our theorized model (Figure 1) to reflect post hoc
data reduction procedures (collapsing cognitive and emotional jealousy; collapsing
behavioral-jealousy tactics and perceived utility of behavioral-jealousy tactics) and
subsequently tested this modified theorized model. Path modeling revealed excellent
model fit, w2 (3) ¼ 5.70, p ¼ .13, (CFI ¼ .997; SRMR ¼ .01; RMSEA ¼ .06). For
parsimony, we constrained the following nonsignificant paths: (1) the direct path
between compensatory self-esteem motives and enhancing tactics, (2) the direct path
between compensatory self-esteem motives and attacking/restricting tactics, (3) the
direct path between relational security motives and attacking/restricting tactics, (4) the
direct path between power/control motives and enhancing tactics, and (5) the covariance
between power/control and compensatory self-esteem motives. We also relaxed the
covariance between attacking/restricting and enhancing tactics, which we initially pre-
sumed to be orthogonal (Rich, 1991). This revised model on which we report (Figure 3)
also revealed excellent fit using fewer parameters, w2 (7) ¼ 2.27, p ¼ .94, (CFI ¼ 1.00;
SRMR ¼ .01; RMSEA ¼ 0.00).
As anticipated, grandiose narcissism nonsignificantly related (marginally negative at
p ¼ .054) to cognitive-affective jealousy. Direct effects of grandiose narcissism emerged
on enhanced power/control motives and reduced compensatory self-esteem motives.
A direct effect of grandiose narcissism also emerged on greater likelihood of using
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Table 2. Specific indirect effects in the path model of grandiose narcissism and romantic jealousy.
Note. NPI ¼ Narcissistic Personality Inventory; COG-AFF ¼ cognitive-affective jealousy; POWER ¼ power/
control; SECURE ¼ relational security; CSE ¼ compensatory self-esteem; UNCERTAIN ¼ uncertainty mini-
mization; ATTACKING ¼ attacking/restricting tactics; ENHANCING ¼ enhancing tactics; CI ¼ confidence
interval; SE ¼ standard error.
a
Indirect effect is statistically significant, such that its 95% CI fails to include zero.
enhancing tactics but did not emerge on greater likelihood of using attacking/restricting
tactics (marginal; p ¼ .08). Cognitive-affective jealousy did not explain any indirect
effects of grandiose narcissism on either relational motives (Table 2; rows 1–4) or on
behavioral-jealousy tactics via paths predicting relational motives (Table 2; rows 6–9).
Only power/control motives alone mediated the indirect effect of grandiose narcissism
on attacking/restricting tactics (Table 2; row 5). Plainly stated, as participants’ grandiose
narcissism increased, they were more likely to employ attacking/restricting tactics after
perceiving infidelity, which was only explained by their desire to restore power/control
in the relationship (not explained by heightened cognitive-affective jealousy).
Figure 4. A final path model of vulnerable narcissism and romantic jealousy. This model is
represented in the context of sexual infidelity (top) and emotional infidelity (bottom). Bolded
coefficients denote a moderated effect of vulnerable narcissism (HSNS). HSNS ¼ Hypersensitive
Narcissism Scale; RSES ¼ Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale; COG-AFF ¼ cognitive-affective jealousy;
POWER ¼ power/control; SECURE ¼ relational security; CSE ¼ compensatory self-esteem;
UNCERTAIN ¼ uncertainty minimization; ATTACKING ¼ attacking/restricting tactics;
ENHANCING ¼ enhancing tactics. *p < 05; **p < 01.
emotional infidelity condition, w2 (9) ¼ 7.46, p ¼ .59, (CFI ¼ 1.00; SRMR ¼ .02;
RMSEA ¼ 0.00).
Here, we discuss direct and indirect effects of vulnerable narcissism within each
infidelity-type condition. In the sexual infidelity condition, vulnerable narcissism did
not relate to cognitive-affective jealousy. The direct effects of vulnerable narcissism
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Table 3. Specific indirect effects in the path model of vulnerable narcissism and romantic jealousy.
Auxiliary analyses
Moderating effects of participant sex and infidelity type on emotional responses. To properly
examine a sex-differences-in-jealousy hypothesis, Sagarin et al. (2012) prescribed
testing a Sex Infidelity Type interaction on emotional responses to infidelity. Sagarin
et al. (2012) also evidenced that these interactive effects appear strongest on distress/
upset and jealousy, so we decomposed our emotional jealousy composite into its con-
stituent emotions. First, we submitted upset and jealousy to separate repeated-measures
analyses of variance with infidelity type as the within-participant factor and gender as the
between-participant factor. A significant Sex Infidelity Type interaction emerged on
upset, F(1, 267) ¼ 6.41, p ¼ .01, η2p ¼ .02. The relative difference on feeling upset in
response to sexual versus emotional infidelity was greater for males (Mdifference ¼ .66)
compared to females (Mdifference ¼ .33), t(267) ¼ 2.53, p ¼.01. A significant Sex
Infidelity Type interaction did not emerge, however, on jealousy following the infidelity,
F(1, 267) ¼ 0.04, p ¼ .85, η2p ¼ .0001. Thus, the sex differences hypothesis was only
supported on upset. Next, we explored the Sex Infidelity Type interaction on each of
the other six emotional responses to infidelity (envious, fearful, anxious, uncomfortable,
insecure, and angry). A significant Sex Infidelity Type interaction emerged only on
angry, F(1, 267) ¼ 4.78, p ¼ .03, η2p ¼ .02, (all other ps > .20). The relative difference on
feeling angry in response to sexual versus emotional infidelity was greater for males
(Mdifference ¼ 1.01) compared to females (Mdifference ¼ .65), t(267) ¼ 2.19, p ¼.03.
Discussion
The present study attempted to model grandiose and vulnerable narcissists’ jealousy
experience. We postulated that grandiose and vulnerable narcissists differentially expe-
rience jealousy vis-à-vis cognitive-affective processes; whereas grandiose narcissists’
behavioral-jealousy tactics are motive-driven without heightened cognitive-affective jea-
lousy, vulnerable narcissists’ behavioral-jealousy tactics are motive-driven accompanied
by heightened-affective jealousy. Consistent with predictions, grandiose narcissism was
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Theoretical contributions
Broadly, the present work supports the notion that grandiose narcissists are relatively
immune to cognitive-affective expressions of interpersonal threat, whereas vulnerable
narcissists are relatively susceptible to cognitive-affective expressions of interpersonal
threat. Critically, extant threat-based models of narcissism (e.g., Bushman & Bau-
meister, 1998; Kernberg, 1975; Kohut, 1972; Morf & Rhodewalt, 2001) postulate that
such processes underlie narcissists’ antagonistic goals and behaviors. Our findings
challenge the viability of this assumption within jealousy contexts and, instead, offer
stronger support for nuanced models that differentiate narcissism subtypes (Atlas &
Them, 2008; Hart et al., 2017; Krizan & Johar, 2012, 2015; Tortoriello & Hart, 2018).
Such nuanced models posit the presence of aversive cognitive-affective processing
following interpersonal threat for vulnerable, but not grandiose, narcissists. For
grandiose narcissism, our findings suggest that an infidelity threat might operate as a
mere reminder to assert power and dominance (a desirable narcissistic image), con-
sistent with conclusions by Krizan and Johar (2015) and Hart, Adams, and Tortoriello
(2017). For vulnerable narcissism, nuanced models offered only partial support. Fol-
lowing sexual infidelity, nuanced models were incongruous with our vulnerable nar-
cissism model, revealing a condition under which vulnerable narcissists appear akin to
grandiose narcissists. Following emotional infidelity, nuanced models were indeed
congruous with our vulnerable narcissism model, supporting the presence of heighted
cognitive-affective processing. Therefore, our models highlighted the general
applicability of nuanced models to jealousy contexts, but support for vulnerable nar-
cissism was qualified by the specific jealousy context.
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Addressing inconsistencies
Some inconsistencies between our study and previous research emerged that ought to be
reconciled. For grandiose narcissism, we not only failed to observe heightened levels of
cognitive and emotional jealousy observed by Chin, Atkinson, Raheb, Harris, and
Vernon (2017), but our data suggested the opposite (i.e., suppressed levels). We suspect
that discrepancies might reflect psychometric differences in the assessment of jealousy.
Chin et al. (2017) assessed jealousy via the Multidimensional Jealousy Scale (MJS;
Pfeiffer & Wong, 1989). In the MJS, the cognitive jealousy subscale assessed the dis-
positional frequency of suspecting a rival threat (which might be organically high in
grandiose narcissists; e.g., Lamkin et al., 2015), whereas cognitive jealousy in our study
assessed the likelihood of engaging in situational-specific, ruminative responses to
perceiving a rival threat. This approach made our study better equipped to control the
aspects of the situation likely to be inherently confounded with narcissists’ relationships
(e.g., volatility and homophily in narcissists’ relationships; Lamkin et al., 2015).
Although MJS emotional jealousy subscale presents respondents with hypothetical
scenarios, it confines its responses to a “very pleased/very upset” continuum. Consistent
with a conceptualization of jealousy affect being a constellation of negative emotions
(White & Mullen, 1989), we assessed a greater breadth of jealousy-related emotions.
Nonetheless, research on grandiose narcissism and jealousy is still nascent, so future
work should continue exploring this link.
Inconsistent with hypotheses, grandiose narcissism did not positively relate to
enhancing tactics. Indeed, of the four relational motives, grandiose narcissism only
positively related to power/control motives, which was the weakest predictor of
enhancing tactics. Hence, the influence of power/control motives in modeling was
attenuated upon controlling for shared variance with the other motives, and controlling
for this shared variance did yield a positive direct effect of grandiose narcissism on
enhancing tactics. For vulnerable narcissism, enhancing tactics operated indirectly via
cognitive-affective jealousy and security motives but only in the emotional infidelity
condition. In sum, the means by which each narcissism subtype linked to enhancing
tactics were largely unanticipated.
inherent confoundedness between sexual and emotional infidelity seems logical and was
anticipated (see Buss et al., 1992). Second, jealousy is a multidimensional construct and
encompasses an array of emotional responses (White & Mullen, 1989). Perhaps con-
comitant feelings of jealousy (e.g., insecurity) can sometimes weaken detection of sex
differences. Third, DeSteno (2010) asserted that sex differences in jealousy might be a
consequence of a force-choice response format (or perhaps more robust under this
methodological approach; Edlund & Sagarin, 2017) which was not utilized in our study
(c.f., Sagarin et al., 2012).
Conclusion
Our models supported distinct processes of romantic jealousy as a function of narcissism
subtype. For the vulnerable subtype, the experience of jealousy is likely “hot” and
reactive in response to only emotional infidelity, understood by cognitive-affective
turbulence concerning the relationship and the self and, in turn, the indiscriminate
pursuit of relational motives. For the grandiose subtype, the experience of jealousy is not
contingent on the type of infidelity threat and is likely less “hot,” which can possibly be
interpreted as a lower cognitive-affective threshold to activate a singular focus on power/
control motives. Despite these divergent processes, both narcissism subtypes unite on
attacking and restricting behaviors toward the partner. To better elucidate the com-
plexities of narcissism in romantic relationships, researchers should continue to explore
this cognitive, affective, motivational, and behavioral interplay.
Funding
The author(s) received no financial support for the research, authorship, and/or publication of this
article.
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Gregory K. Tortoriello https://orcid.org/0000-0001-5960-0367
Supplemental material
Supplemental material for this article is available online.
Notes
1. Throughout the article, the term “narcissists” refers to individuals who score high (þ1 SD) on a
continuum indexing trait narcissism. We use this term for brevity and do not intend to suggest
the presence of a clinical diagnosis.
2. Our original sample constituted 191 participants (70.7% female). Reviewers requested that we
continue data collection on only males to obtain a roughly equal male-to-female ratio. We
accommodated this request by posting 80 time slots and ceasing data collection once all time
slots were filled. Results were highly similar after adding the new male sample and, hence, all
conclusions were unchanged.
3. Participants also completed the Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale (Rosenberg, 1965) to index trait
self-esteem. This measure was not used in main analyses, but for the interested reader, we
reported on its correlations with other variables in Table 1.
4. Only one vignette’s item yielded a three-factor solution, amalgamating relational security items
and self-esteem compensation items. Given that these constructs were identified as distinct in
the context of the other three vignettes and that we anticipated differentiation on these motives
in each narcissism model, we concluded that our proposed four-factor conceptualization had
garnered the strongest statistical and conceptual support.
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