The document summarizes a debate between Eva Feder Kittay, who proposes an ethics of care, and Kevin Mintz and David Wasserman, who critique Kittay's position. Mintz and Wasserman argue Kittay's ethics is too demanding, as it requires deep understanding of cared-for individuals and strong affective bonds between carers and cared-for. Kittay responds that her position has been misinterpreted and does not require gratitude from cared-for or treating carers as family. While care requires respect, respect does not require care. The debate continues around what level of independence is appropriate and the motivational demands placed on professional carers.
The document summarizes a debate between Eva Feder Kittay, who proposes an ethics of care, and Kevin Mintz and David Wasserman, who critique Kittay's position. Mintz and Wasserman argue Kittay's ethics is too demanding, as it requires deep understanding of cared-for individuals and strong affective bonds between carers and cared-for. Kittay responds that her position has been misinterpreted and does not require gratitude from cared-for or treating carers as family. While care requires respect, respect does not require care. The debate continues around what level of independence is appropriate and the motivational demands placed on professional carers.
The document summarizes a debate between Eva Feder Kittay, who proposes an ethics of care, and Kevin Mintz and David Wasserman, who critique Kittay's position. Mintz and Wasserman argue Kittay's ethics is too demanding, as it requires deep understanding of cared-for individuals and strong affective bonds between carers and cared-for. Kittay responds that her position has been misinterpreted and does not require gratitude from cared-for or treating carers as family. While care requires respect, respect does not require care. The debate continues around what level of independence is appropriate and the motivational demands placed on professional carers.
ognize repeatedly that, as ideals, they A Demanding Ethics of Care can rarely, if ever, be fully realized. Yet these are not transcendent or static but In an otherwise sympathetic read- observe the world from the viewpoint regulative ideals; they are to serve as a ing of my book Learning from My of my very significantly disabled child. guide to action. Professionals may fall Daughter: The Value and Care of While duration of acquaintance adds short not because of their moral failings Disabled Minds, the reviewers, Kevin epistemic access, most important is the but because of the conditions under Mintz and David Wasserman, com- access gained by attending to the cared- which they work. My view is that care plain about the demandingness of for’s viewpoint. is always embedded in larger contexts the care ethics I propose (“Caring for Nor do I believe that motiva- that can aid or undermine the possibil- People with Disabilities: An Ethics of tion must depend on strong affective ity of acting caringly by both profes- Respect,” January-February 2020). bonds—ones that can lead to an exces- sional and family caregivers. Care given Demandingness surely cannot be too sive melding of selves and interests. I in good faith and taken as care by the grievous a fault or Kantianism would repeatedly admonish that “to affirm cared-for is ethical care in my view, and long be dead. Yet the demandingness the relationality of the self, it is also that is not an overly demanding stan- they worry about is largely based on imperative to affirm the distinctness of dard even for a professional carer. some misreadings. each self in the relation” (p. 182). I also Eva Feder Kittay I do not propose, as Mintz and acknowledge duty as a valid motiva- DOI: 10.1002/hast.1102 Wasserman write, that “the cared-for tion: “Although an ethics of care does Kevin Mintz and David Wasserman must treat the carer as family, display- not demand duty, duty may be able to reply: We thank Eva Kittay for her ing gratitude” (p. 45), and, indeed, compensate for the absence of feelings thoughtful letter. Kittay notes that she I am deeply suspicious of these senti- of affection” (p. 195). does not require the cared-for “to treat ments. Treating the carer as family can Nor do I believe that a caregiver the carer as family, displaying grati- betray a failure to see her as having a must be included in all facets of the life tude.” We should have been clearer life of her own, and what I call for is of the person receiving the care. But I that we saw this as an implication of not gratitude but the gracious accep- object to the idea that a caregiver’s in- her demand for carer visibility and in- tance of care offered in good faith and visibility contributes “independence” clusion, not as a requirement she ex- with competence. We fail “to receive to the person assisted—not because I plicitly endorses. If Kittay condemns care graciously when we demand more advocate only affective bonds or the “invisibility” only when it is “predicated than is reasonable” (Learning from My full inclusion of the caregiver in the on a pernicious overvaluation of inde- Daughter, p. 218)—that is the gra- disabled person’s life, but because this pendence,” we may disagree less than cious recognition that there are limits “invisibility” is predicated on a perni- we thought. to what can be demanded of one’s carer. cious overvaluation of independence However, we may take issue with I reject Mintz and Wasserman’s idea and undervaluation of the labor of care. what counts as “pernicious overvalu- that the epistemic and motivational The reviewers construe my position ation.” Efforts to increase task-specific demands of my ethics of care are so to rest squarely on the emotional con- self-sufficiency need not reflect an over- strong that I must either limit the eth- nection in caring relations, claiming valuation (pernicious or otherwise) of ics of care to small circles of family and that my idea of respect is too thin. I independence. Moreover, we still ques- friends or relax the demands to encom- articulate a view of care that is coun- tion the motivational demands Kittay pass the underappreciated professional ter, not to respect, but to paternalism, imposes on carers. While we did not carer. Claiming that it is too demand- and I offer as robust a notion of respect take her to be demanding “strong af- ing to insist that the viewpoint of the as will ensure that the viewpoint of the fective bonds,” only actions performed cared-for is of paramount importance, cared-for drives the care. Care requires “for the sake of ” the cared-for, we re- the reviewers point to the person with respect, but respect does not require gard even this as overly demanding. communication and cognitive dis- care; respect does not address the requi- Acting “for the sake of ” the cared-for abilities, saying that understanding site competence, attention, responsive- is not an ideal that professional caregiv- this person’s perspective requires years ness, and commitment to the other’s ers should be responsible for achieving. of acquaintance. I formulated my view flourishing. Because professional caregivers needn’t based largely on what I have learned Finally, although Mintz and possess this affection, they needn’t com- from professional carers—especially Wasserman acknowledge that I put for- pensate for lacking it. We also remain from one who, on her first day, tried to ward ideals, they seem to think that I convinced that Kittay is better served
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