Khiel S.

Yumul
BSGE-3A

My Stance about Pre-Marital Sex

At the age of 20, I’m surrounded with friends and colleagues who with same age group.
As we gather every weekend or every occasion, when they got sober, they are starting to talk
about their sex experience with their current or past girlfriends and some are talking with their
one-night stands with other woman. Eventually, as I digest their stories, I was pressured by
myself thinking “I’m already at the legal age, I should experience those things”. Yes, at my age I
still don`t have an experience with sex and here is my stance about pre-marital sex.

I’m against with the pre-marital sex, and I believe that a couple should be marry first
before doing such thing. It is a sacred thing only done by husband and wife. Other influencers
say, “Come on, it is already 2021, if you are both already 20 years old then it is normal
nowadays”. I’m against with these statement as young people who should still in school and
pursuing a degree where force to stop as they discover that they are pregnant. I’m against with
the pre-marital sex, as I believe sex should be the best gift anyone should give to their husband
or wife. In my case, I decided to wait until marriage and with my girlfriend, we both agreed with
this decision. We agreed that we should finish our study and graduate and earn for our future as
marriage can be done in a snap of a finger. I’m not hating those people who already did sex even
they are not married with the person, I’m always thankful to them because they shared their
experiences to me and this helped me to come up with the decision. I’m willing to wait until
marriage to discover sex and focus now in my studies as I will be fourth year next school year.

I’m against with the pre-marital sex, and I choose to establish myself first before doing
sex. I should be capable enough to take the responsibilities and the consequences in which sex
could bring to me. I’m willing to wait and I want to do it with my future wife. I promise to
myself that when the time comes, I will be the wildest person that anyone could think of and I
will plan to do it every day with my wife or doing it as much as we can in a day. It will be
satisfying to do such thing legally.