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PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
Module 9
NAME: HANNAH KATHRINA T. CIMENI Grade and Section: 12-BELARDO Date: 01/09/21

Pre-Activity:
1. TRUE 6. TRUE
2. FALSE 7. FALSE
3. TRUE 8. TRUE
4. FALSE 9. TRUE
5. FALSE 10. FALSE

ACTIVITY 1: Answer honestly these personal questions.

In your age today, I know you have someone you admire most.
1. Are you into relationships? If no, why don’t you want to engage in romantic relationship?
Yes, I am.

2. If yes, what type of relationship is that? Will you describe it?

Our relationship is something that every person would wish to have. A kind of relationship that is
said to be perfect by many. But aside from that sweet perception of others, when we look at the other
side, we also have struggles like any other normal relationships. I can say that our relationship is like
mountain climbers doing a hike. At first, excitement and happiness were always present since they still
don’t know what obstacles are waiting for them. But as seasons change, the excitement will then be
replaced with exhaustion. There was once a time that this so-called perfect relationship was too far from
what they said, but as the days, weeks, months, and years pass, we have also learned to adapt from those
changes and even tried harder to make us work, but this time, even stronger. And to end this, I will just
leave it here, and claim that the relationship we have is still a perfect one despite our troubles since we
chose to stay instead of leaving the other person. It’s just a matter of sacrifice and patience.

3. Do you consider the relationship lasting /forever? Why?

We have already faced a lot of difficulties in our relationship including the worst challenges that
may break the bond between us and yet, breaking up and leaving each other never became an option to
us, so, it’s a yes. As a matter of fact, falling and staying in love is tough. A lot of adjustments will come
your way and that will test the both of you, but instead of leaving, embracing each one’s flaws can help,
and this is what we do. We accept our mistakes and shortcomings, lower down our expectations and
standards which helped us both to come this far. Another reason why I think our relationship would last
is because of the presence of the give and take process in between us. We are much likely to do
everything and sacrifice only to make us work for we both value what we have, and are both afraid to
lose each other. We also give time for the other person and use it as a chance to talk about problems and
what we need to enhance. Because of all these reasons, considering our relationship to last forever is a
super yes for me, and not just because of those, but also because God is always the center of our
relationship.
ACTIVITY 2: You may search through google or other sources to answer the questions.

1. Explain why personal relationship is important.

Personal relationship is the relation between persons according to the free dictionary. It is
important because it refers to the way we connect with the other people surrounding us. Without this,
we would not have social relations and would probably not enjoy life. It is important since it is
needed for us to maintain a healthy relation with individuals we are living together with.

2. Give at least 10 most common problems in a relationship.

 INFIDELITY
 JEALOUSY
 PAST ISSUES
 FINANCIAL PROBLEMS
 BOREDOM
 PHYSICAL ABUSE
 MISCOMMUNICATION
 LACK OF TIME & SUPPORT
 MANIPULATION
 UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS

3. Think of a symbol or a picture that will represent how will you nurture and keep a healthy
relationship. Let your creativity work.

A symbol that I think would help in keeping a relationship healthy is the symbol of two hands either
giving or receiving something. The give and take process is the secret to achieve and maintain a healthy
relationship since it is not just one person who keeps on working for the relationship. In a relationship, it is
right to practice giving and taking because it is not only you who is in the relationship, but it's the both of
you and it’s the responsibility of you both to make the other person feel loved and not make them think that
they are in a one-sided love. Giving and taking also does not only refer to the materialistic stuff, it would be
much more grateful if the things you give are your efforts, love, and time, because money can't buy
happiness. There would be nothing else more important than letting your partner feel the same way you do,
and this is the reason why the give and take process is a great help in maintaining the connection, bond, and
love between you lovers.

Assessment:
1. D 6. broad
2. A 7. separation anxieties
3. B 8. urge
4. B 9. dreaming
5. D 10.relationship
REFLECTION:

Here are some ways on how I express love for myself:

Every time I feel stressed, I would do recreational activities and often go to the seashore to feel
relaxed and forget about the negative thoughts inside my mind.
Sometimes, I would spoil myself with the things I love like eating.
I constantly go to church to draw myself nearer to Him, with or without problems.
I express my love for myself by always reminding me of my goals and by creating circles of people
with positive outlooks in life.
I value myself so much and I won’t let anyone or anything break me down to pieces and bring me
down.
I express love for myself by claiming that someday, all of my goals would be reached and achieved
to inspire me and keep me going.

This is how I show love to a special someone:

Whenever they have problems, I would be always ready to lend my ears to listen and comfort them.
I give time for them and make special efforts especially during important events and occasions of
their lives.
I would constantly ask how their day was.
I would also avoid the things that they don’t want me to do to keep them from getting hurt.
I would obey their orders so that they will feel how much I love and value them
I would always pray for their safety and good health.
I always support them in everything they do and even encourage them more.
I would make surprises for them for the things they did not expect me to do.
I show love to them by being always available in their times of need.
I express love by assuring them that everything I feel for them is real, through words and actions.