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INTRODUCTION
➔ Cheers
Now, when someone says, “I like your haircut,” I can say, “Cheers, I
appreciate that,” — full stop! In the past, I would have passed the
credit to my girlfriend. This habit is an excellent way to accept
positive attention and not deflect it to others.
Step 3. Love Yourself
Being unhappy with life generally means you are unhappy with
yourself and therefore struggle to love yourself. This normally stems
from the necessity to put others before yourself or because a lack of
self-confidence encourages us to focus on our faults and the things
we dislike about ourselves.
If you can add a few of the healthy habits to love yourself into your
life, you will start to notice that by taking care of yourself, everyday
life becomes more positive. When you are able to love yourself, you
might even start to see improvements in your relationship as your
self-worth begins to increase. We will start off by looking at some of
the easier ways to love yourself.
1. Keep a journal
Writing in a journal is an excellent outlet for your emotions and to let
go of negative situations. It also helps you to process them and,
afterward, concentrate your attention on the good parts and what
you have learned from the experience. When you look back through
your journal, you can be proud of how far you’ve come. I can’t
recommend keeping a journal enough because it gives you the
chance to be completely honest about your feelings and not fear
what other people think of you. A journal is a very significant tool to
help you continue along the journey of self-discovery.
2. Write down all of your achievements
This is another tool that helps you focus only on the positive. A list
of your accomplishments is a form of reminding yourself just how
capable you are. Your completed list should then be celebrated,
whether that’s with others or by yourself. Be genuinely honest here,
and don’t be tempted to not add something to the list because it
was someone else’s idea or because you were helped by someone
else.
Your achievements can include:
➔ Completing a project at work
➔ Finishing a book
Notice that these short sentences don’t contain any negative words,
and they are not talking about the future. They are designed to
remind both your conscious and subconscious of the changes you
want now.
Mantras and affirmations can be used to start your day with a
positive, firm mentality, or before going to bed to help calm your
mind and help with a good night’s sleep, or both. I found my mantra
advantageous when people pleasing feelings began, for example, in
situations where I wanted to say no but still brought myself to say it.
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