every individual is a product of their environment so to successfully change a person is to change the

environment they inhabit.

What you hate is what you become. So quit making some past hurt your life's purpose to despises,
because in the end, that is exactly what you just become. There is a law, whatever you expose yourself
to is what you become the mirror reflections of. If you keep exposing yourself to the things you hate, in
a way of making it fresh so that the lessons you learnt still stays relevant, you gonna end up being the
person you're trying to avoid. The wrong application of a certain pain begets the similitude of the cause.
If you so much despise a cheat, you'll end up becoming a stone hearted unrepentant cheat. That is why
God keeps reminding us of forgiveness because the heart wasn't built in a way that processes a
transforms, it was built as a reservoir. And each forgiveness erases the potency of a particular
experience.

Experience is what you encounter. Exposure is what you witness other people encounter.

Rev. Richard Prince On: LOCKED OUT

Do you have a home? Or are you locked OUT? Because even though you've got a house, but a house
certainly ain't a home if you don't feel at peace with it! You're LOCKED OUT! Your office is not a home
despite the friends you got there. You're LOCKED OUT! A house ain't a home despite the family you got
there. A home is where you're emotionally, intellectually and psychologically rest. There's got to be
some form of spiritual rest at a home! Not a sense of duty but a sense of rest!

Listen if you spend much time with a sense of duty to a sect of people even though they're blood, you're
never at home! You're just LOCKED OUT!!!

How many times have you found people gather round a person with that rest when they're around
compared to the person who labour day in and out to give them convenience? It's not ingratitude: it's a
sense of Home!

That's why your kids would rather go through seven abortion for a stupid boy than spend much time
with you, you're not home, you're correction and protocols! You've locked them out!
Now while am not saying that that is good, nor am I focusing on the WHAT, am focusing on the WHY and
how you can miss the meaning in the message God is passing through to you.

You see the problem with many believers is that they attach irrelevant things to relevant things.

Half the world's population are filled with people longing for an emotional home. And with the delay of
that we find bitter and vindictive people who've been hurt due to their pursuit for a happy home. Unless
you get it right, GOD WON'T GIVE YOU A HOME IF YOU KEEP HOUSING THE WRONG THINGS.

The reason why Abram had a vocal delay was because he housed Lot.

Listen, God doesn't really care about the sentimental attachment you feel towards a thing, He's more
interested about how that thing affects you!

Some of you are hoarders keeping things you should have thrown away because you fear you might
wake up one day and need them and not find them there, but the truth is, according to Jesus,
whatsoever that isn't with you is against you, and according also to Paul, no one says Jesus is accursed
and claim they speak from the Spirit. WHATEVER THAT IS CONTRARY TO YOU IS AGAINST YOU!!!

It's not a necessity of time to change it, because time's job is to disclose the seasons and purpose for
every matter under the sun, not to change people. The person who thinks you're a filth ten years ago
will still think you're a filth in the next ten years to come, no amount of niceness and patience by itself
will change that! What I mean is that time is primarily limited to exposing truths and principles, but it's
not time's job to change people. That duty is assigned to experience --not time! Because if you lack an
experience about a thing, no lengthiness of time can teach it to you. That is why you find that age is not
necessarily a factor for wisdom but exposure is! And quite frankly, if you fail to learn from experience,
you'll keep encountering the same experience overtime, Do you get me?

Who knew that little old Lot was the reason why God stopped speaking to Abraham --and until he left,
all communications were cut off! Suddenly those who you thought were gonna be there for you through
thick and thin stop picking your calls and quit replying your texts. When all you need is attention not
trouble, but it seems like the more you seek it the less you get it.

Now it is not because God hated Lot but because God had nothing to say to Abram so long as Lot was
around!

Some person's gotta leave your life before God assumes His role as path director over you because
you're all too keen on consulting them and admiring them that anything contrary to them would be
blasphemy to you.

Check your life, how many people did you, at the time, think that they leaving would be the end of you,
but now you are actually glad they left because you find they were actually dragging you down but you
didn't notice it then as you noticed it now? How many of you remember feeling lazy to reply the text
now of those you would kill to be remembered by back then?

And you think GOD ISN'T THE ONE doing the RESTRUCTURING?

I've been dealing on the subject of God going mathematical and meanings from messages yet many fail
to make it applicable to them. EXTRAORDINARY FUTURE REQUIRES EXTRAORDINARY DEPTHS!!! Ordinary
commodities don't make extraordinary merchandise.

Your struggles are as good ad your success stories!

Emotional loneliness happens to be one of the major factors to believers towards backsliding, yet we
miss the Meaning in that Message. It really wasn't God's intention for bad but for good, because all
things work together for your good, yet when you miss the message and the meaning from it, it
becomes a whole different story altogether

People do stupid things when they're lonely. God allows you to experience loneliness not to tempt you,
but for you to overcome it. The lonelier you get the bigger you go! Imagine this: God built character
through an eternity of loneliness. That is why crowds don't intimidate Him. Hey, good news update: your
problem crowd don't intimidate God too.

Don't get too lonely. Don't misinterpret the reason for your experience. To every experience there is a
purpose. Not all beautiful stories start with a soothing beginning.

You're not addicted to something, you're only looking for a relief due to the scarcity of an inner need.
People who get into addictions are usually extremely emotional people. No matter your facts; sex,
drugs, partying, alcohol, proclivities or whimsical tendencies: addictions are their emotional relief from a
certain psychological stress. So instead of looking at what they're fighting with, take time to observe
why they are fighting in the first place.

Sometimes it looks like your world is crashing down into pieces. But don't you worry cos you're viewing
from a contrary perspective. From the right perspective it's actually God restructuring. Because when
the lines are falling unto you in pleasant places, you may not really know what those pleasant places are.