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Personal Development
Quarter 1 – Module 1:
Knowing and Understanding Oneself
Personal Development - Senior High School
Alternative Delivery Mode
First Quarter-Module 1: Knowing Oneself
First Edition, 2020
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Management Team
Schools Division Superintendent:
Dr. Marilyn S. Andales, CESO V
Assistant Schools Division Superintendents:
Dr. Leah B. Apao
Dr. Ester A. Futalan
Dr. Cartesa M. Perico
Chief, CID: Dr. Mary Ann P. Flores
EPS in LRMDS: Mr. Isaiash T. Wagas
PSDS/SHS Division Coordinator: Dr. Clavel D. Salinas
Personal Development
Quarter 1 – Module 1:
Lesson 1: Knowing Oneself during Middle
and Late Adolescence
Lesson 2: Understanding Oneself during
Middle and Late Adolescence
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Key Message
For Educators:
You are reading the Personal Development – Senior High School: First
Quarter Alternative Delivery Mode (ADM) Module on “Explain that knowing
oneself can make a person accept his/her strengths and limitations and
dealings with others better. (EsP-PD11/12KO-Ia-1.1) and Share his/her unique
characteristics, habits, and experiences. (EsP-PD11/12KO-Ia-1.2)” as written
and found in the K-12 Most Essential Learning Competencies.
In addition to the material in the main text, you will also see this box in the
body of the module:
As the main source of learning, it is your top priority to explain clearly on how
to use this module to the learners. While using this module, learner’s progress and
development should be recorded verbatim to assess their strengths and weaknesses
while doing the activities presented independently in safety of their homes.
Moreover, you are anticipated to persuade learners to comply and to finish the
modules on or before the scheduled time.
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For the Learners:
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A transfer of newly acquired knowledge and
skills to a real-life situation is present in this
WHAT I CAN DO part of the module.
We do hope that in using this material, you will gain ample knowledge and
skills for you to be fully equipped and ready to answer the demands of the
globally competitive world. We are confident in you! Keep soaring high!
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WHAT I NEED TO KNOW
This module is solely prepared for you to access and to acquire lessons
befitted in your grade level. The exercises, drills and assessments are carefully
made to suit your level of understanding. Indeed, this learning resource is for you to
fully comprehend “Explain that knowing oneself can make a person accept
his/her strengths and limitations and dealings with others better. (EsP-
PD11/12KO-Ia-1.1) and Share his/her unique characteristics, habits, and
experiences. (EsP-PD11/12KO-Ia-1.2)”. Independently, you are going to go
through this module following its proper sequence. Although you are going to do it
alone, this is a guided lesson and instructions/directions on how to do every activity
is plotted for your convenience.
Using this learning resource, you are ought to “Explain that knowing oneself
can make a person accept his/her strengths and limitations and dealings with
others better. (EsP-PD11/12KO-Ia-1.1) and Share his/her unique
characteristics, habits, and experiences. (EsP-PD11/12KO-Ia-1.2)” as inculcated
in the K-12 Most Essential Learning Competencies.
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Lesson 1: Knowing Oneself during Middle and Late Adolescence
WHAT I KNOW
Directions: Take a look at your own self-concept and answer the following self-concept
inventory in your activity notebook. Give yourself a rating using the scale: (0=very weak,
1=weak, 2=somewhat weak, 3=somewhat strong, 4= strong and 5=very strong).
MY SELF-CONCEPT INVENTORY
Roldan, Amelia S. (2003). On Becoming a Winner: A Workbook on Personality Development and Character Building. AR Skills
Development and Management Services (SDMS), Paranaque City, Metro Manila.
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WHAT’S IN
Directions: Based on the result of your answers on the previous activity, write your
score opposite each number and get the subtotal. The most score you will have will
be your strong points of your self assessment.
1 5 9
2 6 10
3 7 11
4 8 12
13 17 21
14 18 22
15 19 23
16 20 24
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WHAT’S NEW
__1. A public official who is very confident in public speaking thinking that he/she
can communicate well.
_3. A student got nervous when the teacher calls his/her name during class
discussion thinking that he/she might give the wrong answer.
_4. A young lady refused to join the pageant thinking that she is not beautiful.
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WHAT IS IT
Imagine yourself looking into a mirror. What do you see? Do you see your
ideal self or your actual self? Your ideal self is the self that you aspire to be. It is the
one that you hope will possess characteristics similar to that of a mentor or some
other worldly figure. Your actual self, however, is the one that you actually see. It is
the self that has characteristics that you were nurtured or, in some cases, born to
have. The actual self and the ideal self are two broad categories of self-concept.
Self-concept refers to your awareness of yourself. It is the construct that negotiates
these two selves. In other words, it connotes first the identification of the ideal self as
separate from others, and second, it encompasses all the behaviors evaluated in the
actual self that you engage in to reach the ideal self. The actual self is built on self-
knowledge. Self-knowledge is derived from social interactions that provide insight
into how others react to you. The actual self is who we actually are. It is how we
think, how we feel, look, and act. The actual self can be seen by others, but because
we have no way of truly knowing how others view us, the actual self is our self-
image. The ideal self, on the other hand, is how we want to be. It is an idealized
image that we have developed over time, based on what we have learned and
experienced. The ideal self could include components of what our parents have
taught us, what we admire in others, what our society promotes, and what we think is
in our best interest.
There is negotiation that exists between the two selves which is complex
because there are numerous exchanges between the ideal and actual self. These
exchanges are exemplified in social roles that are adjusted and re-adjusted, and
are derived from outcomes of social interactions from infant to adult development.
Alignment is important. If the way that I am (the actual self) is aligned with the way
that I want to be (the ideal self), then I will feel a sense of mental well-being or peace
of mind. If the way that I am is not aligned with how I want to be, the incongruence,
or lack of alignment, will result in mental distress or anxiety. The greater the level of
incongruence between the ideal self and real self, the greater the level of resulting
distress. Personal development modules ultimate aim is greater self-knowledge that
will lead to higher alignment between these two personality domains.
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WHAT’S MORE
Activity I
Directions: Below is a JOHARI WINDOW. Try to find anybody within your family to
do this activity with.
1. How were you able to arrive your answer in the first quadrant?
2. Who among in your family members were able to give you the answers in the
second quadrant?
3. How did you manage to write your answer in the third quadrant?
4. What do you think is the reason of your answer in the fourth quadrant?
5. In what way can a person reduce one’s blind spots?
Activity II
https://www.selfawareness.org.uk/news/understanding-the-johari-window-model
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WHAT I HAVE LEARNED
Directions: Enlightened with the learning’s you have in this lesson, write your
insights and realization about the importance of knowing oneself.
Reflection
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Print Name & Signature Date
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WHAT I CAN DO
Directions: Below are situations that imply weak self-concept. How would you train
yourself to have a strong self-concept? Give the right thing to do in each of the given
situations.
2. When you are at school, you always compare yourself to other people.
3. When you see your best friend talking with other friends you succumb to jealousy.
4. When some of your friends appreciate your work, you consistently reject
compliments.
7. You persistently suffer from guilt about what you could, should, or would’ve done.
8. You usually undermine your own personal needs in favor of other people’s needs.
10. You easily got discourage when people criticize or comments in your
undertakings.
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ASSESSMENT
Directions: Read each item carefully. Identify the key word/s that is defined in each
of the statement. Choices are found in the box below.
Test I:
1. It is the idealized image that we have developed over time,
based on what we have learned and experienced.
2. It is the self that you actually see that has characteristics that
you were nurtured or born to have.
7. It is the benefits you can achieve when you express who you
really are.
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ADDITIONAL ACTIVITY/IES
“Knowing yourself
is the beginning of all wisdom.”
- Aristotle
WHAT I KNOW
Directions: Draw anything that symbolizes you. In each part of your symbol write
the following according to what you have experienced for the past 4 years.
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WHAT’S IN
Directions: According to the symbol that you have in our first activity, answer the
following questions in your journal.
Strengths are the skills and abilities that are easy for you. So when
you’re leveraging those skills and abilities you do quite well. Knowing your
strengths means you know what activities to engage in that will allow you
to shine.
Weaknesses are those skills and abilities that don’t come easy to
you. When you are using those skills and abilities, you might struggle.
Knowing your weaknesses allows you to understand how you can work
around them.
WHAT’S NEW
Directions: The following list of words is group of strengths and weaknesses. Write
each of them in the following appropriate columns that follow after the list.
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Strengths Weaknesses
1. Which from your list under the columns for strengths and weaknesses are true to
you?
2. Do they affects the way you relate with others?
3. Which from the columns for strengths or weaknesses has the majority of the items
which is true to you?
4. What are you going to do with those strengths and weaknesses?
5. What are your ways to be able to do this?
WHAT IS IT
Most failures emanate from weaknesses that are not recognized or probably
recognized but not given appropriate attention or remedy. This could be a weakness
in communications, personality or ability. Instead of giving up or indulging in self-pity,
take action. Go for speech lessons, get skills upgrading, attend personality
development sessions or whatever appropriate remedies to your perceived
weakness.
Instead of simply focusing on your weaknesses, recognize your own talents
and abilities, build on them, utilize them to your greatest advantage. This is where
you can build your name and popularity. Handicapped people like Jose Feliciano and
other blind singers did not brood over their physical handicap. They recognized that
they have a golden voice so they search for ways to enrich that talent and now they
have won international fame in the field of music.
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But many times, they wish the movie would end in another way – but realize
that they have no say in such things.
The third is the Scriptwriter. This person does not only watch, and she
doesn’t only act, but she actually creates the entire movie from her mind. She
determines what she will say, what she will do, and how the movie will end. She
realizes she has enormous control over her life, and sees to it that the movie of her
life will turn out beautiful.
Who are you among these three people? Do you merely watch your life go
by? Or do you act out a script that you feel has been handed to you? Or do you write
the script and make your life beautiful?
By the way, the Producer of the movie is God. He tells you, “Make the movie
beautiful, and I will give you all that you need for success.”
Processing Questions:
1. When was the time that you have acted like; The moviegoer, The Actor, or The
Scriptwriter?
2. Write at least three significant experiences that you had.
3. How did you feel acting like any of those?
4. What have you realized after reading the story?
WHAT’S MORE
Activity I
Directions: Copy the table below in your journal. Answer what is asked from you in
each column.
MY MY
STRENGTHS WEAKNESSES
1. __ 1. __
2. __ 2. __
3. __ 3. __
4. __ 4. __
5. __ 5. __
Activity II
Directions: Now that you know yourself in your journal, trace
your right hand and in each finger you are going to write a word/
phrase the steps to make your weaknesses into a strength that
will help you become an effective member of the family/
community.
https://www.pinterest.ph/pin/105623553740573867/
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WHAT I HAVE LEARNED
Directions: Enlightened with the learning’s you have in this lesson; write your
insights and realization about the importance of knowing oneself.
Reflection
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WHAT I CAN DO
Directions: Answer the following practical questions in order to form an essay about
“Understanding Myself Better Now”.
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ASSESSMENT
Directions: Below are situations that need your affirmation. Put this emoticons ☺
if you are happy with it and this emoticons if you are sad.
Test I
_1. Your classmate is a very good communicator and it's easy for him/her to
relate to other people.
_2. One of your siblings wants to continue for further studies.
_3. You are good in anything when you are thinking alone.
_4. You have a classmate who is good in sense of humor.
_5. Your neighbor’s wife died last month. The surviving spouse manages to
continue his life normally.
_6. After taking the test you found out that your score is very low. It
disappoints you to the extent that you did not make all your requirements
in the subject.
_7. During the time of the corona virus pandemic, one of your classmates
was able to manage his/her time to become one of the front liners.
_8. Your mother is a front liner and she is happy of what she is doing.
_9. Your teacher is willing to extend his/her time doing paper works even
beyond office hours.
_10. During the lock down your friends manage to go out unnoticed by the
authorities.
ADDITIONAL ACTIVITY/IES
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REFERENCES
Published Books
Electronic Resources
Know Yourself? 6 Specific Ways to Know Who You Are Retrieved from
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/changepower/201603/know-
yourself-6-specific-ways-know-who-you-are
Leadership 101: Why You Need To Know Your Strengths & Weaknesses Retrieved
from https://leadershiplifesupport.com/know-your-strengths-weaknesses/
JOHARI WINDOW know yourself and others, improve your Personality viewed at
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MJiw6HMKIwg and Retrieved from
http://www.banumandal.com/whtson-1archivesdec12.html
Other Resources
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