Surrogate Mothers

One of the most divisive topics in our society is surrogacy, in some country it is illegal, but there
are some society, where it is legal. Parenthood is the most challenging responsibilities a human
being can bear. However some people can not have a child, so they have to choice to have a
child, they can adopt or they live without or a child. So it is right or wrong? Since surrogacy is a
family-building programme, the choice should be individual, everyone should have the chance to
choose this help. The infertility is the leading reasons for surrogacy. This can be the suitable
solution, who wants a child, but they do not want to adopt. They would like to bring up their own
child, though they need some help for this. In this situation, surrogate mother can help them.
Unfortunatley nowadays it is not a common solution and in a lot of country it is not permitted.

In Hungary it is illegal, though many couple would like to make great demand on surrogacy. I
am sure it could help many couple and also woman, who do not have enough money. With this
kind of help they can earn money because those couple, who choose surrogacy, are wealthy
people. Surrogacy arrengements can be made through agencies and are contracted privately. In
this situation they can get to know each other better and the couple can choose the most suitable
women for bearing their child. Nowadays it is a very common problem, that a women can not
have a child, this time she is very desperate and disappointed and tries to find the best solution.

Actually, there is another option, for example adoption, which is legal in our country and it may
be more useful, since the couple can choose a child and bring him/her up under better
circumstences and give him/her everything, what she/he deserves and make the child a great life,
that she/he would deserve.

In addition a women, who becomes surrogate mother, does it for the money. In this situation she
can make herself a better life. Furthermore the couple and the surrogate mother can face up with
a hard situation, when whether the couple or the mother change mind and decide to not have
children, or refuse to accept a child because of physical or mental disability. Nevertheless those,
who want to raise up their own child, this could be the best solution. Even though they can meet
many difficulties during this procedure.

Although I can not imagine this situation, when a mother gives her child to another women.
Despite of the money it might be very hard, as she feels the baby inside her belly and takes care
of the baby for 9 month. I can not imagine how this type of women thinks. Notwithstanding I can
understand them, if they do not want a child, they just need money.

Surrogacy might seem to be an acceptable alternative to families who would like to have
children. In fact there are some woman, who do not even for money, but simply just because they
love being pregnant and would enjoy helping someone. That is why it should be legal in Hungary
and in many other countries.