The Phenomenology of Being Introvert

Acording to google An Introvert is a quiet person that doesn’t like to talk very much and likes to keep
their thoughts mostly to themselves. They are kind of person that goes home and stay there and have
time to think. Being an introvert is often considered weak and boring person. They aren’t quite as good
as the extroverts, who just seem to breeze through life.
But being an introvert has a lot of significance for me personally; quiet allows us to absorb our
experiences, and being alone or feeling at home is not lonely for an introvert. Introverts are low-
maintenance people who like to live a simple existence. For me, a perfect day consists of being at
home and doing what I like. The calm atmosphere allows me to express myself and focus on my
hobbies.. Making an introvert happy is a very simple task. The simple things, whether it's spending
time with family and friends or making the most of their alone time, calm an introvert's mood. We
aspire to live in peace and quiet. Introverts need undistracted thinking time, which peace and quiet
provide. I definitely need a moment of solitude every day to avoid feeling overwhelmed by the world's
constant extroversion.
introvert is not boring because theyre introvert . so don’t let comment like that bother you or make you
think that you cannot be an interesting person. Many people can be interesting and lively, despite
being introvert at their core
Ill tell you what makes someone boring to me. To me, a boring person is one that coimplains about
everything. That could less than a crap what about others besides themselves, who isnt interested in
doing anything but making fun of the difference between people instead of celebrating them and
someone who enjoys bullying others because of their unique qualities?
And this happened to me as I am walking and learning through the journey of my life
When I was a bit older, I never started talking to my relatives; instead, I waited for someone to notice
me so that we could play and talk, but I done to resist being the one to initiate the conversation. I didn't
care about making a lot of friends or getting introduced to strangers at our family's gatherings. I
became bored when conversing with others and having endless conversations. I disliked being
interrogated by others. I tried all I could to get people to ignore my presence.
When I was in high school, I labeled myself an introvert because I stopped communicating and spent
much of my time alone thinking. I lacked deep and stable friendships. When it came to schooling, I've
always struggled to fit in. People typically perceive me as a strange, snobbish individual, which makes
me miserable..
1 didn’t have a lot of self-esteem. It didn’t help that I was also horribly bullied from primary school all
the way through high school. . I recall being punched in the shoulder by a classmate and not knowing
what to do. I'm at a loss on what to do about it. This sort of thing happens all the time. I can't inform
anyone since that would be of no use to me. I can't throw a punch because I'm too weak, and if I do,
I'll be suspended. I'm unable to inform my parents and take action. because I'm at a loss on what to
do.and That is the worst scenario I have ever encountered in my life. Because I can't tolerate myself, I
feel like I'm not an useful person.
They do that because introverted people are easier targets since they choose to ignore rather than stand
up from themselves. They like to attack the ones who will not give them an answer, it's sad to even
think about it.
I’m also thinking on how the people around me will accept and understand me.What is my purpose in
life ?What if I choose to label myself as an extrovert? On that time, these are the questions that always
playing on my mind and It haunted me for years
For a time, this made me sad until I understood it wasn't my fault if I'm an introvert. I Thought There
was something wrong with me. I simply need to accept myself as an introvert and not try to alter
myself to fit in with other people. Accepting myself as an introvert and accepting that this was who I
was taught me that it didn't matter whether or not others liked me. The essential thing is that I lived my
life on my own choices.
On the other hand, the challenge I've come upon isn't quite complete. I thought I may be able to find
happiness again now that I've embraced the reality that I'm an introvert. One of the most difficult
things for introverts to deal with is not having the same level of confidence as extroverts, and I'm
seriously questioning my decision. But this time, I'm not going to compare myself to others. Instead,
accept myself as an introvert. Accept that alone time is what keeps me going and that there's nothing
wrong with that. Everyone is motivated by different types of energy and works in a different way. The
sooner I embrace and love myself, the more confident I will become..and also learn to believe myself
because I know now who I am and don’t doubt myself or my decision
Finally, as a result of my primary and secondary reflections, I am now confident in my own self. Many
things have been taught to me. I'm free now since I've gotten rid of all the pains I was experiencing
previously. My pain has vanished as I witness the phenomena in its entirety.
I've discovered that different people have different perspectives on life. I'm no longer afraid of being
judged by others, and I enhance my confidence by surrounding myself with only positive
individuals.and I've learned that just because we're introverts doesn't mean we won't have problems,
nobody has a perfect life everybody has own problem some people just know how to deal in it in a
perfect way. All I have to do now is learn to cope with it and to learn from it.because being introvert is
not a bad thing because this is who I am and im proud of it