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Let me tell you that all of your actions will bear consequences. Remember, the golden rule or karma's
concept "a good deed will lead to a future beneficial effect, while a bad deed will lead to a future harmful
effect."
Dating a married man is wrong whatever angle you look at it. Getting in a relationship with a tied person
is the worst decision. Let me make this clear: he is CHEATING on his WIFE with you. If he has no
problem lying to his wife, he probably won't have an issue lying to you. This cheating man is not to be
trusted- his entire life is a lie.
There are no positive reasons for dating a married man. Surely you will be a homewrecker for what you
are doing. Everyone involved loses. The affair will only cause pain for you, him, his wife, and, if
applicable, his children. Think about his wife (and kids if he has them); how would they feel if they knew
that the husband/father was messing around. They would be heartbroken. Indeed, you don't want to be the
reason for another child to grow up without a father. You don't want to be the cause of someone's
suffering.
It would be best if you got out of that mess early. It may hurt, but the sacrifice will be worth it. Yes, he
was married and had a wife (and possibly children), but he was your 'partner,' your 'boyfriend'- even if it
was a secret and even if it was wrong. When you decide to leave him, you're still going to grieve the loss
of love. Don't try to diminish your feelings because it was an affair. You're still going to be very
heartbroken and feel sad about the entire situation. You are going to miss him and want him back. But
stay strong and grieve your loss. You will move on from this and become a stronger lady! Don't be a
notorious homewrecker. You made a MISTAKE seeing and falling in love with a married man. Please
don't do it again. You know the outcome!
Don't wait around, have enough respect for yourself to realize the lies and move on. Respect Yourself
Enough to Leave. You know that I love you and that I only want the best for you. Your relationship
prospects will be much better if you find a guy who isn't already taken. Find a single man you connect
with; someone you can build a solid future with. It may seem fun and risky to be with a married man, but
remember everything you're ruining and all the time you're wasting being with him. You deserve
someone better who is willing to share his love for you with the world. Someone who is proud of you and
wants a real relationship could turn into marriage and a family one day. Think about your happiness and
well-being with this man- it can't be everything you've ever dreamed of!