Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Chapter 1
• Imagine any professional you know in any
capacity…… What skills, attitudes and
qualities do you appreciate over an above the
obvious job related expertise?
• To free your Tongue: For practice say either, left and wealth, health, thin,
think alive and luck.
• To free your lips: say when, where, be and back, west, window, puff, lips
Negotiation skills
• Negotiating the rent with your landlord
• Resolving an argument between friends
What are your strengths?
• Find your positive attributes
• Flow activities: sense of energy and
engagement
• you want to do things that use your
strengths: even when you are
tired or stressed.
Action Planning
• Identifying your objectives
• Setting objectives which are achievable &
measurable.
• Prioritising your tasks effectively.
• Identifying the steps needed to achieve your
goals.
• Using lists.
• Being able to work effectively under pressure.
• Completing work to a deadline.
• Having a contingency plan
Action Planning Model
• Action planning is a cyclical process, and once you have been
through one cycle, you can start again at the beginning. The stages
are as follows:
• WHERE AM I NOW? This is where you review your achievements
and progress, and undertake self-assessment.
• WHERE DO I WANT TO BE? This is where you decide your goals.
• HOW DO I GET THERE? This is where you define the strategy you
will use to achieve your goals, and to break down your goal into the
smaller discreet steps you will need to take to achieve your target.
• TAKING ACTION. implement your plan!
• WHERE AM I NOW?
Action Plan
Now write your own action plan ...... My
MY OBJECTIVE IS: Date I reward
expect to for
TO ACHIEVE THIS I NEED TO: complete completi
List the steps you need to take. Be detailed and specific (not ‘‘I'll contact some employers’’, this step ng this
but ‘‘Find email addresses of 5 local employers who have marketing departments & contact by step will
them" be
Ch. 1, Slide 2
Success for YOU in the new global and
diverse
workplace requires excellent
communication skills!
Ch. 1, Slide 3
Why Study Communication?
Ch. 1, Slide 4
People see things differently
We experience life differently
Information overload!
The Importance of
Communication Skills
• Ninety-four percent of over 2,000 surveyed
executives ranked “communicating well” as the most
important skill for success.
--NFI Research
• Companies included in BusinessWeek’s list of best
places to work cited communication skills the most
important trait in a job candidate—more desirable
than any other trait besides college major.
--BusinessWeek
Even More Evidence of Importance
• Employers surveyed for the Job Outlook 2009 cited
communication skills along with related traits such as
a strong work ethic, ability to work in a team, and
initiative as highly prized qualities in job applicants.
--National Association of Colleges and Employers
Ch. 1, Slide 10
We Want Others to Change
Aristotle’s Model
Three elements of communication:
• the speaker
• the speech
• the audience
Ch. 1, Slide 12
The Shannon and Weaver
Communication Model
Modified S&W Model of Human
Communication
Noise in the Modified Shannon and
Weaver Model
• Physical:
– Occurrences in the physical surroundings or in the
media that can distort a message
• Physiological:
– Physical discomfort in the body of either the
sender or the receiver
• Psychological:
– Negative feelings in the mind of either the sender
or the receiver
Noise, cont’d
• Perceptual
– Incorrect perceptions of the message and the
receiver by the sender, and vice-versa
• Semantic
– Misinterpretation of words and sentences by the
sender or receiver
Berlo’s SMCR Model
•SOURCE
•MESSAGE Four elements in the
•CHANNEL
communication
process
•RECEIVER
Berlo’s Elements, cont’d.
• SOURCE :The first element of Berlo’s communication model is
the source. All communication must come form some sources. The
source might be one person, a group of people of a company.
Several things determine how a source will operate in the
communication process such as
– Communication skills: like abilities to think, write, draw and
speak
– Attitudes : toward audience, the subject matter etc.
– Knowledge : of the subject
– Social system : Social background, education, friends, salary
– Culture
Berlo’s Elements, cont’d.
• MESSAGE : Message is the information, views of thoughts
to be sent by the source. The source must choose the code or
language for sending the message.
Berlo’s Elements, cont’d.
• CHANNEL : The channel is the method such as newspaper,
radio, letter, poster or other media through which the
message will be transmitted.
– Seeing
– Hearing
– Touching
– Smelling
– Tasting
Berlo’s Elements, cont’d.
• RECEIVER
– Communication skills
– Attitudes
– Knowledge
– Social system
– Culture
The Communication Process
Basic Model
5.
Feedback travels
to sender
1. 2. 3. 4.
Sender Sender Message Receiver
has idea encodes travels decodes
idea in over message
message channel
6.
Possible additional
feedback to receiver
Ch. 1, Slide 22
Communications in business
• Occur constantly
• Are formal and informal
• Are written and spoken
• Are internal (stay within the business) and external (sent
outside the business)
• Are essential for business success
The importance of internal
communications
3 Technology
- Availability
- Accuracy
- Security issues
- Databases
Methods of communication
• Oral, eg telephone, face-to-face, meetings, telephone
conferencing
• By video, eg video conferencing and Internet video link
• Written, eg letter, memo, financial documents,
advertisements, emails and attachments
• Graphical, eg production drawings, computer graphics
Choosing the most appropriate
method
Depends upon:
• The reason (eg important = written)
• The recipient (eg internal/external)
• The technology available
• The urgency of the message (eg fast = ICT)
• The complexity of the message (eg very complex =
written)
• Whether instant feedback needed
Use oral if . . .
• You need an instant response
• You want to use your tone of voice or body language
to show feelings
• You want to keep checking the other person’s
reaction
• Internal Communication
• Self Talk
• Acts of imagination and visualization
• Internal monologue: Rational & Reasonable/ Disorganized
& Unreasonable
• Example:-
Intrapersonal Communication
Steps:
• Planning
• Problem Solving
• Internal conflict resolution
• Evaluation
• Judgment of self and others
• Exercise on Self talk:- I can do this/ What’s the
use
Intrapersonal Communication
Self Concept:
• You are dynamic not static
• Your thoughts about you will also change with time
• Self can be defined through your own sense of individuality,
personal characteristics, motivation and action.
• Contradiction with what you are and what you will become.
• How we see ourselves and how we feel about ourselves
influences our communication with others.
Intrapersonal Communication
Self Concept:
• How we see ourselves and how we feel about ourselves
influences our communication with others.
• What you are thinking now and how you
communicate impacts and influences how others
treat you.
Dimensions of Self
Exercise:
• Define yourself in less than 5 words
• Define yourself in 20 to 50 words
Dimensions of Self
2. Take a base score of 18. To this score, add your scores for items 8, 9,
and 12. Subtract your scores for items 7, 10, and 11. This is your
meetings communication apprehension score.
3. Take a base score of 18. To this score, add your scores for items 14, 16,
and 17. Subtract your scores for items 13, 15, and 18. This is your
interpersonal communication apprehension score.
4. Take a base score of 18. To this score, add your scores for items 19, 21,
and 23. Subtract your scores for items 20, 22, and 24. This is your public
speaking communication apprehension score.
Relaxed Dramatic
Contentious Open
Attentive Dominant
Generally, an individual will use several
attributes at the same time (Norton, 1983),
which creates an individual’s communicator
style, or cluster.
For example, a dominant person also may be
animated, dramatic, and/or impression
leaving, and an attentive person also may be
friendly and relaxed (Norton, 1978).
INTRAPERSONAL and INTERPERSONAL
COMMUNICATION-II
IMPORTANT FACTORS THAT INFLUENCE
INTRAPERSONAL SKILLS
1. Perspective
2. Self-esteem
3. Self-confidence
4. Self-assertive
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1. PERSPECTIVE
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An Example
A person (the perceiver) might perceive a manager (the target) and
expect him to speak with an authoritative tone of voice because he's an
authority figure. Thus, our perception of the person is already being
formed before they even open their mouth. Now, let us say that when
the manager does speak, he speaks in a very polite voice.Our target (the
manager ) is not confirming to our perception of how we think they
should sount.
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THE WAY WE THINK
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KNOWLEDGE/INFORMATION
EXPERIENCE /
EDUCATION EFFECTS WE SEE
OBSERVATION VALUE
WHAT IS SHAPING SYSTEM
OUR MINDS?
ENVIRONMENTAL PERCEIVED
INFLUENCE AUTHORITY
PEOPLE INFLUENCE OF
INFLUENCE MODELING
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EVERY ACTION WE TAKE IS ACTUALLY A REFLECTION OF
OUR PERSPECTIVE
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2. SELF-ESTEEM
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WHY HAVING HIGH SELF-ESTEEM IS IMPORTANT?
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WHO AM I?
MY IDENTITY! MY IMAGE!
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Signs of Low Self-Esteem
• Self-blame, self-criticism, or constantly putting others down through guilt, blame, shame, or
faultfinding. Finding forgiveness difficult.
• Playing the victim, rationalizing that outside circumstances are the causes of your problems.
• Not taking responsibility for your own life; turning power over to another to make decisions
for you, then feeling victimized if the results are not to your liking.
• Taking too much responsibility for the lives of others, dominating and making decisions for
them.
• Fear of change and reluctance to take risks. Or too much change, taking dangerous, unwise
risks.
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Signs of Low Self-Esteem
• Boastfulness, lying, embellishing, exaggerating, and overbearing behavior around others.
• Demanding to be “right,” needing to have agreement or have your own way most of the time, or
constantly acquiescing to the will and opinions of others.
• Black/white, either/or thinking; e.g., believing that a person is either good or bad based on rigid standards
of behavior.
• Speaking with lots of shoulds, oughts, could haves, and yes ,buts.
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WAYS TO BUILD HIGH SELF-ESTEEM
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3. SELF-CONFIDENCE
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Building Self-Confidence
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Building Self-Confidence
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4. SELF-ASSERTIVE
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Tips
The condition of a person will not be changed until they change
what is in themselves….”
Anthony Robbins: Communication Quotations
The way we communicate with others and with ourselves
ultimately determines the quality of our lives.
Winston Churchill: Communication Quotes
Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also
what it takes to sit down and listen
Denis Waitley : Quotes: Self Esteem
To establish true self-esteem we must concentrate on our
successes and forget about the failures and the negatives in our
lives
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ONLY WE CAN CHANGE OURSELVES
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DEFINITION OF INTERPERSONAL
COMMUNICATION
• Communication is a process of
delivering a message or
meaning through verbal or non-
verbal means
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PERSPECTIVE OF INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION
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COMPONENTS OF INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION
1. Conversation
2. Listening
3. Body language
4. Environment
5. Self-appearance
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1. CONVERSATION
• Mention Their Names
• Use Suitable Language
• Tone Of Voice
• Simplify Your Message
• Give Other People The Chance To Talk And Do Not
Control All
• Try To Control From Telling Too Much About Yourself
• Use Closed And Open Questions Properly
• Contents Of Your Sentence
• Suitability Of Topics To Talk
• Winning People’s Heart
Be Interesting Vs. Be Interested
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THE WAY TO CONVERSE
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2. LISTENING SKILLS
Look at the eyes and give attention But do not do it too close or too long
Show your interest and show that they are important
Concentrate – do not let your mind wonder to other places. Do not look at other places or do
other things while listening to people talking to you
Show that you are actually listening to them with full interest by saying ‘yeah’ ‘oh like that’,
nodding your head and continue eye contact.
Do not look at different direction
Ensure that you really understand what you have just heard by repeating what you have
heard to him / her.
Repeat important information and seek confirmation from her “Is this what you are trying
say……”
Give encouragement for people to keep on talking or to tell you more using phrases such as
‘that’s amazing idea, that’s interesting story, please tell me more’
Listen to ideas, not just words. Form imagination in your mind while listening.
Do not interrupt or try to finish his sentence while people are talking to you. Wait until he or
she finishes his or her sentences.
Do not be too fast to conclude. Give your response when you are truly sure he’s finished his
points.
Do not focus on what you are going to say, focus on what your friend is going to say first.
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3. BODY LANGUAGE
PROPER BODY LANGUAGE
Smile or show happy face
Nod your head to show that you understand or agree or you are following the
conversation attentively.
Give space so that everyone can see each other’s face if you are talking in a group.
GOOD BODY LANGUAGE
“Mirroring” is you create the same body posture with those you are talking to – if
they are standing with one leg up, you do the same, if they are holding cup, you
do the same. This is called mirroring.
“Mirroring” will create a more friendly and relaxed atmosphere between you and
the other person.
Avoid from:
• Yawning,
• Scratching your head,
• Drilling your nostrils,
• Digging your ears, and all sort of inappropriate actions
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4. ENVIRONMENT
Try to understand their mood (are they tired, have many problems,
after getting scolded from their boss, feeling sad, mixed feeling
etc.)
Look at suitability of topic at that moment
Find suitable place (eg. quite, not many people around) for the
topic you want to discuss. To discuss multi-million dollar business
deal, must find a suitable place.
Find suitable environment (cold, not smelly, refreshing, clean)
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5. SELF APPEARANCE
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CHALLENGES IN COMMUNICATION
MISUNDERSTANDING IN COMMUNICATION
might happen in:
– Through telephone
– SMS
– Emails
– News delivered through third party,
• When talking always want to win or be superior
• When talking, emotion is more than facts
• When giving opinions, very fast in finding other people’s faults
• When asking questions, the intention is to test the people
• When talking, always want to make other people feel guilty
• When talking, very arrogant, big talk and belittle other people.
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CHALLENGES IN COMMUNICATION
Normally, most people don’t want the following:
ONE WAY COMMUNICATION – do not give chance to other people to talk.
• Pestered – just like being pushy.
• Dictated – like to control.
• Imposed – give one-sided point of view.
• Insisted – do not give much choices.
• Manipulation– salesmen, bad leaders
• He feel he’s the only one who’s right and other people do not know anything.
• Discussion not for the sake of finding proper understanding or to find the truths
• Discussion to hurt other people’s feelings
• Arguments just for fun –no objective, waste of time hurt the feeling
• Provoke heated arguments, spoil the good mood, break friendship
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More examples of Barriers to
communication
• Language
• Values and beliefs
• Sex/gender and age
• Economic status
• Educational level
• Physical barriers
• Attitude
• Timing
• Understanding of message
• Trust
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IMPORTANT TIPS ON INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
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IMPORTANT TIPS ON INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
1. REMEMBER HIS NAME AND RELATED INFORMATION
Remember his name correctly and mention his name in the conversation
Try to remember other important or relevant information about him such as his
last vacation , his favorite food etc.
2. LOOK AT THE GOOD SIDE AND GIVE EMPATHY
Look at the good side and strength he has; do not look at his weaknesses and
shortcomings
Inculcate sympathy and empathy; try to understand his situation; do not quickly put
a blame on him; do not quickly make a conclusion about him and give forgiveness on
small things
Investigate first on what’s happened. Do not conclude too fast
Give open arms and put no ill intention toward him.
3. THINK WIN-WIN
Think win-win. Be fair to all parties.
Never ever suppress other people
Never try to take advantage, especially from the weaker party.
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IMPORTANT TIPS ON INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
4. DO NOT KEEP HIDDEN AGENDA OR TRY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE
• Do not keep the “prawn besides the stone” (hidden agenda) when dealing with
him; this way you will lose trust from him
• Do not take advantage on his weaknesses or his negligence or his sincerity
5. DO NOT have ill-intention
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IMPORTANT TIPS ON INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
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IMPORTANT TIPS ON INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
10.SOMETIMES WE ARE STRATEGIC,NOT HYPOCRITE
We cannot be open to all things because it could be not strategic
Have to see the pros and cons of the things we discussed
If it carries more disadvantages than advantages, so it is better to avoid from being direct
– this is what is called strategic.
11. LIKEABLE AND LIKE
Make it a habit to always eliminate the bad elements in our life
Improve yourself so that people like you
Train yourself to like other people
12. EXPECTATION
Sometimes our expectation on other people are not realistic or too high
All people have problems or circumstances which we do not know
We shouldn’t be asking from them more than what they are capable of doing
Expectation which is too high might frustrate us
13. DON’T HOPE FOR RETURN OF FAVOR
Continue with good relationship without hoping anything in return
Even though people do not give a damn, we continue with good relationship with them
If we are hoping for a return of favor, maybe we will be frustrated
If we do not hope anything in favor, they will feel the true pleasure of friendship
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FRIENDSHIP
SPOILERS ENHANCERS
• Have strong vested • Good intention
interest • Always helping
• Like to take advantage • Keep his dignity
• High expectation • See the good aspects
• Blame without than the bad aspects
investigation • No hidden agenda
• Lying when speaking • Telling the truth and be
• Back biting trustworthy
• Take his rights • Give priority to a
friend
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Conflict and Negotiation in
Workplace
Conflict
3. Process Conflict
1. Affective Conflict / Relationship Conflict
Conflict
Perceptions
Sources of Manifest Conflict
Conflict Conflict Outcomes
Conflict
Emotions
Conflict
Escalation Cycle
Sources of Conflict
• Different values/beliefs
Differentiation • Explains cross-cultural and generational
conflict
more
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Sources of Conflict
Scarce
• Motivates competition for the resource
Resources
• Increases stereotyping
Communication
• Reduces motivation to communicate
Problems
• Escalates conflict when arrogant
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Structural Approaches to Conflict
Resolution
1. Emphasizing superordinate goals
– Emphasize common objective rather than
conflicting sub-goals
– Reduces goal incompatibility and differentiation
2. Reducing differentiation
– Remove sources of different values and beliefs
• e.g. Move employees around to different jobs
Structural Approaches to Conflict
Resolution (con’t)
3. Improving communication/understanding
• Employees understand and appreciate each
other’s views through communication
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Structural Approaches to Conflict
Resolution (con’t)
4. Reduce Task Interdependence
• Dividing shared resources
• Combine tasks
• Use buffers
5. Increase Resources
• Duplicate resources
6. Clarify Rules and Procedures
• Clarify resource distribution
• Change interdependence
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Resolving Conflict Through Negotiation
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Situational Influences on Negotiation
• Location
• Physical setting
• Time passage and
deadlines
• Audience
Courtesy of Microsoft
Interpersonal Conflict Handling Styles
• Win-win orientation
– believe parties will find a mutually beneficial
solution
• Win-lose orientation
– belief that the more one party receives, the less
the other receives
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Five Conflict Handling Styles
High
Competing Collaboration
Assertiveness
Compromising
Avoiding Accommodati
on
Low High
Cooperativeness
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Conflict Handling Contingencies
Collaboration
– Best when:
• Interests are not perfectly opposing
• Parties have trust/openness
• Issues are complex
– Problem: other party take advantage of information
Competing
– Best when:
• you have a deep conviction about your position
• quick resolution required
• other party would take advantage of cooperation
– Problems: relationship conflict, long-term relations
Conflict Handling Contingencies
Avoiding
– Best when:
• relationship conflict is high
• conflict resolution cost is higher than benefits
– Problems: doesn’t resolve conflict, frustration
Accommodation
– Best when:
• other party has much more power
• issue is much less important to you than other party
• value/logic of your position is imperfect
– Problem: Increases other party’s expectations
Conflict Handling Contingencies
Compromising
– Best when…
• Parties have equal power
• Quick solution is required
• Parties lack trust/openness
– Problem: Sub-optimal solution where mutual
gains are possible
Managerial Decision Making
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Types of Decisions
Programmed decisions
situations that occur often enough to enable
decision rules to be developed.
Nonprogrammed decisions
are made in response to situations that are
unique, are poorly defined and largely
unstructured.
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Decision Making Conditions
Certainty
all the information the decision maker needs is
fully available.
Risk
decision has clear-cut goals.
good information is available.
future outcomes associated with each
alternative are subject to chance.
Programmed Nonprogrammed
Decisions Decisions
Problem
Solution
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Three Decision Making Models
Political Model
Administrative Model
Classical Model
Clear-cut problem and goals. Vague problem and goals. Pluralistic; conflicting goals.
Condition of certainty. Condition of uncertainty. Condition of uncertainty/ambiguity.
Full information about Limited information about Inconsistent viewpoints; ambiguous
alternatives and their outcomes. alternatives and their outcomes. information.
Rational choice by individual Satisficing choice for resolving Bargaining and discussion among
for maximizing outcomes. problem using intuition. coalition members.
Psyche = Mind
Metric = To Measure
What are psychometric tests?
• Ability/Aptitude Tests
(usually verbal, numerical
and diagrammatic)
• Personality Inventories
(questionnaires)
– These skills are relevant to a range of functions that require working with
money or finance, also general management, finance and sales to data
processing.
Numerical Tests
Example
Numerical Tests
How to prepare
– Remind yourself of the basics of mathematics, such as percentages, ratios,
fractions, currency conversions etc
– Read the financial section of a quality newspaper . It will help familiarise
you with financial and numerical information
– Practise doing maths puzzles .
– Take a practice test to help you get used to the format and time pressure
– Check if you are allowed to use a calculator or not – if not practice doing
sums without one
Verbal Reasoning Tests
What are they?
– Measure your ability to reason with and to evaluate the logic of verbal information.
– The process is similar to the skills required to summarise large reports and extract
verbal data at meetings . It's very relevant for roles that require analysis of verbal
information.
– You are usually provided with a passage of information and required to evaluate a
set of statements by selecting one of the following possible answers:
– A – True
– B – False
– C – Cannot Say
Verbal Reasoning Tests
Example
“Many organisations find it beneficial to employ students over the summer.
Permanent staff often wish to take their own holidays over this period.
Furthermore, it is not uncommon for companies to experience peak workloads in
the summer and so require extra staff. Summer employment also attracts students
who may return as well qualified recruits to an organisation when they have
completed their education. Ensuring that the students learn as much as possible
about the organisation encourages interest in working on a permanent basis.
Organisations pay students on a fixed rate without the usual entitlement to paid
holidays or sick leave.”
Statement 1 - It is possible that permanent staff who are on holiday can have
their work carried out by students.
– This sort of reasoning is relevant for jobs which require the capacity to learn new
things and work through complex problems in a logical, systematic and analytical
manner
– Measure the ability to work flexibly with unfamiliar information and find solutions.
– People who perform well on these tests tend to have a greater capacity to think
conceptually as well as analytically.
Logical Reasoning Tests
Examples
Least Most
1) Apologise to the customer and say you will arrange for a re-scheduled
appointment.
2) Listen to the customer’s feedback and tell them that you can understand why
they are upset and that it must be very inconvenient for them.
3) Explain that the engineer has a very busy schedule and its difficult for her to
always be on time but you’re sure she will arrive soon.
4) Ask the customer to hold while you contact the engineer to establish where she
is.
Situational Judgement Tests
How to Prepare