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When we are on the verge of uniting with the infinite wavelength of eternal vibration, our old
frequency can sometimes go through a crisis of stasis. It buckles and bends trying to adjust itself
and tune into the cosmic orchestra. We tend to doubt everything we’ve known to be true. In
worst (best) case scenarios we tend to fall into an existential crisis, or Dark Night of the Soul.
But, if we are able to make it through this dark time, and shed that which has weighed us down,
then we will open up once again, and even wider than before. This can happen many times on
our spiritual journey, and each time we tend to gain new levels of wisdom. Here are seven signs
you may be experiencing a dark night of the soul.
Also referred to as the Night of Pan: the mystical state where one’s ego goes to die a small death
in order to be reborn as a Soul. In mythological terms it’s a journey into the Underworld, where
difficult trials must be completed before the hero can return back to the “real” world.
This is the great lesson of loneliness: we can no more separate the micro from the macro than we
can the human from the natural. Both are needed to put the whole into holistic. It’s the
astonishing ache of loneliness that causes us to feel, as Kafka wrote, “This tremendous world I
have inside of me. How to free myself, and this world, without tearing myself to pieces. And
rather tear myself to a thousand pieces than be buried with this world within me.”
Mortality
4) The purpose of your life has taken on new meaning
“Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive and go do it. Because what
this world needs are people who have come alive.” –Howard Thurman
You realize that the meaning of life is whatever you want your life to mean. But this is a huge
responsibility, tantamount to an existential crisis. Your breath catches in your throat, and is then
dragged out of you. You are now suddenly duty-bound to bring meaning to an otherwise
meaningless universe. It’s up to you, and you alone, to be the hero of your own story.
It’s up to you, and you alone, to get beyond the artificial division you’ve created between
yourself and the world. The mountain of meaningless you’ve been standing on hitherto, awaits
the flag of your own unique meaning to be stabbed into it. The path to your own meaning is
daunting, but it is a path that only you can walk.
You see how the inert lifestyle can lead to nihilism and tyranny (extremism). You see how acting
courageous in the face of that inertia is a powerful way to thwart the would-be tyrant within.
You’re slowly becoming a freedom unto yourself, and though it hurts like hell, you realize that
it’s better to be an unsatisfied free man than a satisfied slave.
Balance
6) You’re experiencing anomie and cognitive dissonance
“It is a happy faculty of the mind to slough that which conscience refuses to assimilate.”
–William Faulkner
Anomie is a term popularized by French sociologist Émile Durkheim. It is a nurtured condition
that arises from the lack of morality and social ethics in one’s culture. You’ve experienced the
pain of this condition and you are in the process of embracing it and letting it go in order to
discover your own sense of values.
Similarly, your old worldview has been trumped by the new worldview brought about by the
individuation of your ego and the actualization of your soul. This is known as cognitive
dissonance. It’s an unsettling feeling to have two worldviews clashing inside you, but you are
working through it and will be better for the struggle in the end.
7) You realize that the ability to fall apart and coming back together again is real strength
“Suddenly you’re ripped into being alive. And life is pain, and life is suffering, and life is horror,
but my god you’re alive and it’s spectacular.” –Joseph Campbell
You realize that healthy annihilation is possible, and necessary. Like the Hindu Goddess of
Never Not Broken, you’re learning to embody the ability to come together and fall apart, over
and over again. Indeed, you’re discovering that your strength comes precisely from your ability
to experience a dark night of the soul and come out of it with scars blazing like badges of honor.
You are constantly in the throes of metanoia. You’ve been fire-tested. You’ve been verified by
vicissitude. Your strength comes from your ability to adapt and overcome to falling apart and
coming back together again, from wholeness to brokenness and back to a stronger form.
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