TRUST BUILD

I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to be 'trust'. I believe that
with trust, love will follow. However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that
trust is to be earned by the other person, when in all actuality it is something that comes from within
yourself. All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What they don't
realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are
searching for... yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that 'right' person, it
makes all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk. All of life's little lessons do
not have to be painful... even when they seem so at the time.You just have to chalk it up to experience
and move on. Nothing is worth closing your heart. nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad
'may' come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings. to
do, a Chat's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong the pain by building a fortress around
your heart that not only protects you from pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience
happiness and joy? Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to
stop us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty,
happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow. For everyone there IS a someone, you just can't find
them if you hide away all your life. making sure you call the person you care about or love, and be there
whenever he/she needs you. Just care for that person with all your might.

Friendship is one of the important key in any relationship. I feel that if you can't be friends first what
chance do you have at being lovers? With friendship you have to have trust and respect. You have to like
the person you're friends with to get along together. Once that is accomplished falling in love with them
is just an extension of friendship, only stronger and better. Like the foundation of a brick house, love
must also have a foundation. That foundation is friendship. You must have a strong foundation
(friendship) in order for love to withstand the test of time Validating your partner's feelings. It's so
important to be heard in a relationship even if you do not agree with what is being said.

I feel that a relationship should always be based upon honesty and acceptance. When you can fully
accept yourself, honesty will come naturally. This in return will leave your partner feeling comfortable
with you, knowing there is nothing to hide. If two people can see each other in full view with complete
acceptance, they can build a successful relationship from this Quality time spent together, pillow talk,
one on one, being open about everything Always showing you love each other all the time by
celebrating on different occasions like the first time you met each other, I think the most important key
to a successful relationship is when you truly enjoy each other's company..

Commitment is the one greatest key to a successful relationship. If you are committed you will always
find a way to work things out. I think with friendship,trust and love among two it will be a very nice
realationship! You can love someone like that and still be best friends and it's the best. Plus if they are
your best friend, can't best friends stay best friends forever? If you just love someone for their physical
aspects, there's no friendship or similarities between you except that Passion. Without feeling
passionately towards your mate the communication, sex, intimacy, and ultimate closeness will not be
there, which in turn leaves each partner wanting/needing more from the relationship than they are
getting. I know because I've lived it. My late wife and I had everything. Money, companionship, friends, a
home, great jobs, but we didn't have passion. We were basically friends. Friends are just that friends...
husbands or wives should be in love and life partners... that doesn't happen without feeling passion for
the other person Communication... talking and open honest communication about how you feel. What
makes you happy and what upsets you. If you don't tell your partner then they can't do what makes you
happy and vice versa.

Communication. In many instances, 'communication' can be used in place of 'relationship'. If you

withhold something from your spouse or lie to them, the communication (or relationship) has ended. If
you chose not to be truthful, because you're afraid they may leave or be upset, you've got nothing to
lose -- the relationship is already over. You may continue to go through life together, but you'll never
have a 'relationship.

The way a person treats his/her parents reveals how they WILL treat you! If it's with love, kindness and
respect, then this is what you will receive. But if it's with criticism, defensiveness and disrespect, then
this too you will receive... EVENTUALLY... it's almost certainly a guarantee! So watch and listen to the
answers you get in their actions and words BEFORE you jump into bed.

I am well balanced in my life. I am a man of true character who believes in giving everyone a fair chance.
I have established some very well thoughtout career goals with a clear path and plan to achieve success
which is controlling my own destiny and not all the money in the world. I do have my Christian faith to
credit for my life, attitude and success; however, I don't use the name of God to attract women for my
character speaks for itself. I am not the type of man who is focused entirely on himself....

You are sent to me from the heavens i must say you are truly a woman of inner beauty the woman i
would love to do all sweet things to,the woman that deserves all my love care and protection..ARE YOU
READY FOR A NEW RELATIONSHIP...................

After any long-term relationship it may be tough to find the inner strength or desire to open your heart
to love again. When a love interest comes knocking at your door, how do you know that old battle.

My work affords me the opportunity to many Places and be around Creative People, I want a traveling
Partner, a Lover, Best friend, someone to share Life with. I'm too old to play games with a Woman
feelings, because I know the true meaning of Love. I love the ocean. I'll treat you like I treat the ocean.
As I enjoy its beauty and power. I'll awe at its wonder and always be respectful.

My achievement with My Profession at its peak means nothing to Me until I can have someone to share
my dreams, anticipation and all with. Though My Colleagues says I am humble, understanding, friendly,
funny and some just say I am a good friend with a basic understanding and value for true friendship. My
wealth of experience gathered through work trips is really a plus to my personal life and if you don’t
mind I could share a lot about my experience. Life is a great teacher and I think you just might be in a
better position to tell me what kind of person I am which I am optimistic would be a positive remark.
Spontaneous is a word to describe me.

I'm a man who can bring laughter into each and every new day is a definite plus. I know how to
appreciate all seasons, whether it is holding hands with each breath, we are given such an enormous
opportunity to make a change personally and in the lives, we choose to create and paths we cross.

I'm a gentle man with big heart and beautiful personality! I'm the caretaker type. When you are on the
side of the road with a flat tyre, I'm the guy who stops. When you are coming through the door, I'm the
guy who holds it for you and gives you a humble smile and a soft hello. I work hard with my mind and
my hands and I am more "in tune" with life than most people. I'm a Cool, respectful, and comprehensive
person. I really want to experience love in its full sense. I am very social, an outgoing person and well
balanced in my life.

I enjoy giving and receiving affection, and am very open-minded and adventurous as well. I enjoy
reading, dancing, walking on the beach, fishing, camping, just hanging out, and other fun things. I am
very sincere and would enjoy a true romantic and fulfilling relationship.

I am by nature very affectionate, kind, understanding and very passionate and in intimacy. I am also
down to earth, honest, and not judgmental in any way and very giving in a relationship as well as in
intimacy. My eyes and smile are truly the windows to my soul. I'm a happy, alluring, intellectual,
educated, bright, well read, joyful, curious, insightful, I'm nurturing and non-pretentious man, Energetic
and sexually active

I'm a Family Oriented Man, Man of my word and true character who believes in giving everyone a fair
chance. I have established some very well thought-out career goals with a clear path and plan to achieve
success which is controlling my own destiny and not all the money in the world. I love to Laugh and
Learn. I am a little bit of Heaven with a funny side. I am a fun-loving, honest, sensual, spontaneous,
hopeless romantic man looking for the same in a woman. I love to touch and be touched. I love long,
slow kisses.
I am sweet, Loving, Caring, and I have a good sense of Humor... I'm very easy going and laid back. I am
often told that I am very easy to talk to. I am not an angry person, and I am not interested in someone
that is having past events, carrying the past as a burden that sits heavily upon your shoulders is not a
good thing. I am happy with myself and my life. I like to think how it shows. I would do best with
someone that isn't extremely uptight, unless of course you are willing to learn to let things go!

I love to try new things, and can laugh at myself when I fail miserably, I don't give up easily, and have so
many things I've yet to try. Please love to laugh and have fun, what is better than laughing so hard your
stomach hurts! Lol..! I love traveling, going on unknown adventures, and trying something I thought I
never would. I'll try anything once, well, but fun none the less! I take pride in my appearance, I love a
nice dinner out, but staying home, having nice Chinese food.

I enjoy life in a quite, peaceful and loving manner. I avoid conflicting situations that may interrupt my
inner peace. I enjoy the company of my kids, friends and my companion when I find one.

I'm loving, compassionate, understanding, very trust worthy and most of all honest. I love romance and
all the good things that come with it. I also can fill your heart with a lot of love and gift that you seek.
You can see Where others write many people and keep there messages short because they are all about
how many they can write, I am opposite and very selective in whom I choose to write and I like to give
them my very best even if it is in a long letter. I know the type of person who I want to build a
relationship with so I am willing to take my time and effort and write you back on that Website we met
each other

I'm Spantenous, full of romantic Ideas to blow your Mind off and make you smile all the time, sweet,
honest, and loyal, and sometimes I would say "sexy". I suppose it depends on your definition of sexy
however. I love a good conversation and a great debate. And trust me; I know the difference between a
debate and an argument.

I'm a lover, not a fighter! But, I will fight very hard for my loved ones, family and close friends mean the
world to me, and I would do anything for the people in my life.

I get bored easily, so I try to keep things exciting both in my career and my personal life. That doesn't
mean that I don't enjoy a quiet evening at home, cuddled up in front of the TV watching a good movie,
with the right person, anything can be fun. I'm silly and goofy, but also understand there are a time and
a place for fun and games. My mother raised me to be a Good MAN with Moral values, and I am in all
aspects of the word.

I am an independent person who knows that life is better when you have someone by your side. I've
gotten to an age and point in my career where I understand the need for balancing work and home life.
Family, friends, and experiences (rather than possessions) have become so important to me.

I am always smiling and I laugh easily, because of this, people may get the impression that I'm flighty
and that's not true because it’s actually quite the opposite of me. I am serious when I need to be. Just
choose to focus on the positive side of things rather than the negative.

I get the warm fuzzes when someone does something nice. I am great husband material because my
natural personality is to be loving and caring. I need to know that those close to me are OK and well
taken care of. Although it may be hard for me to ask, I need someone to give me a hug every now and
then when I'm feeling blue.

I am a sociable person. I like reading, I like nature and sport. In a relationship I think honesty, trust and
respect are the most important qualities. People surrounding me tell me that I am unusual and it is
interesting to talk with me. I’m loved by children and it’s interesting for me to be with them. I have
serious intentions as for finding a man to create family with, to live in love and understanding, I wish I
could meet my special one who I can share all these with, the happiness of living, interests, so that we
could be a great unit. We all know that we do have the soul mate but unfortunately under some
circumstances we haven’t met her or him yet.