A̽C͓̽H͓̽A͓̽P͓̽T͓̽E͓̽R͓̽ O͓̽N͓̽E͓̽

WHAT DO YOU KNOW

when you are fully ready to settle for an intimate soul tie this deep reality goes beyond the
peripherals it goes beyond just knowing his her name residential's contact address meeting
points eating of shawarmas candies taking ice cream and the likes of it it goes deeper than
exchange of gifts calling 10 times in one day sending nude pictures and sightseeing this God's
plan for uniting two as one goes by on the best topic ever sex

WHAT DO YOU KNOW: how much of this person you started your soul with do you know how
much of his her can you explain and define I have come across individuals who are in so-called
soul tie relationship yet doesn't know the full name of whom they claim to be in love with when
you fell to know his or her full name how did can you define him her?
This is a crazy cycle reading of a story about a young lady who was carried away with the sweet
talking of a young man she met during the festive period.

Ogachi is there a young woman in her early thirties one faithful year as Christmas approaches
she has made plans on how to travel home for the Christmas period but 4 days before the set
date for her traveling she met a young man in his late thirties known as Tony he wooed her and
spoil her with gifts to cattle places within the town where she's not been before another cause of
this unexpected enjoyment she cancelled her travelling to the village for the Christmas being
carried away with the whole thoughts and excitement of finding a loving Guy Tony told her how
much he loved her and ready to make her his wife and how he can wait to take her abroad with
him as the new year is fast approaching he took her to a couple who were in their late 60s and
70s and introduce her to them as his soon-to-be wife and the old couple showed their gratitude
and blessed them in a couple of a week A lot has gone into this relationship or five days and it
was time for Tony to go back to abroad since there is no more time to visit her parents at the
village and coupled with the fact that she has already introduced him to her siblings in the city
with every other arrangements which will be made by her family and Tony's mum and Dad so he
left with the promises of sending her money for the marital rights it's already three months and
nothing has been hard from Tony and she realises that she is three months gone in pregnancy
which in a confused state on her quest to reach Ben she went back to see his parents and to
find out why their son has refused to keep in touch as promised on getting there she met the
aged couple the news she got devastated her she was told that Ben is not their son per say
nothing was a boy leaving in that neighborhood before a friend of his who resides in abeokuta
enugu state Nigeria sent for him to come over and join the hustle over there

She inquired of them as to why they accepted to be his mum and dad as he introduced them as
yes they responded that was how fund of us he has became over the period of living in that
neighborhood and that was how she carried a the child of an unknown man.

Intimacy goes deeper than what this generation celebrate today another rightful word for
intimacy is sota and how can you get intimate with someone you barely know anything about
the joy of intimacy also time is that you have read and understand each other's pain and joy
through you're truthful story why story here is because story is not something you begin to tell
now and finish it now now from the beginning of the story to the end of it there is a process and
in that process lies the findings you should be making don't get carried away with the lines of the
story in between the start time and the end time use the gap to make your findings intimacy and
so tiring goes beyond the libido intimacy is knowing and one needs sense with clarity of
intention to be able to know

INTENTIONS: as defined buy English dictionary it is a cause of action that a person intends to
follow all the goal or purpose behind a specific action or set of actions before any action is being
taken there is a reason a propelling factor to that action that is intention

Going into a sofa relationship there is a need for it and staying in that relationship there is
equally in need but when a purpose of a thing is not known abusers in a victorville why there are
so many breakups in relationships and divorce in marriages today is judged from the fact that
lots of a mature individuals dive into relationships and marriages first without being ready and
no for that task ahead and this could be blamed on the quick desire to feel loved and measure
up while in school during my second year a guy approached me for a relationship without
knowing that over the past one year I have been crushing on him because during our first year I
met him studied his personality and really love them he solved mathematics so well a son of a
pastor a music minister with the voice of an angel and very cute looking so that way he took me
to a fast food joint very close to school we ate and talked he voiced out his mind I won't say I am
sceptical about his feelings because what so ever he feels for me I feel some way towards him
even maybe earlier before his feelings developed but one thing I was sceptical about is how he
came to know how I feel those things for him he never said he knew how I feel for him but we
didn't a while my mind turned into a war zone but while we talk I found out he doesn't have a
clue as to how I feel about him but once striking thing I learnt about point was that men love
strong intelligent smart and bold women not bored and arrogant but bored and respectful being
the departmental vice president and class representative displaced me on that qualifications
plus the fact that I was a godly young teenager I couldn't accept him for a date because I know
fully well that this is not what I need at that time but the challenge was how to tell him I can't
dating it wasn't easy saying no to my crush of over one year at least this is the best opportunity
to make my dream come through at least to say yes to my crush but no has to be the right
answer because I wasn't ready emotionally physically and academically because saying yes will
be detrimental so my emotions availability commitment spirituality academical and to my sanity
and maturity so I looked up I said I really like you dear but I am not yet ready for this kind of
relationship you want to read the full just look out for my next "book keeping your man" get into
a soul-tie relationship one need to be ready in wadley and outwardly so as to make the best out
of it sons of

Solomon 2:7 daughters of Jerusalem I charge you by the gazelles and by The does of the field,
do not enroll or awaken love until it so desires (𝑁𝐼𝑉)
Love is not to be a working before its time this is a programming in the human hormone that's
when or once those hormones have been triggered it start functioning for life

While growing up in the Lord in my late teen yes I met a lady who said to me Amarachi you can't
be dusty of what you've not tested for the first time she was actually referring to sex remember
what songs of Solomon say
Test running personalities this is one of the many bad reasons people go into relationship which
has brought about uncountable breakups in relationship and divorce in marriages what's the
phone and dignity in being into to many relationship I really felt to understand this why and I
lovely it's a crazy cycle a circle where young people love to and danger the heart which is a
priceless commodity on Earth and sell their sanity for a temporary phone the joy of phone is
having it with someone you will live long with as you grow in age and in the knowledge of each
other this is what fun is all about
Weeks back before the writing of this book I had a conversation with a young lady who seek my
advice on her relationship issue as we conversed she said now I am 25 years of age and at
least I have been in about 10 relationship so I know when a guy wants to play tricks on me
really I know now you are rolling up eyes and your mouth is that a jar open believe me I was
more shocked that you as you are right now in fact I literally switched off for some minutes
because I was trying to place it arrived as to how this could be possible for a young girl art this
age to have test run over some boys from which year to which year well I'm leaving it for you to
figure it out while me at 33 years old is on my third and final relationship I don't doubt the fact
that one could be in a relationship and choose to call it off because it's not working out at least I
can attest to that because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage but 10 boys is
quite a number wow!!!
Been into lots of relationship sap's your ability to make right decisions and better choices for
your spouse reason being that you've come across different persons and this reality will deeply
confuse you when you are ready to finally settle down and build a home of your own during my
early teen years I overheard my Dad telling someone that any man that womanizers finds it
difficult to choose a wife and makes them marry very late and I have seen this in play seeing
such persons Mary wrongly I am not saying that they can't marry right now but 65% end up with
a stranger as pertinent it is best to be ready and then go for your choice than making test
running on individuals to find out the best because the more you do this the more you get
confused on who to choose as your spouse

SEX OUR BEST TOPIC:

No really talking about sex in the appropriate manner have Leo people in misusing the arts and
concepts of sex remember when the purpose is not known abuse is in a Victor bill sex is an act
of reverence it brings the totality of 22 b16 is an explainer of what one with Christ symbolises
one with Christ his majority this act of sex makes the two to become one buy bonding both in
spirit body and soul making the two that has become 1 to be an irrevocable Force an
unbreakable army sex is meant to be practiced at the confines of marriage and out of these is
an abuse of the purpose and it is detrimental to life of the defaulter anyone you have sex with
while in a relationship with them and finally the relationship fails to work out a strong and
meaningful part of you has been sold to him/her why because sex is spiritual ride with me as I
dig deeper on this in chapters ahead still keep in mind that sex is a spiritual and a deep sacrifice
going into relationship without properly defining goals and knowing details of who you are
turning your soul with is an error as I clearly cited earlier that you must know him/her this
knowledge helps you have a sound mind sound spirit sound reasoning and a relaxing so he
defines the goals and get you a clearer picture of the possible failures it sets your feet firm so
that you can recognise and reconnect your steps if eventually the relationship fails to work out it
will help you know that you just don't spend in vain but you spent learn and sacrificed just as
when you are in a deep worship with the holy Spirit the sensation it's so real and well felt
because you understand the person of the holy ghost you know for real who you are in a
worship relationship with after such a counter for real you will feel sold out but yet we filled this
is also the definition of sex and what it entails but let's meet in chapters ahead for the fool and
deeper gist

WHAT DO YOU KNOW: IF YOU HAVE FAILED TO KNOW IN DETAILS WHO YOUR
SO-CALLED LOVER IS PHYSICALLY THEN TELL ME HOW CAN YOU BE ABLE TO DEFINE
WHO HE OR SHE IS SPIRITUALLY
there are a lot of things one need to find out before considering a relationship that is meant to
be intimate

*His/her name in full

*Educational history
*Work history
*wellness history *Strength history *Spirituality
*health history
*financial state
*past relationships *failure and success *self-awareness
*self confidence *self-esteem
*5 to 15 years plans *genotype
*blood groups
and the likes of it
If one fails to put these things into consideration while in a social relationship then you actually
know nothing yet you are into sex relationship with him or her the truth is you are into a sexual
relationship and not an intimate one don't forget on a hurry that intimacy talks of deeply knowing
what is intimacy when you can't boldly and confidently stand out and save this is who he or she
is and that is who he or she is not as a statistics undergraduate those days in school if you can't
define statistics as a science a branch of mathematics that deals with collection compilacion
classification tabulation analysis presentation representation and interpretation of numerical and
non numerical data for decision making in the midst of uncertainty when you don't know what
you are doing in that discipline same way brother my sister if you can't boldly fearlessly stand
even in the face of danger and give a good documentation of your so-called lover I
unapologetically tell you that you are not in an intimate relationship but in a hype of what this
present generation celebrate as love which is actually lust and confusion.
TASK AHEAD:
A LOT OF PERSONS GO INTO RELATIONSHIP THINKING ITS BREAD-AND-BUTTERNLIE
LIE!!
You are in a relationship to compliment and make each other better than you met them any
relationship void of this has no future that's why God implemented the mystery of two shall
become one as a statistician there is no mathematical or statistical theory that perfectly agrees
with this mysterious addiction of one plus one equals one rather you could possibly see or have
1 + 1 to 11 1 + 1 equals one is the mystery of intimate relationship yes you can read that again
you want a perfect relationship with marriage in view you must you must be of school of thought
that you must always help each other individually and as a team build this mind in you the mind
of being perfectly imperfect together yet pulling mountains and changing narratives as one know
how one can be able to do this and stand out without being in an intimate relationship and not
just a sexual relationship without the knowledge of whom you have paid your soul and your life
with when one is in an intimate relationship you bear the burden of one another individually and
collectively nothing happens by mistake everything happens by team decision this is what
intimacy in relationship is not all about it is quite easy for one to pull off his or her clothes and
make love or have sex with the opposite sex but does not does not define intimacy in
relationship what is intimacy in relationship is when you are able to define and understand who
you are into such a relationship with when you have understand the goals and values and vision
this person's beer where they are going in the next five to 15 years what they are failures in the
past and their success in the future looks like this is what intimacy is all about when you are
able to accept their broadcasts and move on with their future by helping them to become better
than they were better than you met them this is what intimacy is intimacy is when you are able
to tell you or partner who you were who you are and who you want to become this is what
intimacy is intimacy is your ability to accept the past of who you say I love the president of who
you say I'm in love with and the future of who you have tied your soul with this is what intimacy
entails and there is no how one can be able to live up to these expectations if you are not sound
in mind and pure in reasoning it requires a mature heart a stable spirit and understanding soul
to be able to accept people just the way they are as you would want others to accept you just
the way you are this is what intimacy in towns

EMPHASIS

WHY PEOPLE DIVE INTO RELATIONSHIPS:

TO FEEL LOVE AND MEASURE UP THIS COULD BE TRACED TO FAMILY REASON
BECAUSE WHEN A CHILD IS BADLY RAISED ESPECIALLY THE GIRL CHILD IT OPENS
DOORS FOR PREMATURE INTIMATE DESIRES BECAUSE A FEMALE BY MAKING NEEDS
LOVE AFFIRMATIONS EVERY CHILD NEED ATTENTION THIS GOALS A LONG WAY TO
BUILD CONFIDENCE IN THEM GIRLS WITH A GOOD SENSE OF LOVE AND ATTENTION
FROM BOTH PARENTS DO WELL IN BUILDING A HEALTHY SELF-RESPECT AND ARE
MOSTLY RESERVED AS A TEENAGER THOSE DAYS I REMEMBER TELLING A BOY WHAT
CAN YOU DO FOR ME THAT DAD CAN'T DO THIS IS THE MINDSET OF GIRLS WHO
RECEIVE LOVE CARE AND ATTENTION ESPECIALLY FROM THEIR FATHERS EVERY
CHILD NEED ATTENTION A BOY CHILD A GIRL CHILD NEEDS PARENTAL ATTENTION
LOVE CARE AND PAMPERING TO BUILD A HEALTHY ADULT.