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REVIEW
CURRENT
OPINION Grandparents raising grandchildren: a primer
for pediatricians
William Ge a and Andrew Adesman b
Purpose of review
To provide clinicians with a review of key considerations relating to the physical and behavioral well-being
of children raised by their grandparents.
Recent findings
As the number of children being raised by their grandparents in the United States steadily increases, the
needs of these families require greater attention. These children and their custodial grandparents face unique
health, social, legal, and financial challenges. Children being raised by their grandparents are at higher risk
for developmental and behavioral problems because of prior or current adverse family environments.
Moreover, there is evidence that custodial grandparents may experience negative health, social, and
financial outcomes that may constrain their ability to provide the best care for their grandchildren.
Summary
Pediatricians should not only be aware of the medical and developmental status of children who are being
reared by their grandparents, but also assess the needs, abilities, and potential limitations of these
custodial grandparents. In addition to providing useful parenting advice and direct support to custodial
grandparents, pediatricians should refer these families as needed to local grandparenting groups, social
service agencies, experienced legal counsel, and relevant national organizations for support and
guidance.
Keywords
developmental and behavioral problems, fragile families, grandparents raising grandchildren, kinship care
INTRODUCTION &&
one or more grandchildren [1,3 ]. Data from the
The number of American children living in a grand- Fragile Families and Child Well-Being Study
parent-headed household has risen significantly (FFCWS) reveal that these grandfamilies are hetero-
over the past few decades. Between 1970 and geneous, with an average household size of nearly
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1997, the number of American children living in five people [4 ]. Many children in grandfamilies live
a grandparent-headed household nearly doubled, with an aunt or uncle, cousins, siblings, or nonkin
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growing from 2.2 million to 3.9 million in the short [4 ]. Over a third of grandfamilies include both a
span of 27 years [1,2]. By 2010, this population grandmother and grandfather, nearly two-thirds
nearly doubled again to 7.5 million American chil- include only a grandmother, whereas very few
dren [1,2]. Although involvement of extended fam- (1%) include a grandfather but no grandmother. A
ily members in the care of children is a common majority of grandparents surveyed in the FFCWS
cultural practice, the contemporary expansion of (86%) expected to live with their grandchildren
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this unique family structure is largely precipitated until they reached adulthood [4 ].
by adversity, not tradition. These children and their
grandparents face a unique set of health, social, a
Yale University, New Haven, Connecticut and bDevelopmental and
legal, and financial challenges that have yet to
Behavioral Pediatrics, Steven and Alexandra Cohen Children’s Medical
receive adequate attention. The goal of this review Center of New York, Lake Success, New York, USA
is to bring these challenges to the attention of Correspondence to Andrew Adesman, MD, Developmental and Behav-
primary care providers and to suggest opportunities ioral Pediatrics, Steven and Alexandra Cohen Children’s Medical Center
for pediatricians to better meet the needs of these of New York, 1983 Marcus Avenue, Suite 130, Lake Success, NY 11042,
children and their grandparents. USA. Tel: +1 516 802 6100; e-mail: aadesman@northwell.edu
In these grandparent-headed households, Curr Opin Pediatr 2017, 29:000–000
grandparents are responsible for the basic needs of DOI:10.1097/MOP.0000000000000501
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peers [11,14,15]. Given the various adverse causes to nonkinship foster care, are accompanied by less
that precipitate most grandfamily arrangements, financial and structural support from social service
this is perhaps not surprising. In addition to navi- agencies [19]. This reduced support is concerning, as
gating the oft-unplanned parenting role for a second grandparents who care for their grandchildren are
time, grandparents raising grandchildren must typically more financially vulnerable than families
simultaneously deal with the concurrent trauma who participate in foster care. For instance, in 2012,
of their relationships with their adult children 25% of children being raised by their grandparents
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[3 ,16]. One study showed that nearly two-thirds were living in poverty, compared with 20% of chil-
of custodial grandparents expressed disappoint- dren being raised by their parents [20]. As grand-
ment in their adult children, and nearly one-third parents who raise their grandchildren are generally
resented them [13], though feelings of being bur- quite young (approximately 40% are below the age
dened were less common in settings where there of 55 and approximately 75% below the typical
were healthier relationships between the custodial retirement age of 65), many custodial grandparents
grandparent and their adult children [14]. This ‘dual also give up working outside the home to raise a
burden’ of managing both child and grandchild- grandchild, resulting in lost wages and the other
related trauma, combined with exacerbated physical financial benefits of employment [21,22].
and mental health conditions, often create difficult Grandparents raising grandchildren are often at
circumstances for grandparents to parent well and a stage of life with emerging health problems that
for grandchildren to flourish. may be exacerbated by their parenting roles and
Despite these barriers, children can certainly responsibilities. Compared with noncustodial
blossom when they are raised by a grandparent, grandparents, those raising their grandchildren
although studies examining their well-being and experience poorer physical and mental health
academic performance compared with that of other [22]. Custodial grandparents are at greater risk for
children in comparable economic and kinship care illnesses such as diabetes, hypertension, insomnia,
situations are relatively few. Solomon and Marx [8] and depression [23] and report more difficulty per-
found that although children in two-parent house- forming daily tasks than their same-aged peers [15].
holds were most likely to excel academically, chil- In addition, social isolation is often identified as a
dren raised by their grandparents were as likely as significant problem for custodial grandparents.
those from single-parent households to succeed in Many grandparents report that loneliness and feel-
school [14]. Moreover, examinations of the grand- ing different or invisible are significant barriers to
parent–grandchild relationship have revealed that achieving a greater degree of mental well-being [24].
most grandparents raising grandchildren feel a close Research suggests that these feelings of isolation
emotional bond with their grandchild, and vice stem from the belief that neither their same-age
versa [17], and 90% of custodial grandparents report peers nor the younger parents of their grandchild’s
that they would take responsibility for their grand- classmates can understand or relate to them [22].
children if they had to make that choice again [18]. Grandparents are a vulnerable population in
The bottom line is this: for children who do not have terms of their financial well-being and health status,
a strong and supportive family environment, or and custodial grandparents are only more so.
whose parents are absent because of abandonment Ideally, they should receive the support of their local
or incarceration, grandparents can provide a strong and national communities and governments to be
foundation of love, care, and safety. A large body of able to raise their grandchildren in the best way
evidence details the advantages of kinship care com- they can. Moreover, the fragmented nature of most
pared with nonkinship foster care, where a majority grandfamilies, with traumatic incidents often stress-
of these children would otherwise be placed. How- ing the relationships between grandparent, adult
ever, these grandparents cannot optimally care for child, and grandchild, makes social and legal
their grandchildren without greater structural and support critical for maintaining the stability and
social support. viability of nurturing grandfamilies.
Many custodial grandparents lack a legal
relationship with the grandchild they are caring
CONSEQUENCES OF GRANDPARENTING for, and thus may encounter significant barriers to
FOR GRANDPARENTS seeking school or health services on behalf of their
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Studies suggest that custodial grandparents experi- grandchildren [25 ]. Without a legal relationship
ence increased risk of negative health, social, and between the grandparent and grandchild (and in
financial outcomes that limit their ability to provide some cases even with a legally established relation-
the best care for their grandchildren. Kinship care ship), the child’s parents may still be able to reclaim
arrangements with grandparents, while preferable the child. Custody battles involving grandfamilies –
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though not commonplace – can take a large toll on In addition to assessing the child in terms of
the stability of the grandchild’s family life and his or specific risk factors and functioning, pediatricians
her mental and emotional well-being. More broadly also need to assess the health and parenting ability
speaking, legal barriers to caregiving can limit the of grandparents. Custodial grandparenting is a con-
abilities of well meaning and often much-needed siderable risk factor for poor physical and mental
grandparents to give their grandchildren the edu- health. Social isolation from friends, family, and the
cation, healthcare, and agency that they deserve. parents of their grandchild’s classmates is a real issue
repeatedly vocalized by grandparents raising their
grandchildren. The physical or mental health issues
IMPLICATIONS FOR PEDIATRIC PRACTICE of custodial grandparents can have a significant
Despite the barriers that grandparents and children negative impact on the well-being of the grandchil-
in grandfamilies often face, there is tremendous dren they are raising. Consequently, grandparents
opportunity for providing grandfamilies with struc- should be encouraged to have regular physical
tural support that will facilitate strong and nurtur- examinations with a primary care provider to not
ing family environments. Pediatricians play an only monitor their own health, but also ensure that
important role, although the primary care that they they can continue providing effective care for
provide must take into consideration not only the their grandchildren.
health and development of the child, but also the In terms of parent education and anticipatory
well-being of the custodial grandparents (Table 1). guidance, pediatricians must be mindful of the
Specifically, children in grandfamilies should be many outdated parenting practices to which custo-
closely surveyed for signs of behavioral, emotional, dial grandparents may still subscribe (Table 2).
or developmental disorders that may arise from
early childhood trauma or unstable family environ-
Table 2. Out-dated parenting beliefs to which custodial
ments. They should be assessed for developmental
grandparents may still subscribe
risk factors, such as prenatal exposure to alcohol,
cocaine, or other substances of abuse or drug para- It is okay to put a baby to sleep on his abdomen or on
phernalia, especially if the child’s parents are known his side
to be heavy alcohol or drug users. Early identifi- Ice baths can be used to bring down a high fever in young
cation and referral of children in need of develop- children
mental services will have considerable payoffs for If a child hits his or her head, a parent needs to keep the child
the child’s future mental and emotional well-being awake
and academic achievement. Teething is sometimes a cause for a high fever in an infant
If a child has a seizure, place a soft object (such as a wallet)
into the child’s mouth to prevent choking or biting the tongue
Table 1. Clinical considerations for pediatric surveillance Babies who spend time in walkers will walk independently at a
when young children are being raised by their somewhat earlier age
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Although some of these beliefs may be innocent and their needs can be better met by the pediatric com-
benign (e.g., eating chocolate causes acne in teens), munity are needed.
other outdated beliefs may have profound con-
sequences (e.g., ice baths are a good way to bring Acknowledgements
down a very high fever, infants should be put to None.
sleep on their side or abdomen). Pediatricians can
also provide custodial grandparents with support Financial support and sponsorship
resources in their immediate community and online None.
to help them raise their grandchildren (Table 3).
Other organizations that provide resources specifi- Conflicts of interest
cally for grandparents raising grandchildren include
There are no conflicts of interest.
the Brookdale Foundation (Relatives as Parents Pro-
gram), the American Association of Retired Persons,
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