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Yale’s Happiness
Professor Says
Anxiety Is
Destroying Her
Students
By David Marchese Photo illustration by
Bráulio Amado
Since the Yale cognitive scientist Laurie Santos began teaching her
class Psychology and the Good Life in 2018, it has become one of
the school’s most popular courses. The first year the class was
offered, nearly a quarter of the undergraduate student body
enrolled. You could see that as a positive: all these young high-
achievers looking to learn scientifically corroborated techniques
for living a happier life. But you could also see something
melancholy in the course’s popularity: all these young high-
achievers looking for something they’ve lost, or never found.
Either way, the desire to lead a more fulfilled life is hardly limited
to young Ivy Leaguers, and Santos turned her course into a
popular podcast series “The Happiness Lab,” which quickly rose
above the crowded happiness-advice field. (It has been
downloaded more than 64 million times.) “Why are there so many
happiness books and other happiness stuff and people are still not
happy?” asks Santos, who is 46. “Because it takes work! Because
it’s hard!”
I was just Googling you to find out some minor fact, and I saw a
story in the Yale student paper that said you’re taking a leave of
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absence for burnout. So, first, I’m sorry that things were feeling
difficult. And second, if the happiness professor is feeling burned
out, what hope is there for the rest of us? Back up, back up. I took a
leave of absence because I’m trying not to burn out. I know the
signs of burnout. It’s not like one morning you wake up, and you’re
burnt. You’re noticing more emotional exhaustion. You’re noticing
what researchers call depersonalization. You get annoyed with
people more quickly. You immediately assume someone’s
intentions are bad. You start feeling ineffective. I’d be lying if I said
I wasn’t noticing those things in myself. I can’t be telling my
students, “Oh, take time off if you’re overwhelmed” if I’m ignoring
those signals. You can’t just power through and wish things weren’t
happening. From learning about the science of happiness, I treat it
like any other health issue: If my blood pressure was soaring —
you need to take action. So it’s not a story of Even the happiness
professor isn’t happy. This is a story of, I’m making these changes
now so I don’t get to that point of being burned out. I see it as a
positive.
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Is there anything surprising to you that people are just not getting
about happiness? For my students, it’s often money. My fast read
of the evidence is that money only makes you happier if you live
below the poverty line and you can’t put food on your table and
then you can afford to. Whether getting superrich actually affects
different aspects of your well-being? There’s a lot of evidence it
doesn’t affect your positive emotion too much. There was a recent
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paper by Matt Killingsworth where he was trying to make the
claim that happiness continues as you get to higher incomes. And
yeah, he’s right, but if you plot it, it’s like if you change your income
from $100,000 to $600,000 your happiness goes up from, like, a 64
out of 100 to a 65. For the amount of work you have to put in to
sextuple your income, you could instead just write in a gratitude
journal, you could sleep an extra hour. Yeah, the money thing is one
that students fight me on. It hits at a lot of the worldview they’ve
grown up with.
This interview has been edited and condensed from two conversations.
David Marchese is a staff writer for the magazine and the columnist for Talk.
Recently he interviewed Brian Cox about the filthy rich, Dr. Becky about the ultimate
goal of parenting and Tiffany Haddish about God’s sense of humor.
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