SEPTEMBER 2010

Chatter
Were never so vulnerable than when we trust someone. Walter Anderson Its amazing the things we put our trust in. Ninety-nine percent of us dont stop to inspect our cars before each trip to the grocery store to make sure theyre capable of making the trek; we just drive. Most of us dont make it a habit to test each chairs durability before poppinga-squat; we just sit. And some very brave people dont even run background checks or perform intense testing on someone who lives over 2,000 miles away before handing over the virtual reins of Chatter while they are on maternity leave (hi Julie and baby Madeline!). We trust. I recently had a crash course in the art of trusting. About nine months ago, my husband Mark and I packed up and moved away from our friends and family at IBC, and away from our stable jobs, to move to Portland, Ore., where we had no jobs and no friends. I wish I could say our move was based on our obedient trust in the Lords will for us to be in Portland, but really it was more of a why-not-move-to-the-west-coast-while-were-young type of thing. The trust part of our trip didnt come in the form of a destination; it came in the journey. You see, Mark and I are what you might call products of our generation (see story on page 9 about twenty somethings), so when we packed up our 22-ft moving truck with our belongings, it didnt cross our minds to pack a map after all, we had our GPSwhich Ive aptly named Lucy (I have a tendency to name inanimate objects; she also talks in a British accent). About two-thirds of the way through our trip, we ran into a bit of snow in the mountains of California. Not wanting to deal with snow tires on a moving truck, and being the technological geniuses we are, we simply told Lucy to avoid the mountains. Simple enough. We briefly checked out our new path, got excited about driving along the 101 by the coast and took off, hoping to get to Portland that night. Around 4:30 p.m. that day Mark took over driving because he knew driving in traffic in that enormous truck would freak me out. I did a quick check to make sure Lucy was okay and froze. Mark. Ya? I think were going to be going through San Francisco during rush hour. Eh. I bet well just be driving around the city. Oh, ok. Youre probably right. He was wrong. The next thing I remember was Mark clutching the wheel with wide eyes as he signaled to change lanes downtown. Turn left on Lombard Avenue, Lucy instructed, in her now annoying British accent. Cars were honking. Fingers were flipping. Mark was stressed. And I was taking pictures. Merge on to the Golden Gate Bridge, she said while Mark growled and I got my camera ready. A day later than planned, we arrived in Portland. You see, when we changed our direction, Lucy failed to mention wed be driving through downtown San Francisco in a 22-ft moving truck towing a Hyundai in rush hour traffic and then driving through the one-lane, unlit Redwood forest around midnight. But the point is that we got there. Although there were stressful situations, dark paths and hard decisions, Lucy pulled through and got us to our destination in one piece with plenty of stories to laugh about later (much later in Marks case). It was an adventure well never forget. The same is true when we trust Christ; our ultimate navigator. We dont necessarily know the path hes taking us on, and there will most definitely be times where were faced with some stressful situations; but one things for sure it will be an adventure. So heres to hoping you will trust me as I do my best as interim editor of Chatter while Julie is enjoying time spent with her precious baby girl.

a letter from

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Back to School Event

On August 14 at the annual Back to School event more than 550 kids from single parent families were provided with free backpacks, school supplies and shoe gift cards. 1,200 people filled the Town Square at IBC where families received medical and dental exams, haircuts, clothing and ice cream sundaes.

Real Parenting

The path to becoming more real to my kids

Its likely every adoptive parent has encountered the dreaded real parent comment. For some the comment came from a well meaning stranger

curiously inquiring about a childs history by asking about his real parents. For others it came from a not so well meaning inquiry about why a childs real parents had to give her up. No matter the situation, all adoptive parents have heard these types of comments; while they can be more than a bit annoying at times, they point to a difficult and sometimes even painful reality. No one can deny that my children are mine and I am theirs. We are every bit a real family. I am their real dad, my wife is their real mom, they are my real kids and they are all real brothers and sisters. Believe me, we have the ups and downs to prove it. Whether we fit someone elses definition of real is not really my concern. While all of this is true, it does not negate that my children are not all mine. I cannot lay exclusive claim to them. Each of them came to me with history some of it known, much more of it unknown. They have a past that pre-dates me. Although I am not a part of that past, I do have the opportunity to embrace it and help them do the same.

and even into dark places of pain. But if, by Gods grace, I will embrace their journey as my own, I will experience one of lifes greatest blessings the deep and lasting connection that comes from making each step of their journey an inextricable part of my own, and their destination our shared fate. I cannot ignore that there are many things that can keep me from joining my children on their journeys. My fears; my own pain and loss; my lack of confidence in knowing what to say, when to say it and how; and the sometimes subtle sense that I am in competition with my childrens past. All of these things and more seem to whisper to me to run the other way. Yet Ive come to believe that would require me to deny part of who they are and thus part of who we are as a family. I cannot do that if I am real and want to become even more so. The difficult reality is that if it werent for the difficult realities of my childrens past, we would not be the family we are today. I love who we are and who they are. I love all of each of them. So instead of running from these things, I want to choose to run toward them, hand in hand with my kids. By doing so I believe I have the opportunity to become even more real to them and to make the redemptive story that God is writing with our lives even more real. As I think about becoming more real to my kids I am reminded of the exchange captured by Margery Williams in her childrens classic, The Velveteen Rabbit. The Rabbit wants to become a real rabbit, and early in the story it encounters the Skin Horse, a well worn and wise veteran toy in the nursery. Skin Horse offers the following insight to Rabbit and to us about what it means to become real. What is real? asked the Rabbit one day, when they were lying side by side near the nursery fender, before Nana came to tidy the room. Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle? Real isnt how you are made, said the Skin Horse. Its a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real. Does it hurt? asked the Rabbit.
Can you name six famous people who were adopted? Chatter can. Steve Jobs (cofounder of Apple Computers), Dave Thomas (founder of Wendys), Malcolm X, Faith Hill, Harry Caray and Jamie Foxx.

I recently read a quote by Betty Jean Lifton that made me stop and think. She wrote, For me, a real mother is one who recognizes and respects the whole identity of her child and does not ask him to deny any part of himself. This is no less true for real fathers as well. As I think about all of this, I have discovered the reality that my children are on a journey. It is a lifelong journey that involves all of them; it is a physical, emotional, relational and spiritual journey. It is a journey to discover who they are and whose they are, and there are no shortcuts at least none worth taking. It is a journey they must travel; I cannot travel it for them. Neither can I plan every twist and turn or determine where it will ultimately lead. The only thing I can do is choose to travel the journey with them, often following their lead and compassionately guiding them when needed. Along the way they may lead me through rocky places of confusion, valleys of grief and loss

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The name Pinocchio (a young puppet also on a quest to become real) is a Tuscan word meaning pine nut.

Sometimes, said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. When you are Real you dont mind being hurt. Does it happen all at once, like being wound up, he asked, or bit by bit? It doesnt happen all at once, said the Skin Horse. You become. It takes a long time. Thats why it doesnt often happen to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things dont matter at all, because once you are Real you cant be ugly, except to people who dont understand. I suppose you are Real? said the Rabbit. And then he wished he had not said it, for he thought the Skin Horse might be sensitive. But the Skin Horse only smiled. The Boys Uncle made me Real, he said. That was a great many years ago; but once you are Real you cant become unreal again. It lasts for always. I know that I am very real to my kids, but I also know that they need me to become even more real to them by joining them on their journeys. It wont always be easy nor will it happen quickly. But having become real I can never become unreal. It lasts for always, and that makes it all the more worth it. Michael Monroe and his wife Amy have four children and lead Tapestry, IBCs adoption and foster care ministry. This article was originally published in the February 2010 issue of Adoption Today.

2010 Adoption and Foster Care Conference

Saturday, October 23, 9 a.m.3 p.m.
Mark your calendars for the 2010 Adoption and Foster Care Conference at Irving Bible Church. The conference is free but advanced registration is required. KidZone for children birth-5th grade is available (on a limited basis with advanced registration). Online registration begins September 7. For more conference and registration information visit tapestryconference.org.

A first-edition copy of the Velveteen Rabbit sells for $16,500.

The Velveteen Rabbit appeared in the sitcom Friends twice: Once when Chandler got a first edition of the book for Joeys girlfriend and another time when Monica made Chandler wear a pink bunny outfit at a costume party because his favorite book as a child was The Velveteen Rabbit.

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From Parent in Peril

to CEO of the Family

(How two single parent ministries are transforming lives.)

When Karens husband decided he no longer wanted to be married, she was at a loss for words. I was just in shock and in a fog, she recalls. I had two kids at home, I had given up my career and I didnt know what I should do next. I wasnt even coherent enough to be angry at the time.
Unfortunately Karens story isnt uncommon. She has since gone through One Parent + Kids (OP+K) at IBC and now works for Parenting Alone. Every single aspect of my life changed. I realized how strong I really am, and Im in a really good place now. Divorce is not a disease; its a situation, adds Karen, but it is a situation more and more parents are facing on a daily basis. Who are these single parents? You may have a neighbor, a friend, a boss, a family member or you may be a single parent yourself. Some of these men and women are divorced, some were never married but have a family and a few are widows. What they all have in common is they are unexpectedly parenting their children by themselves; they are the walking wounded, wondering where do I turn for help for myself and for my children? IBC offers two ministries for single parents: Parenting Alone and OP+K. Parenting Alone is a non-profit where newly single parents who are in crisis mode receive practical help for six to nine months: parenting skills, budgeting, communication, free fun events, etc. On the other hand, OP+K provides a safe place for single parents to come together to learn life skills to successfully parent emotionally and spiritually healthy children. In a nutshell, single parents in need of immediate help with finances or custody battles go to Parenting Alone, and when they are ready to grow and heal in a community of people on the same single parent journey, OP+K provides a safe place for them and their children. Walking that journey with single parents, are Michael and his wife, Dayna, who themselves have been divorced, remarried and have led OP+K together for the last 10 years. At the beginning of each OP+K, Michael quips, I have got news for you; youre being promoted, to CEO, CFO, head cook, chauffer and bread winner of
More than 1 million children are impacted by divorce each year.

your family whether you like it or not. He and Dayna, have led OP+K together for the last 10 years and have had the privilege of seeing single parents gain the help and hope they need through this programparents like Roni, Karen and Natosha. As a single parent who has been through the program, Roni explains that as CEO of your family you are in charge and your kids are your priority, which means you dont get to badmouth your ex because of how it negatively affects your kids. Because of OP+K graduate Karens commitment to this principle, her boys believe their parents are friends, despite the fact that theyre divorced. And in a community like OP+K, other people care about you and encourage you when life gets hard. Single parent and graduate of OP+K Natosha shares, OP+K helps you back up when youve fallen off track because when you see other people open themselves up for God to work in and through them, you
The median age of a corporate CEO is 52.

know you can, too. Although these three single moms all agreed theres no new normal, they now have hope and a network of supportive friends. This is a call to arms: Both ministries need help, specifically male volunteers even teens or young adults who can be positive role models for the kids and encourage their brothers and sisters in Christ. Will you take the risk to show up and see how God can use you? Ashley Hinton is a clinical social worker whose summer obsession has been frozen yogurt, which is way better (and cheaper!) than Prozac.

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THE conTEndER

Taquerias Dulce

(inside the Speedy K Mart in Coppell) (214) 315-4259 600 E. Sandy Lake, Coppell 75019 (Two other locations in Dallas on Coit and Royal) The cost $2/breakfast burrito with egg and chorizo

The Egg Apostate: Lauri I do not like them Sam-I-Am Lanier

The atmosphere I love this place. Its basically a convenience store with a little kitchen in it. They also sell some hats, sunglasses, wallets, a sprinkling of jewelry (most of it crosses, saints or Mother Mary items) and some ugly purses. I loved the two little booths snuggled in between the open kitchen and the electronic gambling machines (that looked like they didnt get much business). Storage was apparently not something they had a lot of boxes of wine were stacked between the back wall and the gambling machines, cases of soda flanked the eating area. It was cluttered and crowded with stuff but was clean and oddly orderly. The menu above the kitchen was in Spanish. Hey, you can order a Pastor with con queso! So if you are ever in need of a cheesy pastor, this is the place to come. (Still not sure what kind of meat pastor is!) The food Yum squared! I liked the breakfast burrito better than the taco because the burrito was in a flour tortilla and the taco was in a corn tortilla. Even without salsa, they were great. The salsa was good, but it wasnt what made the meal as opposed the to the last place we visited. Couldnt taste the eggs at all really. Lots of chorizo and cheese, fresh cilantro and chopped onions on the side and a portion of grilled onions. (Love onions!) This was good stuff! The aftermath (how you felt afterwards) Its only been a few hours, but I rarely have aftermath from any food. I like spicy makeyour-nose-run kind of spicy so not much bothers my system. I am kind of concerned about the possibility of the Mexican soda having an adverse effect. Apparently, you can get a bad soda sort of along the lines of, Dont drink that water! So far, so good! Rating on a scale of 1 to 10: 9 Grade AA Eggs

The Egg Apologist: Hunter Egg-head Roese

The atmosphere Well, in classic good ol Texas taco fashion, Speedy K is a gas station. Some of you may be disgusted by the idea of gas station tacos, but for me no other kind of taco feels quite right. There are a couple of picnic tables inside Speedy K, and a few outside. If you are looking for a romantic place to eat, this is surly not it, but if you want great authentic atmosphere, its perfect. The food I have to say of all the tacos Ive had, these are by far the most authentic, most simple, and most delicious. These are very plain and simple tacos. They consist of a corn tortilla, egg and chorizo. This probably isnt what you might think of when you think of breakfast tacos but its an authentic Mexican breakfast taco.

PART TWO
In July Chatter, we vetted the breakfast taco claims of Taqueria Guadalajara in Lewisville. This month, its a fight to the gooey finish as Taquerias Dulce goes egg-to-egg for the title of Best Breakfast Taco According to Two Random Judges from IBC and the Slightly Biased Chatter Staff. Think gas station tacos dont stand a chance? Think again.

The aftermath (how you felt afterwards) There was no aftermath that I could tell (most likely because the tacos are so simple and fresh). Rating on a scale of 1 to 10: 8 Grade AA Eggs

THE RESuLTS

Average Score: 8.5 out of 10 Grade AA Eggs Blowing past Taqueria Guadalajara by a hefty omelettes worth of 2.5 Grade AA Eggs, Taquerias Dulce (inside Speedy K) is now the undeniable forerunner. Egg Apostate Lauri is positively being converted to an egg-centric worldview, and Apologist Hunter is riding the wave of sweet validation. Conclusion Stay tuned for our third and final installment where we throw our judges for a loop by putting them through the rigors of BBQ & pickles. Thats right: BBQ breakfast tacos from Rudys in Denton.

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Lunch Lady
A cafeteria flowing with milk and PB&J.

Land
7,000,000,000+ 70
%

The number of school meals consumed by American children each year

1500
The average child will eat

PEANUT BUTTER & JELLY SANDWICHES before graduating high school

of milk sold in schools is flavored (chocolate is most popular)

Consumer or Doer of Cause?

One young adults mission to be actively globally aware I never saw myself as a material girl (sing in your head if you must). Growing up, I never had a lot of stuff; not because I couldnt afford it (Im the frugal one), but because I just didnt care to have a lot. For me, possessions equaled too much to keep up withpersonal hygiene was enough. Now, as with many other young adults, I have acquired a taste for the worlds goodies. Im writing this article on my new MacBook, I drink an iced caramel macchiato every day and have roughly 20 apps on my iPhone I dont use. I say all this not to induce guilt-ridden feelings of American consumerism, but rather to comment on my generation of young adults (20 somethings) and our growing desire to serve not only in our local communities, but around the world as well. Though my generation composes some of the highest consumers in America, we are also the fastest growing generation to make missions, justice and diversity a top priority in our lives. David Kinnaman, president of The Barna Group, notes: Mosaics [age 25 and under] are globally aware and cause-oriented. They relish risk, stimulation, and diverse experiences. And they are more sensitive to issues related to justice and poverty. Their craving to take journeys of service could fuel a resurgence of global engagement. Yet, the danger would be if leaders and organizations waste the Mosaic generations readiness by simply allowing young adults to be mere consumers of cause selling them a t-shirt or a wristband, instead of challenging them to life-shaping service projects. How I long for the American church to be globally aware, not just of social, economical or political injustices, but of the desperate need for Jesus; and not just aware, but engaged. To an extent I think young adults (Christian young adults) are guilty of being consumers of cause, but to a greater extent we are leading the way for the western church to be doers of cause, actively engaged in the global mission. When this article comes out, I will be in East Asia serving alongside other young adults, sharing the gospel with the next generation of national leaders; living overseas for a year or more. This is where hes placed me, and Im not trying to glorify my experience (its anything but glorious), just to challenge the church to pray big prayers, be obedient to his answers, and watch him work. Im not saying that the church shouldnt buy t-shirts, wear wristbands, or support mission trips, just to challenge it to do and engage in what the Lord calls it to. He calls us all to go in one way or another, to share hope that can only be found Christ. Bonnie McQuitty has an unusual fascination with bellybuttons. She once picked the lint out of a beerbellied, hard-core Harley biker gang leaders bellybutton at the tender age of three.

Venturing Out
We get one story, you and I, and one story alone. God has established the elements, the setting and the climax and the resolution. It would be a crime not to venture out, wouldnt it? It might be time for you to go. It might be time to change, to shine out. I want to repeat one word for you: Leave. Donald Miller Flashback to 2007-2008 with me: I was in my senior year of college and looking for that next step. I wanted to start a non-profit. I wanted to change the world. I wanted to be like Muhammud Yunus and win the Nobel Peace Prize. My mind constantly raced and I lived 110 percent in the future. I started to apply for two things at that time: Graduate school and the Peace Corps. I had my resume planned out, and man oh man, it was impressive! I had told a slew of people and then ... conviction. Stupid. Annoying. Conviction. This ache in my gut day-after-day told me this was not right; this was simply not the time. For whatever reason I felt God wanted me here, in Texas, where I was, at Irving Bible. Can I be frank? I was pissed. I was heartbroken. This wasnt my plan. However, I fell quickly in love with my job at IBC. I was given freedom to be myself, to flourish, to grow, to lead, to work on things I was absolutely passionate about. Honestly, I couldnt picture myself leaving. Flash forward to the recent past. One Saturday evening we were celebrating my friend Herssons birthday and I was inside with his sister, Alex. The conversation came up about how she went on the World Race and I began to ask a million questions. The next day, I applied, paid my application fee and set up an interview. I was freaking pumped and for the next two weeks I couldnt sleep and stayed up reading blog after blog. It wasnt like the peace-corps where I would be alone for two years in a third-world country, there was community. There was more of a purpose and structure: to love and serve Gods children. It was so many things I desired and felt God had put specifically in my heart to pursue further. It even felt like the right time, it just seemed to fit. Needless to say, Im on this journey, and you, my friends are right there with me, encouraging me, loving me and supporting me in this. I am beyond grateful for your prayers and financial support.
The World Race is a Christian mission trip that travels to 11 countries in 11 months. Participants live out of a backpack, survive on a limited budget and find themselves in situations where faith is the only reality to choose from. To hear more about Joys journey and to support her financially, go to joyrobertson.theworldrace.org.

Young adults are more likely to have been on a mission trip in the past than Baby-Boomers. (12% vs. 7%)

Young adults express more interest in going on short-term trips in the future than older generations. (10% vs. 3%)

Not to be confused with The World Race, The Amazing Race is a CBS reality show entering its 17th season.

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Modern Day Abolitionists

Fighting to end human trafficking

The material on these two pages is explicit and disturbing, and may be inappropriate for some readers.

WARNING:

ne of my favorite books to read to my boys is Moses by Carole Boston Weatherford. Interestingly, its not about the biblical character but about the American Moses, Harriet Tubman, who led her people out of the south and out of slavery. Im often brought to tears when I read about this woman who risked her life and her freedom for the sake of others whom she did not know, determined that they would be free just as she was. At some point along the way we all learned that slavery was abolished in the 19th century; yet the reality is that there are more people enslaved in the world today than at any other time in history. It was about four years ago that I was first confronted with the problem of modern slavery and human trafficking. As I began to do research I found the statistics to be appalling. There are an estimated 27 million people enslaved throughout the world today. Slavery affects every country around the world. It is estimated that human trafficking generates around $32 billion annually. Modern day slavery is the second most lucrative criminal industry in the world. UNICEF estimates that 1 million children are forced to sell their bodies to sexual exploiters. Two children are sold every minute.

Although the numbers associated with human trafficking are disturbing, the things that have been the most powerful to me while researching human trafficking statistics are the stories of real people. Human trafficking is not just about statistics; its also about compelling stories of real people, mostly women and children, that must be told. Consider the following story of a modern-day Harriet Tubman: Somaly Mam, a Cambodian orphan, never knew her parents. She doesnt even know how old she is. She endured a miserable childhood of abuse at an orphanage, and was forced into marriage with an older man. Around the age of sixteen, she was sold to a brothel in Phnom Penh, where she was beaten, raped and abused by pimps and clients more times than she could count. When she finally escaped the brothel at age twenty-one after a friends murder, Mam vowed to devote the rest of her life to helping other sex slaves go free. Since that day, Mam has aided the escape and recovery of sex trafficking victims in Cambodia, Laos and Vietnam through her nonprofit organizations, the European-based AFESIP (translated as Acting for Women in Distressing Circumstances) and the Somaly Mam Foundation, based in the U.S. As a speaker and activist, she shares her own story to publicize the important cause of ending sex trafficking, and works with government officials to lobby for the passage of anti-trafficking laws. Since escaping the brothel, Mam has helped more than 4,000 former sex slaves to go free in search of a better life. (From the article Five Former Slaves Who are Changing the World available at divinecaroline.com). As Ive gained more knowledge and understanding about the problem of slavery in the world today, Ive also recognized that I must cultivate in my life a sense of holy awareness. I so often find myself racing through life caught up in my routines, busy living my life and taking care of my family. I must look into the faces of those around me and confront the brokenness of this world. My prayer is that our society also would cultivate a life of holy awareness, allowing our interaction with others to remind us of the great brokenness of the world and the hope we find in Christ Jesus. And my prayer is also that God would continue to raise up a new generation of abolitionists who will not turn a blind eye to the cruelty and injustices being suffered by so many people around the world. Look with mercy, gracious God, upon people everywhere who live with injustice, terror, disease and death as their constant companions. Rouse us from our complacency and help us to eliminate cruelty wherever it is found. Strengthen those who seek equality for all. Grant that everyone may enjoy a fair portion of the abundance of the earth; through your Son, Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. Kim Jones has fallen out of a third story window, roller skated through a glass door and worked overnight security in Fair Park. She believes this should qualify her for super hero status.

He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God. Micah 6:8

RECOMMEnDED RESOuRCES
David Batstone, Not for Sale: The Return of the Global Slave Tradeand How We Can Fight It. HarperOne, 2007. Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn, Half the Sky: Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Women Worldwide. Alfred A. Knopf, 2009. E. Benjamin Skinner, A Crime So Monstrous: Face-to-face with Modern-day Slavery. Free Press, 2008. Kay Marshall Strom and Michelle Rickett, Forgotten Girls: Stories of Hope and Courage. InterVarsity Press, 2009.

After escaping from slavery, into which she was born, Harriet Tubman made thirteen missions to rescue more than 70 slaves.

As of this publication, 1 US dollar is equal to 4300 Riel (the currency in Cambodia).

As a child, writer Carole Boston Weatherfords favorite authors were Dr. Seuss and Langston Hughes.

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Financial Peace university

One Sunday last fall, Emily Wood nudged her husband, Keith, during an announcement at IBC about Financial Peace University (FPU). We should do that, she whispered. Having no financial training growing up, they were doing okay but sensed they needed to get on the same page in regards to handling the resources God had given them. As with many couples, tension resulting from money issues tended to be the number one stressor in their marriage. Emily and Keith knew they wanted to be able to give more and they were open to learning ways of money management, including setting up a realistic budget. After the first session, they agreed that simple baby steps outlined in FPU were doable for them. They became committed to the process and set out with a vengeance to do away with their debt so they could experience freedom. The first step was to set aside $1,000 as a beginning emergency fund. Emily thought of the clarinet in the closet she rarely touched since high school. When the Woods took it to a music store they offered them exactly $1,000 for it. It was the spark they needed. Excited that their first step was complete, they looked around at other things they could sell in order to pay other bills off. Keith had a sporty Miata that was fun to drive but rarely made it out of the garage. Selling it eliminated two credit cards. The baby grand piano was beautiful, but Emily asked, How much could we pay off if we sold the piano? We can always buy another one in a few years if we really want to. With the debt snowball beginning to gain momentum, they set aside money to pay for the birth of their new little girl. As of this writing, they have saved enough to pay cash for all the hospital bills. All told, in the past 10 months the Woods have sold and saved over $30,000 to practically eliminate their debt! The sense of freedom to be able to say yes to whatever God might be calling them to do is unmistakable. Financial Peace University has helped free up over 600 people at IBC like Keith and Emily Wood to be able to say yes to God by systematically eliminating the burden of debt. The next 13 week class will be offered starting September 15. If interested, please sign up at irvingbible.org/explore.
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Propel
During the last few months, over 180 IBCers have been through Propel. Heres what some of them had to say: You are on the right track to equipping the church to go out and serve and to find their place. I believe Propel helps to awaken those of us that are just sleep-walking Christians. It opened my eyes to the needs in the community and around the world I otherwise didnt see. More importantly, it helped me to learn and believe that I can make a difference for Christ, as one person. I believe the more you offer this class to the church the more the sleeping sheep will rise up and go out and serve! Propel was very informative and personally helped me to find my place in the church. I believe that God has shown me what he wants for my life, in the area of service to his people. I am more confident now in my ability to serve and to have a purpose in my life. I think its an excellent way to find your path for IBC involvement and even outside the walls of IBC. It taught me that all of us have our own personal gifts and strengths God gave us and we can all contribute to his ministries by taking those gifts and putting them to work.

Still looking to find your place at IBC? Been here forever but cant seem to figure out what its all about and how you fit into the larger picture? Want to have free breakfast every Sunday for four weeks?
Propel is an experience designed to help you figure out how you can best plug into IBCs culture and calling. Well talk about what it means to deepen your soul, find relationship and join the missionand what that might look like for you. Register: Four consecutive weeks starting September 12 at 10:45 a.m. in West A. To register or for more information visit propel. irvingbible.org or contact Jen at (972) 560-4655 or jlefforge@irvingbible.org. Space is limited. Register early so someone else doesnt get your bagel.

What is LISTEn TO MY LIFE?

Listen to My Life (LTML) is a journey that helps you invite God into the process of reviewing your past, assessing your present and continuing to walk with God into your future. LTML uses eight unique visual maps to help you document your story for the purpose of significant and meaningful action. This will help you recognize and respond to God in your story. Your story is a part of Gods grand story. God has created you to be a part of his kingdom work. He has created you for a purpose that only you can do, in exactly the way that you will do it. God uses the good things and the hard things in our lives to shape us into his sons image and to accomplish his unique purpose through us. And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. [Romans 8:28] Not only will you discover insights about God in your own story, but you will also see his work in the stories of others. LTML creates space for personal reflection and large and small group sharing in a safe environment. Going through this study will give you the opportunity to expand your understanding of the rich simplicity of how beloved you are, deepen your walk with the Lord and have a greater understanding of your journey. If you have questions like: How can I know God in a deeper way? Who has God created me to be? Is it possible to reshape, restore and reconcile my valleys into places full of Gods love, goodness and forgiveness? How can I find a quiet place in a noisy world so I can even hear what God is saying to me? Then LTML is for you! When asked if LTML gave direction or confirmation in your responsibilities, job or ministry, Kathy S. (a fall 2009 participant) stated: This was one of the main things it did. Its hard to explain, but they had us take apart and analyze our life history, patterns, relationships, spiritual growth and put it back together. We were able to then identify our desires and longings. From these desires and longings, we developed a plan on how we thought God wanted to use us. The best word to describe this group: Transformational. IBCs fall 2010 group will be meeting every Wednesday morning at IBC in the Commons Annex from 10 a.m. 12 p.m. starting September 15 for 10 weeks. There is pre-work for the study to be done this summer, so please contact Debbie Smith if you are interested. The cost for maps and supplies is $35; scholarships are available. For more information or to register contact Debbie Smith at dls.56@hotmail.com.

Square One

meets for 6 Thursdays starting September 30, 10 a.m.Noon Square One is for moms and their first baby up to 6 months of age. Babies attend with their moms. To register, contact Sara Taylor at sarabeth2@me.com. There is no registration fee.

Mothering preschool children is tough. Need Support? Thats why we are here.
MOPS meets 3rd Thursdays, 7-8:30 p.m. starting Sept. 16 in The Commons at Irving Bible Church. Join us for spiritual encouragment and the opportunity to connect with other moms and mentor moms who have been there and done that. For more info or to register e-mail mops@irvingbible.org.

LTML also stands for Linearly-Tapered Microstrip Line

Speaking of a loud world: vuvuzelas, the roughly 3-foot-long plastic horn blown at the World Cup, puts out 127 decibels of sound. Thats seven decibels louder than a jet plane taking off.

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This MonTh
Bible Communities
Communities on Sunday
Renew 10:45 a.m. Training Center In September, Renew will be taking a fresh path on the Journey with the Starting Point series. Perfect for everyone, as it is a personal walk into discovery/rediscovery of what you believe and why you believe it. Girlfriends 10:45 a.m. Commons Annex GirlfriendsSolo on Sunday, a womens Bible Community for any age or station in life who attend church alone, is getting ready to begin a study on II Corinthians. We would love for you to join as we study, pray and have fun together, doing such things as making earrings to sell at our garage sale to raise money for the parties and other services we provide at a local nursing home. Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m. in the Zone. Grades K 5th Zone 6:30* Zone 6:30 is a great way for your elementary age child to grow deeper in their spiritual walk. Now is the time to take that next step for your child and sign them up for this dynamic small group Bible Study that has a lifelong impact. Who: K 5th grade When: 6:158:30 p.m. every Tuesday staring September 14 Where: The Zone Fee: $25 per child to cover the cost of the study book and activities through the year. Register online at zone630.irvingbible.org *For more info contact Melissa Franke at mfranke@irvingbible.org.

Community Life
Stitches of Faith nEW LOCATIOn Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m.8:30 p.m., Mosaic Caf We are working on squares for soldiers and have completed several afghans for our military personnel. Come join us and learn a new skill or technique. Questions? Contact Wendy Vera at (214) 533-2781 or email msbabydragon@yahoo.com.

Oct. 25, 8 a.m. shotgun start Dust off your clubs and join us for the annual IBCMens Golf Tournament. Where: Bear Creek East When: Monday, October 25, 8 a.m. shotgun start Format: Four man scramble; two man sign up Cost: $49.95/person Visit men.irvingbible.org for info.

Local Partnerships
Reaching the Community
Get up and Give! north Texas Giving Day September 8, 7 a.m.7 p.m. Q: What is North Texas Giving Day? A: A day when nonprofits with an approved profile through DonorBridge are eligible to receive matching funds when donations are made online through DonorBridge. Q: How do I donate? A: By going to the website donorbridgetx.org to find one of our partners profiles and donate securely online. For more information please visit irvingbible.org. Grace for the Wounded Grace for the Wounded is a confidential weekly small group program for survivors of abuse in all forms. We cover issues like what the Bible says about abuse, and how surviving abuse has impacted us. The dynamics and impacts of abuse are universal and all are welcome. Womens group starts September 13 at 6:30 p.m. Contact Bernadette (Bernie) at (678) 860-4575. Mens group starts September 17 at 6:30 p.m. Contact Paul at (214) 226-8234. Tapestry Celebration Saturday, September 18, 6:308:30 p.m. at IBC Join us as Tapestry celebrates five years of ministry! Entire event is free but registration is required. Go to tapestryministry.org for info and to register. Childcare is available for ages 012. Questions? Contact Amy Monroe at tapestry@irvingbible.org.

Espaol

Bilingual Ministry
Traduccin del Servicio los Domingos Traduccin simultnea en el Servicio de las 5 p.m. Escuchnlo en la red: irvingbible.org. Se necesitan traductores. Sunday Service Translation Simultaneous translation available during the 5 p.m. service. Spanish Translations online at irvingbible. org. Translators needed. ESL: (Ingles Como Segundo Idioma) AZ14 & 15 Quiere aprender ingls? Quiere mejorar su ingls? Ven a las clases de ingls (ESL)! Practica en las cuatro destrezas: lectura, escritura, oral y auditiva. Cada mircoles desde 6:308:30 p.m. Las clases empiezan 1 de septiembre Para ms informacin, contacte a Lauren Menge: esl@ irvingbible.org Estudio Biblico de Mujeres Inicia Septiembre 14 Martes 9:30 a 11:30 a.m. o 6:30 a 8:30 p.m. Acompaanos a estudiar y meditar en la palabra de Dios junto a otras mujeres. Womens Bible Study Starts September 14 Tuesday 9:3011:30 a.m. or 6:308:30 p.m. Join us as we study and meditate on Gods word with other women.

Community Care
Hope for the Hurting
Griefshare Tuesdays, 6:308 p.m., Conference Room Griefshare starts back up September 7. Griefshare is a caring group of people who will walk alongside you through one of lifes most difficult experiences you dont have to walk this journey alone. KidZone is available at kidzone. irvingbible.org. Reservations must be made at least 48 hours prior to the meetings. Please contact Sharon at shararrington@verizon.net. ReEngage Sundays, 6:458 p.m., West C/D Join IBCs new marriage ministry experience as we find ways to reconnect with our spouses. ReEngage is for all types of marriages those struggling, doing OK, or doing great and seeking ways to grow. Ministry to children is available by online pre-registration at least 48 hours in advance. Contact Jodi Francis with questions: reengage@irvingbible.org. Recovery at IBC Celebrates their 3rd Birthday Thursday, September 9, 6:308:30 p.m. Join us for cake, fellowship and music as we celebrate Recovery at IBCs 3rd birthday. Contact recovery@irvingbible.org for more information or go to recovery. irvingbible.org. Recovery at IBC Thursdays, 6:30 p.m., the Commons Perfectionism, pride, overeating, shopping, anger, control... and you thought Recovery at IBC was just about drug, alcohol or sexual addictions!

Children

Infants Through 5th Grade

Energetic? Creative? Patient? KidZone wants you! KidZone, our midweek ministry to children, is seeking individuals to walk alongside our preschoolers on their journey to grow in faith. KidZone is currently accepting applications to fill paid positions for the following days and times: Tuesdays, 8:45 a.m.1 p.m. TuesdayThursday, 5:459 p.m. Some weekend/special event positions also available. Contact Michelle Tibbatts or Tammy Hutchinson at kidzone@irvingbible.org. Special needs Ministry needs SonShine Pals Want to help a child realize the truth of Christs love for them? The Special Needs Ministry at IBC works to help children who are uncomfortable in a general classroom setting by providing SonShine Pals. SonShine Pals are volunteers (women, youth, elementary age, men, etc.) who have a heart to help kids know Jesus. We have a waiting list full of children waiting for a SonShine Pal; can you make time to make Jesus real to one of these children? For more info contact Diana at dblessing@irvingbible.org or fill out the volunteer application at servekids.irvingbible.org. MyZone* MyZone is a safe environment for kids with team building activities, life-application conversations, and high impact fun!

IBCMen

Ministry to Men
First Watch Starts Friday, September 10 at 6:22 a.m. and Tuesday, September 14 at 6:30 p.m. First Watch Xtra Wednesdays, 6:30 a.m., Training Center Annual IBCMens Golf Tournament Monday,

Resources

Stuff People Need

Citizenship Class Wednesdays from 6:308 p.m. Become a U.S. Citizen! Join our Path to Citizenship starting

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Wednesday, September 8. Class will meet in the Commons Annex and run through December 17. Class is open to all who meet the minimum requirements as established by the United States Citizenship and Immigration Service. No cost to attend; study material provided. Contact citizenship@irvingbible.org for more information. Volunteer at the Citizen Class Wednesdays from 6:308 p.m. Interested in leading others to obtain the necessary knowledge in their preparation in becoming a U.S. citizen? Join our team on Wednesday nights starting September 8 through December 17. No experience necessary! Contact Michael Larson at citizenship@ irvingbible.org.

for our local heroes (bring a treat like gum, candy, magazines or a Bible to donate); make flags and goodie bags for our soldiers and write them notes; and chow down on pizza! Register on-line at singleparents.irvingbible.org under Salute to Heroes Night. Mentoring for Boys in Single Parent Families Wednesday, September 15, 68:30 p.m. Meet your mentors for dinner in the Commons where you can hang out together and play sports and work on a service project for our troops. On Track Bible Community Sundays, 10:45 a.m.-Noon, West C September Schedule: Sept. 11 KNO Salute to Heroes Sept. 12 potluck at IBC after On Track Sept. 25 movie night at Jaana Simulas home If you have questions about any single-parent events, contact Marsha at (972) 560-4633, ext. 586 or at mtribbett@irvingbible.org.

2435 Kinwest

Wednesday Nights at IBC

Job Transition Workshop Wednesdays, 6:308 p.m. Get the inside scoop on resumes, networking, interviewing, job search and company research. One week will be for open discussion on other topics related to the job search and unemployment issues. Contact Lisa at 2435jobtransition@irvingbible.org. ESL: English as a Second Language Wednesdays, 6:308:30 p.m. AZ14 & 15 Do you want to learn English? Do you want to improve your English? Come to ESL classes! Practice all four skills: speaking, listening, reading and writing. For more info, contact Lauren Menge: esl@ irvingbible.org. Visit 2435kinwest.org for a list of other activities and ways to get involved.

kidzone.irvingbible.org at least 48 hours in advance. Questions? Contact the NICHE Board of Directors: texasniche06@gmail.com or visit texasniche.com. Budget Coaching Are you ready to get financially fit? Want someone to help coach you so you can take control of your finances Gods Way? For more info about getting a personal budget coach, contact Dan Biggs at budgetcoaching@irvingbible. org or (972) 560-4632. Gala Alpha Kickoff Event Wednesday, September 22, 6:157:30 p.m. Live band, testimonials and dinner provided for registrants. For more information contact alpha@ irvingbible.org. Hearing Assistance Hearing Assistance is available during all three worship services. You can stop by the Journey Lounge for instructions. new Arrivals Congratulations to the following families on the births of their children: Ryder and Heather McNatt and their son Cole Ryder, born December 14, 2009, weighing 6 lbs 15 oz, 19 inches Brian and Suzanne Barker and their son Jay Patrick, born March 1, weighing 7 lbs 7 oz, 20 inches Bob and Ashley Bolton and their daughter Garner Elizabeth, born June 3, weighing 7 lbs 12 oz, 19 inches Joe and Leanna OBrien and their son, Owen Daniel, born June 15, weighing 9 lbs 4 oz, 20 inches Kirk and Lori Baldridge and their son Kyle Jefferson, born June 25, weighing 9 lbs 5 oz, 21 inches Andrew and Annie Day and their son Logan Andrew, born June 28, weighing 7 lbs 7 oz, 20 inches Evan and Courtney Shaver and their daughter Campbell Virginia, born July 3, weighing 7 lbs 5 oz, 19 inches Robert and Karla Echols, and their son Seth Judd, born July 11, weighing 7 lbs 12 oz, 20 inches Tim and Emily Snelling and their son Ryan Allen, born July 14, weighing 7 lbs 3 oz, 19 inches

Seasoned Saints

For the Young at Heart (ages 55+)

Seasoned Saints Dinner, September 11, 6 p.m. at Spring Creek BBQ Join us for dinner and fellowship at Spring Creek BBQ on Beltline and Airport Freeway (Hwy 182) near Lowes. Check the newsletter for plans after dinner. Potluck Lunch and Fellowship, September 19 in the Commons Annex Our potluck event will be held on Sunday, September 19 in the Commons Annex adjoining the Haven at IBC immediately following the second morning service. Bring a dish to share, and come enjoy some good food and some great fellowship! To add or remove names from the Seasoned Saints mailing list, please e-mail bgroezinger@ verizon.net.

Miscellaneous

A Little Bit of Everything

Student Ministries
Middle & High School
Sundays 6:458 p.m. 6-8th grade meets in The Commmons 9-12th grade meets in the High School Room Wednesdays Join us each Wednesday to experience The W. Bring $3 for a delicious meal and stay for fun, games, and relationships. Contact mconnor@irvingbible.org.

Baptism Service October 17, 12:15 p.m. immediately following the 10:45 a.m. service On Sunday, Oct. 17, IBC will conduct baptisms for those who have committed their lives to Christ. Register online (Sept. 15 Oct. 1) at registration.irvingbible.org. There is a mandatory class for those who wish to be baptized. (see following schedule) Childrens class: Sunday, October 3 at 5 p.m. in the Training Center (located adjacent to The Tubes in the Town Square). A parent is required to attend with his or her child. A childrens make-up class will be held at 4 p.m. on Wednesday, October 6. Middle School/High School class: Please contact Mary Ann Connor at (972) 560-4617 to schedule a meeting with the Middle School and/or High School pastor. Adults class: Sunday, October 3 at 910 a.m. in the Sr. High Room. A make-up class for adults is available on Wednesday, October 13 at 6:30 p.m. in the Conference Room. Contact Donna OReilly at (972) 560-4600 for more information. nICHE (north Irving Christian Home Educators) Thursday, September 16 at 6:30 p.m. Commons Annex Remember to register your kids birth-5th grade for KidZone at

Single-Parent Family
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Community and Resources
One Parent Plus Kids Wednesdays, September 8 november 17, 6:408:15 p.m. Reminder: Register on-line now for One Parent Plus Kids fall program at singleparents.irvingbible. org. Registration is $40. Dinner included weekly. Kids night Out Saturday, Sept. 11, 69 p.m. in The Commons Come out and enjoy our Salute to Heroes Night. Honor our police officers, firefighters, and soldiers; meet some heroes up close and personal; help make gift baskets

We

Ministry To Women
MOPS starts September 16, 78:30 p.m., The Commons See ad pg. 13 Sisterhood: From Alone to Known Womens Fall Bible Study, starts September 14 See article pg. 16 new Moms Group: Square One starts September 30, 10 a.m.noon See ad, pg. 13

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Are You New to IBC?

You're probably wanting to learn more about who we are, what we believe and how to get plugged in.

Newcomer Gathering is for you.

Wednesday, September 8, 6:30 p.m., The Alcove If you are new to IBC, we invite you to attend a Newcomer Gathering. This informal get-together is for anyone wanting to learn more about who we are, what we believe and how to get plugged in regardless of where you are on your spiritual journey. Meet elders and church leadership, ask questions and get to know other IBCers. Register online at newcomergathering.irvingbible.org. KidZone is available for children birth-preschool. Register 48 hours in advance at kidzone.irvingbible.org. For children kindergarten-5th grade, MyZone is availible, no registration necessary.

Alpha Wednesdays from 6:308 p.m. in Training Center Starts September 29 (10 sessions) Answering the Big Questions of Faith Sundays from 910:30 a.m. in Training Center Starts Oct 3 (5 sessions) Bible Reading and Reflection Saturday, October 2 from 8 a.m.12 p.m. (1 session) Church History Saturday, October 2 from 8 a.m.2 p.m. (1 session) Financial Peace University Wednesdays from 6:308:30 p.m. in Commons Starts September 15 (13 sessions) Quest Saturday, October 2 from 8 a.m.2:30 p.m. (1 session)

Please register at explore.irvingbible.org.

Sisterhood: From Alone to Known

A 10-week Bible study for women Begins Tuesday, September 14 9:30-11:30 a.m. or 6:30-8:30 p.m. The Commons at IBC Ever play hide and seek with your sisters growing up? How about with the women who are in your life right now? Often we walk through life surrounded by people, and yet feel utterly and completely alone. This fall, as we look at the characteristics of biblical relationships, well begin to see Gods heart for his family. We will learn how to come out of hiding and become truly known by our sisters in Christ. To register for the Bible study or for KidZone, our excellent program for children, visit a-movement-of-women.org. Note: For the evening bible study, Zone630 is offered for kindergarten-5th grades. Information for registration is on page 14.

Hindu Christian Interface

Mondays
September 13
This five week course will equip you to cross cultures more effectively with Hindus at work, in your neighborhood and around the world. Class sessions will include lessons taught by Hindu background believers, Christians working among Hindus around the world and other experts regarding Hinduism and Hindu culture. There will also be short reading assignments, multimedia presentations, Biblical reflections, discussion groups and devotional music.

the

to October 18
6:30-8:30 p.m. in West D

HCI Registration
A registration fee of $85 ($20 discount for additional family members) includes the main reading text. You are invited to join us for food and fellowship on Monday, September 13 for a free introductory class to find out more about HCI.

AD In PROGRESS
For people of faith, we are called upon to re-create with the same beauty as God created. We are called to create positive things to give life meaning the most basic instrument is the voice. Youre tapping the very nerve of being when you sing.
Dr. Anton Armstrong

2010 Basic 5K & Jerry Can Relay October 9, 2010 Katy Trail, Dallas
For info and registration visit waterisbasic.org.

Vox Humana is more than a choir, we are a community. A community committed to excellence artistically and musically, and sincerity in worship, ministry and service.This community is open to all singers who wish to participate. There are no auditions for the choir, so feel free to come to one of our Wednesday night rehearsals at 6:30 p.m. in The Alcove beginning September 15. For more information visit voxhumanachoir.weebly.com or contact Vox Humana director Crystal Elwell at celwell@irvingbible.org.

vox humana

:: the choral community of irving bible church

SunDAY SCHEDuLE
First Worship Service: 9 a.m.
Childrens Classes (all ages) Nexus (40+ singles), The Alcove The Tree (newly and nearly weds), West D Synergy (30s and 40s couples), Middle School Room

HOW DO I GIVE
My Time, Talents & Skills
Can You Run a Camera? We need more volunteers to run cameras during the Sunday services. Contact Jeff Taylor at jtaylor@irvingbible.org. Vox Humana Choir We will be back in action starting mid-September and are always looking for singers to join our community. No audition required. We rehearse every Wednesday from 6:30-7:50 p.m. in The Alcove. For more information please contact Crystal Elwell, director, at celwell@irvingbible.org. Citizenship Class Leaders If you have a heart to minister to those seeking U.S. citizenship, we are looking for two to three volunteers to help lead our class. Contact Michael Larson at Michael.Larson@parago. com. Needed: Men for Mentoring Would you like to stand in the gap by mentoring a boy from an IBC single parent family? All it takes is a little time and a big heart. Contact Kenny at 214.683.7911 or Marsha at 972.560.4633, ext. 586.

My Resources
Cars for Missionary Families Do you have an extra car to loan a missionary family on furlough? Contact the International Initiatives department (dprevilon@irvingbible.org). Online Giving Option If you would find it more convenient to donate to the ministries of Irving Bible Church online, please visit give.irvingbible.org. North Texas Giving Day On September 8, 7 a.m.7 p.m. when you give to one of IBCs partners through DonorBridge online, your donation is eligible to receive matching funds. To give, visit donorbridgetx.org. For more information, visit irvingbible.org.

Second Worship Service: 10:45 a.m.

Childrens Classes (all ages) Crossroads (mid 20s to mid 30s couples), The Alcove On Track (single parents), West C Journey (all welcome), Middle School Room Girlfriends (solo on Sundays), Commons Annex Renew (formerly known as L.I.F.E.) (30s,40s, 50s, all welcome), Training Center Thrive (30s and 40s singles), West D

Third Worship Service: 5 p.m.

Childrens Classes (all ages)

Community Dinner: 6 p.m. Community Events: 6:45 p.m.

The Point (20s singles), The Alcove Central Park (20s singles & couples), Conferance Room Legacy Builders (all welcome), Zone Jr. 7 Middle School, The Commons High School, Student Ministries Area

Sunday Community Meals

Join us in the Town Square for our community meal on Sundays at 6 p.m. Meals are $3 per person or $10 max./family.

Also, check out the Needs Board in the Town Square to find out how you can help meet the needs of others at IBC.

JOURNEY

9/5

No meal, Labor Day

9/12 Chicken fajitas, chips and salsa and salad 9/19 Burgers or brats and salad bar 9/26 Spaghetti and meatballs and salad bar
If youd like to serve on a Sunday night meal team, contact Pat OReilly at (214) 289-6176 or sundaynightmeal@irvingbible.org.

God invites us to a journey. A journey that leads to him and connects us to others. Individually, our journeys are unique, but we share common needs. The need to deepen our souls. The need for relationship. The need for mission and purpose. At IBC, we are all about helping each other on our journeys. We invite you to explore irvingbible.org for all kinds of ways you can navigate your journey.

DEEpEN thE SOUl

Wednesday Midweek Meals

Each Wednesday night from 5 6:20 p.m., IBC prepares meals for anyone wanting a good, hot meal. PB&J sandwiches are also available. Cost is $3/meal or $10 max./family. Just come by The Commons, and grab a plate!

Faith isnt just a one-time discovery but also a lifetime of moving toward God. Our souls are made to grow, not just in knowledge but in connection with God. No matter where you are in your spiritual journey you can go deeper.

FiND RElatiONShip

Since creation, God has said it is not good for man to be alone. We are designed to work together, play together, live together. It is essential that we are in relationship with others on the journey.

JOiN thE MiSSiON

9/1 9/8

Lasagna, hot bread sticks, salad and dessert Ham, scalloped potatoes, mixed veggies, salad, rolls and dessert

To be full, a life must be engaged in the story of God restoring his creation and connecting people to himself. We have a responsibility to each other globally and locally in making a difference.

9/15 Enchiladas, refried beans and cookies 9/22 BBQ pork sandwiches, wedge fries, baked beans and dessert 9/29 Salisbury steak, baked potatoes with fixings, green beans, rolls, salad and dessert
If youd like to serve on a Wednesday night meal team, please e-mail bdowney@irvingbible.org.

Journey Lounge

Whether youre searching for answers, are a new believer, or have been a follower of Christ for many years, were all on this journey togethera journey to deepen our soul, to be in relationship and to serve with mission and purpose. Sometimes its hard to navigate that path because we share common needs, but each persons journey is unique. So, weve created the Journey Lounge and staffed it with folks we call Journey Guides. They are there to help you with your unique journey. The Journey Lounge is open before, during and after all three worship services on Sunday. Its located in the Town Square across from the fountain just look for the cool sofas, comfy chairs and smiling faces.

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Were all meant to grow, to be in relationship and to join the mission. The Journey Lounge is a place to start.

of year when everyone undergoes mass hypnosis to convince themselves that any temperature under 89 degrees Fahrenheit qualifies as autumnal, and high school football erupts across the Texas plains. Ah, Texas football. Where young warriors dream of impressing girls, coaches, girls, college scouts and girls as they smash each other into the neighboring county. If said players attend a Christian school, their coach may attempt to inspire them with Pauls words from Ephesians 6 about the Armor of God, comparing their scarred helmets to the Helmet of Salvation and so forth. And it probably works. Mainly because high school boys can get inspired by just about anything if it means impressing high school girls. Did I already mention that?

Gird Thy Spirit in Polyester

Its September in Texas. That special time

The Ascot of the Angels

The corporeal: Two hundred ascot-clad brass, woodwind and percussion players still couldnt pull off a look perfected by a cartoon character Fred from Scooby Doo. The spiritual: The silken ascot recalls the gossamer construction of the wings angels probably dont really have. And reminds the laity that God made man a little lower than the angels and, as such, we need bibs while eating barbecue.
The Poplin Shirt of Prayer Circles

The corporeal: Slick, shimmery and shiny enough to reflect Reagan-era SDI satellite-based lasers, our cool-to-the-touch upper-torso attire actually had the breathability of a plastic bag trapped inside a plastic bag. The spiritual: Its location on our body reminds us of the Breastplate of Righteousness, and that said righteousness requires prayer to achieve. Its choice of material reminds us of our grandmothers, who gather to pray in groups while eating Fig Newtons.
The Cummerbund of Communion

I however, was not on the football team in high school (nor was I in Texas, but thats a different matter). I was a trumpet player in the marching band. And there isnt much in the way of allegorical, metaphorical or even literal content in the Bible for a band geek to latch onto. Sure, David played the harp, but he was really more a singer-songwriter type (see Psalms 1 150) than an ensemble player. Besides, have you ever seen a harp in a marching band? (Please say yes because that would be awesome.) But there are no references to the Spit Valve of the Spirit or allusions to Christs word being as melodious as a bass clarinet and sharp as an ill-tuned oboe. At least not until now. I present to you the Whole Band Uniform of, well, I cant really say of the Lord as Im fairly certain Christ would have the good taste to avoid wearing anything remotely resembling the garb of goose-stepping tubists. Theres a reason you read about Jesus coming in clouds of glory, enrobed in blazing robes of enrobement. And not, say, an ill-fitting simulacrum of a Tower Guards dress reds. But I digress. The following spiritualish sartorial metaphors are based on my personal experiences in the Blue Springs High School Golden Regiment marching band, 1987 1990. We literally looked like the cavalry was coming. If the cavalry was actually an infantry and had its gold-and-purple uniforms designed by a Civil War-era forefather of Liberace.
The Plastic Cavalry Hat of Pontiff-ication

The corporeal: The cummerbund (or cumberbund to Middle-Americans) is a pleated sash worn about the waist and affixed in place with the weakest form of generic Velcro ever exported from the Guangdong province. It looked like a homemade boxing championship belt, but did little to support ones pants. The spiritual: With its multiple levels of pleating, the cummerbund is the perfect place to store communion wafers, thus constantly reminding us of Christs sacrifice. Diabetics may also tuck in a few glucose tablets without being considered sacrilegious.
The Adjustable Trousers of Steadfastness

The corporeal: These purple polyester (of course) pants came with adjustable waistbands, allowing them to fit the most waifish piccolo player (not me) and burly sousaphonist alike. Also, itchy. The spiritual: As Paul said in so many words, our lives are a marathon and not a sprint. We must remain strong and steady throughout our journey. When weariness creeps in, we must lean upon these Trousers of Steadfastness which, after being handed down for 15 years with minimal laundering, can pretty much walk on their own.
The Patent Leatherette Shoes of Sacrifice

The corporeal: Some bands wore British-style Q-Tip hats. A few with Shriner sponsorship sported fezzes. We donned the gleaming, white, injection-molded manifestation of General Custers once arrow-free chapeau. The spiritual: As evangelicals, we eschew the idea of a pope. But who else in Christendom rocks a mitre harder? Besides, no one gets their knickers in a knacker over a hail Mary pass in football.

The corporeal: It wasnt enough to have black shoes. They had to be Official Band Shoes manufactured according to strict codes established by the Soviet Politburo after a particularly bad evening of oppressing the proletariat. They hurt. Badly. The spiritual: Walk a mile or five in another mans band shoes and youll have lost all feeling below the knee after 500 yards. But you keep going, you keep struggling, you keep sacrificing. Because if you dont, the trombone section will trample you like a sweaty-yet-golden grape of wrath. Truth. After three years sporting the Purple & Gold at halftime shows, contests and even the Fiesta Bowl parade (before the Fiesta Bowl actually meant anything to anyone), I can truthfully say that the uniform did indeed bring me closer to God. I thank Him every day that I will never, ever have to wear it again. Jason Fox prefers cotton-poly blends.

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The sousaphone was named after famous American composer John Philip Sousa, possibly most famous for his composition The Stars and Stripes Forever (a.k.a. the official march of the U.S.).

Nick Cannon, the star of the 2002 movie Drumline, got his start on Nickelodeons All That in 1998.

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