befriend_perk = {

lifestyle = diplomacy_lifestyle
tree = family
position = { 0 0 }
icon = node_diplomacy

auto_selection_weight = {
value = 11
if = {
limit = {
has_education_diplomacy_trigger = yes
}
add = 1989
}
if = {
limit = {
has_focus = diplomacy_family_focus
}
multiply = 5
}
if = {
limit = {
can_start_new_lifestyle_tree_trigger = no
NOT = { has_perk = groomed_to_rule_perk }
}
multiply = 0
}
}

effect = {
custom_description_no_bullet = {
text = befriend_perk_effect
}
}
}

confidants_perk = {
lifestyle = diplomacy_lifestyle
tree = family
position = { 0 1 }
icon = node_diplomacy

parent = befriend_perk

effect = {
custom_description_no_bullet = {
text = confidants_perk_effect
}
hidden_effect = {
every_relation = {
type = friend
root = {
add_character_modifier = {
modifier = confidants_perk_modifier
}
}
}
}
}
}

flatterer_perk = {
lifestyle = diplomacy_lifestyle
tree = family
position = { 0 2 }
icon = node_diplomacy

parent = confidants_perk

character_modifier = {
befriend_scheme_power_mult = 0.3
}
}

groomed_to_rule_perk = {
lifestyle = diplomacy_lifestyle
tree = family
position = { 2 0 }
icon = node_diplomacy

auto_selection_weight = {
value = 11
if = {
limit = {
has_education_diplomacy_trigger = yes
}
add = 1989
}
if = {
limit = {
has_focus = diplomacy_family_focus
}
multiply = 5
}
if = {
limit = {
can_start_new_lifestyle_tree_trigger = no
NOT = { has_perk = befriend_perk }
}
multiply = 0
}
}

effect = {
custom_description_no_bullet = {
text = groomed_to_rule_perk_effect
}
# If a child has already gotten their childhood personality or
education (and thus missed the skill gain), add it now.
hidden_effect = {
save_scope_as = parent
every_child = {
limit = {
OR = {
has_trait = curious
has_trait = rowdy
 has_trait = charming
has_trait = pensive
has_trait = bossy
has_trait = education_martial
has_trait = education_intrigue
has_trait = education_stewardship
has_trait = education_learning
has_trait = education_diplomacy
}
}
groomed_to_rule_random_skills_effect = yes
}
}
}
}

familial_familiar_perk = {
lifestyle = diplomacy_lifestyle
tree = family
position = { 2 1 }
icon = node_diplomacy

parent = groomed_to_rule_perk

character_modifier = {
close_relative_opinion = 15
}
}

thicker_than_water_perk = {
lifestyle = diplomacy_lifestyle
tree = family
position = { 2 2 }
icon = node_diplomacy

parent = familial_familiar_perk

effect = {
custom_description_no_bullet = {
text = thicker_than_water_perk_effect
}
}
}

friendly_counsel_perk = {
lifestyle = diplomacy_lifestyle
tree = family
position = { 1 3 }
icon = node_diplomacy

parent = flatterer_perk
parent = thicker_than_water_perk

effect = {
custom_description_no_bullet = {
text = friendly_counsel_perk_effect
 }
hidden_effect = {
every_relation = {
type = friend
root = {
friendly_counsel_skill_gain_effect = yes
}
}

}
}
}

sound_foundations_perk = {
lifestyle = diplomacy_lifestyle
tree = family
position = { 1 4 }
icon = node_diplomacy

parent = friendly_counsel_perk

effect = {
custom_description_no_bullet = {
text = sound_foundations_perk_effect
}
hidden_effect = {
every_child = {
root = {
sound_foundations_skill_gain_effect = yes
}
}
}
}
}

family_man_perk = {
lifestyle = diplomacy_lifestyle
tree = family
position = { 1 5 }
icon = trait_family_first

name = {
first_valid = {
triggered_desc = {
trigger = { NOT = { exists = this } }
desc = family_man_perk_male_name
}
triggered_desc = {
trigger = { is_female = yes }
desc = family_man_perk_female_name
}
desc = family_man_perk_male_name
}
}

parent = sound_foundations_perk
 effect = {
add_trait_force_tooltip = family_first
}
}