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What is the definition of
imposter syndrome?
Impostor syndrome is a psychological pattern in
which an individual doubts their accomplishments or
talents and has a persistent internalised fear of being
exposed as a 'fraud'.
Negative self-talk
Over-Functioning: Under-Functioning:
When we imagine that If we get overwhelmed by
everyone else is more our fear of failure, we can
intelligent than us, we can become fatigued by
think we need to work obstacles in front of us.
extra hard to cover up our This can lead to avoiding
perceived incompetence. and procrastinating and
This can lead us to do difficulty taking control of
more than is necessary problems that can and
and more than is healthy. need to be controlled.
1. Lack of Approval
Growing up, did you feel like your achievements were never
quite good enough? Or your talents and accomplishments
went unnoticed? This may have made it difficult for you to
feel deserving of your success and own your
accomplishments as an adult.
2. Family Labels
Were the children in your family given labels such as the
‘smart’ one, the ‘sensitive’ one, the 'responsible’ one or the
‘funny’ one? If so, you may have tried to live up to your label,
then felt unsuccessful if your personality or actions deviated
from the family’s expectations.
3. Over Praise
Were you lavished with praise no matter how well you did?
As enviable as this may sound, if everything you did was
considered remarkable, you may have grown so dependent
on constant validation that if your employers or teachers fail
to continually praise you, then you start to question your
performance.
4. Mixed messages
Did you receive mixed messages about achievement? For
example, your exam results or teachers praise indicated one
thing, but your parents said something different? Perhaps you
achieved a good grade in an exam but your parents asked
why you didn’t get the top grade in the class. When our
success has been inconsistently reinforced, it can become
difficult for us to internalise our success.
Emotional
Emotional self-care is about checking in with your
feelings, expressing your emotions, and becoming
more mindful of your triggers and thinking patterns.
Social
Social self-care is about connecting with others. This
type of self-care may look different for introverts
and extroverts, but a connection is essential to us all.
Spiritual
Spiritual self-care doesn’t necessarily have to relate
to religion, although it can for some people. It's about
nourishing your soul and seeking inner peace.
01 Find Your Workout
We all know that exercise is hugely beneficial to our
mental health but for some people, workouts can
actually trigger or intensify anxiety or feelings of
inadequacy. It can be helpful to let go of all of the
noise telling us which exercise is ‘best’ and instead,
just pay attention to what feels good in your body.
PHYSICAL SELF-CARE
03 Practice Self-Acceptance
We can often put an enormous pressure on ourselves
to know everything and to be perfect but there are
times when you don’t know the answer and there is
nothing wrong with that. Try to bring some self-
compassion and kindness to your self-talk and tell
yourself the things you might say to good friend who
was struggling.
01 Share your Experience
Sharing your imposter feelings can have a huge
impact on your mood. Some people benefit from
talking with a therapist, while others may find
comfort in confiding in a close friend or family
member. You may be surprised at how much better
you feel when you realise that you’re not alone in
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your suffering.
SOCIAL SELF-CARE
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impact on our mood, even after a quick scroll.
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SPIRITUAL SELF-CARE
03 Journal
Journaling can help us release stuck emotions and
makes sense of our feelings and is an excellent tool
for when we’re feeling overwhelmed. Because
imposter syndrome causes us to feel like a fraud and
constantly compare ourselves to others, we can
easily lose sight of our true needs and desires. When
this happens, the following journal prompt might help
you reconnect to your authentic self: ‘If you knew you
could never fail or be judged and criticised, what
would you do differently in your life?’
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