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Dear Friend,

Have you ever tried to speak a language you didn’t

know very well? If so, you know it can feel somewhat
awkward and uncomfortable. The more you learn
and practice though, the easier it becomes. The
same is true for speaking a love language that
doesn’t come naturally to you.

It’s easy to speak the language we are most

comfortable with or, perhaps, the language we prefer.
Making others feel loved in their own love language,
however, requires effort and intentionality. Why?
Because initially, if that is not our own love language,
it just doesn’t feel natural. But take heart—if you
remain consistent and continue to focus on loving
others well (in their love language), the awkwardness
will eventually wear off and you will be left with a
much closer relationship.

Warmly,

Dr. Gary Chapman

Author of The 5 Love Languages®
Discover your love language at 5lovelanguages.com

P.S. Let’s connect! Join me on Facebook, Twitter,

Instagram, or the new 5 Love Languages group on
Facebook.

Could you use a little creativity in speaking love and

appreciation to others? Here are a few suggestions
to inspire you:

WORDS OF AFFIRMATION: “My husband

goes to work an hour earlier than I do, and
he periodically leaves me an encouraging
note on the bathroom mirror. It always
makes me smile and warms my heart to
know he is thinking of me.” —Amy

ACTS OF SERVICE: “My husband's

primary language is Acts of Service.
Sometimes I purposefully like to clean all
the dishes, put them away, and have the
kitchen counter cleared off when he gets
home from work. Whenever he comes
home to a shiny counter and sink, his face
lights up and his shoulders relax. Then I
get a hug or kiss! (My primary language is
Physical Touch!)” —Sabrina

GIFTS: “Scents can be incredibly soothing

in these uncertain times. We have an
essential oil diffuser and it's almost always
on at our house. My family enjoys the
relaxing fragrances and the atmosphere it
sets. Whether it's a diffuser or a bottle of
essential oil, either can make a wonderful
gift!” —Zack

QUALITY TIME: “During the quarantine,

our department couldn't see each other.
Last Easter, we played an online game
together—a Scavenger Hunt. We formed
teams, each with a game master to send
us hunting for items in our homes. Once
we found them, each team member
posted selfies with the items. We played
this for three hours, and it was really fun!”
—Lisette

PHYSICAL TOUCH: “Each night when we

go to bed, my husband and I give each
other massages while we pray for one
another. We both love physical touch and
it is a nice way to end the night!”
—Stephanie

If you would like to suggest a creative way in which

you speak a particular love language, we'd love to
hear from you. Click here to send us your
suggestions.

Disclaimer: Any information or suggestions in this newsletter are for general

informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional,
counseling, legal and/or medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you require
professional, counseling, legal and/or medical advice, please consult a qualified
practitioner or therapist.

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