Ross Jeffries’

Speed Seduction®

“How To Meet Women

Anytime, Anywhere”
(10-Part Seduction Mastery Series)

Part 1:
It’s the Attitude that Counts

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 Hi, it’s Ross Jeffries. Welcome to the Beyond Dating Tips/Advice for Men
Mastery Series. This is Video 1 of 10 videos. The topic of this video is “With Women, It’s
the Attitude That Counts.” Here are some wrong attitudes for meeting women.

Before I tell you what works, let me warn you against what doesn’t work. I should
say that what doesn’t work is what’s done commonly by men and even taught be
society, movies and television. The media is constantly bombarding us with wrong
messages about what it takes to be successful with women.

Let’s get to the four attitudes that really don’t work very well when it comes to
meeting women.

Attitude 1 is desperation. “I have to make this work.” I’m sure you’ve experienced
that. You’ve seen some beautiful women and felt very lonely, and you thought, “I’ve got
to make this work.”

Attitude 2 that doesn’t work very well is despair. “I hope this works. I hope
something can work for me. I have to break out of this slump.” We’ve all been in that
place.

Attitude 3 is anger. “This had better work. Those bitches had better accept me.”
We’ve probably all been in that place or had times in our life where we felt like going to
that place.

Attitude 4 is lust. “My god, I can’t wait to work this in her.” Attraction to women is
fine, and a little bit of lust is fine. The problem is when you turn up your lust too much.
First of all, you’re giving off a bad vibe. Second, you can’t even hear yourself think
straight.

Here are the right attitudes to take. First of all, the best attitude is to say, “Let’s
go have some fun and find out what she’s like.” This is what I call a playful orientation

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and a learning orientation. It says, “I really don’t know what’s going to happen, but let’s
enjoy this and see.”

You’re not demanding that the woman respond in any particular way or that
reality give you a guarantee of certainty before you take a step. We’re going to get into
that in some of the later videos in the series. Instead, you say, “Let’s go have some fun
and find out what she’s like.”

Notice that this implies something else. It implies a screening orientation. When
you take on the attitude of “Let’s find out what she’s like,” you’re no longer having to
perform or win her over. You’re no longer thinking, “I have to get this girl,” or “I hope this
works.” Instead, it’s an opportunity for her to demonstrate to you that she has the
qualities you like. It’s bringing in selectivity and screening.

When you start to come from a place of screening women, then the whole
dynamic begins to turn in your favor, even if you don’t have a lot of, or any, social skills
yet. When you begin to turn that direction around and take on the position that you’re
going to screen women, then everything begins to shift in your favor.

This is really important. The meaning you give approaching women will
determine how you feel with it, around it and through it.

The meaning you give approaching women should not be that it’s a dangerous
task, “I could get really hurt here,” or it’s proof that you’re attractive to all women for all
time. If that one woman accepts you, it means all women everywhere are going to
accept you. If she rejects you, suddenly it means all women for all time are going to
reject you.

You’re putting a lot of pressure on yourself. You’re going to turn on the circuitry
for fear, for feeling under pressure, and for giving off bad vibes.

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 Take what I’m going to call the PLS mindset. PLS stands for Playful, Learning,
Screening. If you take on that orientation, the meaning you’re going to give approaching
women is that it’s an opportunity to have fun, learn something about them and increase
your skill set.

This is really important. Stop viewing it as something where you could be hurt or
something you have to do well at. If you can get rid of those two extremes and instead
put yourself solidly in the middle with a playful, learning, screening orientation, then
you’re going to start doing really well.

Notice what I’m not saying. I’m not telling you to aim at unbelievable confidence.
I’m not telling you to aim at being the slickest guy around. That’s the wrong thing to aim
for. I know that’s what many of you think you should aim at and what a lot of gurus tell
you that you should aim at, but it’s a mistake.

Remember a few things. These are some attitudes I’ve taken on that I’ve taught
thousands of students, and it’s really helped them.

The first attitude is that I never get rejected. I only discover if a woman has good
taste.

The second attitude is that 99% of the time, the worst thing that could happen is
that nothing will happen.

Let’s slow down and look at this really carefully. What do I mean by that? First of
all, I don’t mean that 99% of the time when you approach women, something bad will
happen. I’m saying that when something does happen that you don’t like, the woman is
not going to scream at you, point at you or laugh at you. She’s not going to call all her
friends over to laugh at you. She’s not going to call you names.

I’ve approached thousands of women. In the few circumstances where they

didn’t respond well, 99% of those times, nothing happened. They just didn’t respond.

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They’re not going to yell at you. They’ll simply look at you, ignore you or not say
anything. Big deal.

The image you may have had in your mind that women are cold, rejecting or
looking to hurt men is a Hollywood stereotype. One of the things I’ll encourage you to do
is look to see how the popular media has programmed you with all sorts of ideas that
really don’t serve you, and they’re not based on any reality.

The final attitude I’ll tell you about is one woman, one vote. A lot of guys think
that if they’re rejected by an attractive woman, that attractive woman has some kind of
universal telepathic communication system. The minute she rejects you, every beautiful
woman all over the world instantly gets that message from her, and they’re all going to
reject you.

Remember that on Election Day, that beautiful girl gets the same number of
votes you do and the same number of votes as the ugly girl. She gets one. If you ever
start to attach too much importance or meaning to approaching any particular woman,
remember one woman, one vote.

I want to encourage you to get your five-part Speed Seduction® sexual language
course right now. I have online a five-part video course with over two hours of video that
will teach you how to use the Speed Seduction® language patterns to get women really
hot and bothered.

The URL you should go to is www.Seduction4Free.com. That course is waiting

for you. It’s packed with fantastic information you can use right now today to get and
have incredible satisfaction with the women you want. I hope to see you on the site.

Remember, this is Video 1 of 10. There are nine more videos in this
series.

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