The life of a teenager

well I think we can start by saying that it is the most difficult stage that one has to go
through in his life, and probably also one of the best.
We can talk about parents believing that we don't have problems, we invent our things, or
we make them so big when they are minimal. But in these times things have changed too
much and it is not fair that parents minimize our problems for not believing in us and
accepting reality, but there are so many real problems and here we will talk about all of
them.
We will start with the insecurities that parents unconsciously cause their children, such as
"stop eating, you're going to get fat" or something like "those clothes look very bad on you
take those off" as a joke, but it is not a very funny joke. or something very painful and
hurtful such as comparing them with other teenagers who are "better" for not doing the
things they do and doing the things that are "ok" and the comparison with siblings, cousins,
friends can become much worse .
Comparisons towards them is a way of making them feel insufficient, without self-esteem,
trying to see how to do things right and not disappoint people again, they just try to give
their best in everything they do and do. a great effort for a minimum word, like "son, I'm
proud of you" sometimes they are the only words they would like to hear to feel better, in
addition to the fact that affection is also super necessary at home like "I love you daughter"
"I love you son "because it makes them feel so good.