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Toddler
By
Michelle Tangeman, LMFT, BCBA
Thriving
Toddler
Copyright © 2022
Thriving Toddler
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Hi there!
Separation anxiety is really kicking in and I'm sure you could use a
little extra free time...
They want our attention - all of it - and they want it all the time. Some
days, it can feel nearly impossible to get anything done besides
playing yet another round of tea party or dinosaur attack.
If you're like many parents, this isn't exactly what you were picturing
when you thought about life as a parent. Perhaps you saw yourself
making delicious, healthy meals while your kids played happily in the
playroom. Maybe you thought you'd start your mornings with a quiet
yoga practice (one without kids climbing all over you).
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WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS
OF INDEPENDENT PLAY?
Emotional Regulation
Imagination
Social independence skill mastery
School skills
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HOW MUCH TIME SHOULD I EXPECT MY
BABY/TODDLER TO PLAY
The more motivated the child is, the longer they will
stay engaged in the activity. Between 6-9 months, a
baby might show interest anywhere from a few
seconds to 2-3 minutes. Between 13-18 months, they
will play alone for up to 15 minutes. The duration of
time increases as your child gets older and they
become more skilled at independent play.
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WHAT SKILLS DOES MY BABY/TODDLER NEED?
6-9 months
Overcomes an obstacle to get a toy
Plays with a variety of toys to produce
a desired effect
Drops objects systematically
9-12 months
Throws objects
Moves to regain an item and resumes play
Takes items in and out of a container
Enjoys looking at pictures in a book
Plays with stacking rings and takes ring
stacker apart.
Continued...
13-17 months
Plays with a ball cooperatively
Shares a toy and hands it back to an adult
Plays alone for about 15 minutes
18-24 months
Puts a toy away in the correct place
Plays with play-doh and paint
Paints within the limits of paper
Continued...
2-3 years
Experiments with cause and effect during
play
Independently completes a 5-6 piece
interconnected puzzle
Builds a tower of blocks independently
4 years
Plays with board games, crafts, and other
constructive projects.
Imitates block patterns up to 15 blocks.
Independently completes an 8-12 piece
interconnected puzzle.
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- I like TimeTimer.
-To set both you and your child up for success, start
with short amounts of time (5 minutes or so) and
build on that each day as they get more and more
comfortable with playing on their own.
-Create clear expectations and boundaries around
independent play such as, "while you are here and
the timer is going, please stay in this area. When the
timer goes off, you may come and get me."
5. Be consistent. Do it daily.
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1.
ABC's of Behavior & Toddlerhood
This online course dives deeper into the
motivations behind toddler behavior. You'll learn
how to support your little one through big
feelings and build the confidence you need to
navigate all things toddlerhood. LEARN MORE
2.
Backpocket Essentials
This online course is the parenting toolkit you'll
use forever. Get effective, evidence-based
positive parenting tips and tools to help you in the
toddler years and beyond. LEARN MORE
3.
Playing With Intention
One of the best ways to teach alternative
behaviors is through play. In this online course,
you'll explore play activities (and toys!) that
support development and discover the power of
intentional play. LEARN MORE
4.
Personalized Q&A
Need more support with challenging behaviors?
Book a live Q&A session with me to get your
questions answered or sign up for my Q&A
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plus full access to my resource library.
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