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As you respond to the questions yourself, take the time to compare your
answers with each other. Talk about similarities in your responses. In
areas where you have opposing views or different goals, take the time
enrich this experience by exploring those differences further.
Once you complete the course, you can email the completed PDF file
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BALANCING VALUES, CAREERS, AND PRACTICAL ISSUES
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BALANCING VALUES, CAREERS, AND PRACTICAL ISSUES
This is about your perspective about these topics regarding your fiancée.
1. Do I feel that having a career is important to her?
4. What does my fiancée do that shows I am her priority? What would I like
her to continue to do throughout our marriage to maintain that honor and
respect?
She listens to me when I need to decompress. Also, I always have the support I
need with her.
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BALANCING VALUES, CAREERS, AND PRACTICAL ISSUES
Once you have both completed the first two pages of Balancing Values,
Careers and Practical Issues on your own, come together for an open
and honest discussion about how you answered each question on those
previous pages. Remember, there are no right or wrong answers here… this
is about you and your relationship!
of us
2. Roles and responsibilities may evolve throughout your marriage. How will
you work to break down barriers caused by changing expectations?
we will take to each other about our responsibilities as a couple and what is
needed. We will be open with each other when we do not agree and talk it out.
3. When challenging situations arise, will you lean on each other, seek
guidance from friends and family, and/or take advantage of a professional
marriage counselor/consultant?
we will talk with each other when challenging situations arise. if we need additional
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Money Matters
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1. Am I a saver or a spender?
Explain:
I am a saver, I like to save for emergency and invest if possible. Also, I truly
Explain:
It is important and I try to learn better ways on how to manage my money.
Explain:
Yes, specially for preparing future kids for college so they do not have to take out
Explain:
It is so we are aware what our expenses are and a month with higher expenses
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Money Matters
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This is about your perspective about these topics regarding your fiancée.
1. Do I think she is a saver or a spender?
Explain:
Spender, she saves also but she tends to spend easier than me.
Explain:
it is important but I tend to take it more serious.
Explain:
Yes, it is we have similar goals when it comes to financial goals.
Explain:
Yes, to be able to safe for future needs.
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Money Matters
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Once you have both completed the first two pages of Money Matters on
your own, come together for an open and honest discussion about how
you answered each question on those previous pages. Remember, there
are no right or wrong answers here… this is about you and your relationship!
personal use.
4. What are our top financial goals? (For example: saving for a home,
paying off debt, emergency savings, vacation savings, retirement savings,
etc.)
to be able to have enough assets to retire without worrying about money.
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Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy
Why?
My torso since I am not 100% in shape.
Why?
my eyes and teeth.
I delete social media often to focus on personal growth and things that
actually matter.
Opposite-Sex Friendships/Interactions:
Female friends know that I am engage and respect that.
Do not keep communication with any.
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Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy
This is about your perspective about these topics regarding your fiancée.
1. What do I feel my fiancée finds most attractive about me?
my personality.
None, social media distracts her.
Opposite-Sex Friendships/Interactions:
I trust her
I trust her and know no lines will be crossed.
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Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy
Once you have both completed the first two pages of Healthy Sexuality
and Intimacy on your own, come together for an open and honest
discussion about how you answered each question on those previous
pages. Remember, there are no right or wrong answers here… this is about
you and your relationship!
4. Which spiritual aspects and practices will bring us closer in our marital
intimacy?
having the open lines of communication and always being there for each other and
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Communication and Conflict Resolution
1. Are there any topics of conversation that are difficult for me to discuss? If
so, what are they, and what can I do to make it easier to discuss those topics?
Money can be difficult but we always find ways to talk about everything.
2. Are there topics of conversation that I can discuss easily? If so, what are
they?
friends, family and intimacy are easy topics to discuss.
3. Am I a good listener?
I am a good listener and like to help find solutions to problems.
I am, I trust her and am comfortable talking with her about anything.
5. Do I talk to family and/or friends first before trying to resolve a conflict with
my fiancée? How could that potentially be a problem?
I am always up front about any issues. I have close friends I can talk and vent if
necessary.
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Communication and Conflict Resolution
This is about your perspective about these topics regarding your fiancée.
1. Do I feel that there are any topics of conversation my fiancée finds difficult
to discuss? If so, how can I help to make those topics easier to discuss?
Money tends to be difficult.
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Communication and Conflict Resolution
Once you have both completed the first two pages of Communication and
Conflict Resolution on your own, come together for an open and honest
discussion about how you answered each question on those previous
pages. Remember, there are no right or wrong answers here… this is about
you and your relationship!
1. There are many ways that we communicate with each other. How do you
effectively or ineffectively use the following communication skills?
Words:
Actions:
pointing at things
2. How well do you handle yourselves when conflict occurs? In what areas
can you both improve?
we try to have a clear mind when we talk to each other and if we are heated take a
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Family of Origin
1. Are there any boundaries that I expect from my fiancée’s family of origin?
To have the same level of respec towards her daughter as if it was my own
daughter.
3. Who are the most influential people (for better or for worse) that make up
my family of origin?
Erveryone in my family have inflenced me to be a better person.
4. What are the positive and the negative traits and traditions that are
evident within my family of origin?
Positive:
Negative:
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Family of Origin
This is about your perspective about these topics regarding your fiancée.
1. Are there any boundaries that I feel my fiancée has regarding my family of
origin?
notifying before any visit.
3. Who are the most influential people that I know of (for better or for worse)
that make up my fiancée’s family of origin?
her parents and brother.
4. What are the positive and the negative traits and traditions that I see
within my fiancée’s family of origin?
Positive:
Negative:
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Family of Origin
Once you have both completed the first two pages of Family of Origin on
your own, come together for an open and honest discussion about how
you answered each question on those previous pages. Remember, there
are no right or wrong answers here… this is about you and your relationship!
1. How do you believe your families, traditions, and childhood will impact your
married life?
i believe our family and traditions are our foundation and we will build on them
when raise our families
2. Will your involvement in each other’s family traditions stay the same or
change? Will you begin new traditions?
Explain:
our involvement will change into our own traditions that will be based on our family
traditions
3. Are your views regarding boundaries in each other’s family of origin the
same? If not, how do you plan on respecting each other’s wishes?
our boundaries are the same and if things change we will talk about each of our
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Natural Family Planning (NFP)
Yes No
Yes No
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Natural Family Planning (NFP)
Yes No
Explain:
I am open to the conversation.
Yes No
Fiance.
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Natural Family Planning (NFP)
Yes No
11. The reasons I believe (or do not believe) in the practice of NFP are:
I beleive in being economically stable to have a kid and not depend on the
Government's help to support my own family.
12. Do I wish to learn more about NFP and practice it in our married life?
Yes No
Yes No
Postpone pregnancy
Achieve pregnancy
Both
A. mutual communication
B. It promotes good health
C. teaches marital intimacy
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Natural Family Planning (NFP)
16. What are the fundamental differences between artificial birth control and
Natural Family Planning?
both are a choice of the person and has to be respected.
18. Concerns about the harmful side effects of artificial birth control are:
Yes No
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Natural Family Planning (NFP)
Times of Abstinence:
when needed.
21. I believe times of abstinence will strengthen our marital bond because:
we can get to know each other better in different ways.
22. What are the four methods of NFP mentioned in the video?
A.
temperature method
B.
calendar method
C.
cervical mucus method
D.
winthdraw method
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Theology and Spirituality of Marriage
1. The Catechism of the Catholic Church tells us that we are created to “know
and love God” — how can I know Him and love Him better?
by prayer
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Theology and Spirituality of Marriage
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Theology and Spirituality of Marriage
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Theology and Spirituality of Marriage
This is about your perspective about these topics regarding your fiancée.
1. How do I see God at work in the life of my fiancée?
Things happen in my life that ended up leaving me in the path to my fiance.
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Theology and Spirituality of Marriage
This is about your perspective about these topics regarding your fiancée.
4. What I admire about my fiancée’s relationship with God is:
overall she is an amazing person.
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Theology and Spirituality of Marriage
Once you have both completed the first two pages of Theology of
Marriage on your own, come together for an open and honest discussion
about how you answered each question on those previous pages.
Remember, there are no right or wrong answers here… this is about you
and your relationship!
2. Tell each other how you plan to include God in your marriage. Be specific.
Write your answer below.
we plan to be open to the community and provide help to our own community
which embraces God's plan.
3. Share with each other any concerns, questions, reservations you may have
about being open to life. Be honest! Write your collective answers below.
life can through us challenges that we have not faced before or maybe did not
think before so learning how to handle those situations and continue to love each
other and date each other throughout our marriage.
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Notes
Use this page for any extra notes you may have.
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