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In Love With Pain
In Love With Pain
VENTUM
Dedication
Let me
tell you what
makes my heart
feel really heavy.
This is for all the ones,
who lost their lives because
of useless wars, all the ones
whose chapters were filled
with blood , instead of love.
Warning
Spoiler:
The night comes, and the monster in me awakes. I put on a mask and simply
call him ventum. This is when the moon cannot save me and the sun is on the
other side, when stars are nothing but stars. When the dark tears me apart, I
sit there asking: What makes me numb? What makes me depressed? From
the outside, it looks like a boy holding a pen, putting on a smile, but the mask
lies. Within me, the soul cries, and the more I think, the more I write, the
more I hurt, the more I feel alive. My mind gets dark and deep. I pick up
words and put them into poems. These are the secrets he and I keep, we
become one, and the more we write, the less we sleep. This is where he takes
over and becomes my voice in my silence. This is when all I have ever been
meets the little boy, the man, the lover, the hurter, and the monster, all in one,
in the darkest, most terrible place you’ll ever find. This is when I find
comfort in all of the chaos, in the darkness. He might be a monster, but
maybe I am too. Maybe he became me—perhaps I am the mask and he is me
—but whatever he is, this is, it saves me, because despite all these dark
nights, he’s the one that left a light on.
GLIMPSES
—ventum
THE YOUNG WRITER
—ventum
LOST
I am lost,
numb inside.
I choose to hide
in a sea of ink
where I have
been drowning
over many years.
Find me
in the depths
of these waters,
where love lies
on the ground,
where I don’t
fear being lost,
but being found.
—ventum
WHEN I WRITE
there is a child
living in my heart,
and in the silence,
when it skips a beat,
you can hear him whisper,
stop, we are not safe.
this is when I put on a mask,
rip myself and words apart,
when I open up these scars,
when they are within,
not seen but felt.
stop, we are not safe.
this is when suffering does
not wear a name or face.
when I rip words apart,
rip them in two,
he whispers, stop,
and with every word,
I rip a part of him too.
—ventum
OLD SOUL
I am an old soul.
love is what i have,
and what i don’t.
carry it within,
deep within,
but perhaps it is,
too much
for this world.
that’s why
I don’t have it.
I see love,
and I carry it within
as the thing it is
pure rawness,
and this is why
I don’t fit in.
I am a too old a soul
in a too-young world.
—ventum
T W O M O M E N T S , A B E AT
I exist in
two seconds,
two moments,
within a beat,
within a skip.
this is how I love.
this is what I am,
this where I exist.
within an ordinary beat,
and a skip of madness.
—ventum
DREAMER
I am a dreamer,
neither lost nor found,
waiting for a story
worth dreaming forever.
—ventum
H E A RT S & SOULS
I walk
on the ashes
of my heart
because I carry
the fire in my soul.
hearts become ashes;
souls burn forever.
—ventum
L O N E LY
—ventum
CURSED, BLESSED
—ventum
2:27 A . M .| FEARS
I don’t have many of them, but let’s talk about the silly fears I had as a
child. Like thunder. I was always scared of it. If there was a storm, I
couldn’t sleep the whole night. That changed when I grew up, though. I
love the rain and storms, but that’s another story. My fears changed when
I grew up, thanks to love. I didn’t have as many fears in the beginning of
adulthood. Then pain cut deep. First, I developed a fear of losing, then I
became jealous. And at some point, I feared love. I wish I could say that
changed, like my fear of thunder, but some storms hold on longer.
Dammit, already five minutes gone. It’s 2:32 a.m. now. I probably should
go to sleep. Oh wait. There is this fear which—but wait, I am not ready
for that. Let’s leave that out. I have a fear of losing my parents, which is
normal, I guess. Related to family, I feared not having one of my own
once. I am a simple guy. I’ve never wanted to be famous. I just want to be
known by one person, and I often fear I won’t be. Four minutes gone
again. It’s 2:36 a.m. now, which makes me go to my last and biggest fear.
You know what they say, “time is the only thing we have, and don’t.” Such a
painful thought, to think you never know how much you have left. As I said,
I don’t fear death, but I fear time. I fear time so much. Why? Because we
can’t control it. Nobody can. It doesn’t matter who you are, how much you
have, what you’ve done, good or bad—time doesn’t wait. As I said, I don’t
have many fears, but it’s already 2:40 a.m., and I should really sleep now.
Just a note, while I lost about fifteen minutes by writing this, you lost some
too while reading or even re-reading it, which was a waste. You lost a bit of
time, and I can’t give it back to you. Nobody can. Some stories are pointless
to read twice, some lovers don’t deserve a second chance, and some friends
don’t deserve it either. Time doesn’t wait, time doesn’t say, “Okay, let’s stop
and try again.” It doesn’t choose the crowds you are surrounded by; it just
fades away, and it never comes back, but all the things that time doesn’t do,
you can. I can’t give the time back to you, but what I can do is change my
lost time into words that may change your mind-set and hopefully have a
positive effect.
—ventum
HOPE
suffering today,
loving the very next.
—ventum
LIFE
—ventum
TIME
—ventum
WASTED YOUTH
What I had wrapped in my hands was the youth that slipped away, as it was
never mine. I am afraid to say that I have wasted too many years trying to
make them happy while building a prison of thoughts in my mind, a cage I
could never escape. I realized it but too late, and I wished I wasted that youth
more on smiles and laughs. But I didn’t, and that’s why I hold nothing today
but a key to my prison. What I hold tightly today is not my youth but my
wisdom.
—ventum
FRAGILE
—ventum
TO O M U C H
I often feel
too much,
but sometimes
I feel everything
all at once,
and that’s where
my heart almost
falls apart.
—ventum
SOMETIMES
—ventum
“LISTEN”
I
hear
jealousy
whispering,
this
lying
manipulative
asshole.
—ventum
ALMOST
this is my war,
I let it come close,
but it never kills me,
so it ends as it
always does—
almost.
—ventum
IF I WOULD ASK YOU
Does pain make you, or do you make it? Would you choose between them, or
would you choose both like me? I made it, and it made me. Life isn’t just
about love, but pain as well. Both of them go hand in hand. And this is the
whole beautiful, terrifying chaos about it; sometimes I can control the pain,
and sometimes I can’t. I have realized that I eventually never heal but just
keep it within me. I’ve learned to live with it. To go with it. To just let it be. I
found comfort in the pain. And in the end, pain is just a thing I choose to
feed, and love is a thing I often seek. The only difference is they don’t exist
at the same time. When one is awake, and when the other is asleep.
—ventum
LOVE
PA I N
(read from the bottom)
—ventum
A S A D S TO RY
I caught
my heart breaking
while I was smiling.
such a shame.
—ventum
THE IRONY
—ventum
LIVING FOREVER
there is this
very tragic story
about two lovers,
where the girl says,
dying young is beautiful;
they’ll remember you that way.
but the boy
feared losing her,
so he made her the muse,
and the world should know it,
she lived forever,
and he died the day
he became the poet.
—ventum
I D O N ’ T C H A S E S TA R S
Isn’t it foolish,
how I write about
stars all my life
but never chase them?
it would be if I could,
but I can’t chase stars.
I could dedicate all
the time I have, and
I wouldn’t even make
it near to them, and
even if I could they
would burn me alive.
but I can sit in the darkness
and suffer among them,
accepting that chasing them
would be the death of me.
I would chase a love
that never can be.
so these are what’s left,
the night and the
beautiful view that
make my heart
break in two.
I can’t chase stars,
I can’t chase you.
—ventum
TO X I C
when I loved,
it wasn’t enough.
when I was there
all the time,
it wasn’t enough.
when I was the
best of me,
it wasn’t enough.
I choose to,
hurt you,
destroy you,
break you.
so when I finally
had enough and left,
you came back,
just because
I was once
like them.
—ventum
T H E H E A RT B R E A K
I have come to
realize that mornings
destroy me the most.
right after I wake up
is when I feel numb.
—ventum
KILL ME
—ventum
SUN AND MOON
there is a story
about these two
that the world isn’t
brave enough to write.
the moon is
cold and hurting,
while the sun is in
his pain, burning.
and once in a while
they meet, but too rarely
to call it love.
so, the world
calls those moments
eclipses instead,
moon and sun
trying to collide
while we just
see a red light.
and perhaps,
they almost do.
but they never will,
and the saddest part
about these two:
they never knew.
—ventum
SWEET LIPS
I fear lips
that taste like honey
but speak bitterly.
—ventum
IN THE MORNING
—ventum
DROWNING
—ventum
BIRD SET FREE
just because
you let a bird
out of a cage
doesn’t mean
it is free.
perhaps
there is a
bigger cage.
—ventum
F E AT H E R I N T H E W I N D
As years went by, I always thought I was a lost feather caught within the
forces of the air. I thought that love came in the blowing wind, because this is
what I was always told. I can’t control it. I am too lost, too hard to love. But I
found out that my love is wild, and when you try to tame it, I get destructive.
I am all the forces that can’t be controlled, that seek to be free. I am not lost;
in fact, you lost me. I am the love you will seek, but also the one you will
never find, for you tried to control the feather, but I was always the wind.
—ventum
S TA R D U S T
at the end,
I never left pieces,
but always dust.
you will remember me,
for the star I was,
burning for love,
and you will see
not everyone can be.
—ventum
AT O T H E R T I M E S
I think of death
and my breath is calm,
knowing I will find peace.
that makes me think
of you and the moment
you left. something in me
was dying, but my breath
was calm, because I knew
there would be peace after you.
—ventum
DEPTH
—ventum
A L L Y O U E V E R WA N T E D
there it was,
all you ever wanted,
my heart begging
having so much to say,
there it was,
all you ever wanted,
leaving rather than to stay.
—ventum
N O T M E A N T TO B E
what we lacked,
was the rhyme.
when i was the night,
you were the day,
and when you
were the light,
I was darkness.
but if we had said
words differently,
like you are the light
and I am the night.
—the rhyme was missing.
—ventum
THE BIRD
When I was a child, we found a newborn bird in the garden. Sadly, the
mother was dead, so we took him in our house and read about how to care for
it. We made him a nest in the beginning when he couldn’t fly yet. After a few
weeks, he started to fly a bit, so we bought him a cage but let him fly around
a few times a day. After he got too big, we let him out to be free. I don’t
know if this is painful or beautiful, but even when set free, he always came
back and slept on our windows. He was always around, and perhaps this is
love. Once you’ve really felt it, you never let it go.
—ventum
HOME
I wandered
on the edges
of the galaxies
half a universe away
just to find out
nothing leads me to you.
—ventum
DANCING WITH YOUR GHOST
—ventum
SWEET & BITTER
I wonder,
were you bitter to them,
or were you sweet
and they tasted bitter?
if so, that’s funny because
I turned bitter, and that
made me think of you.
I wonder, as you turned
sweet and they hurt you,
did I cross your mind too?
—ventum
SLEEP
—ventum
ECHOES
in the most
silent moments,
when the heart
is the loudest,
you can hear
the feelings
that never left,
like echoes
that come back.
—ventum
ONCE IN A WHILE
—ventum
LOOKS
we fall
for what we see.
even though
the universe has
an endless depth,
we choose,
too often,
the beauty
of the moon
as to discover the
depth of a soul.
—ventum
H E L L , A N D H E AV E N
Sometimes you fall in love and there is so much fire that hearts and souls
burn, that kissing feels like a storm of fire taking over and touching skin
burns your hands. There is just so much fire that loving someone hurts like
hell. And eventually, two become one. This is when love becomes a whole
mess. One day you are cold, the other day burning, because of passion. This
is when lovers become sinners—caught in each other’s hell, and heaven.
—ventum
FIRE
—ventum
SINNER
—ventum
K N O W N TO B E C O L D
—ventum
BURNED SKIN
—ventum
THE BURNING ANGEL
—ventum
FLAMES
—ventum
THE SIN
we wanted to love
each other so much
that when the other didn’t,
we still tried.
—ventum
TWO LOVERS
but
in the end
we were two lovers
in hell and paradise,
making sins in the name of love,
growing a desire to burn passionately in fire.
—ventum
BEAUTIFUL
What she had been through never really bothered her. Even though the
world often didn’t love her, it was the world she fell hopelessly in love
with. She knew nothing should be taken for granted and appreciated
everything that came to her. Even when she was hurting, she let it hurt until
it went away. She was the most peace I have known, and she walked in all
of it, as if she was just an ordinary girl. But she was the most beautiful, not
in just how she looked, but in how she thought.
—ventum
HER MIND
—ventum
FREEDOM
—ventum
WILDFLOWER
—ventum
HER
—ventum
A L L S TO R M S
—ventum
SHE’S
—ventum
A RT
—ventum
SHE NEVER MADE SENSE
she’s beautifully
out of this world,
belonging to dreams,
breathing stories
we can’t get
from this poem.
beautifully out of place,
it never made sense.
she never made sense.
—ventum
M A D E O F FA I RY TA L E S
oh darling,
show them your eyes
and the fairytales within—
the dragons and all that’s tragic.
show them your smile—
the world loves magic.
—ventum
UNIVERSE
she leaves
dust of her heart
everywhere she goes.
she’s at peace
with the universe
in her mind
that has the
depth of the galaxies,
with a soul in the
shades of dark,
eyes full of stars.
—ventum
TELL US ABOUT HER
—ventum
HALF OF IT
—ventum
ROSES
—ventum
HER SMILE
is beautifully terrifying.
its where she reveals
sadness and happiness,
and it just doesn’t make sense.
—ventum
T H E S TA R S
—ventum
WITHIN HERSELF
—ventum
AS FREE AS THE OCEAN
—ventum
WAV E S
the ocean
you once knew
became a sea.
she lost some
of her depth
but found peace
in the still waters,
and she is never
coming back.
—ventum
N AT U R E
—ventum
D E A R , S O U L M AT E
I don’t know you, neither do I know if we are similar or made of the same
things. But I do know, the universe, will push us towards each other, but till
then I can just imagine, how you look like, how you feel like and I wonder if
your hair will be straight, curly or just a bit wavy, how soft your skin, and
tender your voice will be. If you have dimples next to your smile, or freckles
beneath your eyes. I wonder, if they look like all the places I never been. And
yet all of this doesn’t matter, to how breathtaking your love must be, that just
a gasp of air, must feel like forever. The rhythm of your heart must be the
perfect symphony to mine, looking at you, must feel like the universe,
dancing to words, galaxies turning into poems. This is what you must be, the
peace, calming the war within.
—ventum
A LETTER
to the women,
I haven’t met yet,
I don’t know
where you live,
but I do know
where you exist:
on the edge
of these letters,
on white paper,
within the space
where the ink is
separated and the
melancholy stops,
where breaths of
hope are taken
in the space of bliss.
I don’t know where you live,
but where you exist is this.
—ventum
ALL THIS TIME
—ventum
W H AT I S L O V E ?
—ventum
YOU AND ME
—ventum
LOVE
we were fools,
falling for smiles
and laughter—
fools
for the
very thing
that made
us think
that love,
only love,
stops time.
—ventum
THE LOVER, THE KILLER
in a matter of seconds
before bullets of love hit me,
right before your finger slips,
before it breaks my bones
right through my skin,
I become the lover,
and you the killer.
this is when
my heart begs,
smile again—
pull the trigger.
—ventum
S O U L M AT E S
we smile
at each other
when our hearts skip,
laugh when it starts,
lovers with broken souls
and laughing hearts.
—ventum
CONSTELLATIONS
I feel lost.
oh darling,
that’s how stars love.
—ventum
SOMETIMES
love is falling,
trying to fly,
but oh boy,
once you fly…
—ventum
A FEW, A LITTLE
all we want is
a few smiles,
a few laughs,
a little bit of rain,
a little bit of sun,
a few little moments
to live, to love.
—ventum
BLOOMING
—ventum
TWO WORLDS
two worlds
falling apart,
colliding into one—
love is such a disaster.
—ventum
HOLDING YOU
I am the hand
that holds you
when your world
breaks in two.
—ventum
HORIZON
in a time
where love seems
to have no depth,
you sit there in the
shallow of the seas,
asking how you could
fall for me.
I share
the weakness of
the sun and moon.
when you smile,
when you laugh,
as love can
make you do,
is when I fall
for the ocean
that is you.
—ventum
FOREVER
—ventum
ECLIPSE
—ventum
WAV E S
—ventum
DRUNK POET
every time
you told yourself,
I am not enough,
it was as you filled these
words into an empty bottle.
this is when you made me
completely drunk in love.
poems never tasted as good,
and I was always too drunk
to explain how much
you really were.
—ventum
LETTING GO
Don’t let it go. Hold onto it. Let it hurt. The truth is, you can’t choose either
way. Fighting it will create an even bigger war. Don’t reverse progress that
has already been made because there is nothing like just letting go and being
free. Whoever says otherwise is lying. You need to feel pain as you feel love.
And that will hurt. You will feel numb, sometimes more, sometimes less, and
on some days, you will laugh and feel joy. And when you think, finally, it’s
going to get better, it comes back, and destroys you in ways you thought
words, memories, and moments never could. Breathing will seem like a
challenge. You’ll feel weak because healing seems like such a weak thing to
do. This will go on for weeks and months, and it will feel like forever, and
even then, you never will be the same as before. I think if someone leaves, a
big part of us will leave with them, and I think you never truly heal. You
learn to live with it. It won’t hurt, but you will always remember. That’s
when wounds become scars. But don’t let it go. Let it hurt. Growth starts not
with forgetting but accepting.
—ventum
THE FIGHT
—ventum
M I S TA K E N
you have
mistaken me
for a love to just
keep around,
but you don’t
just keep
flowers around
and then ask
why they aren’t
growing.
—ventum
PAT I E N C E
love me
with patience.
I wasn’t born
without a heart.
I am not cold.
I am still learning
to feel it again.
maybe not tonight, but
perhaps tomorrow,
I’ll find the light.
—ventum
BLAME
there is a time
when you hurt,
there is a time
when you heal,
there is a time
when you feel,
but there is never
a wrong time.
do not blame
a decision on time.
—ventum
L E AV I N G L O V E
—ventum
TO O L AT E
I am afraid
to say we already
have planted seeds
from which our children
will reap poison.
—ventum
WORST KIND
—ventum
LOVE IS NOT A GAME
but if it is,
and you are playing,
you are already losing.
—ventum
HOW OFTEN CAN A HEART BREAK?
—ventum
W H E N T H E Y L E AV E
—ventum
THE WORLD ENDS
—ventum
POISON
—ventum
WOUNDS
sometimes
they cut too deep
to forgive or forget.
—ventum
ITS NOT
don’t tell
yourself
it’s love.
you being
hurt is not
how they love.
it’s just you hurting.
—ventum
POWER
—ventum
THINGS CHANGE
—ventum
BALANCE
—ventum
ALL, HALF, NOTHING
it’s okay
to feel it all.
it’s okay
to feel half,
or nothing at all.
—ventum
BETTER
often
there is a much
better love,
a much bigger
picture
than what you
have the
pieces for
right now.
—ventum
B R AV E
—ventum
L E T I T H U RT
—ventum
AGAIN AND AGAIN
—ventum
LONG & S H O RT
—ventum
I LOST YOU
in the place
where love
once grew
AND
in the pieces
that were not
enough for you.
I FOUND ME.
who would’ve
thought losing you,
would set me free.
—ventum
BUT DEAR
—ventum
WEAKNESS
—ventum
O V E RT H I N K I N G
you’ll break,
fall apart,
and when you do,
you’ll overthink it.
it will feel like drowning
within a sea.
but trust me,
you’ll heal.
first you drown,
but then you’ll be free.
—ventum
WOUNDS BECOME SCARS
—ventum
L I F E A N D T H E S TO R I E S
Don’t think you have already written some lines, filled some of the pages, or
even ended a few chapters. The reality is you didn’t even start writing. This
book doesn’t start when you are born or with the first heartbreak or first love.
Everything up to now doesn’t matter if beauty or pain are always outside the
book. Your book doesn’t start with all of this; it starts when all of what was
makes sense.
—ventum
SELF-LOVE
—ventum
I HOPE
—ventum
S A M E FA C E
once you
fall in love
with yourself,
they will get
a glimpse of life
on the exact same face
that was struggling to smile.
that’s when the world
falls in love with you.
—ventum
OH DARLING
—ventum
RIVERS
like rivers,
we end up
where we
always were
meant to go.
—ventum
L E T Y O U R H E A RT K N O W
as long as it beats,
as long as it feels,
it is alive.
you are alive.
and as long
there is life,
there is love,
there is hope,
there is you.
—ventum
CHAPTERS?
I thought to put this book in chapters, but why? Life doesn’t work in
chapters. You heal today, hurt tomorrow, or hurt today and heal tomorrow. It
doesn’t work in falling, loving hurting and at the end, healing. Sometimes
you fall but don’t love, or you hurt for a long, long time till you feel a release.
Sometimes you heal and don’t fall for many years. Often, all this repeats over
and over again You can’t just turn the page and move on. The truth isn’t that
simple. Sometimes you will feel more, sometimes less. It takes a damn long
time to go through it, and you will change along the way. That is part of
growing, so why should I put walls between who I was and who I am? All
that was is still a part of me and always will be. Sometimes it is about finding
comfort in the mess, not ordering it. That’s why I decided to make this book a
whole mess, because in the end, it is a mirror of my soul and heart.
—ventum
P O E T RY
—ventum
L O V E S TO RY
—ventum
WRITING
putting it on
paper is a relief,
the writer said.
this is when
I was shocked,
in disbelief, thinking,
I must be a poet then.
—ventum
OLD & YOUNG
—ventum
TO Y O U N G W R I T E R S
Before you pick up the pen and put it on paper, I want you to know that there
is no such thing as the perfect prose or the perfect poems. I want you to know
that there will be things that someone already said, already wrote, already
used, but it’s not about the words; it’s about the voice that says them, the
mind that thinks them, the heart that feels them. I don’t have many things to
say about how to start writing. Just know that by taking this step, you are
walking into eternity; think about what you write, what you say, what you
use. A writer’s first words, first lyrics, first poem can be something great. It
can be a voice that nobody has ever heard but always needed to listen to.
Words are the most powerful weapon every human has within. Without
words, there wouldn’t be actions. You never know how much of a difference
a few words, can make to a soul, a heart, or even the world. You never know
how great your words can be, how great you can be. If you have something to
say, write it. Write it loud
—ventum
BAD HABITS
—ventum
TO B E F E LT
—ventum
ADDICTED
—ventum
THE READERS
—ventum
S TO R I E S
I believe
we die
many times
in our lives,
most often
while reading
or writing.
I believe
at the end
of a story
the writer and
the reader die.
—ventum
THINGS POETS DON’T WRITE
There are things nobody wants to say: That love can be an ugly thing. That
you’ll hurt a long time and won’t fully heal from it. That there is quite a pain
that will follow you day and night. That you just cannot let go that easily.
There are poems we don’t want to write: That the moon is gone more often
than that it is full. That the sun is just another star of many. That the universe
could have an end. That storms are not always beautiful (and usually just
destroy). That the ocean is not endless. That flowers don’t last forever, and
that roses are more painful than beautiful. That chaos is a terrible thing and
being a mess was never healthy for a relationship. That wildness was never
good for lovers. That life is not forever. These are all the things writers don’t
dare to write. Because writers fear reality. Writers are just kids, living in their
own imaginations, far away from reality, and readers just pay for the show.
—ventum
WHEN I BITE THE DUST
—ventum
O N E D AY
—ventum
BE KIND
—ventum
A MOMENT
Little moments where a few words and a little conversation makes you smile
are what life is about. I live for these things; this is why I want to tell you
about a person I met last night who made me smile in a moment when I was
struggling. I hope that whenever you are struggling with anything, this makes
you smile too. this page is dedicated to you, the girl who cut her dolls open at
a young age in order to become a doctor. I believe in you.
—ventum
LAST WORDS
there is an end
to everything
the world whispers.
perhaps
the universe answers
in a sarcastic manner.
—ventum
THE END
—ventum
LATIN
DEFINITIONEM VENTUM
1. a tempestate
2. impetus tempestatis
3. motus aeris
4. anfractibus vel circularis vel habere directionem
5. vim vi perniciosa
ENGLISH
DEFINITION OF WIND
1. a storm
2. a hurricane
3. air in natural motion
4. to have a circular or spiral course or direction
5. a destructive force or influence
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